Best Pod Xperience Network Podcasts (2025)

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Launching Our New Segment: “Blayne It On Us” | Queer Relationship, Sex & Friendship Advice 20:43

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7d ago20:43

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Koaty and Sumner Blayne are taking In Bed With Koaty and Sumner overseas—podcasting from a bed in Japan while Koaty’s on a work trip. After a quick life update, we debut our brand-new segment, Blayne It On Us, where listeners send anonymous confessions and questions about relationships, sex, friendship, money, and other gay topics. We respond with …

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Beyond the Bedroom: How Sex Toys Deepened Our Relationship 31:05

21d ago31:05

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This week, we’re diving deep—literally and emotionally. Koaty and Sumner open up about how adult toys transformed our sex life and brought us closer as a couple. From our first unrealistic dildo to designing our very own double penetration mold with Mr. Hankey’s Toys, this episode is all about pleasure, trust, and play. We’re talking: Why toys aren…

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Why Gay Men Feel Disconnected—And How to Fix It (w/ Dr. Hector) 55:52

28d ago55:52

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In this special “first-in-bed” episode, Koaty & Sumner welcome their first actual in-bed guest: psychiatrist, entrepreneur, and emotional edge-walker Dr. Hector. Together, they get real about why so many gay men struggle to feel emotionally connected—even in hyper-social, hyper-sexual spaces. From intimacy issues to trauma loops, hookup culture to …

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What is sex therapy with Dr. Chris Donaghue, author of Rebel Love 46:47

1M ago46:47

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This week, we’re in bed with the one and only Dr. Chris Donaghue—sex therapist, author, and queer truth-teller behind the book Rebel Love. We dive deep into the messy beauty of queer intimacy, ethical sex, and rewriting every outdated rule we’ve been told about love and relationships. From emotional differentiation to kinky exploration, Dr. Chris h…

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Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett 54:19

2M ago54:19

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We’re joined by therapist and author Tom Bruett, whose book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men has genuinely impacted our relationship. In this honest and vulnerable conversation, we dive deep into the two stages that rocked us the most: Differentiation and Exploration. We talk about what it really means to stay emotionally connected while be…

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Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties 40:54

2M ago40:54

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In this vulnerable and validating episode, Koaty shares the emotional journey behind cutting off his father—and the years of narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and betrayal that led up to it. We explore how hard it can be to draw boundaries with a parent, especially when manipulation is masked as love. From financial deception to emotional abuse, …

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Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay 53:09

2M ago53:09

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From church pews to OnlyFans views. In this episode, Sumner opens up about growing up Mormon—from blessing sacrament trays as a teenager to being interrogated by bishops about masturbation (yep, really). Koaty plays Mormon Mythbusters and finds out just how weird—and wildly repressive—Sumner’s childhood really was. We get into sex shame, secret Mor…

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The ICCAs, The Trophy, and The Trap of Comparison 29:38

3M ago29:38

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"Hey!!! We just got back from Puerto Vallarta, where we were nominated for three awards at the very first International Content Creator Awards (aka the ICCAs)… and we took home Best Podcast! 🏆 In this episode, we’re sharing all the highlights: from the content house vibes to the red carpet feels, and what it meant to be surrounded by so many creato…

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Do We Like It Tight or Loose? A Gay Fashion + Fetish Showdown 35:45

3M ago35:45

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Skinny jeans are out. Baggy cargos are in. Harnesses? Always timeless. In this episode, Sumner & Koaty Blayne dive headfirst into the messy, sexy, and sometimes downright busted world of gay men’s fashion. From growing up in skin-tight clubwear to navigating the oversized streetwear takeover, they spill all the tea.…

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We can’t circuit like we used to…and that’s ok! 37:00

3M ago37:00

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their full journey through circuit party culture—from wild weekends, outfit changes, and hookup chaos to burnout, boundaries, and slowing the hell down. We reflect on how the circuit brought us together, tested our relationship, boosted our OnlyFans, and eventually wore us out. We’re not anti-p…

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Kink 101: :Learning To Be Open-Minded 46:12

