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291. How To Go From Resentment To Contentment As A Dementia Caregiver

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“Every caregiver starts from a different place, and where you begin will shape everything about your experience.” In Episode 291, I walk you through a simple, biblical framework to help you see where you are—and what the next faithful step looks like.

Stage 1: Complacent (not ready, not skilled).
You may say, “I’m just helping.” Denial is common—sometimes there isn’t even a diagnosis yet. Proverbs 12:15 reminds us that wisdom begins when we listen to counsel. Awareness is grace; once you recognize you are a caregiver, you can steward this season.

Stage 2: Capable but Reluctant (skilled, not ready).
You can do the tasks, but you haven’t embraced the call—resentment follows. James 4:17 exposes our reluctance: knowing the good and refusing it is sin. I had to confess my own resistance before the Lord turned reluctance into contentment.

Stage 3: Committed but Overwhelmed (ready, lacking skills).
Heart willing, hands unsure. Proverbs 19:2 warns that zeal without knowledge leads to mistakes and burnout. This is where training matters—communication, transfers, daily care—so your willingness can last.

Stage 4: The Contented Caregiver (ready and skilled).
Here you accept God’s call and keep growing in skill and the fruit of the Spirit. 1 Timothy 6:6–7 ties contentment to godliness—peace in the middle of hard things, not the absence of hard things.

This pathway sits inside a relationship-centered approach: Think Different Dementia Method™ for biblical clarity, Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ for truthful, peace-giving communication, and the Contented Caregiver Blueprint™ for sustainable rhythms.

Don’t walk alone. The Christian DigniCare Society (lifetime, under $100) gives you community, coaching, prayer, and practical tools.
https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/cds

And you’re invited to Ask the Dementia Coach on October 18 at 3 p.m. ET—bring one real problem and leave with a plan.

May the Lord bless you and keep you as you grow from awareness to contentment—one faithful step at a time.

💬 What Do I Say When Dementia Makes Words Hard?
✝️ Speak Calm, Not Just Words
Get “What Do I Say? How to Connect with Your Loved One with Dementia” — a free guide for Christian caregivers navigating confusion, repetition, and emotional moments.
✅ 10 ready-to-use scripts
✅ Rooted in Scripture
✅ Built on the Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ model
📥 Download the guide now: https://www.dementiacaregivingmadeeasy.com/script

🤝 You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Join other Christian caregivers who are walking this road too — and learning how to care with compassion, clarity, and faith.
👥 Join the free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dementiacaregiversupportforchristians

🗣️ Ask Your Question Live — and Be Heard
Bring your real-life caregiving questions to Ask the Dementia Coach — our free monthly Q&A session. You’ll get support, clarity, and maybe even be featured on the podcast.
🗓️ Brought to you every month!
🎤 Register here: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/ask

🎓 Want to Reduce Overwhelm Right Now?
Join our free workshop:
How to Immediately Reduce Dementia Caregiver Overwhelm and Stress — in 3 Simple Steps
✅ Practical tools
✅ Faith-informed strategies
✅ Same-day results
🎟️ Reserve your seat: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/wsl

🧭 Still Feeling Stuck?
If you’re wondering what’s underneath your stress, the Caregiver Stress Assessment can help clarify what’s really weighing you down — so you can take your next step with peace.
📊 Take the free assessment: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/dca

❤️ Enjoy This Podcast?
Leave a quick review on Apple or Spotify — it helps other Christian caregivers find encouragement and real help.
🎧 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts

  continue reading

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Content provided by Lizette Cloete, Christian Dementia Coach, Lizette Cloete, and Christian Dementia Coach. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lizette Cloete, Christian Dementia Coach, Lizette Cloete, and Christian Dementia Coach or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

“Every caregiver starts from a different place, and where you begin will shape everything about your experience.” In Episode 291, I walk you through a simple, biblical framework to help you see where you are—and what the next faithful step looks like.

Stage 1: Complacent (not ready, not skilled).
You may say, “I’m just helping.” Denial is common—sometimes there isn’t even a diagnosis yet. Proverbs 12:15 reminds us that wisdom begins when we listen to counsel. Awareness is grace; once you recognize you are a caregiver, you can steward this season.

Stage 2: Capable but Reluctant (skilled, not ready).
You can do the tasks, but you haven’t embraced the call—resentment follows. James 4:17 exposes our reluctance: knowing the good and refusing it is sin. I had to confess my own resistance before the Lord turned reluctance into contentment.

Stage 3: Committed but Overwhelmed (ready, lacking skills).
Heart willing, hands unsure. Proverbs 19:2 warns that zeal without knowledge leads to mistakes and burnout. This is where training matters—communication, transfers, daily care—so your willingness can last.

Stage 4: The Contented Caregiver (ready and skilled).
Here you accept God’s call and keep growing in skill and the fruit of the Spirit. 1 Timothy 6:6–7 ties contentment to godliness—peace in the middle of hard things, not the absence of hard things.

This pathway sits inside a relationship-centered approach: Think Different Dementia Method™ for biblical clarity, Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ for truthful, peace-giving communication, and the Contented Caregiver Blueprint™ for sustainable rhythms.

Don’t walk alone. The Christian DigniCare Society (lifetime, under $100) gives you community, coaching, prayer, and practical tools.
https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/cds

And you’re invited to Ask the Dementia Coach on October 18 at 3 p.m. ET—bring one real problem and leave with a plan.

May the Lord bless you and keep you as you grow from awareness to contentment—one faithful step at a time.

💬 What Do I Say When Dementia Makes Words Hard?
✝️ Speak Calm, Not Just Words
Get “What Do I Say? How to Connect with Your Loved One with Dementia” — a free guide for Christian caregivers navigating confusion, repetition, and emotional moments.
✅ 10 ready-to-use scripts
✅ Rooted in Scripture
✅ Built on the Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ model
📥 Download the guide now: https://www.dementiacaregivingmadeeasy.com/script

🤝 You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Join other Christian caregivers who are walking this road too — and learning how to care with compassion, clarity, and faith.
👥 Join the free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dementiacaregiversupportforchristians

🗣️ Ask Your Question Live — and Be Heard
Bring your real-life caregiving questions to Ask the Dementia Coach — our free monthly Q&A session. You’ll get support, clarity, and maybe even be featured on the podcast.
🗓️ Brought to you every month!
🎤 Register here: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/ask

🎓 Want to Reduce Overwhelm Right Now?
Join our free workshop:
How to Immediately Reduce Dementia Caregiver Overwhelm and Stress — in 3 Simple Steps
✅ Practical tools
✅ Faith-informed strategies
✅ Same-day results
🎟️ Reserve your seat: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/wsl

🧭 Still Feeling Stuck?
If you’re wondering what’s underneath your stress, the Caregiver Stress Assessment can help clarify what’s really weighing you down — so you can take your next step with peace.
📊 Take the free assessment: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/dca

❤️ Enjoy This Podcast?
Leave a quick review on Apple or Spotify — it helps other Christian caregivers find encouragement and real help.
🎧 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts

  continue reading

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