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Choosing the Right Consequences For Your Family (Without Using Timeout)
Manage episode 509853183 series 3602786
#099 In this episode Lisa discusses consequences. She starts by outlining the BratBusters Behaviour Board including what can and can’t be included on this in her opinion. From there, she outlines five different scenarios which include kids refusing to brush their teeth, toddler tantrums when getting into a car seat, a 4-year-old throwing toys at their friend, a 5-year-old interrupting adults repeatedly, and a 7-year-old lying about doing their chores. In addition, she shares her thoughts on natural consequences, raising kids who aren’t entitled, and parenting without punishments or consequences.
Lastly, Lisa addresses seven listener questions, covering an 8-year-old who is not patient, what consequences to use when bad behavior is repeated throughout the day, how many times to repeat rules for kids, a 3-year-old acting out when their dad is traveling, a strong-willed 6-year-old getting ready for school, a 3-year-old recently saying "no" and having tantrums, and siblings fighting.
Learn more about the Toddler BratBusters Bootcamp (16-35 Months)
Learn more about the BratBusters Bootcamp (Ages 3-12)
Thank you for joining us! If you’re looking to learn more about the BratBusters Behaviour Board (Plus Toddler Basics), signature bootcamp courses, and more, visit www.bratbusters.com today.
Let’s Connect:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bratbustersparenting/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bratbustersparenting?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BratBustersParenting
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BratBustersParenting
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. Lisa Bunnage is a Parenting Coach, mom and grandmother. Lisa is not a licensed psychologist or counsellor. Her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. For a full disclaimer, please visit bratbusters.com/disclaimer
Chapters
1. Introduction to Consequences (00:00:00)
2. Can Attitude Go on the BratBusters Behaviour Board? (00:02:28)
3. Scenario 1: Kid Refusing the Brush Teeth After Being Asked Several Times (00:04:10)
4. Scenario 2: Toddler Tantrums When Getting into Car Seat (00:05:16)
5. Scenario 3: 4-Year-Old Throwing Toy at Their Friend (00:06:10)
6. Lisa’s Thoughts on Natural Consequences (00:07:21)
7. Scenario 4: 5-Year-Old Interrupting Adults Repeatedly (00:08:27)
8. Scenario 5: 7-Year-Old Lying About Doing a Chore (00:09:28)
9. Listener Question 1: 8-Year-Old Not Patient? (00:10:48)
10. Raising Kids Who Aren’t Entitled (00:12:10)
11. Listener Question 2: Consequences When Bad Behaviour is Repeated Throughout the Day? (00:13:35)
12. Listener Question 3: How Many Times to Repeat Rules For Kids? (00:16:04)
13. Parenting Without Punishments or Consequences? (00:18:09)
14. Listener Question 4: 3-Year-Old Acting Out When Dad is Traveling? (00:19:20)
15. Listener Question 5: Strong-Willed 6-Year-Old Getting Ready For School? (00:20:15)
16. Listener Question 6: 3-Year-Old Recently Saying No and Tantruming? (00:22:56)
17. Listener Question 7: Siblings Fighting? (00:26:21)
18. Final Thoughts on Consequences (00:28:33)
124 episodes
Manage episode 509853183 series 3602786
#099 In this episode Lisa discusses consequences. She starts by outlining the BratBusters Behaviour Board including what can and can’t be included on this in her opinion. From there, she outlines five different scenarios which include kids refusing to brush their teeth, toddler tantrums when getting into a car seat, a 4-year-old throwing toys at their friend, a 5-year-old interrupting adults repeatedly, and a 7-year-old lying about doing their chores. In addition, she shares her thoughts on natural consequences, raising kids who aren’t entitled, and parenting without punishments or consequences.
Lastly, Lisa addresses seven listener questions, covering an 8-year-old who is not patient, what consequences to use when bad behavior is repeated throughout the day, how many times to repeat rules for kids, a 3-year-old acting out when their dad is traveling, a strong-willed 6-year-old getting ready for school, a 3-year-old recently saying "no" and having tantrums, and siblings fighting.
Learn more about the Toddler BratBusters Bootcamp (16-35 Months)
Learn more about the BratBusters Bootcamp (Ages 3-12)
Thank you for joining us! If you’re looking to learn more about the BratBusters Behaviour Board (Plus Toddler Basics), signature bootcamp courses, and more, visit www.bratbusters.com today.
Let’s Connect:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bratbustersparenting/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bratbustersparenting?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BratBustersParenting
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BratBustersParenting
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. Lisa Bunnage is a Parenting Coach, mom and grandmother. Lisa is not a licensed psychologist or counsellor. Her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. For a full disclaimer, please visit bratbusters.com/disclaimer
Chapters
1. Introduction to Consequences (00:00:00)
2. Can Attitude Go on the BratBusters Behaviour Board? (00:02:28)
3. Scenario 1: Kid Refusing the Brush Teeth After Being Asked Several Times (00:04:10)
4. Scenario 2: Toddler Tantrums When Getting into Car Seat (00:05:16)
5. Scenario 3: 4-Year-Old Throwing Toy at Their Friend (00:06:10)
6. Lisa’s Thoughts on Natural Consequences (00:07:21)
7. Scenario 4: 5-Year-Old Interrupting Adults Repeatedly (00:08:27)
8. Scenario 5: 7-Year-Old Lying About Doing a Chore (00:09:28)
9. Listener Question 1: 8-Year-Old Not Patient? (00:10:48)
10. Raising Kids Who Aren’t Entitled (00:12:10)
11. Listener Question 2: Consequences When Bad Behaviour is Repeated Throughout the Day? (00:13:35)
12. Listener Question 3: How Many Times to Repeat Rules For Kids? (00:16:04)
13. Parenting Without Punishments or Consequences? (00:18:09)
14. Listener Question 4: 3-Year-Old Acting Out When Dad is Traveling? (00:19:20)
15. Listener Question 5: Strong-Willed 6-Year-Old Getting Ready For School? (00:20:15)
16. Listener Question 6: 3-Year-Old Recently Saying No and Tantruming? (00:22:56)
17. Listener Question 7: Siblings Fighting? (00:26:21)
18. Final Thoughts on Consequences (00:28:33)
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