Best Shaun Galanos and John Kim Podcasts (2025)

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Goodbye, for now 55:30

2d ago55:30

55:30

Today, John and Shaun get real about control, creative burnout, and what it means to walk away - maybe just for now. From family patterns to personality frameworks, they explore the subtle ways we try to mold the people closest to us, and how that effort can quietly extinguish our own inner spark. They reflect on how responsibility, relationships, …

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Once a cheater, daddy issues, and 2nd to last 52:31

9d ago52:31

52:31

Today, John and Shaun get real about trust, control, and what it means to shape a life that doesn’t always follow the plan. From confessions about the past to reflections on what we can and can’t control - careers, relationships, even timing - they navigate what it means to let go and still show up. Shaun opens up about missing his father, while Jo…

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Size queens, mixed messages, and wounded inner children 55:40

16d ago55:40

55:40

CW: There is some talk about violence towards women in this episode, specifically about cases of Uber drivers drugging female passengers. Today, John and Shaun get real about attraction, ambiguity, and the old wounds that shape how we love. From body talk and gym-floor preferences to the deeper imprints left by early heartbreak, they explore what d…

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John's celibacy, Shaun's criticism, and a plot twist 49:41

23d ago49:41

49:41

Today, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire. Also on the table: sex in senior living homes, prostate surprises, and the en…

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Moving on, saying no, and cuddle puddles 50:56

1M ago50:56

50:56

Today, John and Shaun get real about what it means to let go - with grace, awkwardness, and a few unexpected laughs. As the podcast edges toward its final episodes, they reflect on the shifting dynamics of friendship, the tension between presence and performance, and the quiet courage it takes to speak the truth out loud. From lighthearted debates …

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MDMA therapy, libido in older adults, and the end of an era 53:40

1M ago53:40

53:40

Today, John and Shaun get real about psychedelic revelations, aging skin, and why they’re rethinking what makes their podcast worth doing. From John’s guided MDMA session and a “my mom never hugged me” breakthrough, to Shaun’s retinol skincare journey and anti-aging the natural way, this episode rides the line between hilarity and healing. They div…

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Worthiness of love, cock ring experiments, and the duty of joy 53:26

1M ago53:26

53:26

Today, John and Shaun open up about emotional honesty, the fear of being too much, and the art of letting others take care of you. From cock ring experiments and therapist breakthroughs to growing up without unconditional love, they explore the tangled roots of worthiness and connection. Also: the Love Drive podcast is making a comeback, and the ho…

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Emotional availability, waking up alone, and economic collapse 50:44

2M ago50:44

50:44

Today, John and Shaun get real about singlehood, morning moods, and what it means to wake up feeling alone. From retirement fund fears and post-fire perspective shifts to questioning whether AI can truly touch hearts, they explore how life—and money—quietly reshapes us. Also on the table: LA as the land of opportunity and the timeless wisdom of Win…

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Anti-aging, mansplaining, and blowing Brian 52:45

2M ago52:45

52:45

Today, John and Shaun ride the roller coaster of texting anxiety, threesomes, slippery self-care hacks, and the occasional social media meltdown. They break down why a simple “Good morning” text can feel like a high-stakes game and the many unexpected uses of coconut and olive oils. Special guest, Lydia from Face Yoga by Lydia, joins to prove that,…

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The orgasm gap, Sabrina Zohar, and picky daters 53:39

2M ago53:39

53:39

Today, John and Shaun dive into the orgasm gap—why so many women aren’t reaching the finish line in the bedroom. They break down the importance of communication in sex, myths around male performance, and why “homie, your dick’s not enough.” They’re joined by guest, Sabrina Zohar, who shares her insights on modern dating, picky partners, and how unr…

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Constipation, speed dating, and jealous partners 50:57

2M ago50:57

50:57

Today, John and Shaun talk about the struggles of aging, navigating dietary changes, and the unexpected joys of pooping on command. They also discuss the concept of "optimistic nihilism" and the blurred lines between platonic and romantic relationships. They share thoughts on speed dating, social media jealousy, and whether liking photos online is …

