Best Panache Podcasts (2025)

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[Interview] Soulful Living Made Simple: Unveil Your Soul Signature and Cultivate Self-Acceptance (feat. Panache Desai) 41:18

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Ever feel like nothing you do is enough, or your true self is not showing up in your day-to-day life? My guest, Panache Desai, says there is a kinder, more intentional way to live. By unpacking the beliefs that hold you back, you can spot the false stories that fuel hustle and shame, then find your way back to who you are.He’s here to guide us on h…

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[Interview] The Chinese Five Elements: Identify Your Elements & How it Can Benefit You (feat. Dondi Dahlin) 50:16

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Original airdate: March 21, 2023 We’re all born with individual rhythms that go beyond the influence of our genes and upbringing. The Five Elements is one of the systems that we can use to understand our rhythms. The system originated in ancient Chinese medicine 2,000 years ago–when scholars theorized that the universe is composed of five forces: w…

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454: From Ghosted to Empowered: How to Heal When Someone Disappears 30:26

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Join host Dr. Debi as she sits down with Gretta Perlmutter, a certified PBT® coach who specializes in helping people heal from ghosting. Gretta shares her personal journey from being ghosted multiple times to becoming an expert in understanding this painful form of betrayal and helping others move forward with confidence. Key Topics Covered Gretta'…

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Free Will vs Determinism: How Much Control Do We Have Over Our Destiny? 31:25

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In a world of chance and choice, the discussion of free will versus determinism makes us ask: do we control our destinies? For centuries, thinkers have pondered the influences of our choices and how they shape our lives and destinies. This episode sheds light on this age-old conundrum, highlighting the intricate dance between fate and freedom, and …

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Give me the Aux 31:42

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In this episode: Alan sends Zane Lowe to a retirement home and grabs the Aux on Spotify with Auxolotl. Martin sharpens his cultlery and hard forks ffmpeg-go as ffmpeg-statigo. “Real FFmpeg bindings for Go. Not a wrapper. Not a CLI tool. The actual libraries 📚” Mark carves up his monitors with Tiling Assistant. You can send your feedback via show@li…

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453: From Betrayal's Breaking Point to Breakthrough: The Untold Story Behind The PBT® Certification Program 35:17

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After 450 episodes, the podcast takes a new direction as host Dr. Debi shares the deeply personal story behind the Post Betrayal Transformation® (PBT®) Certification Program—the only research-based program for healing from betrayal using the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough. What You'll Learn The Personal Journey How childhood betrayal and…

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The Psychology of Consistency: What Actually Makes Habits Stick 28:24

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Success is rarely a stroke of luck; it's the result of cultivating lasting habits through unwavering consistency. It's not the monumental efforts we exert on rare occasions, but the small, consistent actions taken day after day that shape our destinies. In this episode, we will delve into the transformative power of consistency, exploring how it ac…

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[Interview] Holy Love: How to Develop Soul-Fulfilling Relationships (feat. Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley) 53:28

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Original airdate: February 22, 2022 Our deepest common human desire is to be met deeply, intimately and with unconditional love. So why is it that what we most yearn for is one of the most elusive things to find and sustain? According to my guests, Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley, the problem is that many of us have lost connection with the authentic an…

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452: Letting Go and Moving Into Your Next Best Chapter 28:42

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Guest Dr. Rosenna Bakari - Psychologist, Entrepreneur, and Transformational Guide Episode Overview In this powerful conversation, Dr. Rosina BaKari shares her wisdom on letting go of what no longer serves us and stepping into our next best chapters. As a psychologist and entrepreneur, Dr. BaKari brings both professional expertise and personal exper…

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Navigating Adult Friendships: Overcoming the Challenges of Making Lasting Connections 27:09

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As adulthood begins, the whirlwind of responsibilities often sideline one of life’s most fulfilling pursuits: meaningful friendships. Unlike the carefree days of childhood, making connections in adulthood comes with its unique challenges. Busy schedules, geographical moves, and evolving priorities can make it feel almost impossible, despite the des…

