An examination of what happens to people between 25 and 45 or so: Marriage, kids, divorces, aging parents, career adjustments, new homes, and the like.
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Ted Bauer Podcasts
We talk about the way digital is everywhere these days. Some of it is good. Some of it is bad. However, its always on point.
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In this podcast, through our stories, together we walk through our joys and our sufferings, as well as our gratefulness. We share useful tools to support you in shifting from fear, anxiety and self-destruction, to a life well-lived - full of meaning and fulfilled dreams. Through new practices, new principles and a new mindset our stories of being a victim and our attitude of self-loathing becomes one of humility and gratitude.
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Unfolding, Unapologetic & Unfinished ft: "SIMPLY KATIE"
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1:37:30Episode Title: Simply Katie — Unfolding, Unapologetic & Unfinished Series Theme: A Paradox to Positive, Peaceful Living Guest: Katie (aka Katie B, Katie W, Katie U) Sobriety Date: September 23, 2005 Episode Summary This week, we sit with a woman whose story doesn’t just echo through the rooms—it roars through the silence most people are too afraid …
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"Boardrooms Barrooms and Blurred Boundaries" ft: Ted Bauer
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57:16Today’s guest is someone who hasn’t just lived through life’s seasons—he’s been shaped, shattered, and spiritually reassembled by them. From Catholic boyhood and altar steps to the chaos of addiction and unspoken wounds… From the reckless rebellion of youth to decades lost in boardrooms, barrooms, and blurred boundaries... From collapsing under the…
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Submergence is not our end—it's how we begin again. On The Lose Control Podcast, we explore what happens when we stop clutching for control... and start trusting the pull. Because life doesn’t just ask us to let go—it pulls us under. Into grief. Into love. Into silence. Into seasons that don’t make sense on paper but are perfectly designed to shape…
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Recovery in Action - Limited series - "Resentments" ft. Chris Lane
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16:10Resentment is a slow poison—one that corrodes the spirit, erodes peace, and traps you in a cycle of stagnation. It festers, feeding off unspoken wounds and unfinished battles, making you more bitter, more disconnected, more imprisoned in your own mind. And the truth is, no one else suffers as much as you do when resentment takes hold. It rots from …
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Episode 2 "Prison to Poipubeach.com" Ft: Roz
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1:06:10Rosalynn Bourgeois, known as Roz, was born and raised just outside of Washington, DC, in PG County, MD. Growing up as a minority in a tumultuous household, she constantly felt the pressure to fit in and seek attention, especially with her parents embroiled in constant conflict. Roz identifies as a recovering Catholic, having endured religious belie…
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Episode 1: "Pain was the admission" ft: Brian Ready
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1:08:07Brian Ready is not just a national recovery advocate, speaker, and motivational coach—he is a beacon of hope and transformation. A devoted father to three beautiful daughters and a loving husband to his wife, Kimberly, Brian embraces the privilege of working alongside her every day, united in their mission to guide others on the path to recovery. A…
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Episode 33 Special Guest - A bunch of drunks "We, was the problem"
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48:33I must be willing to do whatever “anything” looks like to help another alcoholic. This means offering unwavering friendship and fellowship, and assuring him that if he genuinely desires to get well, I will do anything to support him on his journey. The bond we create is founded on trust, empathy, and shared experience. Pg 95 You can have what we ha…
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Episode 34 Special Guest: Margery Bailey "Hissy Fit...Find Your Breath"
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1:05:33Margery Bailey's life is a gripping saga of resilience and profound transformation. Born in Sacramento, CA, she approaches her 50th birthday with a story that speaks to the depths of human struggle and the triumph of spirit. Raised in a turbulent alcoholic Irish Catholic household with two sisters, including an identical twin, Margery's early years…
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Episode 32 Special Guest: Matthew Parsley "I didn't want to say YES - I couldn't say NO"
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1:29:30This week’s special guest is Matthew Parsley. Born in Long Beach, Long Island, and raised in Dillon, South Carolina, by his grandmother and great-grandmother from the age of six, Matthew's early life was deeply influenced by a religious and spiritual household. Church provided solace, but his childhood was also marked by the trauma of being moleste…
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Episode 31 Special Guest: HYPE "Ramen noodles out of a hubcap"
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35:07Hype's story is one of unimaginable pain and redemption. Born in prison, he faced a life of hardship from the very beginning. At 11, he witnessed his mother's death, and by 12, he endured relentless physical abuse. In a desperate act of self-defense, Hype set his abuser on fire, leading to a sentence of juvenile life. He was released at 19, only to…
