Wouldn’t it be great if your child came with an owner’s manual? A how-to book on how to raise your child? And if your child came with such a manual, wouldn’t it be helpful to have someone walk you through it, making that owner’s manual come alive? Michael Gurian and Tim Wright serve as your guides through what they believe is the owner’s manual for your child: Your child’s brain. While the brain doesn’t tell the whole story, it does offer a treasure trove of insights into your son or daughte ...
…
continue reading
Michael Gurian Podcasts
True You Podcast is all about reconnecting with your authentic self—the version of you that’s in flow, where life feels effortless and aligned. In moments of struggle, when everything feels like an uphill battle, it's a sign you've lost touch with your true self. Through deep conversations and personal insights, we explore what it takes to stay in alignment, create harmony, and live as the true you—most of the time, not just by accident.
…
continue reading
Real Talk about Parenting, Teaching, and Reaching Tomorrow’s Men
…
continue reading
In this episode, join Marty and Bill as they welcome a special guest, Dr. Michael Gurian, a New York Times bestselling author and renowned expert in brain science, gender differences, and child development. They engage in an insightful discussion about the intersections of nature, nurture, and culture, the impact of trauma on self-identity, and the…
…
continue reading

1
Is Our Obsession with Feelings Good for Our Kids
36:38
36:38
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
36:38Michael makes the argument that while it's good to help kids identify their feelings, what's more important is how they act on them/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Marty and Bill welcome a special guest, Jae Geller, an IFS Informed Learning collaborator who shares the inspiring story behind merging Internal Family Systems (IFS) and u-lab's Theory U for Self-led leadership. Jae offers insights on the free online u-lab course from the Presencing Institute, its impact on global communities, and …
…
continue reading

1
Best of: Listener’s Questions—Boys and Hitting
35:02
35:02
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:02From August, 2020: Two moms write in about challenges around their young boys and hitting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
Tim tells a personal story about fracturing his foot while training to walk a half marathon with his grandson, leading to the topic: How to help our kids handle disappointment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty welcome Barti Bourgault, an esteemed executive coach and healer, to explore integral aspects of the healing journey. Barti, who holds a PCC credential from the International Coaching Federation, shares her personal path of self-discovery and healing, and discusses the intricate blend of coaching, mindfulness, and IFS…
…
continue reading
From August, 2021: Teenagers! A mom requests an episode on the unique challenges teens face as they grow up in this new world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
The Power of Grandparents with Guest Ted Page
39:42
39:42
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
39:42Grandpa and author of "Good Grandpa," Ted Page, joins the podcast to talk about the unique role grandparents can play in raising kids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
From December, 2021: Sports Parents. Michael and Tim offer practical advice for being sports parents while nurturing the nature of your child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Rewiring the Parenting Manual in our Brains
35:02
35:02
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:02Michael and Tim respond to a listener's concern about parenting her children as the victim of childhood abuse. Michael offers person insights from his own story as a survivor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty focus on the intriguing topic of complaints. Bill introduces the concept as the 'gifted complaint' and explores how addressing our inner complaints through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) can uncover deeper truths and bring about emotional healing. Martin shares a personal experience from his own coaching s…
…
continue reading
From October, 2021: Other Kids’ Parents. A mom wants to know how to set boundaries when other kids play at her house. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
The Power of Hope with Guest Neil Bierbaum
36:51
36:51
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
36:51Neil Bierbaum joins the podcast from South Africa to talk about the importance of building hope in our kids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Episode 24: The Internal War and Compulsions
35:43
35:43
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:43In this episode, Bill shares his journey inspired by Mary O'Malley's book 'The Gift of Our Compulsions,' discussing how compulsions, whether smoking, drinking, or overeating, have impacted his life. Bill explores the concept of Internal Family Systems (IFS), highlighting the importance of becoming friends with the parts of us driven by compulsions.…
…
continue reading