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366. The REAL Reason You Keep Self-Sabotaging (It Started in Childhood) w/ Jason VanRuler 1:08:08

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👉 Want clarity on your own brand? Book a free 1:1 call with the Brand Builders team: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Most people think they've healed their past. But the truth is far heavier: your childhood blueprint is still running your life — your relationships, your success, your self-worth — and you don't even realize it. In this raw and…

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Grummaging Gophers & Gods 34:11

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In this episode: Martin has been learning Go and created: Jivedrop - Drop the mix, ship the show-metadata, cover art, and all 🪩 Jivefire - Spin your podcast .wav into a groovy MP4 visualiser. Cava-inspired real-time audio frequencies 🔥 Mark, true to form, has been playing Hades II, a fast-paced rogue-like that runs beautifully on the SteamDeck. Ala…

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[Interview] The Three Beliefs of Ego: How to Liberate Ourselves from Beliefs That Limit Us (feat. Aaron Abke) 48:10

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If you feel weighed down by emotional pain, you’re not alone. So much of your struggle may trace back to just three basic beliefs you might not even realize you carry. You can actually make real changes when you understand what’s behind your pain and learn what to do about it. In this episode, you’ll hear from Aaron Abke, author of The Three Belief…

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451: Helping Clients Through Betrayal During the Holidays 29:46

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The holiday season can be especially challenging for those who've experienced betrayal. This episode explores how coaches and practitioners can help clients navigate the pain that surfaces during this time and introduces the strategic framework of the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough. Key Topics Covered The Holiday Challenge The holidays b…

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Unlocking the Five Layers of Self-Awareness: Why Understanding Them Transforms Your Life 30:50

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Life can feel complex. Self-awareness brings clarity and steadies your choices. Most of us only see the surface, missing deeper layers that explain our patterns. The five layers of self-awareness show who you are and why you act the way you do. They can strengthen relationships, sharpen decisions, and spark growth, building empathy and a clear sens…

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[Panel Discussion] The Ugly Truth: Does Pretty Privilege Give People an Unfair Advantage in Life? 59:35

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Original airdate: January 02, 2024 Life is far from equal—and the evidence for that is endless. But one bias many of us struggle to accept, let alone talk about, is pretty privilege. It suggests that conventionally attractive people benefit in many areas of life because of their looks. So, in a world that remains highly fixated on outward appearanc…

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450: Your Betrayal Story Is Affecting Your Immune System 31:09

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In this transformative episode, I sit down with my own teacher and mentor, Dr. Karen Parker, to explore the fascinating world of Quantum Human Design and how our stories literally shape our biology. Dr. Parker is a pioneer who studied with the founder of traditional Human Design and has taken the system to its next evolution—helping people not just…

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Unlock a New Perspective: 5 Transformative Lessons from Stoic Philosophy to Enhance Your Life 30:02

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In a rapidly changing world filled with uncertainties, many of us seek clarity and resilience. Enter Stoic philosophy—an ancient Greek philosophy founded in the early 3rd century BCE that offers profound insights and transformative lessons for modern living. By exploring the Stoic principles of acceptance, self-control, and perspective, we can shif…

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365. Rory Vaden: Differentiation Is Dead. Be Unique Instead. 54:39

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BUILD YOUR BRAND w/ Brand Builders Group Rory Vaden joins the show to break down why differentiation is dead — and why your real advantage is your uniqueness. If you've ever struggled to build an authentic personal brand because you've spent years people-pleasing, fitting in, or carrying an identity that wasn't truly yours, this episode is a reset.…

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He's a very nøughty boy 32:18

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In this episode: Mark is now buying his audiobooks from Libro.fm, and supporting Coles Books. Martin has merged Ubuntu and Nix in Nøughty Linux Nøughty Linux GitHub Project Alan has been live streaming. You can send your feedback via [email protected] or the Contact Form. If you’d like to hang out with other listeners and share your feedback wit…

