Best Curious Often Confused Podcasts (2025)

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I Don't Hate Photographs | Ep. 28 16:43

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Pictures help us hold on to moments we can’t relive. But, what happens when the pressure to get the perfect photograph overshadows the memory itself? In this episode, I explore our obsession with picture-perfect moments and what it might be costing us. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestion Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagra…

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Why erase small beginnings? | Ep. 27 15:33

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Why are some people so earger to erase the footprints of their small beginnings? On this episode, I talk about why we’re often quick to erase the steps that led to our success. If you've ever felt ashamed of your early progress, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestion Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠In…

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You’re not fine, are you? | Ep. 26 15:55

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We’ve all found ourselves on either side of the conversation, one person comfortable, the other uneasy. One willing to fix things, the other avoiding the talk. What’s the cost of staying silent? If you’ve ever held back instead of speaking up, you might just hear yourself in this one. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestion Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠de…

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Why is being yourself so hard? | Ep. 25 14:51

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How do you really be yourself without overthinking or overdoing it? I share a personal reset, the tension between authenticity and people-pleasing, and what happens when “realness” goes too far. If you’ve ever felt unsure about showing your true self, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestion Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠dearscoc@gm…

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“Can never be me” | Ep. 24 17:53

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We live in a time where everyone’s life is open for comment, celebrities, strangers, even friends. Sometimes it’s harmless, other times it’s heavier than we realize. This episode looks at the fine line between sharing thoughts and crossing it, and why that line is easier to blur than we think. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestion Email:…

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The Ones Who Get You | Ep. 23 24:56

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Some people just get you no explanations, no long backstories, no defending why you like what you like. This isn’t about cutting people off or creating a “perfect circle,” but about the rare comfort of being understood. In this episode, I talk about finding those people, why they matter, and why the search is both harder and closer than you think. …

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How to start when you don't feel ready | Ep. 22 18:51

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Starting is hard. Starting again can feel impossible. In this episode, I talk about fear, over-preparedness, and why lowering your expectations might actually help you keep going. It’s part personal diary, part reminder that the process matters as much as the outcome and that sometimes the smallest, quietest tries are the ones that carry you forwar…

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I'm going on a break 3:54

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After publishing 21 episodes, I feel like it’s time for a short break to reset and prevent burnout. Thanks so much for tuning in every Friday to listen to me think out loud. While I’m gone, you can still reach me through any of these channels: Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/scocpod⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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I wasn't insecure until they named it | Ep. 21 24:25

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Spiral 21: I wasn't insecure until they named it. We all know what self-awareness can give us, but today I want to talk about what it can take away. The grief that shows up when you start noticing things you never had to worry about. The moving target of beauty standards. The way someone else’s comment can make a part of you feel strange, even if i…

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The Devil You Know: Why do We Stay in Situations That No Longer Serve Us? | Ep. 20 12:02

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Spiral 20: The Devil You Know: Why do We Stay in Situations That No Longer Serve Us? We have all made excuses for people's recklessness just because there is a part of them that we admire, and that part of them, the one we love them for usually has little or nothing to do with what they are being held accountable for in the moment. Why do we do thi…

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Maturing early, but at what cost? | Ep. 19 22:58

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Spiral 19: Maturing early, but at what cost? You know, we love when children start acting mature early. We clap for them. We say, "Wow, you’re so responsible. You’re so reasonable. You’re so mature." And who doesn’t like that? Who doesn’t love a child that acts older than their age?Because it makes your job easier. And who doesn't want easy? It’s a…

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What if you became the friend you wanted? | Ep. 18 24:53

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Spiral 18: What if you became the friend you wanted? We want people to show up for us the same way we show up for others. But who gets to show up first is usually an internal debate. In this episode, I discuss the upside of showing up first for "our people". Here's a little question: How much help do the nice, selfless ones actually need? Let’s tal…

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Is Consistency Overrated? | Ep. 17 14:59

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Spiral 17: Maybe Consistency Isn't Overrated Sometimes consistency feels overrated. It feels like showing up daily doesn’t mean anything if you don’t see results.But what if the real power of consistency isn’t about instant results but about staying in the game long enough to grow?Could it be that consistency is less about daily progress and more a…

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What if fame had an off button? | Ep. 16 14:23

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Spiral 16: What if fame had an off button? Can we talk about what people think fame is? Because that’s not the same as what it really is. In this episode, I’m starting a new series "If Wishes Were Horses, Beggars Would Fly" and we’re beginning with the dream of fame. From the highs of recognition to the pressure of staying in character, I’m wonderi…

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Mental boundaries 101 | Ep. 15 7:54

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Spiral 15: Access Granted What if every thought, compliment, or criticism needed permission before it could shape how we see ourselves? In this episode, I’m thinking out loud about the mental checkpoints we don’t even realize we have—and how trust, self-image, and past experiences decide what gets through. Who have we given access to… and why? And …

