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How to Manage Grief During the Holiday Season, Encore Episode
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17:58Enjoy this encore episode about how to manage grief during the holidays with Harbor Hospice chaplain and bereavement counselor, Polly Stock. For many people the holidays are not a season of joy and cheer, but a time of grief and sadness. Holidays are times when families come together and the death of an important person in the family can make holid…
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Timely Tips on Ways to Manage Grief at the Holidays, Encore Episode
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24:37Enjoy this encore episode about how to manage grief during the holidays with grief specialist Gary Roe. In this podcast episode featuring grief specialist Gary Roe, the discussion centers on managing grief during the holidays, a time often marked by intensified emotions for those experiencing loss. Here are the key points covered in the episode: Wh…
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Helpful Ways to Prepare for Dementia Caregiving
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12:26Author and dementia advocate Tracy Cram Perkins joins this episode of Lighting the Path to share the heart and purpose behind her book, Dementia Home Care: How to Prepare Before, During, and After. Inspired by a moving comment from her father, Tracy walks listeners through what it means to truly prepare for the dementia caregiving journey. She expl…
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How to Prepare Before, During, and After Dementia Care
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17:09In this episode Jerry welcomes Tracy Cram Perkins, author of Dementia Home Care: How to Prepare Before, During, and After. Tracy describes what it was like to be thrust into the role of caregiver—first for one loved one, and eventually for four family members living with dementia or Alzheimer's disease. Drawing from years of firsthand experience, s…
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How to Find the Right Senior Living Option for Your Loved One
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19:12In this episode of Lighting the Path, Jerry sits down with Shari Ross, a senior living specialist and author of Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E.. Shari brings years of experience helping families navigate the difficult — and often emotional — decisions about finding the right living environment for their senior loved ones. Her book uses the acronym …
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The Truth About Combining Senior Care and Hospice Care
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26:17In this episode Shari Ross breaks down the biggest myths and misconceptions about senior living, providing clarity and reassurance for families facing difficult choices. Drawing from her personal experiences helping her own parents and in-laws, Shari shares practical strategies—including how to approach honest conversations about advance directives…
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Navigating Transition With Faith: Insights From Author Larry W. Robinson
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20:22In this touching episode, guest Larry W. Robinson—renowned faith-based media personality and author of Sacred Steps, A Faith-Filled Journey Through Transition into Eternity—offers a deeply personal account of his mother's final chapter and the powerful legacy she leaves behind. Larry shares how his mother's journey led her to Harbor Hospice in Lake…
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From Stress to Support: Practical Help and Inspiration for Caregivers
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23:19Debbie Compton, caregiver advocate, author, and founder of The Purple Vine, joins Lighting the Path to share her story and expertise. In this episode, Debbie discusses how her experience as a caregiver sparked the creation of The Purple Vine and explains the meaningful inspiration behind its name. She highlights the resources available on her websi…
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Caring for Aging Parents: Expert Tips and Inspiring Caregiver Journey
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23:05In this episode, we're joined by Debbie Compton—author, caregiving advocate, and the founder of The Purple Vine. Debbie brings compassion and hard-won wisdom from years spent caring for her father, her mother, and her mother-in-law. Debbie opens up about the personal journey that led her to leave her job in order to become a full-time caregiver. Li…
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Real World Answers on How to be a Successful Caregiver
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17:25Episode Overview In this enlightening episode, Dr. Barry Jacobs shares his journey from clinical psychologist to widely-read AARP columnist and best-selling author. Dr. Jacobs discusses how he began collaborating with AARP and the path that led him to write a monthly column addressing the needs and struggles of caregivers across the country. Togeth…
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Valuable Insights From the AARP Caregiver Answer Book
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16:47In this episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter welcomes Dr. Julia Mayer, a seasoned psychotherapist and co-author of the newly published The AARP Caregiver Answer Book, written with her husband, Dr. Barry Jacobs. Dr. Mayer brings her extensive expertise to offer a comprehensive look at the caregiving journey—from its challenging beginnings…
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What to Know About the Realities of Caregiving with Dr. Barry Jacobs
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19:26In this episode of Lighting the Path, we welcome Dr. Barry Jacobs, a clinical psychologist and acclaimed writer for AARP, known for his expertise on caregiving issues. Dr. Jacobs brings a unique perspective, blending his professional background with his deeply personal journey as a caregiver. Join us as Dr. Jacobs opens up about the complexities of…
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Caregiver Support and Real-Life Advice From Dr. Julia Mayer
