Best Intimacy Coach | Christian Husband Podcasts (2025)

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259: Squirting, Female Ejaculation, and The Foundation for Sexual Adventure & Novelty 26:32

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In this episode, I’ll walk you through a complete how-to guide for female ejaculation: What it is and how it works Why it can be such an incredible and bonding experience A step-by-step process to help you and your spouse experience it together Common challenges and how to troubleshoot them We'll also dive into the relationship side—why novelty can…

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How to Resolve Marriage Conflict wtithout Arguments or Distance 16:27

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How to Resolve Marriage Conflict Without Arguments or Distance Most couples believe conflict is just part of marriage. But the truth is, conflict slowly weakens love and connection. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover why arguments, blame, and withdrawal never bring solutions—and how to handle differences in wa…

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What If Everything You Learned about Marriage is Wrong? 18:43

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Traditional marriage advice often sounds wise but can secretly damage relationships when applied to modern marriages. In this episode, we examine five common marriage myths that might be undermining your relationship and explore healthier alternatives. • The dangers of "never go to bed angry" and how it leads to sleep deprivation and worsened argum…

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78 | Still Missing Your Affair Partner? How To Rebuild Real Connection After Your Affair 16:56

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📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8 You cut off the relationship. You’re doing “the right things.” But the ache? It’s still there. Why do I still miss him? Will this longing ever go away? Yes, the ache is real. But it’s not about him—it’s about what you’re truly wired for: emotional intimacy, safety, and being …

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The Top 3 Ways To Take Care Of Yourself To Be A Better Husband And Father 15:29

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We all have needs in relationships. The trick in a marriage is figuring out… Which needs are coming from a CHILDISH place… And which needs are coming from an ADULT place. If it’s coming from a CHILDISH place, it’s up to YOU to take care of that need. If it’s coming from an ADULT place, it’s time to have a conversation with your wife and ask clearly…

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29 | YOU DON'T NEED A BABYSITTER TO HAVE FUN - 6 Steps to Find Excitement in Your Marriage One Date Night at a Time 21:08

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Friend, are you and your husband in the thick of parenthood and you can’t find time for date nights? Maybe you have small children and can’t find anyone you can trust to watch your kids so you can go on dates. Girl, I get it. As busy working parents of two, my husband and I are still able to enjoy our marriage and have date nights at home most week…

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45 | Overcoming Resentment In A Marriage (3 Christian Marriage Tips To Heal Resentment) 24:41

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How to overcome resentment in a Christian marriage: 3 biblical healing steps to restore peace. Resentment in marriage is like a slow leak — it drains the love, joy, and peace out of your relationship without you even realizing it. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 Biblical, Holy Spirit-led steps to process your em…

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Am I still valuable? Is an empty nest and weight gain be affecting your self-worth? 14:44

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Do you ever feel like your value has dropped because of weight gain, aging, depression, or even your husband’s choices? Or maybe you’ve felt the opposite — like you’re more valuable when you’re busy serving, pleasing others, or doing all the “right” things. In today’s episode, I want to share a freeing truth with you: nothing you do, and nothing an…

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258: 10 Game-changing Ways to Make Intercourse Awesome 18:57

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Want to make intercourse in your marriage more exciting, connected, and deeply satisfying? In this episode, we share 10 game-changing tips—from building anticipation with the 9 to 1 pattern, to eye contact magic, to positions and angles that hit just right. These aren’t beginner basics—they’re for couples who already enjoy intimacy but want fresh i…

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Common Questions and Answers about Boundaries in Marriage 18:21

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Common Questions About Boundaries in Marriage Boundaries are one of the best tools for ending relationship damage—but also one of the easiest to misuse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll hear quick, clear answers to fifteen of the most common questions about boundaries in marriage so you can stop harmful patterns, red…

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Relational Reckoning: How to Decide if Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For 16:11

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Relational Reckoning is a powerful tool that helps couples take inventory of their relationship, identify resentment, and make informed decisions about whether to stay together or part ways. • Using coaching or therapy as a "misery stabilizer" indicates deeper relationship issues that need addressing • Relational Reckoning answers the question: "Is…

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77 | No Contact Doesn’t Actually Work (And Here’s What Does) 13:27

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📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8 You cut contact. You deleted the number. You swore you’d never reach out again. So why does it still hurt? Why do you still miss him? I get it. No contact isn’t a quick fix. It’s like withdrawal. And healing is about way more than blocking someone. In this episode, I’m sharin…

