(Formerly Break Time on Westside) A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.
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#570: Lesbians, Jealousy, But Still Stress-free
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28:58>Give your feedback here< It's all about handling stress on the men's side as a man presents a situation that gives him stress before another man initiates a conversation regarding men and the stressors that we have in our lives. There's multiple stories of men doing right by their women, only for life to turn around, and their women turn their bac…
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#569: Broken Ideas, But Still Got That Babyface!
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28:26>Give your feedback here< Someone needs to weigh the cost of the decisions being made out here and Denver B happened to be on duty in this episode. From churches to women, there's a dance that's being had and people misunderstand a lot. CITAM's financials were released, and while people felt that it's a cash grab, Denver saw something different. Fr…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode where money tries to change hands while relationships are the major trading commodity. The Hungarian government wants relationships to be 'productive' and is willing to give benefits for it, while some women are expecting men to only date them when the men are 'more productive' than they should be. Hungary'…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode featuring clueless comments made by women, Denver B is the man with the reasonable thoughts as he tackles comments on abortion and where men's place is in all this. From there, a woman's comments to the unmarried people show the chaos that many in the dating market have taken part in, and Denver tries to show…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about the excessively obscene as well as the excessively unattainable in this episode trying to show the experiences and why some may not be as foreign as others. Lamborghini made a stroller that you might like, all for a cool $5000. From there, a Reddit post asking for an idea of how dating is post graduating cam…
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>Give your feedback here< It's another episode an this one's got bars and boundaries. Some people will go as far as they can to achieve their dreams, even if some end up turning into nightmares. A lady sets a world record for tests as she sets out to achieve her dream. Then an online trend outlines stories of women who set out to achieve their drea…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode exploring wild ideas and occurrences, simplicity shows a lack of nuance. There's a 'performer' who's $11k richer but facing charges because he took a client to heaven... literally. After being left without breath (pun intended), Denver B looks into the idea of ethical non-monogamy through the lens of a celebr…
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#563: When She Cheated, It's Okay Because...
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28:17>Give your feedback here< It's going to be a very rant-filled episode as Denver B handles the many nooks and crannies that come with getting together and staying together. A post by a lady asking why men would rather have their woman move in instead of just marrying them raises a question that seems easy but has to be comprehensively answered. A wa…
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#562: Did Millennials Ruin Marriage for Gen Zs?
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27:24>Give your feedback here< It's all about love and longevity as a man reminisces his past (but weird) love before we ask a thought-provoking question. A man who was interviewed a decade ago speaks on his love and where the relationship went after the interview, which gave Denver B more questions than answers. From there, a man's thoughts on how mill…
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>Give your feedback here< In a dance between time and replaceability, two stories shine a contradiction unexpected. The first, a couple with record long kisses parts ways. It's hard to top, but maybe it was worth it. The second, a man who is asked to choose between his wife and his business, highlighting how replaceable people see others in the fac…
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#560: Women Should Be Approaching Men Now?
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26:14>Give your feedback here< In an episode filled with men, women and dogs, the last thing you'd expect is that they'd be staying away from each other... yet that's what they're doing (sort of). A recent study implies that being a dog-mom might make it harder for women to go on dates while not being into dogs might make you seem like a bad potential m…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about knocking two bodies together as legislators work to prevent men from nutting, while a woman halfway across the world emphasizes on doing it as soon as possible. Denver B outlines the biggest enemy to women's reproductive rights a proposed bill threatens to force men practice 'edging' for their own financial …
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode driven by cutting back where necessary, there's a lot to consider. It's a discussion on money and dick, each needing cutting where necessary, so grab your books and calculators because we'll need them both. A man speaks against circumcision, using reasoning that causes an unpopular opinion from Denver B. From…
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#557: The Best Boyfriends Are... Married Men?
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28:27>Give your feedback here< In an episode full of wild news and opinions, Denver B tried to stand true to his principles as the world of content runs mad. Your children got robbed through the Hustler Fund, and they're not the only culprit. A woman on Tiktok shares her interesting dating preference for married men, before highlighting what she believe…
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#556: 51% of Women Want To Be Polygamous?