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Episode 30 PART 3 Special Guest: Ashleigh & Lance Cline "This is the life I prayed for"
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51:29Introducing our special guests this week: Ashleigh and Lance Cline – “This is the life I prayed for.” Ashleigh and Lance's story began in 2019 when they connected through the Any Length Recovery Facebook page. At that time, Ashleigh was just four months out of prison, starting to rebuild her life, while Lance was emerging from his own prison, the t…
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Episode 29 Special Guest: Chris Lane 2 cases - 2 handles - 2 days "Oaks Recovery saved my life"
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38:23Chris Lane, 35, was born in the small town of Rumford, Maine. At the age of five, he moved with his parents to the rural parts of Columbia and Lexington, South Carolina. Growing up, Chris witnessed most of his family either battling addiction or navigating recovery. Following this difficult family legacy, he began drinking at 14. Like many, his rel…
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Episode 28 PART 2 " It's always the Mexican restaurants! " Special Guest Ashleigh Cline
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1:20:58Ashleigh Cline is a certified peer support specialist at Westview Behavioral Health. After a turbulent road filled with addiction, trauma, and significant personal loss her story has transformed dramatically from one of despair to one of resilience and post-traumatic growth. Her twelve-year battle with addiction marked the beginning of a profound j…
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This week’s conversation is with a small group of people interested in understanding my design for living. The conversation is raw and honest, and not everyone may be receptive to it. This is the beauty of choice. We no longer have to live our lives concerned about others’ opinions and expectations of us. Find your tribe, seek out mentors—more than…
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Episode 27 PART 1 " We're talking about behaviors" Special Guest: Lance Cline
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1:04:20Lance Cline hails from the heart of Maryland. His childhood was shaped within the nurturing yet challenging environment of Recovery, as both of his parents have been steadfast in their Recovery journey for over 40 years. This unique upbringing instilled in Lance a deep understanding of the struggles and triumphs that come with addiction and recover…
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Episode 25 Part 2 Jamar Ryle "I was trying to fill that void" Honesty Openminded Willingness
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51:48Jamar’s journey is a vivid illustration of the human spirit’s capacity to endure and triumph. It speaks to the courage needed to face one’s demons, the unwavering determination to reclaim one’s life, and the rediscovery of hope and purpose that fuels the path to recovery. His transformation is a beacon for others, illuminating the way forward and p…
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Episode 24 Part 1 Special Guest: Jamar Ryle "I was trying to fill that void", Honesty Open-minded Willingness
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1:13:44Jamar’s odyssey to recovery commenced on March 17th, 2018, a date etched in his memory as the beginning of a profound transformation. His narrative is a harrowing tapestry woven with threads of deep-seated depression, excruciating pain, and an overwhelming sense of hopelessness and worthlessness. These emotions, intertwined with unmanageability, se…
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Episode 23 " What can I put into the stream of life" Special Guest: Roger Layne
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41:20This week’s special guest is the returning Roger Layne from Week 2. Roger will delve into his extensive knowledge and experience with the virtues of Stoicism and the 12 principles of the twelve steps. These principles emphasize living a virtuous life, focusing on what is within our control, and accepting the natural order of things. Roger will expl…
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Episode 22 "Help Other People Everyday" H.O.P.E. Special Guest April Parker
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46:24April Parker grew up in Indian Land, South Carolina, often escaping her tumultuous home life by playing outside, reading, and pretending to be a teacher. Despite being molested by her siblings and ignored by her parents, who were preoccupied with her father’s alcoholism, April excelled in academics and sports, earned a scholarship to Winthrop Unive…
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Epsiode 21 Special Guest: Seth Vallet "From Hallucinations to Halos"
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1:12:22Seth Vallett’s life has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows, a symphony of triumphs and struggles. Born in the heart of Macon, Georgia, he emerged from a close-knit family—a tapestry woven with love and resilience. As a teenager, Seth danced on the edge of existence, drawn to mind-altering substances like a moth to a flame. These choices led him…
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Episode 19 "When we get it...We gotta keep doing it!" GOD...COUNTRY...GUNS
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1:11:23Gerry Kelly: A Journey Across Oceans Gerry Kelly, a man of seasoned years and weathered spirit, traces his origins to the cobbled streets of Dublin, Ireland. Born under the watchful eyes of the Emerald Isle, he carried dreams as fragile as the morning mist. But destiny, that elusive weaver of narratives, had grander plans. In the fateful year of 19…
