Hope For Hurting Families This Thanksgiving {Eps 114}
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Thanksgiving can be a beautiful day — but for many Christian parents of LGBTQ-identified children, it can also be complicated, emotional, or even painful. In this short, heartfelt Thanksgiving episode, Melinda offers encouragement, grounding truth, and three practical ways to prepare your heart before you prepare your home.
If you're carrying tension, uncertainty, or grief into the holiday, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and remember that God meets you right where you are.
Three Practical Tips for Parents This ThanksgivingThese simple but powerful steps can help bring calm, clarity, and connection to your holiday:
• Set Realistic ExpectationsYour child may not respond the way you hope. The conversation may feel awkward. The day may not look like past Thanksgivings. Give yourself — and them — permission to be human. Release the pressure and embrace the day as it is, not as you wish it were.
• Find the Common DenominatorRegardless of disagreements or differences, there is something true and good you both value. Maybe it's laughter. Maybe it's family stories, food, football, games, or serving others. Look for common ground as a way to build connection, not conflict.
• Go In with a Posture of HumilityBefore you set the table, set your heart. Before you open the door to your child, open your heart to Jesus. Let Him shape your tone, soften your responses, and steady your emotions. Humility doesn't mean compromise — it means choosing love over winning, and presence over pressure.
Mentioned Episodes for Further SupportIf today feels heavy or confusing, these conversations will equip and encourage you:
How To Talk About LGBTQ Issues When An Older Sibling Identifies as LGBTQ
- How To Support Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Endorsing The Identity They Embrace
- Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child with Grace & Truth
- The Loudest Roar
These episodes offer practical language and faith-filled guidance for moments just like this.
If This Episode Blessed You…Share it with a fellow parent who may be feeling alone this holiday. And be sure to rate the show — it helps other hurting parents find encouragement and hope.
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