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20:29In this insightful episode, Jerry sits down with Dr. Julia Mayer, a clinical psychologist specializing in women's issues and caregiver support. Drawing from both her professional expertise and lived experience, Dr. Mayer opens up about the unique challenges, emotional complexities, and unexpected rewards of caregiving. The discussion includes, The …
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Inside the Alzheimer's Association: Help, Hope, and How to Get Involved
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14:33In this episode, we sit down with Shanna Briggs, Regional Manager for the Southeast Texas chapter of the Alzheimer's Association. Shanna shares a comprehensive look at the wide range of resources the Association offers to individuals and families impacted by Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. Key topics covered: Caregiver Support: Shanna high…
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How One Family Navigated a Unique and Challenging Caregiving Journey
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17:07In this heartfelt episode, we welcome Shanna Briggs, the Southeast Texas Regional Manager for the Alzheimer's Association. Shanna opens up about her deeply personal journey as a caregiver for her mother, who was diagnosed with a rare form of dementia. She shares the challenges and rewards of being a "sandwich caregiver," balancing the responsibilit…
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How to Reduce Caregiver Stress Using the DAWN Method
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17:46In this episode, we welcome Jill Couch, a DAWN Dementia Care Specialist, Trainer, and Occupational Therapist, who brings years of expertise helping families and professionals navigate the challenges of dementia care. Jill explains how the DAWN Method offers a strength-based, person-centered approach that transforms the caregiving experience for bot…
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Better Dementia Care: Insights and Advice From Expert Jill Couch
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21:39In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we sit down with Jill Couch, a dementia care specialist, DAWN Method trainer, and founder of Better People Care. Jill shares her personal journey into dementia care, sparked by her experiences as a caregiver for her father, who recently passed away after living with dementia for several years. Jill opens up…
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How to Navigate Caregiving with Dementia Darling Carrie Aalberts
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15:35In this episode, we welcome Carrie Aalberts, also known as The Dementia Darling, to discuss her work in gerontology and dementia care. Carrie, the founder of Dementia Darling, provides valuable resources, speaking engagements, and consulting services for both private and professional caregivers. Episode Highlights: Carrie shares her journey into ge…
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Dementia Darling Reveals the Practical Realities of Caregiving
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18:31In this episode, we welcome Carrie Aalberts, widely known as The Dementia Darling, to share her inspiring journey in the field of dementia care and support. Carrie shares her expertise, personal experiences, and the mission behind Dementia Darling, offering valuable insights for anyone touched by dementia care. Carrie recounts her pre-teen experien…
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Learn About the Beautiful Work of the Hospice Volunteer
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26:36In this episode, we explore the world of hospice volunteering with Deanna Sonnier, the volunteer coordinator for Harbor Hospice of Beaumont. With 14 years of experience, Deanna shares valuable insights into the roles of hospice volunteers and the process of becoming one. Key Points Volunteer Roles: Hospice volunteers can contribute in various ways,…
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From Struggle to Support: One Caregiver's Mission to Empower Others
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18:32In this powerful episode, we welcome Sheralin Samuels, a dedicated caregiver who shares her personal journey of caring for her mother with early-onset Alzheimer's. Sheralin opens up about the challenges of balancing her caregiving responsibilities with raising two young children, maintaining her marriage, and working full-time. She offers valuable …
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Alzheimer's Care From the Heart: A Caregiver's Candid Perspective
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26:36In this episode, we welcome Sheralin Samuels, a dedicated caregiver and medical professional, who shares her personal journey of caring for her mother diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's disease. Sheralin's story highlights the challenges of recognizing the disease at a young age and the profound impact it has on families. She reflects on how sh…
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Our Exceptional Hospice Professionals Share Their Insights and Perspectives
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21:12In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Hope Nelson, office coordinator in Oakdale, Louisiana Genevieve Himes, volunteer coordinator in Victoria, Texas Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights …
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How to Navigate Feelings of Guilt and Regret in Grief
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21:35In this episode, grief specialist Gary Roe discusses how survivors can manage feelings of guilt after the death of a loved one. Roe explores the difference between guilt and regret and offers methods for finding forgiveness and reducing emotional baggage. Guilt vs. Regret Roe explains that while often used interchangeably, guilt and regret are dist…
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The Enormous Effect of Grief on Personal Relationships
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23:20In this episode, we welcome grief specialist Gary Roe, author of several books on grief, to discuss how loss impacts relationships. Gary shares insights from his extensive experience and personal journey with grief. This episode offers valuable insights for those navigating grief and its effects on past, present, and future relationships. Listeners…