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[Interview] Awaken Your Roots: Reclaim Your Identity, Ancestral Story, and Place (feat. Lorena Saavedra Smith) 56:38

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Do you feel cut off from your family story and heritage, unsure where you belong? This weeks guest, Lorena Saavedra Smith, offers a grounded path back home. She transformed intergenerational pain into practical wisdom. Lorena will show how to reconnect with your roots through nature, reciprocity, and everyday rituals based on Andean teachings on li…

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449: Why 68% of Your Clients Can't Focus (The Betrayal Connection No One's Talking About) 51:59

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Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the PBT® Institute, shares groundbreaking research on betrayal recovery and introduces the #1 betrayal recovery certification program specifically designed to help coaches, practitioners, and healthcare professionals guide clients through healing from betrayal. Key Topics Covered The Hidden Impact of Unhealed Betrayal Ho…

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Mastering Life's Rhythm: The Subtle Power of Pacing in Decision Making 26:40

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Mastering life's rhythm can be the key to unlocking our fullest potential. Just as a musician finds their tempo, so too can we achieve balance in our choices by learning to navigate the subtle currents of time. Whether you’re facing a career crossroads or personal dilemmas, understanding how to pace your decisions can transform the outcome. In this…

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364. Why You Resist Change (And How to Finally Surrender) with Jessica Zweig 1:02:10

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💰 Book your F R E E Brand Strategy Call here: freebrandcall.com/mattlebris In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Matt sits down with bestselling author, entrepreneur, and spiritual teacher Jessica Zweig for a raw exploration of what it really means to surrender, evolve, and take radical responsibility for your life. Jessica opens up abou…

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[Interview] Finding our Purpose and Dharma during Difficult Times (feat. Stephen Cope) 41:29

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Original airdate: March 08, 2022 At some point in our life, we all go through difficult times when we experience pain, disappointments and loss. These experiences can have a profound impact on us, for better or worse. According to my guest, Stephen Cope, crises does not have to derail us. It can be the very thing that can help us find our purpose a…

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448: Redefining Success: A Conversation with Panache Desai 28:34

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In this transformative episode, host Dr. Debi Silber sits down with spiritual guide Panache Desai to challenge everything we've been taught about success, fulfillment, and self-worth. If you've achieved success by traditional standards but still feel unfulfilled, this conversation will completely shift your perspective. Key Topics Covered: Redefini…

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Chemistry and Compatibility: Why Knowing the Differences is Crucial For Lasting Relationships 29:36

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In the quest for lasting relationships, two terms often surface: chemistry and compatibility. While they may seem interchangeable, understanding their unique characteristics can make or break a romantic connection. In this episode, we explore the essential differences between chemistry and compatibility, equipping you with the insights needed to fo…

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Frameworks, Filesystems and Fixes 28:12

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In this episode: Alan dusts off his newsletter. Martin encrypts his new work Framework laptop without LVM, but with --cipher=aes-xts-plain64 --hash=sha256 --iter-time=1000 --key-size=256 --pbkdf-memory=1048576 --sector-size=4096, and without ZFS, but with btrfs and compress=lzo discard=async noatime rw space_cache=v2 ssd. Mark gets help with his Mo…

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363. Dr. Mariel Buqué on Breaking Generational Trauma & Healing in Micro Victories 1:10:20

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BOOK YOUR FREE BRAND STRATEGY CALL 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris In this powerful episode of Decoding Success, we are joined by Dr. Mariel Buqué — psychologist, intergenerational trauma expert, and author of Break The Cycle. This conversation goes deep into what healing actually looks like, why the in-between seasons of life feel so uncomf…

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[Interview] Dreamifesting: Harnessing the Power of Your Dreams to Create the Life You Desire (feat. Kelly Sullivan Walden) 1:00:11

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Ever wonder if your dreams are trying to help you in real life? Today’s guest, Kelly Sullivan Walden, shows how to use your sleeping mind to shape your waking path. She teaches a simple method called Dreamifesting that moves past basic vision boards and affirmations. She'll share this clear, step-by-step way to guide your dreams toward what you wan…