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Developing Patience As A Husband And Father 23:38

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Do you want your marriage to change RIGHT NOW? Do you want your kids to act better RIGHT NOW? Most of us do. But, when we try to force people to be something they’re not… It usually backfires. Like trying to force open a flower. You end up just destroying the flower. Or cutting open the goose to get more golden eggs. You just end up with a dead goo…

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257: Bonus - Blowjobs Aren't Just for Husbands 39:11

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Hey friends, let me be honest with you - as a man speaking for many men, oral sex is a big deal to us. We love it. It's incredibly pleasurable. But here's what makes today's episode so powerful: I'm sharing a conversation from a wife's perspective about how she finds giving oral sex deeply pleasurable and meaningful. Now, the beautiful thing about …

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28 | The ONE Phrase that FIXED Communication Breakdown in my Marriage and Built Connection 13:10

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Do you and your husband find it hard to talk about important issues without it leading to an argument? Do you feel unheard in your marriage because your husband just doesn't understand you? If so, this episode is for you. Today, I’m going to be sharing with you the one phrase that my husband and I use to help us communicate better and understand ea…

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge Day 5// How To Stay Consistent In Being A Joyful Wife & Make Your Changes Sustainable Longterm (Keep The Challenge Momentum Going) 14:45

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Got The Tools, Now What? In Day Five of the Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge, we’re bringing it all together — the tools, the mindset shifts, and the habits that will actually last. You’ll learn how to combine what you’ve learned into a realistic lifestyle change, why accountability is non-negotiable, and how to let the Holy Spirit guide your dai…

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Your Husband's Angry and That's Okay - Remembering your self - worth when he is angry 11:27

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So often as Christian women; wives and or mothers, we become anxious and question our value when others express an angry emotional response. What would it be like to be so well grounded in Christ and in your identity that his emotions did not rock your world or have you questioning yourself? Does his anger have you wondering if you are a good wife?…

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256: Eyes Open or Closed During Sex? What It Says About Intimacy 15:26

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What’s the difference between having sex and truly making love? In this episode, we’re talking about how to bring your whole self—your body, mind, heart, and soul—into your intimate moments with your spouse. You’ll hear powerful stories of real couples who felt disconnected in their sex lives, even with consistent physical intimacy. Together, we’ll…

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge Day 4// How To Use Scripture As A Tool To Help You In Daily Wife-Life 16:28

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Are you ready to learn how to write scriptures on your heart and have them come to mind just when you need them? Learn How to Write Scripture on Your Heart AND in Your Home (Day 4 of the Joyful Wife Challenge) We hear the phrase “write it on your heart” all the time… but what does that actually look like in your daily life — in your kitchen, your b…

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge Day 3// Three Life Changing Ways To Practice Being The Wife You Want To Be 11:31

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Why Practicing Is the Secret Weapon for Christian Wives Welcome to Day 3, and girl — we’re going there. 👏 No more skipping this wildly underrated step in becoming the wife God is calling you to be. Today’s challenge? Learning how to practice joy and peace so that your actions and reactions finally align with your heart’s desire. 🚨 Plus: If you're n…

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge Day 2// The Mindset You Have To Have To Be A Joyful Wife 14:02

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge – Day 2: The Mindset Shift You Have to Make You can’t create a peaceful home with a chaotic mind. Day 2 of our Joyful Wife Challenge goes deep — but it’s going to change everything. In this episode, I walk you through: How your thoughts are quietly shaping your marriage. The journaling practice that will expose what…

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How to Keep Your Marriage Strong and Avoid Divorce 16:53

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How to Keep Your Marriage Strong and Avoid Divorce Many couples don't fail because they stopped loving each other—but because they stopped doing the right things. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn what it really takes to maintain a strong, loving relationship—and why most people wait until it’s too late to start…

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Breaking Free from Attachment Wounds with Trevor Hanson 45:14

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Trevor Hanson shares powerful insights about how couples unknowingly trigger wounded parts in each other and explains how healing these attachment wounds transforms relationships. Through understanding negative cycles and inner child work, we discover how one person can significantly change relationship dynamics by healing their own insecurities. •…

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76 | The Secret To Rebuilding Trust After An Affair? Start With YOU! 18:00

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Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here! Everyone talks about earning back trust from your spouse after an affair. But here’s the truth no one tells you: before anyone else can trust you again… you have to learn how to trust yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing why rebuilding self-trust is the root of true healing—a…

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How To Access Powerful Masculine Energy 18:40

