Best jay@podshape.com Podcasts (2025)

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170. The Partner, the Funeral, and the Fallout: The Side to Grief No One Talks About 10:55

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15h ago10:55

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On this Bestie Advice segment, we hear from a listener navigating grief and family conflict after losing her dad. When his partner of two years takes over the funeral, the headstone, and the memorial space, leaving his children shut out, how do you move through anger, betrayal, and the feeling that your dad’s memory is being rewritten? See omnystud…

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169. Things to Check Before I say YES: The People Pleasers Manual 25:52

3d ago25:52

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On this episode of She Rises: We’re talking to the women who say yes before they’ve even taken a breath. The recovering people pleasers, peacekeepers, and approval-seekers who are finally ready to choose themselves first. In this episode, we walk you through the questions to ask before you say yes... the kind that protect your time, your peace, and…

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168. Co-Parenting Chaos: Tinder, Truths & Uncomfortable Conversations 7:09

4d ago7:09

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On this week’s Bestie Advice segment, we unpack a co-parenting dilemma that puts one mum in a tough spot: her daughter has discovered dad on Tinder… while he’s in a relationship. How do you support your child, keep healthy boundaries, and decide whether to stay silent or speak up? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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The Fastest Bike Rider in Bluegum Bay 4:46

4d ago4:46

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Join us for a heartwarming children’s story about Milo, a young bike rider who dreams of being the fastest in town. But when he stops mid-race to help a friend in need, he discovers that kindness is the greatest victory of all. A gentle tale about courage, compassion, and what it really means to win. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informat…

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Aaron Matters... 2093 days missing 1:03:42

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In this episode of The Missing Matter, Sally sits down with Aaron Clear’s sister, Cassandra, to uncover the story behind her brother’s disappearance. Aaron vanished in early 2020, leaving behind only fragments of a life and a family searching for answers. Cassandra shares who Aaron was beyond the missing person posters his childhood, his struggles,…

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167. Unblocking Your Orgasm: Safety, Surrender & Self-Trust 29:50

5d ago29:50

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On this episode of She Rises... We’re having the conversation no one is having out loud… sex, shame, and the fear of fully surrendering to pleasure. F or so many women, orgasm isn’t just physical… it’s emotional and energetic. It’s the point where control meets vulnerability, and that’s where most of us freeze. In this episode, we unpack how shame,…

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166. Infidelity, Friendships & a Messed-Up Moral Compass: Is Girl Code Dead? 14:09

8d ago14:09

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On this Bestie Advice segment, we dive into a listener’s raw and messy story of betrayal, sisterhood, and blurred morals. What do you do when the “other woman” is painted as the victim… and you, the betrayed partner, are left carrying the blame? Tune in to hear this week's submission! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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165. Jealousy, Triggers & Truth: The Real Conversation No One Wants to Have 33:14

10d ago33:14

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On this episode of She Rises... We’re talking about the emotion no one wants to admit: *jealousy.* The kind that shows up quietly in your friendships, relationships, or while scrolling social media. Instead of judging it, we’re normalising it. We dive into how to recognise jealousy as a mirror, not a flaw… and use it to understand what you truly de…

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The Secret Happy Place - Ingrid from Northcote 5:39

10d ago5:39

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When adventure-loving April hears a mysterious crash inside her house, she discovers something extraordinary — a hidden door that leads to an entirely new dimension filled with magical creatures, floating islands and a new alien friend named Keira. But when her mum unexpectedly appears at the secret doorway, April learns that everyone needs a speci…

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164. Can Saying Sorry Heal a 12-Year Friendship Gone Wrong? 8:22

11d ago8:22

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On this episode of Bestie Advice, we unpack a listener’s dilemma about a friendship that ended years ago and the unexpected twist that’s forcing her to face it head-on. Should she knock on the door, apologise, and risk reopening old wounds… or leave the past in the past? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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Search Dog Sydney - Chris D'Arcy 55:51