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447: Why All Trauma Is Betrayal: The Hidden Truth Behind the ACE Study 41:58

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In this powerful episode, we welcome Dr. Alman, co-creator of the groundbreaking ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) study, to discuss trauma, betrayal, and the path to healing. Dr. Alman shares insights from decades of work with Kaiser Permanente and explains why all trauma contains elements of betrayal. Key Topics Discussed The Origins of the ACE…

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Living With Intention: Are You Thriving on Purpose or Just Going Through the Motions? 24:28

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Do you ever end a long day feeling drained but strangely empty? That gap between activity and satisfaction is a sign that you’re operating on autopilot. Living with intention closes that gap. It means choosing what matters, then shaping your time to match it. In this episode you'll learn how to recognize autopilot, define what matters, and build a …

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[Interview] How to Boost Your Creativity and Imagination (feat. Joe Garlington) 1:10:34

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Original airdate: March 23, 2021 Have you ever wondered what it really takes to come up with innovative and creative ideas? Do you have to just wait around until you have a stroke of brilliance? Fortunately, that isn’t the case! According to my guest today, Joe Garlington, we can develop a creative mindset, with practice, and by finding the right s…

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446: Addiction and Betrayal: Breaking the Cycle of Enabling, Denial, and Despair 35:07

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In this deeply insightful episode, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with addiction expert Amber Hollingsworth to explore the complex intersection between betrayal and addiction—and the impact it has on partners, families, and loved ones. Amber, who grew up in a family affected by addiction and went on to dedicate her career to helping families heal, share…

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Not Shying Away From the Awful Edges: Tré Miller Rodriguez On Grief, Ghostwriting, Love and Loss 56:16

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The night can bend a life. Tré Miller Rodriguez walks us through the moment everything changed—waking to find her husband gone—and the choice to pick up a pen before the pieces even settled. What starts as an obituary and a eulogy turns into a grief memoir that refuses to look away, from the strange etiquette of wedding rings after widowhood to the…

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The Light in the Darkness: What Villains Reveal About Our Shadow Side 28:45

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In classic storytelling, villains emerge as shadowy figures, embodying the darkness within us all. So why do some villains stick with us long after the credits roll? They leave a mark because they mirror our shadow side, the parts of us we try to hide. These characters amplify traits we all feel in small ways. They show us what lives under the surf…

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Panache, for men 28:15

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In this episode: Alan slipped down the nix rabbit-hole. Martin created Glyph Party, for adding panache to your terminal applications. Mark has lost all his free time to the latest Rimworld DLC, Odyssey. You can send your feedback via [email protected] or the Contact Form. If you’d like to hang out with other listeners and share your feedback wit…

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362. How to STOP Chasing Validation & Become Your Own Best Friend w/ Valerie Greenberg 49:28

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👉 Start here (free strategy call): freebrandcall.com/mattlebris Today's conversation with TV personality and author Valerie Greenberg is a masterclass in shifting from external approval to inner authority. We dig into befriending the inner critic, choosing presence over the next "big high," and how to build your Confidence Community... those truth-…

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[Interview] Success is a Numbers Game: How to Achieve Bigger Goals by Changing the Odds (feat. Kyle Austin Young) 39:31

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Chasing a big goal and wondering how to tilt the odds in your favor? Today’s guest, Kyle Austin Young, will show you how to shift probability so you win more often. While you cannot control everything, he believes you can improve those odds by becoming the person who can succeed. Kyle Austin Young is an award-winning strategy consultant and a write…

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445: When Unhealed Betrayal Follows You to Work 20:58

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In this solo episode, Dr. Debi shares 11 anonymized, real-world scenarios showing how unhealed betrayal quietly derails performance, leadership, health, and culture at work. From weight changes and gut issues to micromanagement, perfectionism, disengagement, and self-betrayal, you'll see how a personal rupture (even years old) can surface on the jo…