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Do you feel like your wife doesn’t appreciate you? That she cares about the kids more than you? That she can be nice to everyone except you, but is still willing to use the money you bring in? I’ve certainly felt this way. And this energy is not the powerful masculine energy that feels good and attracts your wife to you. It’s a young, immature ener…

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Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge Day 1// How To Be A Joyful Wife 13:57

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Feeling stuck in negative patterns as a wife? If you've found yourself overwhelmed, easily irritated, or emotionally exhausted in your marriage, you're not alone—and this challenge is for you. Day 1 of the Joyful and Peaceful Wife Challenge kicks off with one simple tool that will literally rewire your brain and help you start seeing your husband—a…

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How To Be Bold - Knowing That You Always Have Your Own Back 19:29

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Hi Ladies For those who feel hurt or broken hearted over a lack of support or if you struggle to feel safe and appreciated; this podcast is for you!! I have a quick guide that you can request to go along with this episode. Let me know that You would like to recieve it by e-mailing me at [email protected] Please refer to this episode by na…

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255: Still Waiting for Orgasm? A Loving Guide for Women Who’ve Tried Everything 34:12

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If you’re a woman who’s never had an orgasm, struggles to orgasm consistently, or wonders if what you’ve experienced really counts—this episode is for you. I want you to know this: you are not broken, and there is absolutely hope. In this episode, I share seven key truths about female orgasm, why it matters, and how you can move forward—physically,…

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Teaching Kids Healthy Sexuality using the DRIVE Framework 32:51

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Teaching kids about healthy sexuality requires a thoughtful approach that prepares them for marriage, much like teaching them to drive requires instruction before handing over the keys. • The DRIVE framework provides a comprehensive approach to sex education within families • D for Dialogue: Keep conversations open, ongoing, and age-appropriate • R…

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Emotional and Financial Conflict in Marriage: How They’re Connected 16:07

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Emotional and Financial Conflict in Marriage: How They’re Connected Fighting about money is rarely just about money. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, we explore why financial arguments are often rooted in emotional disconnect—and how solving one without the other can leave your marriage vulnerable. Learn how to take a strat…

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75 | You're Not Broken, You're Still Becoming 19:39

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Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here! What if your continued struggle isn’t a sign that you’ve failed… but a sign that you’re still becoming? In this honest and hope-filled episode, I share what it means to walk through the messy middle without shame. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your future self, care for yo…

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What To Do When You Feel Down In Marriage 11:29

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There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage. Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired. And, that’s OK. That’s normal and human. Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first. Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need. Then, think about other ways you can think in the future. Heal first, fix later. Learn…

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44 | 5 Marriage Communication Tips For Christian Wives Struggling With Anger (And Snapping) 23:06

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Are you struggling now to snap at your husband? Does your marriage feel like one long miscommunication? Do you ever snap and then feel crushed by guilt? This episode is for the Christian wife who wants to love her husband well, but keeps defaulting to frustration, nagging, or emotional shutdowns. You’ll walk away with 5 deeply practical, biblically…

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Disconnected and Drifting: Can You Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with Your Husband? 22:26

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Hi Ladies, This episode is here to gently remind you of what matters most: grounding yourself in the truth of who God is and how deeply He loves you. When you’re rooted in His love, it becomes easier to approach your marriage from a place of peace and purpose. Feeling close to your husband isn’t always about doing more—it’s about noticing the conne…

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254: Pornography and White Rice: Nourishing Your Marriage with Real Erotic Connection 15:25

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What does white rice have to do with pornography? I know that sounds like a strange question, but stick with me here because this analogy completely changed how I understand what pornography does to our relationships. I'll also share a more compassionate, Christ-centered approach to overcoming pornography habits that doesn't rely on shame or willpo…

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How to Stop Criticizing Your Spouse (and What to Do Instead) 16:56

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How to Stop Criticizing Your Spouse (and What to Do Instead) If you’ve ever found yourself constantly pointing out your spouse’s flaws—hoping it will change them—this episode is for you. In Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover why criticism feels so necessary when things go wrong—and why it actually pushes love further away. Learn…

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Healing Through Letting Go: The Surprising Link Between Forgiveness and Physical Health 39:38

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Hanna Kok shares her expertise on the surprising link between forgiveness and physical health, revealing why holding onto grudges causes hormonal imbalances and weakens the immune system. We explore the scientific evidence behind this connection and discuss a practical method for making forgiveness easier. • When we hold grudges, our muscles tighte…