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Timely Tips on Ways to Manage Grief at the Holidays
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23:46In this podcast episode featuring grief specialist Gary Roe, the discussion centers on managing grief during the holidays, a time often marked by intensified emotions for those experiencing loss. Here are the key points covered in the episode: Why Grief Intensifies During the Holidays Emotional Triggers: The holidays can amplify feelings of grief d…
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Our Exceptional Hospice Professionals Share Their Insight and Perspectives, Part 3
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16:45In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Dina Stepan, receptionist Carey Davis, social worker Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful field. To…
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How to Cope With Grief During the Holidays
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17:32As the holiday season approaches, many individuals find themselves grappling with grief and sadness rather than experiencing the traditional joy and cheer. The holidays, typically a time for family gatherings, can feel particularly heavy when a significant family member is no longer present. In this replay episode, Polly Stock, the Bereavement Coor…
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Susanne White Offers Timely, Helpful Support to Tired Caregivers
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19:17In this episode, host Jerry Fenter interviews Susanne White, founder of Caregiver Warrior. As a family caregiver with personal experience, Susanne has created an organization dedicated to supporting the family caregiver. Tune in for invaluable insights and encouragement for caregivers everywhere! Episode Highlights: Inspiration for Caregiver Warrio…
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An Experienced Caregiver Reveals Valuable Life Lessons She Learned
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25:29In this episode, we welcome Susanne White, who dedicated a decade to caring for her family members, including four years for both of her parents, who passed away just seven weeks apart. Susanne opens up about her transformative caregiving journey, sharing invaluable lessons learned along the way. She hopes to empower fellow caregivers, offering hop…
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Our Exceptional Hospice Professionals Share Their Insight and Perspective, Part 2
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15:09In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Shannon Britan, RN Case Manager Erica Sanchez, RN Case Manager Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful…
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Our Exceptional Hospice Professionals Share Their Insight and Perspective, Part 1
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17:41In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Shawna Sibley, Hospice Administrator Graham Paterson, Hospice Spiritual Counselor Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career…
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Empowering Caregivers: The Daughterhood Journey with Rosanne Corcoran
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15:49In this episode, we welcome Rosanne Corcoran, host of Daughterhood: The Podcast for Caregivers and a recognized advocate for aging. Rosanne shares the inspiring story behind Daughterhood, a vital resource for caregivers, and discusses how her personal caregiving experience was helped by this supportive community. Rosanne brings her wealth of experi…
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The Caregiving Journey: Lessons from 12 Years With Mom
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20:16In this episode of Lighting the Path, Rosanne Corcoran shares her transformative journey through 12 years of caregiving for her mother with dementia. Rosanne discusses the emotional and practical challenges she faced, the lessons learned, and the importance of community and support for caregivers. Listeners will gain valuable insights into navigati…
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Providing Practical Support for Caregivers When it's Needed the Most
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18:01In this episode, we explore the vital role of caregiver support groups in helping family caregivers manage the multifaceted stresses of caring for a loved one with a life-limiting illness. Our guest, John Wayland, a spiritual counselor and facilitator for a caregiver support group at Harbor Hospice, shares his insights and experiences on the practi…
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Precious Time: A Practical Guide to Compassionate End of Life Communication
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13:07Jennifer O'Brien, author of The Hospice Doctor's Widow, joins us to discuss her experiences and resources for caregivers and those facing end-of-life situations. Key points from the interview: - Jennifer created "Precious Time," a resource to help healthcare professionals communicate effectively about end-of-life situations. - She discusses the con…
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The At Peace Toolkit is a Helpful Resource for Everyone
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20:29Jennifer O'Brien, author of "The Hospice Doctor's Widow," returns to discuss her free "At Peace Toolkit" in this episode. This essential resource, available at hospicedrswidow.com, guides individuals through simple yet crucial steps for end-of-life planning. The At Peace Toolkit offers: - A streamlined approach to end-of-life preparations - Potenti…
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A Practical Look at Caregiving From the Hospice Doctor's Widow
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20:33In this episode, we delve into the poignant and insightful journey chronicled in Jennifer A. O'Brien's book, The Hospice Doctor's Widow: A Journal. Jennifer shares her deeply personal experience of caring for her husband, Bob, a hospice and palliative care physician diagnosed with advanced metastatic cancer. This episode is a heartfelt exploration …