151
Best Of: Phobias and Other Scary Things
33:06
33:06
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
33:06From September, 2021: Phobias and Other Scary Things. A mom writes in about her daughter’s fear of needles. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Listener Question: Teens, Food, and Eating! Oh My!
35:52
35:52
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:52A mom, who raised her daughter to eat healthy foods, is frustrated that now, at 13, her daughter seems to only be eating junk food. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Boys are from Mars, Girls are from Venus with Dr. John Gray
42:42
42:42
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
42:42Michael and Tim are joined by best-selling author of Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, Dr. John Gray, to apply his insights into raising our sons and daughters. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty contrast their coaching approaches and explore the nuances of being present in both personal and professional settings. The discussion meanders through intriguing topics such as the role of unconscious choices, the impact of beliefs and past experiences, and techniques for achieving mindfulness and self-leadership. T…
…
continue reading

1
"Best of" My Kids Have a New Sibling on the Way
29:08
29:08
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
29:08From June, 2021: My Kids Have a New Sibling on the Way. A mom asks how to navigate the soon birth of her third child with her other two children, all of whom will be under the age of 4. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
A mom writes in grieving the change in her daughter and their relationship as her daughter moves into puberty. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty welcome Jaime Konzelman, former Chief Revenue Officer and accomplished triathlete. Jaime shares her incredible journey from hiding her past as a dancer to becoming a powerhouse in the corporate world, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Listen in for Jamie's unique insights on personal alignment, d…
…
continue reading

1
"Best Of" What Should I Teach My Boys About How to Treat Girls?
31:14
31:14
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
31:14From March, 2021: Listener Question: What Should I Teach My Boys About How to Treat Girls? This mom writes: how do I raise my boys to believe girls shouldn’t be seen or treated any differently but also they actually should treat girls differently in some ways? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…
…
continue reading

1
Reading: It Does a Brain Good with Guest Doug Lemov
35:36
35:36
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:36Tim is joined by author Doug Lemov who dives into the science of reading and why reading is essential for our kids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss the importance of getting clarity on what you truly want in life. They explore why many people struggle with this clarity, often focusing more on what they don't want. Through personal anecdotes and professional experiences, both coaches share valuable techniques for establishing clear objectives, navigating …
…
continue reading

1
End of July Bonus Episode: Back To School Tech Tips
33:11
33:11
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
33:11As kids get ready to go back to school, guest Jen Kelman, LCSW, offers some strategies for managing screen time and school responsibilities. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Building Perseverance in our Kids-Listener Question
33:14
33:14
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
33:14A mom writes in with a question everyone parent asks at some point--when do I push my child to keep trying and when do I let it go? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty share personal stories and insights about anxiety, its roots in fear, and how to manage it effectively. Bill recounts his lifelong battle with anxiety and how he found solace and transformation through various methods, including internal family systems and the Byron Katie method. Marty complements the discussion with…
…
continue reading
From August, 2022: Reading With Your Kids. Michael and Tim are joined by Jed Doherty to talk about the importance of reading with our kids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
A Pathway to Manhood with Guest Paul Cumbo
34:03
34:03
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
34:03Michael and Tim are joined by author and educator Paul Cumbo who shares insights from his new book, A Pathway to Manhood as we continue our mini-series on Helping Boys Thrive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the impact of impatience in our lives and the role of AI in addressing heart-centered coaching. Marty shares a personal story about dealing with roofing contractors that illustrates the challenges of managing impatience and how feelings of respect and powerlessness play into our reactions. The duo also discus…
…
continue reading
From May of 2022: The Sassy Daughter. A mom writes in about her 10 year old daughter whose behavior is causing concern in the family. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
Nick Isles, of the newly formed Centre for Policy Research on Men and Boys in the UK joins the show to talk about the issues of boys from a UK perspective. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Marty and Bill discuss the importance of constant growth and personal development. Bill talks about his past experiences, including his journey of sobriety, and how personal growth has been a pivotal part of his life. They explore the concept of maintaining personal development and the pitfalls of simply trying to maintain without …
…
continue reading
From November 2020: Tim asks Michael about some of the key issues girls face today and how we as parents can support them and help them thrive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Screens, Play, and the Magic of the Outdoors with Guest Susie Spikol
37:04
37:04
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
37:04Author and Naturalist Susie Spikol joins the podcast to offer creative, imaginative ways to get our kids outside and why it's good for their brains. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty unpack what it means to be Self-led as a person, a business, and even a society. They explore how trauma shapes our inner parts, how self-awareness begins, and why lasting recovery is about healing what's underneath addiction. Bill shares his personal experience with 12-step recovery, the shift that happened through …
…
continue reading
From September 20, 2018. The second episode of the show. What Are Girls Made Of? Michael Gurian and Tim Wright take the 30,000 foot view of a girl’s brain and some of the insights it can give you for raising your daughter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
Michael and Tim look at the challenges our boys have in expressing their emotional challenges and how we can help them thrive in the midst of them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, hosts Bill and Marty explore their unique approaches to coaching. Bill shares his experience with Internal Family Systems (IFS) and his Compassionate Results Guidebook, while Marty discusses his ontological leadership coaching. Together, they address how trauma affects everyone and the transformation possible through IFS and other …
…
continue reading

