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🎙️ Episode 48: How to Actually Encourage the Change You’re Looking For

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Episode Summary:
Ever find yourself stuck in a cycle where your partner is snappy or distant—and your first instinct is to get defensive or snap right back? You’re not alone. This episode dives into the quiet power of choosing repair over reaction—and why that shift can be the key to finally seeing change in your relationship.

It explores what to do when your partner is irritated or shut down, and how to respond in a way that lowers defensiveness, builds connection, and actually inspires different behavior.

You’ll learn:

  • Why reacting to hurt with hurt only deepens the disconnect

  • The mindset shift that softens even the toughest dynamic

  • How to shift your frustration instantly

  • What actually encourages your partner to change (hint: it’s not criticism)

This episode is for you if:

  • You don’t feel like you’re treated kindly

  • You want your partner to change

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells

  • You’re ready to stop reacting and start reconnecting

✨ Journal Prompt:
Think of a recent moment when your partner was reactive. What story did you tell yourself? What else might’ve been true for them in that moment?

🔥 Want to go deeper?
If you’re ready to stop repeating the same arguments and finally feel heard and supported—check out the 7-Day Relationship Reboot for practical, daily shifts that make a real difference.

  continue reading

53 episodes

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Episode Summary:
Ever find yourself stuck in a cycle where your partner is snappy or distant—and your first instinct is to get defensive or snap right back? You’re not alone. This episode dives into the quiet power of choosing repair over reaction—and why that shift can be the key to finally seeing change in your relationship.

It explores what to do when your partner is irritated or shut down, and how to respond in a way that lowers defensiveness, builds connection, and actually inspires different behavior.

You’ll learn:

  • Why reacting to hurt with hurt only deepens the disconnect

  • The mindset shift that softens even the toughest dynamic

  • How to shift your frustration instantly

  • What actually encourages your partner to change (hint: it’s not criticism)

This episode is for you if:

  • You don’t feel like you’re treated kindly

  • You want your partner to change

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells

  • You’re ready to stop reacting and start reconnecting

✨ Journal Prompt:
Think of a recent moment when your partner was reactive. What story did you tell yourself? What else might’ve been true for them in that moment?

🔥 Want to go deeper?
If you’re ready to stop repeating the same arguments and finally feel heard and supported—check out the 7-Day Relationship Reboot for practical, daily shifts that make a real difference.

  continue reading

53 episodes

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