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Companioning: An Essential Quality for Hospice Professionals
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20:45Rev. Dr. Rodney Bolejack emphasizes that "Companioning" is a crucial quality for hospice professionals. In this episode, he outlines the key principles necessary to be a truly supportive companion for someone nearing the end of life, highlighting that it involves more than just physical presence. Personal caregivers and hospice professionals alike …
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The Value and Power of Conferences for Hospice Professionals
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21:03Learning and growing as a professional is important in any field, including hospice and palliative care. In this episode Rev. Dr. Rodney Bolejack shares the messages he presented to a conference of hospice chaplains for Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice. Rodney has been working in hospice for over 30 years and has spent many of those years teaching…
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Elizabeth Uslander, MSW, Shares the Important Concept of Transformational Grief
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18:02Elizabeth Uslander is a medical social worker and the spiritual director of Empowered Endings. Elizabeth has also been a bereavement counselor using the concept of "transformational grief" to aid individuals who have experienced losses and help them discover ways of finding meaning. In this episode she will dive deep into this important concept of …
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Elizabeth Uslander Believes Spirituality is Medicine for the Soul
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19:53Elizabeth Uslander is a medical social worker and a spiritual counselor, and the co-founder of Empowered Endings with her husband, Dr. Bob Uslander. In this episode Elizabeth shares how spirituality and spiritual practices can be medicine for the soul. She believes this is especially true for someone at the end of life. She also discusses how spiri…
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Dr. Bob Uslander Shares How to Make Difficult Conversations Easier
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25:07In the current culture, conversations about death are often avoided, but Dr. Bob Uslander shines a light on the importance of embracing these discussions with openness and empathy. As the founder of Empowered Endings and a physician of 30 years specializing in end-of-life care, Dr. Uslander brings a wealth of experience and wisdom about how to make…
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How to Create an Advance Care Plan with Dr. Bob Uslander
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23:27Navigating the complexities of end-of-life decisions can be daunting. In this episode Dr. Bob Uslander will shed light on the importance of proactive planning and how it can empower individuals and families during the critical moments at end of life. Dr. Uslander brings a wealth of expertise and compassion to the podcast, with over 30 years of expe…
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Harbor Foundation Announces New Student Scholarships
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12:05Since 2005, the Harbor Foundation has been assisting hospice patients and their families through hardship grants. These grants cover essential expenses such as electricity bills, appliances, and rent, all aimed at ensuring the comfort of hospice patients. The Harbor Foundation is expanding its support by offering scholarships to nursing students an…
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A Unique Tool to Make the Uncomfortable Conversations Easier
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16:53Despite the fact that most end of life professionals work with people who are nearing death, it's sometimes uncomfortable for them to discuss death and dying with the patient or family. Lisa Pahl is a hospice social worker and understands the challenge of uncomfortable conversations, so she and her creative partner, Lori LoCicero, created a spinoff…
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A Unique Way to Talk About Death: The Death Deck Game
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20:02Most of us are uncomfortable talking about death, whether it's our death or the death of someone we love. Death will eventually affect everyone, however, and it's better to be prepared for it. If you have difficulty having a conversation with the people you are close to about your end of life wishes, there's a game that can help make it easier. The…
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Grief Counseling is One of the Hidden Benefits of Hospice
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11:10Hospice does more than just provide care to a person who is facing the end of their life, we also help those who are close to this person, both before and after the person's death. Hospice is also there to provide grief support, through grief counseling and grief therapy. In fact, most hospices will provide some level of grief support for up to a y…
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The Most Useful Tips for Creating Your Advance Care Plan
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11:36One of the priorities of every hospice team member is to help prepare the patient and family for whatever might happen in the future. We want them to be as prepared as possible, and one of the ways we do that is by helping them to create advance care planning documents. To provide information and assistance about how to create advance care plans is…
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What Happens When Hospice Professionals Experience Personal Grief
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15:14Maryclaire Torinus is a hospice chaplain serving in her home state of Wisconsin. She is our first external guest on Lighting the Path. As a professional hospice provider Maryclaire experienced a very personal grief event when her husband died. Maryclaire shares how this experience affected her as a hospice professional. Our thanks to Maryclaire for…
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