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Episode 18 Broken pieces: "We turned our pain into passion." Special guest: Lacy Spivey & Jesse Franklin
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1:20:47Jessie Franklin and Lacy Spivey: A Journey of Redemption and Resilience Jessie Franklin and Lacy Spivey’s intertwined lives, marked by addiction and separation, ultimately led them back to each other. Their story serves as a beacon of hope for others, demonstrating that even in the darkest moments, redemption and resilience can pave the way to a ne…
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Episode 17 "I don't know how to NOT move forward" Special guest: Julie Cole
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1:07:57Julie’s Journey to Authenticity INSTAGRAM: Julie_Cole_Coaching / [email protected] Julie Cole sat in the dimly lit room, her fingers tracing the edges of her sobriety coin. Twenty-six years. It felt like a lifetime and a heartbeat all at once. The room was filled with others—strangers who had become confidantes, their stories woven together like …
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Episode 16 "Before I knew it." Special guest: Jodi Friend
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1:14:13Jodi’s Journey: From Darkness to Hope Jodi’s path through addiction, recovery, and the pain of loss has been an arduous one. The weight of shame and guilt rests heavily on her shoulders, yet she remains resolute in her quest for strength and sobriety. Despite enduring immense heartache, Jodi channels her experiences into helping others while safegu…
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Episode 14 " Then I was introduced to sub levels 1,2&3" Special guest Russell Marchese
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43:05Russell Marchese’s story is indeed a profound narrative of hope, resilience, and the enduring power of faith and love. It’s a story that resonates with many who have faced similar battles, and it serves as a beacon of light for those still navigating the path of recovery. The journey of self-discovery and the embrace of one’s spirituality can be tr…
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Episode 15 "In my pain, I really found my purpose" Special guest Rachel Jackson
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1:31:17Rachel’s profound journey to freedom is indeed a testament to the human spirit’s resilience and the transformative power of recovery. Born into a challenging environment, she faced her struggles head-on. Rachel’s journey from dealing with an eating disorder and substance abuse to becoming a pillar of support and inspiration is nothing short of rema…
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Episode 13 - 3 Pillars to a Peaceful Balance
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38:533 Pillars to a Peaceful Balance: Mindfulness / Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help you cultivate awareness of the present moment, reduce stress, and enhance overall well-being. Consider incorporating mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, body scans, or guided meditation into your daily routine. Community / Relationsh…
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Episode 12 "A Journey of Resilience & Purpose" Special Guest: Gerry Coleman
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57:55JOURNEY OF RESILIENCE AND PURPOSE From the rolling hills of Pennsylvania to the warm embrace of the South, Gerry’s life’s journey has been anything but ordinary. At the tender age of 10, his family’s move to Irmo introduced him to a world where Gerry’s biracial heritage was as rare as it was misunderstood. The challenges were manifold: financial co…
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Episode 10 "Even when the odds are insurmountable" -Special guest William McCauley
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1:01:49William A. McCauley, a Certified Peer-Support Specialist affiliated with The Courage Center, has not only embraced this title but also woven it into the very fabric of his identity. His journey is one of resilience, transformation, and unwavering commitment to recovery. For over 25 years, William grappled with the relentless grip of addiction. The …
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Episode 9 "I no longer carry the Iron Cross of shame" - Special Guest Matty I
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1:08:59Matthew’s Journey: From Darkness to Light Matthew’s life was a tempest, a storm that threatened to drown him. As a child, anger clung to him like a shadow, and he struggled to find his place in a world that felt alien. But the universe had more trials in store for him. At the tender age of six, Matthew lost his closest companion—the brother who sha…
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Episiode 8 "My Defects Became My Assets" - Special Guest Amber Frazier
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52:08Amber serves as a peer support specialist at a recovery community organization and she serves on the South Carolina Harm Reduction Coalition Political Affairs committee. Harm Reduction is a health centered approach that focuses on public health and safety. Examples of harm reduction we use in everyday life can be a seat belt, hard hat, life jacket,…
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Episode 7 "Discipline is My Foundation" - Special Guest Norman Ferris
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47:44Norman Ferris born and raised in upstate NY, and even though he considers his childhood a good one, he found himself very self-conscious, and a very sensitive person. Norman was a good athlete in high school and loved working with horses. “My first drink qualified me as a drunk. Working with horses allowed me to drink. Drinking for oblivion, no rhy…
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Episode 6 "Peace Like No Other" - Special Guest Nansi N.
