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EP 139: Why Punishments From 1846 Still Don't Work Today
Manage episode 509231003 series 3434428
Dr Olivia Kessel welcomes back co-authors Georgina Benger and Karen Price to discuss restorative justice as a compassionate, relationship-based approach that helps children understand the impact of their actions and repair harm.
• Georgina's research at Cambridge University revealed schools still use the same punishment methods from 1846 despite their ineffectiveness
• Traditional punishments fail to teach accountability and create patterns where children accept consequences without understanding impact
• Restorative justice shifts focus from punishment to repairing relationships through a seven-step process
• Creating a safe space, active listening, and acknowledging emotions are foundational steps in restorative practice
• The approach encourages children to explore the impact of their actions and take accountability without forced apologies
• Particularly beneficial for neurodivergent children who often experience disproportionate punishment in traditional systems
• Implementing restorative practices in schools requires time initially but becomes embedded in culture and ultimately saves time
• Children learn to resolve conflicts independently when these practices are consistently modeled
• The core principles include prioritizing relationships, focusing on learning rather than labeling, and recognizing that healing should involve everyone
If getting your child to sleep feels like a battle, download our free 30-day Better Sleep Starter Guide at sendparenting.com/sleep – designed with ADHD in mind but effective for all neurodiverse children.
📘 Click here for Willow's Day
✨ Click here for 30-day Guide to Better Sleep
👉 Join ADHD Warrior Mum: The Recharge Station
💬 Connect with Us
Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a safe space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand.
And if you are ready to go deeper, join our ADHD Warrior Mum’s Recharge Station — your space for group coaching, access to experts, support, connection, and calm.
Chapters
1. Introduction to Send Parenting Podcast (00:00:00)
2. Today's Topic: Restorative Justice (00:01:35)
3. Georgina's Research Background (00:02:47)
4. Understanding Restorative Justice (00:06:35)
5. Seven Steps of Restorative Practice (00:10:20)
6. Benefits for Neurodivergent Children (00:16:37)
7. Implementing in School Settings (00:23:42)
8. Top Three Tips for Parents (00:37:13)
9. Closing Thoughts and Resources (00:45:46)
148 episodes
Manage episode 509231003 series 3434428
Dr Olivia Kessel welcomes back co-authors Georgina Benger and Karen Price to discuss restorative justice as a compassionate, relationship-based approach that helps children understand the impact of their actions and repair harm.
• Georgina's research at Cambridge University revealed schools still use the same punishment methods from 1846 despite their ineffectiveness
• Traditional punishments fail to teach accountability and create patterns where children accept consequences without understanding impact
• Restorative justice shifts focus from punishment to repairing relationships through a seven-step process
• Creating a safe space, active listening, and acknowledging emotions are foundational steps in restorative practice
• The approach encourages children to explore the impact of their actions and take accountability without forced apologies
• Particularly beneficial for neurodivergent children who often experience disproportionate punishment in traditional systems
• Implementing restorative practices in schools requires time initially but becomes embedded in culture and ultimately saves time
• Children learn to resolve conflicts independently when these practices are consistently modeled
• The core principles include prioritizing relationships, focusing on learning rather than labeling, and recognizing that healing should involve everyone
If getting your child to sleep feels like a battle, download our free 30-day Better Sleep Starter Guide at sendparenting.com/sleep – designed with ADHD in mind but effective for all neurodiverse children.
📘 Click here for Willow's Day
✨ Click here for 30-day Guide to Better Sleep
👉 Join ADHD Warrior Mum: The Recharge Station
💬 Connect with Us
Join our SEND Parenting Private WhatsApp Community — a safe space to share, learn, and feel supported by parents who truly understand.
And if you are ready to go deeper, join our ADHD Warrior Mum’s Recharge Station — your space for group coaching, access to experts, support, connection, and calm.
Chapters
1. Introduction to Send Parenting Podcast (00:00:00)
2. Today's Topic: Restorative Justice (00:01:35)
3. Georgina's Research Background (00:02:47)
4. Understanding Restorative Justice (00:06:35)
5. Seven Steps of Restorative Practice (00:10:20)
6. Benefits for Neurodivergent Children (00:16:37)
7. Implementing in School Settings (00:23:42)
8. Top Three Tips for Parents (00:37:13)
9. Closing Thoughts and Resources (00:45:46)
148 episodes
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