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27:48>Give your feedback here< It's an episode full of math, as subtraction happens for reasons that don't add up. People are accepting of addition, but at the loss of someone else. One of Diddy's lawyers has pulled out, and the lawyer in question makes it hard to believe. A recent study shows that a large portion of Nairobi women are open to polygamy. …
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>Give your feedback here< In an era where the internet is full of ideas on life, someone needs to cut through the bullshit and feed in some reality. Denver B takes a stab at a woman preaching intellectual superiority with finances before answering a question on dating. Some people say that you shouldn't be dating in your early 20s. Denver says that…
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>Give your feedback here< In an introspective outlook on my content, I pose a question to myself and my listeners: Is my content really helping make men better? An elder caught having an affair with another elder's wife became a teachable moment, especially after the husband decided to go for blood... literally. Reeling from some of the content I'v…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all about age, consent and the desire to be seen as the prize, whether you are or aren't. There's a man who was caught 'playing' with a girl and there's a lot to be said about his actions, especially since she's underrage. Two women discuss the ego of single men in their 30s and how they see themselves as the prize. T…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode with strong internet and poor results, we discuss men. One man's story speaks about trying to bring change in rural Kenya, only to be changed by rural Kenyans. The other man (Denver B) questions what makes men weak. The response, along with some considerations, gives a unique perspective on what makes men see…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode that conducts a postmortem on Valentine's Day and gives some tips on how to break out of singlehood. The holiday (while overblown) showed a stark difference between the loved and the loved-nots (hehe) which gave mixed feelings to different people, including Denver B. That and some weird co-parenting showed …
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>Give your feedback here< In a show of some's current antisocial reality, a young man risks it all (literally) for attention from a streamer. The lack of love and state of the 'streets' play into the idea of men and women choosing partners who 'love more' and how Denver B hates the idea of it. The lack of love in these streets and constant trauma h…
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>Give your feedback here< Following the public feedback on the vial episode from the 'So This Is Love' podcast episode, Denver B shares his thoughts on a story chock full of abuse, manipulation and mistreatment. There's a lot to hate, but even more to learn from. This episode concludes the story. Link to Full Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episo…
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>Give your feedback here< Following the public feedback on the vial episode from the 'So This Is Love' podcast episode, Denver B shares his thoughts on a story chock full of abuse, manipulation and mistreatment. There's a lot to hate, but even more to learn from. This is just the first part... Link to Full Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/…
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#547: When Self-Development Became Self-Sabotage
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20:33>Give your feedback here< We're back!!! After a hiatus filled with silence and uncertainty, Sir Denver B is back on the mic with the same vigour and a renewed sense of drive to give absolutely zero f*cks. A man chooses his love above all until he realised that while marrying his rice cooker was a good idea (to him), he also couldn't live on rice al…
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>Give your feedback here< It's been over 500 episodes. It's time for a break. The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/denver_bagaka/ My Twitter: https://twitter.com/BagakatheD Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/thebreaktimepod.bsky.social…
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>Give your feedback here< In an almost obnoxious yet informative manner, Sir Denver B takes a bold step and labels 3 theories on the topic of infidelity with his name. With one that's general, and the other two being specific to gender, there's reason behind them all and real logic backing the information. The real question is, can they all be true…
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#544: What The Internet Taught Me About Relationships
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15:34>Give your feedback here< Sir Denver B has spent a lot of time on the internet finding content, and that's had its results. From the negatives to the types of opinions had today, there's a way that topics are discussed today. It's not the best, but it is the internet... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcas…
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>Give your feedback here< A story gets posted online. A man broke off an engagement because he was seemingly insecure. Everyone's against him, except Sir Denver B. There has to be a reason why... The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/denver_bagaka/ My Twitter: https…
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>Give your feedback here< A tweet critiquing feminism as a form of misogyny ignites the topic after years of not discussing it on the podcast. There's some truth to what's said, there's some BS in there too. Some ideas on feminism still need to be said for the benefit of future generations, and this will be for their good, not ours... The Break Tim…
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#541: Single People Don't Understand Cheating
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13:59>Give your feedback here< A video posted on IG asking men if they'd be okay with their women sleeping with someone else sparks a discussion looking into what people may/may not understand about cheating as a concept. There's what people think before they're in a relationship, there's what they think after they just got into one, and there's what pe…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode with bumping, heart-breaking and broke-ness, love is expected to reign supreme. The Spanish have found a new way to find love, and it's currently the healthiest option... fruits. From there, those who love love feel appreciated, those who see no pros to being broke are contradicted and those who are single fe…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode of weird dilemmas and even weirder behaviours as people try making systems work for them and they backfire spectacularly. There's a Youtuber trying to rewrite the age of 'creep' in dating and there's a woman trying to divorce herself. From there, a woman's issues with men's wants in dating lead to a selecti…
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>Give your feedback here< It's a talk on and about the ladies as a grown man tries to speak against younger men and their ability to be financially conscious. There's a woman who believes "not all men" is a myth, and proves it as a result. There's an elephant and a mammoth in the room, makeup gains a fan, and women over 30 are touched on. Should we…
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#537: Do Modern Men Want Submissive Providers?
