Dating after divorce isn’t what it used to be—especially when you’re a dad. The rules have changed, the world has changed, and now you’ve got kids in the mix. Join Dallas and Jude as they share real-world strategies and insights from their work with dads and men at BlackBoxDating.com and TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.
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17 - From Checklists to Chemistry: Decoding Her Dating Profile
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1:06:35Ever stare at a profile and think, What does any of this actually mean? We go straight at the modern maze of dating after divorce—where “active,” “preferably no kids,” and political banners can make or break a match before you’ve said hello. As two dads who’ve lived the post-divorce reboot, we break down how to read between the lines, when to move …
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16 - Green Flags & Gut Checks: What Makes a Great Partner After Divorce
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1:01:08By Jude Sandvall / Dallas Bluth
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15 - Dating Younger: Fantasy or Fulfillment?
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1:04:09The dating world doesn't come with a rulebook, especially for those navigating it after divorce. In this candid conversation, Jude and Dallas tackle the recent controversy surrounding the Golden Bachelor's age preferences and what it reveals about the complex world of dating in midlife. When 66-year-old Mel Owens stated he preferred to date women b…
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14 - Dog Hair in the Bed: When Fido Becomes the Boyfriend
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1:02:18Ever noticed how some women seem more attached to their furry companions than their human partners? That's exactly what we're diving into today – with both humor and psychological insight. The rise of "dog mom" culture represents more than just cute Instagram posts. For many women, dogs fulfill emotional needs that past relationships failed to sati…
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13 - Cargo Shorts Won't Get You Dates
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1:04:39Looking sharp isn't just about vanity—it's a strategic move that impacts every area of your post-divorce life. In this revealing episode, we unpack why men's style matters more than most divorced dads realize, and how your appearance silently communicates volumes about your character before you say a word. When your self-worth takes a hit after div…
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12 - Blowtorches, Ovens, and Smokers: Understanding Relationship Timing
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59:33What happens when Hollywood tries to depict modern dating? In this eye-opening episode, we dissect "The Materialist" movie starring Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal, and Chris Evans to reveal the gap between cinematic romance and the authentic relationship dynamics divorced dads navigate daily. The film portrays a matchmaker torn between a wealthy "uni…
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11 - Make Invitations, Not Demands: Redefining Leadership in Love
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54:06The world watched as Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's divorce unfolded across international headlines, with Turner declaring she'd "never return to the US" and Jonas filing to keep his daughters stateside. But beneath this celebrity spectacle lies a powerful lesson for every divorced dad trying to navigate the complex world of dating and co-parenting.…
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10 - The Man You Choose to Be Shapes Your Dating Future
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59:24Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth delve into the fundamental importance of identifying personal values and beliefs before re-entering the dating world after divorce. They explore how unexamined expectations can derail relationships and provide practical tools for building self-awareness.By Jude Sandvall / Dallas Bluth
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9 - 5 Things To Look For In A Relationship
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31:37Whether you are contemplating dating or assessing the end of your marriage it is critical to know and understand that these 5 elements must be present in your relationship.By Jude: The Divorced Dadvocate
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8 - 24 Dating Tips For Life After Divorce
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44:52You’re getting back out there and dating again after divorce! Listen in to learn 24 important tips for dating after your divorce including being patient with chemistry, identifying liars, and letting go of anger.By Jude: The Divorced Dadvocate
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7 - How To Tell Your Child You’re Dating After Divorce
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30:50As you and your children adjust to life after divorce there may be one more adjustment that you want to make…dating again! Listen in as Jude shares some tips on how to tell your child that you’re dating again while reassuring them at the same time.By Jude: The Divorced Dadvocate
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6 - 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dating After Divorce
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1:06:18Listen in as Jude and Ralph share the 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dads Dating After Divorce from Shawn T. Smith's book titled The Tactical Guide to Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Cred…
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Ralph and Jude are joined by The Mad Men of Masculinity, Jason B. Kendrick and Kirk M. Samuels, to discuss the Tom Brady/Gisele Bundchen divorce and whether or not you are just like Tom Brady. Tune in to find out! Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Mad Men Radio - …
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4 - How To NOT F*%k Up Your Next Relationship
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1:08:34Ralph and Jude discuss Ralph's newest book titled Divorce Panic and share tips on how to prepare yourself for success in your next relationship. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The DonBy Jude: The Divorced Dadvocate / Ralph: DSO (Dad Starting Over)
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3 - Masculine And Feminine Polarity With Anna Rova
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48:49Ralph and Jude talk with Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova about the masculine and feminine polarity and why it is important while dating and in a relationship. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don…
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2 - The Tactical Guide To Women With Dr. Shawn T. Smith
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57:39Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show to share wisdom from his book The Tactical Guide To Women: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage. Listen in as Shawn talks about risk management, the bright triad of women, and how to avoid completely f*ing up your life. Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website …
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Listen in as Ralph and Jude share about their respective histories in dating after divorce and explain why divorced dads are absolutely a catch in the dating market! Dad Starting Over Website - http://DadStartingOver.com The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://TheDivorcedDadvocate.com Music Credit: Akira The Don…
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