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74 | Where Do I Even Start With Healing After My Affair? 14:53

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Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here! If you’ve just ended an affair—or maybe you’ve confessed and you’re still spinning in shame—you might be wondering: Where do I even start? I know what it feels like to be frozen in confusion. To believe you have to fix everything. To feel like you’re the problem. But healing is…

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How To Be A Truly Powerful Husband And Father 27:08

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There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father. One is a destructive force. This force is a “my way or the highway” energy. It intimidates to get its way. And, it is more powerful than doing nothing. And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage. The other force avai…

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253: Quickie - The New Lube Evree-one Is Talking About 19:09

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Did you know that two-thirds of heterosexual couples in the United States use lubricant during sex? That number might not surprise you when you consider all the benefits of using quality lube for enhanced pleasure and intimacy. While there are many different kinds to choose from, in this episode I'm excited to introduce you to a new and innovative …

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43 | 3 Steps to Be A Biblical Wife In A Modern World: How To Be A Good Christian Wife 25:35

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If you've ever wondered what it really means to be a biblical wife—without losing yourself in the process—this episode is for you. I’m sharing the raw truth behind the stereotypes, the tears I cried trying to live up to a “perfect wife” image, and what Scripture actually teaches about being a godly woman in marriage. This isn’t about being a Stepfo…

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27 | You and Your Husband Not on the Same Page? Use The T.E.L.L. Method to Submit So You Can Build Intimacy in Your Christian Marriage 8:29

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Hey girl, if you and your husband struggle to be on the same page, or make decisions without having conflicts and fighting in your marriage, this episode is for you. I am sharing FOUR simple steps you can follow to help you submit to your husband’s leadership as a Christian wife and make decisions quickly. Because when you submit as a godly wife, y…

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What Was I Thinking? 3 Tips To Noticing Your Thoughts 14:55

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Noticing our thoughts is one of the ways we reflect our Creator. God didn’t make us merely instinctual—He made us conscious, capable, and creative. We’ve been given the incredible ability to think, imagine, and choose. But with that comes the reality of mental clutter. If we want to experience greater clarity, peace, and purpose, we need to slow do…

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252: Cunnilingus Mastery: 12 Tips Every Husband Should Know Before Going Down On His Wife 14:00

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Oral sex is one of the most powerful ways to bring your wife pleasure—and deepen your intimacy. In this episode, we share 12 practical, respectful, and fun tips to help husbands confidently and lovingly master cunnilingus. You'll learn what works, what to avoid, and how to create unforgettable, connected experiences in the bedroom. Whether you're n…

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Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage Boundaries 17:43

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Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage Boundaries Many husbands misuse boundaries—or avoid them entirely—and damage their marriage in the process. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how to use boundaries the right way to build respect, prevent resentment, and strengthen your connection. If you’ve been frustrated w…

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How to Stop Compromising and Create F.I.R.E in the Bedroom 14:09

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You deserve a fulfilling sex life without settling or compromising. The FIRE method provides a framework for creating a deeply connected and satisfying intimate relationship that works for both partners. • Higher desire partners often feel they must settle in their marriages, leading to resentment and diminished intimacy • Emotional connection alon…

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73 | Repentance Is a Homecoming, Not a Punishment 12:23

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Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here! What if repentance wasn’t about shame—but about coming home? In this tender and truth-filled episode, I share what it means to return to God not with guilt, but with grace. Through my own story of wrestling with desire, honesty, and identity, you'll be invited to reframe repent…

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The Beauty Of Boundaries In Marriage And Parenting 16:38

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In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft. When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do. This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently. And, it leads to people distancing from us. When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak. A…

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251: Quickie - Frenulum Orgasms: The Clitoral Orgasm for Men? 11:41

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We’re diving into a topic that’s often overlooked—but full of potential for deeper connection and pleasure: the frenulum orgasm. In this episode, we'll cover the following: The anatomy and sensitivity of the frenulum How this kind of orgasm compares to the female clitoral orgasm Positions and techniques to try together Why it helps build patience, …

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42 | A Guided Prayer For Wives To Pray Over Their Husband + A Discussion On The Characteristics Of A Biblical Wife 27:12

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In this episode, I am interceding for your marriage through a guided prayer, as well as discussing what it really means to be a godly wife (and How Prayer Can Actually Change Your Marriage) If you've ever prayed for your husband and felt like nothing changed… if you've ever felt emotionally exhausted trying to be a "good Christian wife"... if you'v…