In this Sidecar Leader conversation, we dive deep into two of the toughest realities leaders face: discerning God’s voice in decision-making and leading through seasons of suffering. Our guest unpacks a practical G-O-S-P-E framework for discernment—Glory, Others, Scripture, Prayer, Evangelism, and Lifestyle—while also challenging common misconceptions about “peace” and God’s will. We talk candidly about what it looks like to shepherd people without burning out, how relational oversight (care → cover → confront → coach) builds healthier teams, and how suffering can actually soften leaders into more Christlike, compassionate servants. This is a powerful mix of theology, leadership, and real-life testimony that will equip you to lead with clarity, courage, and care.

00:00 – Opening + Why Discernment Matters 01:30 – The “God told me” problem 02:41 – G-O-S-P-E: a practical discernment framework 07:55 – Scripture & prayer: the non-negotiables 10:11 – Evangelism & mission as a decision filter 13:02 – When feelings deceive: what “peace” really is 16:45 – Living with suffering: a personal testimony 23:59 – Leading through suffering without “bleeding” on your people 29:33 – Relational oversight: care, cover, confront, coach 36:19 – Living with the end in mind / final encouragement

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