Best Your Date With Dysfunction Podcasts (2025)

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Episode 460: Why People Have More Sex Around the Holidays 32:03

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If you’re feeling hornier than usual right now, it’s not just you! The winter holidays are a time of year when sexual interest and behavior reliably increase. We see this in everything from a spike in condom sales to an increase in sexual injuries to a peak in STD rates early in the new year. So why is that? That’s what we’re going to explore in to…

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Episode 459: What 136,000 Erections Reveal About Men 27:48

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Erectile dysfunction has long been treated with guesswork and one-size-fits-all solutions. But new technology is changing that by making erections measurable. In this episode, we explore the FirmTech TechRing, a wearable that tracks erection data during sleep and sex, and what insights from over 136,000 erections reveal about erectile fitness, over…

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Episode 458: How Erections Really Work (And Why They Fail) 25:49

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What actually has to happen inside the body for an erection to occur? And what is the most common cause of erectile dysfunction (ED)? In today’s show, we’re diving into the science of how erections work, as well as why men sometimes struggle to get or maintain them. We’ll also unpack some common misconceptions about ED and discuss why the standard …

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Episode 457: Gay Men Who Have Sex With Women 29:49

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Most people think men’s sexual orientation is pretty straightforward: if you’re gay, you only sleep with men, and if you’re straight, you only sleep with women. But things aren’t always that simple. In today’s show, we’re exploring a reality that doesn’t fit the script—gay men who are out and confident in their identity, but who sometimes sleep wit…

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Episode 456: The Psychology Of Gay Men’s Sexual Fantasies 28:29

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Although gay men are often seen as being pretty uninhibited when it comes to sex, their fantasy lives tell a more complex story. Like everyone else, many gay men experience shame, confusion, or conflict around their fantasies. In today’s show, we’re diving into common themes that show up in gay men’s fantasies, the psychology behind them, and how t…

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Episode 455: The New Rules Of Cheating 32:39

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People’s definitions of cheating are evolving. Infidelity isn’t just about physical betrayal anymore. It’s emotional, it’s digital, and sometimes it doesn’t even involve another human at all. In today’s show, we’re diving into the new rules of cheating. We’re also going to talk about how modern technology is making it harder than ever to keep infid…

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Episode 454: How Ozempic Is Changing Sex And Dating 32:04

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Popular GLP-1 medications like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Zepbound aren’t just transforming weight loss. They’re also changing our intimate lives in surprising ways. In today’s show, we’re diving into results from a new national study finding that a majority of people taking one of these medications reported a change in their sex and dating lives, for be…

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Episode 453: The Secrets To A Successful Open Relationship 37:21

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How do you make a non-monogamous relationship work? In today’s show, we’re diving into a brand-new study that set out to map the most common and effective relationship practices for consensually non-monogamous (CNM) people. We’re going to discuss the key strategies that help people maintain multiple partners with intention, stability, and harmony. …

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Episode 452: What People Get Wrong About Open Relationships 36:21

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Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) is something everyone seems to have an opinion on, but many people’s views are decidedly negative. For example, people often say things like “open relationships never work,” and “how is that any different than cheating?” In today’s show, we’re going to dive into common CNM myths and misconceptions and separate fact fro…

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Episode 451: The Surprising Science Of The Clitoris (Essential Listen) 34:01

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Many parts of female sexual anatomy have long been misunderstood, but the clitoris is chief among them. Throughout history, the clitoris is something that has repeatedly been discovered, described, and then forgotten. In today’s show, we’re going revisit one of my favorite conversations from the archives and talk all about the history and science o…

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Episode 450: The Weird History Of Masturbation 43:25

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It’s November again, and that means a bunch of people on the internet are giving up masturbation for the month. While “No Nut November” is a relatively recent phenomenon, it actually has deep roots and reflects humans’ longstanding and very complicated relationship with self-pleasure. In this show, we’re talking about the history of masturbation an…

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Episode 449: The Real Cost of Abstinence Pledges 35:13

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Think back to your sex education for a moment. Were you advised to “save yourself for marriage?” Were you asked to sign a “purity” pledge? For millions of people, that was their experience. In this episode, we’re taking a closer look at abstinence pledges, including how they became so widespread, whether they actually work as intended, and the unse…