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25:29>Give your feedback here< In an episode challenging reality with fantasy, the men are the victims here. There's a New York couple who set a precedent by making their wedding an experience worth every penny. From there, a post on IG shows a disdain and lack of understanding of today's men.the thoughts of people who may have spent a litt much timinst…
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#536: Of Deferred Cheaters, Lazy Men & Deceptive AI
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25:39>Give your feedback here< In an episode speaking primarily about men, a lot of misunderstanding and misinterpretation looms. Sir Denver B discovered an AI influencer online and saw how its page is being used to fleece young men. From there, the question of why men no longer make the first move comes up. There's something about men being unable to l…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an entree of people talking in this episode, mostly about sex. There's a discussion on the overrated actions of men in the bedroom as a sex-positive influencer speaks on men lacking in knowledge. From there, a discussion from the Modern Wisdom podcast on who cheats more brings forth a slew of questions on the idea of …
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#534: The Family, A Fake Virgin & The Diddler
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20:48>Give your feedback here< In an episode all about men dating, a 'diddler' is indicted and his case is the definition of f*cked. It's hard to determine but no amount of lube will smoothen things for him (all puns intended). From there, it's all about men dating as a woman gives poor body count math, another questions the value of your partner's fami…
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#533: Dating Online — The Ugly Truth About What Men Go Through
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24:21>Give your feedback here< It's all about men in today's world in this episode full of women giving their thoughts from perspectives made for men. There's a woman talking bride price in a way that would question whether it's dowry or slavery. From there, a woman documents her experience dating online as a man... after 3 days. The experience highligh…
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>Give your feedback here< It's an episode touching on different topics while trying to maintain some level of sense. There's a sixth love language that's annoying Sir Denver B, and the reason why isn't what you think. From there, a woman's unpopular opinion on professional mentorship splits heads as we also tackle the age question again, show why r…
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>Give your feedback here< It's goes deep and gets inquisitive in this episode as Sir Denver B goes on an explainer as to why legality and morality aren't always parallel to each other. There's a story that threads that needle from Japan to this effect. From there, a study brought forward via a podcast brings up ideas as to why people who are cheate…
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#530: Unrealistically Single, Acceptably Ugly & Financially Stable?
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21:58>Give your feedback here< It's all about dating and the dating market as we look at some deal makers and deal breakers in this episode. An old debate gets brought up again, only for Sir Denver B to slam it for its pettiness. From there, a look into single people having dating preferences, rich people lacking stability and 'ugly' people gaining vali…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode that tries to avoid being deep, wild takes on the LGBT are made due to new research on how they view each other. Sir Denver B then tackles the social awkwardness of the bulk of Gen Z, questioning where it came from, what it's impact is and how we could possibly solve the reality that is being the most connect…
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#528: More Attractive, Less Options, More Likes? (Even More Unpopular Opinions)
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22:16>Give your feedback here< It's all deep and into the feelings on this one as the episode tries to address deeper conversations regarding feelings. A talk of the lack of financial support among feminine friendships ignites a discussion about why male friendships involve financial support less hesitantly. From there, a look into emotionally unstable …
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#527: Single Fish, Single Parents, Many Problems
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22:48>Give your feedback here< It's all about deep-rooted issues in this episode as things go from nasty to serious and possibly even existential. There's an Indian man who decided to have some exotic fish in the most backward way ever, leading to a hospital visit. From there, a woman's beliefs on not dating people from 'single-parent households' sparks…
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#526: Is It Cheating If You're Not Married Yet? (More Unpopular Opinions)
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22:03>Give your feedback here< It's an episode filled with money and love, and how those two could make or break a commitment. A lady is trying to tell women to go all in on clitocurrency, but Sir Denver B is wondering how we got this far in the first place. A second look at some unpopular opinions reveals another observation on how money doesn't mean s…
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#525: Settling, Money & A Whole Lot of Delulu
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23:39>Give your feedback here< It's all about money and 'delulu' as the idea of settling comes prepackaged as 'downdating'. There's a recent kink that's baffling Sir Denver B in its practices and source of pleasure, and there's no understanding this form of 'sex' work. A lady put up a video on dating down and asked for women's opinions on it as hers wer…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode trying to show the power of love, some opinions may divide some but love shall unite us all. Sir Denver B talks on the power of love showing how far both men and women can go in the pursuit of their loved one's happiness. From there, a look at some of the less spoken about opinions of dating, controversial li…
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>Give your feedback here< It's all on the sides as the side-chick becomes the main topic of discussion in this episode. An old story of Muamar Gaddafi doing side quests while leading Libya piques Denver B's interest as the details baffle anyone who listens to the details. From there, a lady with experience as a side-chick brings forth the idea that…
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>Give your feedback here< In an episode questioning the value of actions, a research study is left wanting after Sir Denver B wonders why so much effort was put into something so basic. There are tweets all about dating, yet appreciation and reciprocation are the name of the game. Men seem to be disappearing from their dates, women need to be dated…
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#521: "If They Fall First, I Fall Harder"
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24:37>Give your feedback here< It's all about falling in love in this episode and a retired socialite is recommending summer bunnies... And Sir Denver B agrees with her! There's a twist to it though... A post by a Reddit user exposes a belief system that is held by many at the expense of the opposite sex, all for the sole purpose of guarding them from e…
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