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How Are You, Really? | Ep. 14 4:35

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When was the last time you really checked in with yourself? Not just a quick "I'm fine," but an actual moment to pause and ask… How am I, really?In this episode, we take a step back—just for a little while. No pressure, no overthinking. Just a question worth asking.So… how are you?Send feedback or suggestions: Email: [email protected]: ht…

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Should we allow people change their mind? | Ep. 13 21:50

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We all say we want open conversations, but do we really allow people to change their minds? From influencers to politicians to everyday social media debates, there’s an unspoken rule: once you’ve taken a stance, you’d better stick with it—because admitting you were wrong? That’s risky.Why do we cling to old opinions, even when we know better? Is it…

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The Weight of Not Letting Go | Ep. 12 26:18

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Ever had the perfect comeback—only for the moment to slip away? Or worse, forgotten what you were about to say entirely? That sting of loss isn’t just about words—it’s about ideas, relationships, and the things we struggle to hold onto.Why do we cling to people, even when we’re not sure they belong in our lives? Why do we hoard thoughts, fearing we…

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Not vulnerable enough? Get a hoodie | 11 26:36

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In this episode, we dive into the blurry line between authenticity and performance. From influencers faking beach cleanups to the oddly consistent formula of online apology videos (cue the hoodie and soft voice), we ask: Is expressing ourselves still genuine, or has it all become a script?Why does confidence feel like something we have to rehearse?…

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Analysis Paralysis | Ep. 10 26:01

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Episode 10: Overthinking Let's have a deep dive into the endless spiral of overthinking! In this episode, we unpack the mental gymnastics of analyzing every conversation, decision, and potential worst-case scenario—because why let things go when you can dissect them for hours? From replaying awkward interactions to preparing for debates that may ne…

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Fear of Judgment Before Success | Ep. 9 14:49

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Why are we so afraid of ruining our reputation, even if no one knows who we are? In this episode, we delve into the fear of being canceled, why we worry about our reputation, and the pressure to be perfect—even before we go viral. Whether you’re an aspiring creator or someone trying to avoid judgment, this episode uncovers the causes behind the fea…

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The Myth of Sleep-Deprived Productivity | Ep. 8 11:00

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 8 Is staying up late really the secret to getting more done? Or is it just a trap we keep falling for? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, I break down the myth of late-night productivity and why sacrificing sleep often backfires. We'll explore why we convince ourselv…

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Building Confidence Without Constant Validation | Ep. 7 20:01

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How much do other people’s opinions really affect the way you see yourself? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, we explore the connection between self-perception and external validation—breaking down how feedback from others can influence your confidence, identity, and the choices you make. You'll learn about: • What self-percepti…

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January: The Monday of the Year | 6 9:04

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 6 You’ve survived the holidays, but now January arrives—the Monday of the year. It feels impossibly long, leaving us drained before we even get started. Is it the weight of holiday debt, the pressure of sticking to New Year’s resolutions, or simply the slow grind after festive exciteme…

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The Myth of the New Year’s Resolution | Ep. 5 10:28

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 5 Every January, millions of people embrace the promise of a fresh start, setting New Year’s resolutions aimed at personal growth, better health, or greater happiness. Yet, by February, many of these goals have already fallen by the wayside. Why does this cycle of optimism and abandonm…

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What is Christmas in Nigeria like? | Ep. 4 25:12

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 4 Christmas is often filled with glittering lights and festive cheer, but what’s really happening behind the scenes? In this episode, we’re digging into the emotional and social costs of the holiday season—the pressures to overspend, overindulge, and maintain fake connections. From the…

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Why is Being humble a competitive sport? | Ep. 3 12:44

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 3 Why does being humble sometimes feel like a competitive sport? In this episode, I dive into how humility can shift from a genuine trait to a performance, with some people using it to project an image rather than live it authentically. Have you ever spotted these behaviors in others—o…

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God When: Why Nigerians Can’t Stop Saying It | Ep. 2 13:54

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Season 1: Why We Do What We do and why It’s Not Weird | Episode 2 "God When" has become a familiar phrase in Nigerian conversations about success, hope and timing. This episode discusses what it reveals about the balance between aspiration and societal pressure, as well as the broader global fascination with public milestones. Got thoughts on today…

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Do Small Compliments Stay With You Too? | Ep. 1 9:55

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A casual compliment, a kind gesture, or an offhand comment—why do these seemingly small moments sometimes leave such a lasting impression? In this episode, we explore how these interactions can unexpectedly shape our lives, influence our emotions, and even alter the way we view ourselves or others. Whether it's a kind word that boosts your confiden…

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Introducing "Sometimes Curious, Often Confused" 2:31

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People are fascinating — how we think, how we talk, the choices we make, and I’m here for it. I'm Richard Okongwu, and every week I talk about trust, money, and our relationships with one another. You know, the little and significant events that shape our lives. This podcast is part thought experiment, part personal journal — sometimes messy, other…