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Have you ever wondered why certain people or situations trigger such intense emotional reactions in you? What if those triggers aren't just annoying disruptions but actually powerful messengers trying to reveal something important about your unhealed wounds?
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the concept of turning reactivity into wisdom. Instead of the typical blame game we play when triggered ("How could they be so insensitive?"), we explore a radical alternative—viewing our triggers as medicine, opportunities to understand and heal parts of ourselves that need attention. Drawing from Jack Kornfield's "The Wise Heart" and Terrence Real's relationship work, we unpack how our automatic reactions often connect to childhood experiences and unresolved pain.
We share personal stories that illustrate how reactivity plays out in relationships, including our own moments of conflict and growth. You'll learn the practical STOP method (Stop, Take a breath, Observe, Proceed with awareness) to interrupt reactive cycles before they escalate into what we jokingly call "mutually assured destruction." Most powerfully, we discuss how to view your triggered self not as a problem but as a wounded child needing compassion and understanding.
This episode offers a refreshing perspective for anyone tired of emotional reactivity controlling their life. By turning inward with compassionate curiosity rather than pointing fingers, you can transform your most challenging triggers into your greatest teachers. The freedom waiting on the other side of this practice is truly what the wise heart is all about.

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