12d ago55:51

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In this episode of The Missing Matter, Sally sits down with her friend Chris D'Arcy, the lead behind Search Dog Sydney, the volunteer team called in when families have run out of options. Chris and his dogs work some of Australia’s most heartbreaking cases, from long-term missing searches to human remains detection, stepping in where systems have f…

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163. How TO Stop Being The Nonchalant Girl: Owning Your BIGNESS 29:30

12d ago29:30

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On this episode we’re talking about the nonchalant girl act, the one where you pretend you don’t care, don’t need much, and don’t feel deeply… all because, somewhere along the way, you were taught that being “too much” meant being rejected. You learned to be easygoing, low-maintenance, chill… the girl who never complains, never asks for more, never…

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162. The Career Delimma: Fear & Financial Security or Money & Personal Freedom 8:05

15d ago8:05

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In this Bestie Advice episode, we dive into a powerful career dilemma many women face - staying in a role that no longer values you out of fear, or finding the courage to walk away in pursuit of freedom. How do you honour financial security while also honouring your self-respect? And when fear of the unknown keeps you stuck, how do you finally choo…

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161. Ashy’s Little Skeleton in the Closet - what she’s never told💰 👀💀✨ 19:07

17d ago19:07

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Ashy's lived a lot of lives, and one of them included being a 18 year old cheeky chapter of being a skimpy barmaid, the skeleton in her closet she once hid, from shame and fear of what everyone would say, but accepts it’s just a part of her story. It was wild, messy, character-building, and taught her more about confidence, boundaries, and backing …

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Christopher's Musical Detour - Christopher from Brunswick 6:21

17d ago6:21

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When Christopher receives a letter from his best friend Mark in Adelaide—inviting him to meet a brand-new kitten—he packs his favourite blue suitcase and sets off on a trip filled with excitement and airport wonders. But when he finally arrives, Christopher’s journey takes a hilarious detour! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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160. Constantly Misunderstood: “Why Does She Always Make Me the Bad Guy?” 7:50

18d ago7:50

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In today's Bestie Advice episode, we unpack a story about friendship, misunderstanding, and the pain of feeling constantly misrepresented. What do you do when a friend twists your kindness, makes you feel like the bad guy, and leaves you questioning if they truly see your heart? Do you forgive and let them back in; or finally walk away? See omnystu…

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159. Losing a Child, Luna 🌈 Jess’s Story of Heartbreak & Healing❤️‍🩹 1:08:28

19d ago1:08:28

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This episode contains themes of child loss, miscarriage/still birth and suicide. In this emotional episode, Jess Feeney shares her story of unimaginable loss - the sudden passing of her daughter Luna, a late miscarriage, the stillbirth of her son Nalu, and more recently the heartbreaking loss of her father Mike. She opens up with raw honesty about …

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Andrew Matters... 14,565 days missing 56:41

19d ago56:41

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In this episode of The Missing Matter, Sally uncovers the quiet, haunting disappearance of 18-year-old Andrew Inglis, who vanished from a Yamba caravan park in 1985 without a trace. What began as a normal summer holiday ended in one of Australia’s most overlooked missing-person mysteries no search, no inquest, no public appeal, and a family left in…

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159. Psoriasis, Skin Conditions & Shame: The Silent Battle of Skin Struggles 9:15

22d ago9:15

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In this Bestie Advice episode, we dive into the raw reality of living with psoriasis and other skin conditions: the shame, the insecurity, and the urge to hide when you don’t feel comfortable in your own skin. We unpack how physical struggles can take a toll on self-worth, intimacy, and confidence, and share advice on navigating the emotional weigh…

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158. The Alex Cooper Effect - The Controversial Woman That Lit A Fire Inside Us 🔥 13:49

24d ago13:49

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On today's She Rises episode, we take a closer look at Alexandra Cooper, the polarising voice who shook up the podcast world, landed multi-million-dollar deals, and proved that being bold, unapologetic, and multifaceted is a strength, not a weakness. We share what makes her different, the power of having an insatiable drive, and why successful wome…

