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12 STEPS TO BECOMING LESS NEEDY IN RELATIONSHIPS PART 2 - WANT LOVE SERIES EPISODE 8

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Our Top 12 Steps to Becoming Less Needy and More Secure in Your Relationships

PART 2 OF 2

Use sincere empathy when listening to your partner’s emotions. -Think of a time (or now) that you’ve been there. Show you feel or have felt the same. PARTNER: “My boss was mean to me today and called me a dummy!” YOU: “That’s so hurtful!” You should be able to feel or have felt most of the emotions your partner feels at times. We are all human. Dive back to when you felt the same way and relate to your partner. Guys, if your girl is telling you her feelings about work and friends and so on...SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO FIX THEM OR GIVE YOUR OPINION OF HOW TO HANDLE THE SITUATION (unless she asks what you would do) JUST LISTEN. Sometimes, this behavior can almost contradict number seven. If you are a chronic complainer, it may be difficult for your partner not to check out and lose the ability to connect during the times they could be providing empathy. A good rule is to only complain about the things you are willing to do something about. This way when you’re sharing your feelings with your partner, it’s less likely they will check out on you and it can strengthen your relationship by connecting.

Focus on becoming more attractive. This is not just about looks. -attractiveness is about being more desirable than just being gorgeous. Good looks doesn’t hurt anything but being attractive is how you handle yourself, your problems, and your life. It’s about how you behave. Ladies, follow the steps of an attractive woman that a man desires. Men, you should follow the steps of an attractive alpha male that a woman desires.

Living securely as a secure person. -This takes a lot of practice but can become you over time. Follow the steps outlined here. Get a good book and learn to stop being needy. If you want love, these are the ways to get it.

Mocha & The Flame talk about those who Want Love Series about overcoming being needy and getting the love that you are looking for.

All Content © 2003-2019 CORE Entertainment Group, Inc. Mocha & The Flame Publishing All Rights Reserved

Want love, neediness, overcoming jealousy, relationship goals, relationships, self-improvement, self-help, relationship talk, podcast, single looking for love, married, divorced, want love series, Mocha & The Flame, Do you want love, how to date securely, starting to date, become secure, insecurities, overcoming neediness, neediums, losing my relationship, help for relationship, relationship crisis

How to stop neediness and insecurities. You know that this is not a good habit and when you start doing this in your relationship is when things will get difficult in your relationship. Check out our Podcast and YouTube series

LINKS: Interested in diving deeper into Mocha & the Flame’s work? https://www.coreentertainmentgroup.com/

https://www.instagram.com/mochaandtheflame/

https://twitter.com/mochaandflame

https://www.facebook.com/Mocha-The-Flame-408643906663593/

https://anchor.fm/wantloveseries

https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9jYjcyYWE4L3BvZGNhc3QvcnNz

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs1hvwrlAutnwdNy290orcw

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Our Top 12 Steps to Becoming Less Needy and More Secure in Your Relationships

PART 2 OF 2

Use sincere empathy when listening to your partner’s emotions. -Think of a time (or now) that you’ve been there. Show you feel or have felt the same. PARTNER: “My boss was mean to me today and called me a dummy!” YOU: “That’s so hurtful!” You should be able to feel or have felt most of the emotions your partner feels at times. We are all human. Dive back to when you felt the same way and relate to your partner. Guys, if your girl is telling you her feelings about work and friends and so on...SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO FIX THEM OR GIVE YOUR OPINION OF HOW TO HANDLE THE SITUATION (unless she asks what you would do) JUST LISTEN. Sometimes, this behavior can almost contradict number seven. If you are a chronic complainer, it may be difficult for your partner not to check out and lose the ability to connect during the times they could be providing empathy. A good rule is to only complain about the things you are willing to do something about. This way when you’re sharing your feelings with your partner, it’s less likely they will check out on you and it can strengthen your relationship by connecting.

Focus on becoming more attractive. This is not just about looks. -attractiveness is about being more desirable than just being gorgeous. Good looks doesn’t hurt anything but being attractive is how you handle yourself, your problems, and your life. It’s about how you behave. Ladies, follow the steps of an attractive woman that a man desires. Men, you should follow the steps of an attractive alpha male that a woman desires.

Living securely as a secure person. -This takes a lot of practice but can become you over time. Follow the steps outlined here. Get a good book and learn to stop being needy. If you want love, these are the ways to get it.

Mocha & The Flame talk about those who Want Love Series about overcoming being needy and getting the love that you are looking for.

All Content © 2003-2019 CORE Entertainment Group, Inc. Mocha & The Flame Publishing All Rights Reserved

Want love, neediness, overcoming jealousy, relationship goals, relationships, self-improvement, self-help, relationship talk, podcast, single looking for love, married, divorced, want love series, Mocha & The Flame, Do you want love, how to date securely, starting to date, become secure, insecurities, overcoming neediness, neediums, losing my relationship, help for relationship, relationship crisis

How to stop neediness and insecurities. You know that this is not a good habit and when you start doing this in your relationship is when things will get difficult in your relationship. Check out our Podcast and YouTube series

LINKS: Interested in diving deeper into Mocha & the Flame’s work? https://www.coreentertainmentgroup.com/

https://www.instagram.com/mochaandtheflame/

https://twitter.com/mochaandflame

https://www.facebook.com/Mocha-The-Flame-408643906663593/

https://anchor.fm/wantloveseries

https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy9jYjcyYWE4L3BvZGNhc3QvcnNz

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs1hvwrlAutnwdNy290orcw

Music provided by Mocha and The Flame Publishing

--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wantloveseries/message

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