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Starting over, writing a book, and divorced in your 50s 52:36

3M ago52:36

52:36

Today, John and Shaun talk about hair insecurities, moving to Costa Rica, and the challenge of making big life changes. They also discuss dating in Los Angeles, social anxiety, and the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone. As they look ahead, John and Shaun brainstorm ways to expand the podcast, from guest appearances on other shows to a…

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Popping Cherries, Internalized Misogyny, and When To Have Kids 59:59

3M ago59:59

59:59

Today, John and Shaun talk about internal misogyny, dating older women, how they lost their virginity, and starting over. They also answer two listeners’ questions: how do you know when you’re ready to have kids, and how do you learn to trust yourself and your intuition? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find o…

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The American “Dream”, Herpes, and Moving to Costa Rica? 58:36

3M ago58:36

58:36

Today, John and Shaun talk about different styles of communication, the American dream, the meaning behind tattoos, and relocating outside of Los Angeles. They also answer two listeners’ questions: what was the skateboarding life like for you guys, and what’s the best way to disclose to someone that I have herpes? You can leave a one minute voicema…

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Cock Rings, Getting Arrested, and Mothering Your Partner 56:48

3M ago56:48

56:48

Today, Shaun and John talk about their recent Valentine’s Day retreat, past addictive behaviors, Shaun’s new sex toy, and the benefits of using cock rings in the bedroom. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: how can you help your partner without feeling like you’re mothering them? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John …

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Christianity, Cancel Culture, and Moaning During Sex 1:00:46

4M ago1:00:46

1:00:46

Today, Shaun and John talk about break ups, their Valentine’s Day retreat, making platonic friends, and celebrity drama. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: why don’t men make more noise in the bedroom? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Picking Up in Public, Leaving LA, and One Hour Work Weeks 1:01:47

4M ago1:01:47

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Today, Shaun and John talk about rebuilding after loss, their struggles getting older, the pressure to be productive, and comparing yourself to others on social media. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how can men approach women without being “creepy,” and how do you know when you should leave a toxic relationship? You c…

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Making Adult Friends, Meeting Men in Public, and Littering 53:54

4M ago53:54

53:54

Today, Shaun and John talk about their relationship with sweets, new love experiences, and making friends in Los Angeles. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how do I make friends and meet new people when I struggle with social anxiety, and can people stop using delivery apps and go out instead since it’s so hard to meet p…

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John’s Rise, Shaun’s Date, and No Sugar For 30 Days 58:53

4M ago58:53

58:53

Today, Shaun and John talk about their fears regarding the aftermath of the LA fires, thirty day diet challenges, Shaun’s successful first date, and digital detoxes. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how can I navigate feeling guilty for not wanting to spend time with my friend’s kids, and what does it mean when someone …

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The Fire Episode and John Starts Over 48:21

5M ago48:21

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Today, Shaun and John talk about the LA fires, their Valentine’s Day retreat, and how to help those who were affected by this tragedy. They also listen to a voicemail from one of their followers who lost their home in the fires. You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 As some of you might know, John and his family lo…

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Phone Addiction, Morning Routines, and Giving People Space 1:02:24

5M ago1:02:24

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Hey folks. As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/basics-needed-for-friends-who-lost-their-homes-today …

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Shared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About Men 1:08:00

5M ago1:08:00

1:08:00

Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more information …

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Being Childfree, Spirituality, and Disappointing Others 59:22

5M ago59:22

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Today, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: where’s the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for prioritizing your needs, and how do you maintain a friendship with some…

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Live From Hollywood - We Can Do Better 1:14:33

5M ago1:14:33

1:14:33

Today, Shaun and John do a live podcast recording on the rooftop of the Mama Shelter hotel in Hollywood, California. We talk about dating app fatigue, how to feel confident in LA when it's easy to feel insecure, Shaun's new sex toy collaboration, and we take live questions from the audience about regaining sexual confidence, dating outside the apps…

