It Starts With You CEO: Fire The Inner Critic
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Burnout doesn’t always come from the calendar. Sometimes the real drain is the relentless inner critic that turns every stumble into a verdict on your identity. We name that pattern the self-worth vampire and walk through how it sneaks in under the mask of humility, high standards, and strategic foresight. If you’ve ever downplayed a win, fixated on a tiny flaw, or measured yourself against someone else’s highlight reel, this conversation will feel uncomfortably familiar—and immediately useful.
We draw a sharp line between evaluation and attribution. Results deserve rigorous analysis; your identity does not deserve blame. That single distinction unlocks motion. You’ll learn a five-step defense to protect your mindset like any other critical system: catch the critic during stress, interrupt the loop with three grounding questions, replace vague shoulds with clear progress metrics, normalize imperfection as the fuel of resilience, and build a trusted circle that reflects your strengths when you forget them. Along the way we share the exact phrases high achievers use to sabotage themselves and how to rewrite them into evidence-based narratives that restore clarity.
Leaders set the emotional pace for their teams. Grounded confidence creates decisive choices, steadier energy, and cultures that recover quickly from mistakes. If your business is built on your energy—and it is—then protecting that energy is not indulgence; it’s operational strategy. Ready to stake the vampire and lead with resilience that scales? Follow the show, share this episode with a founder who needs it, and leave a quick review telling us the imperfect action you’ll take this week.
Chapters
1. Naming The Real Energy Drain (00:00:00)
2. Defining Self-Worth Vampires (00:00:31)
3. Identity Attacks Versus Strategy Reviews (00:01:43)
4. Why Founders Are Especially Vulnerable (00:02:59)
5. Results, Worth, And Truth: The Three Facts (00:04:13)
6. Evaluation Not Attribution (00:05:08)
7. The Five-Step Defense Playbook (00:06:04)
8. Catching And Interrupting The Loop (00:10:03)
9. Replace Vague Goals With Clear Metrics (00:12:18)
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