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57:15Nansi is an outgoing person, so her soul that shines through her eyes. Without hearing her story, you would never understand the trials and tribulations she endured to make it to where she is today. Nansi was in active addiction since she was 16. She started with alcohol, which so many assume is harmless, but that led to cocaine. She soon found her…
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Episode 5 "The Arrow that Pierced My Ego" - Special Guest Jessie Franklin
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43:00Jessie Franklin is a beacon of recovery and resilience. He embodies resilience, compassion and unwavering commitment to recovery. Jessie's journey is one of triumph over adversity, and his purpose lies in guiding others toward healing and hope. Jessie is a native of Lexington, South Carolina and the youngest of five children. He discovered his pass…
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Episode 4 "His Willingness To Walk By Faith" - Special Guest Josh Bone
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1:06:42Josh Bone was born and raised by his grandparents in Dallas, NC. He attended college at UNC Chapel Hill where he studied psychology and creative writing. Working in the bar and service industry, he began to struggle with alcoholism and addiction. After navigating over a decade of active addiction, he celebrates 7 years of sobriety April 27, 2024. H…
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Episode 3 "Perception and Mindset" - Special Guest Matty I
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35:33This is a "storytelling" episode. You will hear Matty I speaking to a group of recovering addicts and alcoholics. In this 1/2 hour show listen to some of Matty's journey, with a focus on becoming the person you were meant to be and how he has been walking that path. He says, "Never say you can't do it, remember you just haven't done it yet. Become …
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Episode 2 "What Is Your Perception" - Special Guest Roger Layne
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1:01:14In this conversation, Matty, Chris and Roger share their experiences and insights on overcoming challenges and achieving personal growth through mental toughness and self-improvement. They emphasized the importance of living in the present moment, embracing emotions, and cultivating gratitude. They discuss the role of stoicism and community, and th…
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Episode 1 "I Am Responsible" - Special Guest " Big C"
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1:02:01In this first episode of The Lose Control Podcast, host Matty I and good friend Chris Acciardo talk about some of their moments in life that were the lowest, yet they used those dark days as a means to turn life around. Listen in, we think you may hear your own story in ours.By Matty Isola
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Episode 79: Coming back in January 2021 with a renewed focus
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3:36I let my podcasting slip in November because a bunch of stuff kinda came together at once: I was doing more paid work (good), I turned 40 (jury's still out), I got remarried (good), I bought a house (good/jury's still out), etc. I needed to pay more attention to what I was doing here, and I didn't, in part because my audience wasn't huge or anythin…
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Episode 78: 18 or so minutes on the experience of getting married a second time
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19:25This is an audio version (well, similar to) of this post. Just out here trying to grow as a human being where I can, ya know? Here's a video of the ceremony, too.
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Episode 77: "You are not a genius" + The emotional toll of white-collar work
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50:42Got remarried about two weeks ago, then went out of town for a few days, so I've been sitting on this interview with Jim Monroe for a minute, and it's time now to release it into the broader world. He's the author of a book called "Don't Be A Dick Manager," and if you know anything about my seven years of blogging, that's a theme I hit on a lot. Th…
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Episode 76: Getting married. For a second time. In a pandemic. This weekend.
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5:54Here we go ... and how does that feel? If you want to understand the "A" to "B" narrative of divorce to new marriage, read this. My ceremony is at 11am USA Central Time on Saturday, 10/17. I don't expect a lot of people to be around or remember it, because it's a second wedding, COVID, etc. If you want to shoot me a text or something, it's 860-967-…
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Episode 75: I'm a guy, and often feel lonely and depressed. That should be OK to say, right?
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9:36Let's do some backstory to start, with some reading materials to boot. Start with me at this present moment. I'm sitting in a coffee shop typing. Well, on what appears to be December 10, 2013, I was also sitting in a coffee shop -- that one was in Minneapolis -- writing about the decline of male friendships. That was almost six years ago and I doub…
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Episode 74: Product is important, sure, but try to give a shit about people
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9:37Based loosely on this.
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Episode 73: Trump and the rise of the douchebags
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6:08Based on this and this.
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Episode 72: Divorce sucks, but divorcing the friends is probably worse
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10:39Somewhat adapted from here and the experiences of people I know.
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Episode 71: Why are so many managers so f*cking awful at respecting their employees?
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6:04Why is appreciating employees for what they're worth as contributors to the brand so hard for bosses? Oh, right, it's not natural and no one seems to get trained on it. More on how to respect and appreciate employees can be found here.
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Episode 70: Rump Got Rona'ed and the dangers of Boomer loyalty
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11:39What now for "the leaders of the free world?" Some references can be found in this post.
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Episode 69: How many times a week should couples be having sex?
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10:06With some science and even some data. Based largely on this original post from September 2015. Hope you ... find some information and solace within it. If you want to go bigger on sample size here and use actual people instead of sex therapists, here’s a Reddit thread (with 278 comments) where people talk about their amount-of-sex-per-week relative…
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Episode 68: RBG and the ridiculous dichotomy of a woman's role in society
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7:16I'm not a big or relevant voice in the RBG implications and legacy discussion, but I did want to weigh in on some of her "branding" and the ridiculous flaws and assumptions we have around a woman's role in society.
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