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Heart-Ons, Wounded Masculine & Feminine, and Playing Games 1:02:19

6M ago1:02:19

1:02:19

Today, Shaun and John talk about what they want for themselves in 2025, showing emotion by crying, and wounded masculine and feminine energies vs sacred masculine and feminine energies. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should women hold back and make the men they’re dating chase them, and how do I become less avoidant a…

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Long Distance with Kids, First Live Podcast, and Taking Compliments 1:04:26

6M ago1:04:26

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Today, Shaun and John talk about their upcoming live podcast at Mama Shelter, their Valentine’s Day retreat, depression, and what women look for in men. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what should you do when you’re dating someone who doesn’t want the same things as you, and any advice on how to handle a long distance …

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Addiction, I'm Too Picky, and I’m Attracted To My Therapist 1:05:35

6M ago1:05:35

1:05:35

Today, Shaun and John talk about quitting nicotine, their addictions, complexities of parental relationships, and generational views on money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how do I know if I’m being too picky choosing a partner, and do you have any advice on how to channel more of my feminine energy? You can leave a…

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Money, Finances in Dating, and Being the Provider 1:01:27

6M ago1:01:27

1:01:27

Today, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun’s secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicem…

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Dating After 40, Threesomes (Again), and Moving To LA 1:08:40

6M ago1:08:40

1:08:40

Today, Shaun and John talk about cutting people out because of political differences, John’s new tattoo, Shaun’s apartment hunt in LA, and feedback from their listeners. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: have you ever thought about having a threesome with John’s wife, Vanessa, and do you have any tips or advice on dating…

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The Election, Women’s Safety, and Soft Men 56:23

7M ago56:23

56:23

Today, Shaun and John talk about Shaun’s big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa’s wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community right now, and how can we do better for women’s safety and rights in the US? …

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Sex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of Sleep 59:49

7M ago59:49

59:49

Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more ab…

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Male Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen Z 1:08:01

7M ago1:08:01

1:08:01

Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealous feelings in a relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for…

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Our First Fight, Repairing Ruptures, and Repeating Patterns 1:00:27

7M ago1:00:27

1:00:27

Today, John and Shaun talk about jet skiing to Catalina, their first fight, being seen v.s. fitting in, and repairing after conflict. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I avoid getting into unhealthy relationships, and how much information should I share about my divorce on the first few dates? You can leave a one …

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Breaking Up, Dealbreakers, and First Date Rejection 1:10:17

8M ago1:10:17

1:10:17

Today, John and Shaun talk about Shaun’s first tattoo, getting rejected after one date, different types of breakups, and more “icks” in dating. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you move on from a breakup that completely blindsided you, and how do you stop feeling unworthy after a breakup? You can leave a one minu…

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Getting Over the Ick, First Tattoos, and Cheating (Again) 1:02:45

8M ago1:02:45

1:02:45

Today, John and Shaun talk about their parents, post travel blues, overthinking your first tattoo, and upcoming creative projects. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I reverse having "the ick" for someone I'm dating, and how long does it take for someone to get over infidelity? You can leave a one minute voicemail …

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Exposing Cheaters, Commitment, and Weddings 57:45

8M ago57:45

57:45

Today, Shaun and John talk about tattoos, MIGs (most inappropriate guests) at weddings, and not wanting to have kids. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should I tell someone their partner is cheating on them, and the men I date don't want anything serious after a few months - is it personal? You can leave a one minute vo…

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Consent, Sex Parties, and Jet Skis 1:05:58

8M ago1:05:58

1:05:58

Today, Shaun and John discuss making romantic connections while traveling, feedback from listeners about consent, sex parties in Berlin, and skinny dipping. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: why does Shaun want to have a "super slutty hot girl summer" instead of a "f*ck boy summer," and is there a list of fool proof ques…

