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The Standard You Set is the Value You Accept
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The Standard You Set is the Value You Accept
We talk a lot about standards…
But what if the standards you tolerate are quietly revealing how you see yourself?
In this episode of Take It From Tonya, I’m unpacking a truth most people avoid:
The standard you set is the value you accept.
This isn’t about being picky.
It’s not about controlling people.
It’s about self-respect.
If you’ve been tolerating things that drain you, diminish you, or delay your growth—this conversation is for you.
We’re talking about:
• Why low standards aren’t a people problem—they’re a self-perception problem
• How tolerating disrespect slowly erodes your confidence
• The connection between boundaries, self-worth, and peace
• Simple, practical ways to raise your standard without guilt
This episode isn’t here to shame you.
It’s here to wake you up.
Because once you see yourself differently…
You’ll stop accepting what no longer fits.
🎧 Listen all the way through and ask yourself one honest question:
What am I tolerating that no longer aligns with who I’m becoming?
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As always…
Take it from Tonya.
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