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Episode 448: Life After Purity Culture 35:01

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For a lot of people who grew up in religious or conservative environments, they learned to fear sex and/or feel ashamed of. Purity culture teaches folks that their personal value is tied to their sexual choices: “good” people wait to have sex, while “bad” people don’t. In this episode, we’re going to talk about what it’s like to grow up in purity c…

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Episode 447: Do Sex Toys Ruin Sex? Myth Vs. Fact 31:36

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Have you ever heard that vibrators will desensitize you and ruin partnered sex forever? That sex toys are just for women, singles, or kinky folks? Or that if you need a toy, something must be wrong with your sex life or relationship? These are common beliefs, but they’re not grounded in reality. So let’s set the record straight. My guest is Venus O…

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Episode 446: What It’s Like To Be A Professional Sex Toy Tester 35:41

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A sex toy is so much more than just a fun gadget. Toys can help us to explore our bodies, rekindle the connection in a relationship, improve sexual communication, and more. In this episode, we’re going behind the scenes of how sex toys are designed and developed. We’re also going to talk about what makes a toy truly great, as well as how to tell wh…

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Episode 445: Freak In The Head, Freak In The Bed? 32:14

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From sayings like “freak in the head, freak in the bed” to the hot/crazy matrix to memes about “daddy issues,” the internet is full of content suggesting that mentally and emotionally unstable people make for hotter sex partners. But is that really true? In this episode, we’re breaking down some of the biggest myths about sex and relationships that…

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Episode 444: What Social Media Gets Wrong About Relationships 36:12

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Social media has turned therapy into a language that almost everyone seems to speak these days, which is why your feed is probably full of posts about topics like trauma, boundaries, and gaslighting. In this episode, we’re taking a closer look at the rise of “therapy speak” and how, for better or for worse, it’s reshaping the way we talk about emot…

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Episode 443: Sex And Intimacy After Trauma 33:53

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All too often, survivors of sexual violence are treated as though they’re permanently broken. However, healing and recovery are possible. My guest today has written a new book that explores how survivors reclaim sex, intimacy, and desire after assault. It’s unlike most other books on trauma because it dares to ask not just how people survive, but a…

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Episode 442: Can Safer Sex Still Be Sexy? 34:09

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When it comes to sex, we often think about safety and pleasure as being at odds with one another. But it doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode, we’re talking about some new Kinsey Institute research looking at people’s experiences with Lorals for Protection, a product designed to offer both protection and pleasure during oral sex. I am joine…

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Episode 441: The Path Back To Each Other 32:29

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Most people in long-term relationships think their sex life could be better. So what can you do if you and your partner don’t really seem to be in synch anymore when it comes to sex? In today’s show, we’re going to explore how to respark your sexual connection. We’ll also dive into the topic of sexual initiation, including how we can learn to initi…

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The Art of Ethical Eros: Sex, Power, and Consent with Mischa Byruck // Ep.71 1:37:23

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Send us a text In this powerful and timely episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, Maya Diamond sits down with long-time friend and colleague Mischa Byruck, a Sexual Integrity Coach who helps leaders, healers, and public figures transform conflict, harm, and callouts into meaningful change. Together, they unpack what sexual integrity really means …

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Episode 440: How Parenthood Changes Your Sex Life 30:32

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Becoming a parent changes everything in your life, including your sex life. It’s common for new parents to struggle with desire, let alone finding time for intimacy. So what can parents do to get things back on track? In today’s show, we’re talking all about how parenthood changes sex and tips for reigniting intimacy. My guest is Dr. Rebecca Howard…

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Episode 439: Fantasy Confessions – Why Even Happy Couples Keep Secrets 31:23

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Even in the happiest relationships, people don’t always share their fantasies and desires. And sometimes that’s because people are worried about rocking the boat. For example, what if you share a fantasy your partner isn’t into and it reveals an incompatibility? In this episode, we’re going to explore the factors that predict people’s willingness t…

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Episode 438: Should You Share Your Sexual Fantasies? 35:48

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By Dr. Justin Lehmiller

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Episode 437: How To Stop Negative Cycles (Essential Listen) 31:49