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Modern Dating, Nude Beaches, and Can I Kiss You? 1:05:07

9M ago1:05:07

1:05:07

Today, John and Shaun talk about nudity, dating without relying on technology, verbal consent, and ghosting. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: will men lose interest in women if they want to be friends with benefits but without penetration, and how can people flirt without it turning into dirty talk?You can leave a one m…

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Who Pays On The First Date, Trusting Your Gut, and The Manosphere? 1:07:51

9M ago1:07:51

1:07:51

Today, John and Shaun discuss travel, dropping into your body, who pays on the first date, and using dating apps to make friends. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to communicate interest in someone after the first date without scaring them off, and how do I check my male friend who's going down a tox…

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Dirty Talk, Molly, and Small Willies 1:10:43

9M ago1:10:43

1:10:43

Today, John and Shaun talk about John's first time taking Molly, anal play, threesomes, and ethical porn. They also listen to a few dirty voicemails and give advice on two listeners' questions: why can't men be just as noisy as women in the bedroom, and how does one become more comfortable with dirty talk?Here are the links Shaun and John were talk…

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Erectile Dysfunction, Bad Friends, and Men with Depression 1:08:27

9M ago1:08:27

1:08:27

Today, John and Shaun discuss emotional safety in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction, and compromise in friendships. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to be vulnerable with your partner so they don't use it against you, and am I wasting my time dating people who aren't looking for a serious relationshi…

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Helping Men, Libido Discrepancy, and People Pleasing 1:07:27

9M ago1:07:27

1:07:27

Today, Shaun and John discuss controlling behaviors that show up unconsciously, breaking up with friends, and providing a safe space for men on this podcast. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the concept behind "bros before hoes," and how do you deal with libido differences in a long term relationship?You can leav…

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The Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Should We Break Up? 1:13:42

10M ago1:13:42

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Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I know when (or if) I should pull the plug on a connection after giving it a fair c…

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The Skidmark Bandit, No Good Men, and Our New Hotline 59:05

10M ago59:05

59:05

Today, Shaun and John talk about how men struggle to be vulnerable, abandonment wounds from childhood, thirst traps, and their new voicemail hotline. They also answer two listener questions: how should I tell my boyfriend he's leaving skid marks on the bedsheets? And where do I find a good man to date after doing the inner work and being single for…

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Vasectomies, Sex Toys, and Should Women Ask Men Out? 1:00:52

10M ago1:00:52

1:00:52

Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them, or if they should ask men out first. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HER…

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Manopause, How To Flirt, and My BF Steals My Panties 56:14

10M ago56:14

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Today, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about …

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Kinky John, Dealing with Anger, and Golden Showers 1:00:57

11M ago1:00:57

1:00:57

Today, Shaun and John touch on their kinks, seeking therapy, experiences growing up, and “parts work.” They also bring on their first two live callers and answer their questions. The first caller asks how to set boundaries and distance yourself from unhealthy people. The second caller seeks their guidance on coping with anger towards systemic injus…

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Age Gaps, Big D*ck Energy, and Short Shorts 1:01:34

11M ago1:01:34

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Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Foll…

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Threesomes, Deleting Your Ex, and Ankle Socks Are For Old People 1:06:14

11M ago1:06:14

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Today, John and Shaun discuss ankle socks, and sexual terms like 'stealthing.' For the Q&A, they tackle the topics of keeping mementos from past relationships, retroactive jealousy, threesomes, and more. Here are the links Shaun was talking about in this episode: Yoga Nidra For Deep Rest Radish House, Oakland Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Fol…

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Why We Date A**holes, Disclosing STIs, and Why Does My Ex Watch My Stories? 1:00:18

11M ago1:00:18

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Today, John and Shaun touch on the challenges of dealing with criticism, and disclosing herpes status. For the Q&A, they explore why we tend to date a**holes, and what it means when our exes still watch our stories. You can read Shaun's article, How to Talk About Sexual Health For the First Time, HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John o…

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