4M ago46:12

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their evolving relationship with kink, not as experts or full-time fetish freaks, but as a couple learning to be more curious, more communicative, and way less judgmental. We explore how getting older has made us more open to trying things we once avoided, and how shame can sneak into the bedro…

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AI & The Future of Sex: Are Robots Replacing Romance? 27:24

5M ago27:24

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In this spicy and thought-provoking episode of In Bed with Koaty and Sumner, we’re diving into the wild world of AI, sexbots, and the future of intimacy. As technology advances, virtual partners and hyper-realistic sex dolls are shaking up relationships—so where do we draw the line? We explore whether AI companions are enhancing or replacing real h…

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11 Collabs in 7 Days, Koatys First Content House! 26:17

6M ago26:17

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Season 2 of In Bed with Koaty & Sum kicks off with a bang! We’re diving into one of the wildest, most productive weeks Koaty has ever had! For seven days leading up to the GAYVN Awards in Las Vegas, he stayed in a content house with some of the biggest OnlyFans creators—all set up by his agent. His goal? To film 11 collabs. But, of course, things d…

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Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship 17:03

8M ago17:03

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In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need it, the highs and lows of our sex drives, and how we’ve learned to balance and meet each other’s needs. We also get real about the challenges—what happens when one of us feels like it’s not enough or w…

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Bottoming Should Be Fun 21:19

9M ago21:19

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On this episode, the couple dives deep into the art of maximizing your experience as a bottom. From preparation tips and mindset shifts to their favorite techniques for enhancing pleasure, they share honest, uncensored advice based on their own experiences. They also discuss how communication, trust, and self-awareness can elevate your confidence i…

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How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship 28:59

9M ago28:59

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner dive into the complexities of life as a gay couple in the spotlight. They discuss navigating the highs and lows of being a social media duo, their experiences filming threesomes and exploring studio adult content with SeanCody, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional dynamics. Reflecting on their …

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Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy 29:47

9M ago29:47

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Hey everyone, it’s Koaty and Sumner, and on this episode, we’re getting real (and a little cheeky) about something that affects way more people than you’d think: erectile dysfunction! We’re diving into ED myths, true-or-false games, and some fun facts that you probably haven’t heard before. Whether you’re curious, concerned, or just here for the la…

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How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue 34:59

10M ago34:59

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We are beyond excited to share that we’ve officially chosen Villa de Amore as the perfect venue for our wedding! In this video, we’re taking you inside our wedding planning process as a gay couple, sharing all the details about why this venue spoke to us and how we’re organizing every step to create our dream LGBTQ+ wedding. If you’re looking for w…

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Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy 30:59

10M ago30:59

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We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions we get—how do we make an ‘open-ish’ relationship work? For us, the answer is simple: we’re emotionally monogamous but sexually open. We’ve figured out how to maintain deep love and t…

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DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars 12:49

10M ago12:49

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In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest stigmas surrounding the porn industry that we’ve faced personally. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and judgment out there, and we want to set the record straight. From misconceptions about relationships and intimacy to the stereotypes people still cling to, we’re here to share our experiences…

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Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie 36:52

11M ago36:52

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner sit down with Kazumi and her boyfriend Reggie to dive deep into the dynamics of open relationships, comparing the experiences of gay vs straight couples. We explore how navigating an open relationship intersects with working in the adult content industry, sharing our own stories and tips on maintaining trust, bound…

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Hooking up with a 3rd vs a Couple, Jealousy Vs Envy 10:11

11M ago10:11

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In this episode, we dive into the fun and sometimes complex dynamics of our open relationship, sharing whether we prefer hooking up with a third person or exploring with other couples. While bringing others into our relationship has always been part of the excitement, we reveal our personal preferences and how they shape our experiences together. U…

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Dealing with Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom 12:31

11M ago12:31

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In this episode, we open up about our own experiences with performance anxiety in the bedroom, especially during those one-night stands and small flings from our past. We've both felt the pressure to perform, and we think it's time to normalize talking about it. By sharing these moments, we want to show that performance anxiety is more common than …