1
Best Of: Listener Question: How Do I Talk about Death and Dying to my Kids?
32:09
32:09
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
32:09From September, 2020: A mom asks how she can talk about dying and death with her four year old. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
The Manosphere and Boys with guest Rachel Hale
28:39
28:39
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
28:39USAToday journalist Rachel Hale joins the show to offer insights into the manosphere and how to protect our boys from it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Episode 15: Cancel Culture - Beliefs, Fears, and Values
48:54
48:54
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
48:54In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the complexities of living authentically in the era of cancel culture and how societal pressures and fears impact our ability to express our true selves. They share personal stories and analyze the historical context of belief systems affecting today's world. The conversation also touches on the potential of …
…
continue reading

1
Best Of: Listener Question: Is This What Puberty Looks Like?
33:36
33:36
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
33:36From November, 2020: A mom writes in about her 10 year old son and how his behavior seems to be changing. She wonders what might be puberty and what might be other issues. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Grandfatherly Advice for Dads with Guest Ted Page
37:32
37:32
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
37:32Ted Page, author of the new book, Good Grandpa, joins Michael and Tim as they offer wisdom to dads. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode of the True You Podcast, hosts Bill Tierney and Marty chat with special guest Jerry Waxler, a seasoned therapist and memoir writer. They explore Jerry's journey from addiction recovery to becoming a memoir coach. Jerry emphasizes the therapeutic power of memoir writing, its ability to reframe past experiences, articulate emotions, a…
…
continue reading
From June 2019: Michael and Tim talk about their dads and about their lives as dads with an emphasis on what makes dads special. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
Most of what we hear about masculinity has to do with toughness, toxicity, and being the alpha male. Michael suggests that the male brain is actually quite fragile and that our call is to build boys who are compassionate and resilient. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading
In this episode, Bill and Marty engage in a deep conversation with guests Pau Wojnar and Alex Pedori of IFS Collective. They discuss the nuances of relationships, the importance of communication, and their unique techniques for navigating misunderstandings. Pau shares insights from his work as a trauma-informed coach and his background in ethnograp…
…
continue reading

1
Best Of: Listener Question: The Vaping Son
31:41
31:41
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
31:41From September, 2020: A mom writes concerned about her 13 year son who is consistently lying about his behavior. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading

1
Helping Boys Thrive in School with guest Daniel Parlato
41:21
41:21
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
41:21Michael and Tim are joined by teacher Daniel Parlato to look at why boys are falling behind in school and strategies for helping them thrive throughout their educational experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Parenting
…
continue reading