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Long-term partners often find themselves having the same fight over and over again. This repetitive, unproductive conflict is known as a negative cycle–and it can ultimately be very damaging to the relationship. So in today’s show, we’re going to discuss how to identify negative cycles in your own relationship, and how to break the pattern. My gues…

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Episode 436: A Definitive Guide To Better Oral Sex 38:56

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Oral sex is one of the most popular bedroom activities. However, while most people say that it can be highly pleasurable, it doesn’t always feels great. So in today’s show, we’re going to talk about how to make oral sex better. Specifically, we’ll explore tips and techniques from the Pleasure Mechanics for being both a good giver and receiver, incl…

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Healing Emotional Wounds With Breath Work (exercise included!) 43:45

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Are you struggling with low confidence or old wounds? Breath work expert Tiffany Gormley shares how simple breathing practices can calm anxiety, release trauma and boost self esteem. Plus, she guides you through a short exercise you can use anytime to feel grounded and confident. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 435: Why Women’s Health Needs Better Science 36:38

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Historically, medical research has done a disservice to women. In fact, for many years, scientists only studied men, assuming that all effects would generalize to women. But we now know that’s not true. In today’s show, we’re talking about how we can improve the state of science on women’s health, and how that begins with having a fuller understand…

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The Scientific Truth About Marriage & Attraction 45:23

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Still struggling to keep your relationships from fizzling? Roger Nygard breaks down the science of attraction and lasting love: listen instead of fix, build connection. Learn these simple daily habits and first date moves for better chemistry with girls and long-term commitments. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 434: How Women’s Brains Change On Their Periods 40:11

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It is well-known that PMS symptoms can deeply affect how women are feeling, including their mood, pain, and energy levels. But why exactly does this happen? Today, we’re going to dive into the science of sex hormones and the menstrual cycle, including how hormone levels affect women’s sexual motivation and tips for navigating sex at different phase…

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Ways To Beat Your Crippling Fear Of Women 1:05:46

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Fear with girls is just low self-esteem. You’ll learn the first pillar of real confidence, living consciously. Discover how awareness and action help you stop avoiding rejection, face challenges head-on, and feel worthy of happiness so you can attract the girls you actually want. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 433: How To Unlock More Pleasure And Desire 37:57

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Holistic sexuality involves having a deep enough level of self-understanding that you can make choices that are aligned with your core needs and feel empowered to live out those choices in your own life. In today’s show, we’re going to talk about harnessing holistic sexuality in order to lead a more pleasure-filled life and be more in tune with our…

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Professional Photographer Reveals The Best Online Dating Photo 31:04

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Most guys kill their online chances with bad photos. Learn why hiring a pro matters, how to prep for a shoot, and how to get solid shots on your own. You’ll see what makes the best headshots, body shots and passion shots so your profile attracts girls instead of turning them off. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 432: Who Are You As A Sexual Person? 33:57

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Who are you as a sexual person? In today’s show, we’re going to help you answer this question by introducing you to the concept of holistic sexuality, which is different from the way that most of us have been taught to think about sex. We’re going to dive into some of the key facets of holistic sexuality that are crucial to know for both self-under…

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How To Handle A Girl Not Liking You Back 33:40

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Stop chasing girls at work, becoming needy, or holding onto someone who isn’t feeling the same way. Learn when to bring up exclusivity, when to back off, and how to move on fast so you stop wasting time and start putting your energy into girls who are actually excited to see you. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 431: How Men Can Build Sexual Confidence 28:43

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A lot of people think that sex is just easy for men. But it’s not. A heck of a lot of guys are walking around with sexual anxiety and are worried about their body and/or performance. This can eat away at men’s confidence, leading them to avoid sex, or to have sex that’s less than pleasurable. In today’s show, we’re going to talk about how to build …

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5 Techniques For Making First Dates Turn To Second Dates 34:28

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Dating coach Tessa Mack shows how practice dates reveal the biggest mistakes guys make which are playing it too safe, overthinking, and not showing enough confidence. Now you’ll learn how to spark conversations that flow, keep her interested, and get her excited to see you again. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 430: Is It Possible To Make Your Penis Bigger? 32:24

