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Why do we find ourselves so drawn to stories where characters who initially hate each other end up falling madly in love? The enemies to lovers trope has captivated audiences across centuries, from classic literature to blockbuster films and bestselling novels. In this episode, we unpack what makes this storytelling pattern so irresistibly compelling.
First, we break down what literary tropes actually are—not the negative clichés some might assume, but useful storytelling tools that help readers find patterns they enjoy. Think of tropes as a shared language that helps navigate the overwhelming world of books and entertainment. When someone mentions "enemies to lovers," most romance readers immediately understand the emotional journey they're signing up for.
The appeal of watching hatred transform into passion runs deep. We explore how this transformation taps into our belief that people can change, perspectives can shift, and even the most opposed individuals might find connection. There's something uniquely satisfying about witnessing characters move from conflict to compassion, creating an intense emotional arc that feels earned when done well.
Our hosts share their favorite examples of enemies to lovers across media—from ancient Greek myths like Hades and Persephone to Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, from Batman and Catwoman's complicated relationship to modern romance bestsellers by Sarah J. Maas, Holly Black, and Carissa Broadbent. We also highlight beloved film examples including You've Got Mail, The Proposal, and Ten Things I Hate About You.
Whether you're a longtime romance reader or just curious about what makes certain story patterns so popular, this episode offers insights into one of fiction's most enduring and beloved tropes. Have you fallen for enemies to lovers stories? Listen now and join the conversation about why watching foes become forever keeps us turning pages and coming back for more.

Links from the News Segment and Show:

• This episode is all about the Enemies to Lovers trope!
  • Tropes are literary devices or storytelling patterns used as shortcuts when describing or discussing stories
• Common Tropes in Romantasy
  • Love triangle
  • Chosen one
  • Found family
  • Forced proximity
  • Enemies to Lovers
  • Article about tropes in books
• Mari and Sarah (from Hissin and Kissin podcast) are going to be hosting a panel on Monster Romance 101 at Dragon Con on Thursday (Aug 28) at 10pm Eastern
  • Instagram Link from Hissin and Kissin
  • Come by in person (Hilton Galleria 6) or watch the Dragon Con Digital Media feed on Twitch

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