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Surveys find that nearly half of men are dissatisfied with their penis size and wish they were larger. So let’s dive into the world of penile augmentation. In this episode, we’re going to talk about the various treatments that exist, which ones are supported by the science, the potential risks and side effects, and what you really need to know if y…

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A Unique Way To Find Your PERFECT Match 54:12

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Matchmaker Talia Goldstein breaks down how pros actually pair people up, what women are looking for, and why attraction works differently for guys and girls. You’ll learn what makes a good first date, how chemistry grows, and the 3 things women must feel to want to see you again. MORE RESOURCES 3 Day Rule - https://www.threedayrule.com/TrippKramer …

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Episode 429: Can Kink Help Us Live Happier Lives? 33:49

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BDSM practitioners have mastered skills that many of us struggle with every day, including honest communication, clear boundaries, deep trust, and the courage to be vulnerable. In this episode, we’re exploring what we can learn from kinky folks about leading happier lives, both in and out of the bedroom. I am joined once again by Alicia Walker and …

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LIVE COACHING: Dating With Kids & Women Who Have Kids 21:52

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Dating with kids can feel like a minefield. Do you mention it right away, wait until later, or put it on your profile? You’ll learn how to reveal it with confidence, filter out the wrong women, and use non-negotiables so you only spend time with girls who actually fit your life. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vid…

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Her (2013): Is AI an Effective Tool For Companionship, Romance, & Therapy? 1:01:12

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On this episode, licensed therapists Rick Guttersohn, LMSW and Kailah Tuttle, LPC explore the 2013 movie 'Her' featuring Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johansson. Can AI meet our emotional needs? Is it an effective way to provide companionship, romance, and even therapy? There is value in this episode even of you’ve never watched the movie! Cinema Se…

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Episode 428: What People Get Wrong About BDSM 33:46

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Is kink just about whips and chains? Is it always about sex? Is everyone who’s into kink working through some type of trauma? In today’s show, we’re diving into the science of BDSM and debunking common myths about it. We’ll unpack what kink really looks like in practice, how consent and trust are at its core, and what it is that really draws people…

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9 Tests That Reveal Her Interest 50:06

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Most guys miss chances with girls because they’re scared to move things forward and don’t know if she’s interested. These 9 simple tests show you exactly where you stand, how to avoid the friend zone and how to build attraction without creeping her out or guessing what she wants. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 427: How We Can Make Sex Education Better 29:37

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The sex education we have in the United States today isn’t really working. And, unfortunately, it’s only set to get worse as a growing number of states are pushing to restrict what students can learn in these classes. So in today’s show, we’re going to talk about why it has been so difficult to make sex ed better and what we can actually do to chan…

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The Difference Between Men & Women 51:12

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A lot of guys feel stuck between being too aggressive and not showing enough interest. That’s why texting turns into overthinking and dates feel confusing. Learn what makes a girl feel safe, how to move things forward without chasing, and how to spark a polarity that excites her. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 426: Why Sex Ed Sucks (And Always Has) 30:14

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Sex education is highly controversial. Last year alone, 27 US states introduced bills aimed at restricting sex ed! However, this fight over what sex ed should cover (and whether it should even be taught at all) is nothing new. We’ve been having the same fights about sex ed for over a century, and that’s a big part of the reason why modern sex educa…

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The 6 Pillars Of Becoming Your Most Attractive Self 44:52

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Most guys think dating is just about approaching and using pickup lines, but that’s why they struggle long term. Nick Notas breaks down the 6 pillars you need to work on so you can be confident, keep girls interested and build a life that makes you attractive without even trying. MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vi…

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Episode 425: What Determines Our Sexual Orientation? 34:48

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Why are some people straight while others are gay or bisexual? What determines our sexual orientation anyway? Today, we’re going to be diving into what we’ve learned about the biological origins of our sexuality from decades of scientific research. As you’ll see, there’s not a simple and easy story—it doesn’t boil down to something like a “gay gene…

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21 Rejection Proof Openers 58:51

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When a girl flakes or goes cold, most guys chase or get flustered and needy, which kills attraction fast and forever. You'll learn what to text, how to re-engage, and how to flip the script so she sees you as confident and worth her time instead of another guy who doesn’t get it.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Coaching: www.TrippAdviceCoaching.com HOOKED Vid…