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157. Self-Doubt, LOSS & Heartache: "How Do I Come Back From Heartbreak?!" 10:01

25d ago10:01

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In this Bestie Advice episode, we explore the raw reality of self-doubt, loss, and heartache - and what it really takes to find yourself again after life knocks you down. If you’ve ever wondered how to rebuild your spark and step back into your power, this is the conversation you need to hear. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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The DNA Matchmaker for the Missing : Dr Jodie Ward 1:02:33

26d ago1:02:33

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In this powerful and deeply informative episode of The Missing Matter, Sally sits down with forensic human identification specialist Dr. Jodie Ward, known by many as the matchmaker for the missing. Jodie led the AFP’s National DNA Program for Unidentified and Missing Persons, a groundbreaking initiative that uncovered answers for families left wait…

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156. Ashy vs The Internet: The Things People Actually Send Me🤦‍♀️🫠 24:31

26d ago24:31

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A raw, cheeky behind-the-screens episode where Ashy dives into the wild, unfiltered messages people actually send her online , sharing the humour, the honesty and the deeper truths behind it all, we respond and chat about it all - buckle in! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Podshape

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Sneak Peak for Our Little Edey Listeners 9:56

26d ago9:56

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In Our Little Edey, you’ve heard about disgraced former police officer Paul Reynolds, who took his own life while under investigation for grooming and child sexual offences. For almost three years, we’ve believed there was much more that needed to be examined, not only in how he handled this case, but across his nearly forty-year career with Tasman…

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155. The Marriage Pandemic: “How Do I Bring My Sexy Side Back After Years of Stress, Familiarity and Responsibility?” 12:05

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On this week’s Bestie Advice Segment, we’re talking about the silent struggle so many women face but rarely admit out loud… losing attraction in marriage. When stress, kids, businesses, and the weight of everyday life pile up, the spark that once felt effortless can vanish. Sex feels like a chore, desire disappears, and the seductive, playful versi…

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154. Cheating, Blame & Women Who Don’t Care: The Side Chick Who Stole My Family 10:54

1M ago10:54

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On today's Bestie Advice episode, we dive into a fiery anonymous submission that will hit home for so many women. Imagine building a family, raising a child, and trusting the man you’re with — only to have it all come crashing down because of another woman who knew he was taken and didn’t care. This story unpacks the anger, the heartbreak, and the …

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Bronwyn Matters... 11,848 days missing 1:04:16

1M ago1:04:16

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In this deeply personal episode of The Missing Matter, Sally sits down with Kim Marshall to share the story of her sister, Bronwyn Winfield, who has been missing for more than 11,848 days. Bronwyn was reported missing by her estranged husband 11 days after she was last seen in May 1993. Together, Kim and Sally walk through Bronwyn’s final months he…

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153. Grieving My Daughter: Suicide, Grief & Unimaginable Loss with Author Eslana Lower 50:28

1M ago50:28

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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode includes conversation around suicide. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode of She Rises Podcast, we sit down with author and resilience coach Eslana Lower to talk about her journey through unimaginable loss and the courage it takes to live and grieve at the same time. She shares the mindset shifts and practi…

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152. Blindsided in Love: How Do Let Go of The Future You Were Promised? 10:51

1M ago10:51

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On this Bestie Advice episode, we share an anonymous submission about being blindsided in love. What started as a connection full of warmth, care, and future promises ended suddenly and without explanation. This story explores the heartbreak of losing not just a person, but the future you thought was certain, and the painful question of how to let …

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151. What Women really mean part 2 16:09

1M ago16:09

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On this episode of She Rises, we are back with Part 2 of decoding the hidden language of women. You know the phrases… “I don’t need help,” “You pick the restaurant,” “We should catch up soon.” The ones that sound polite but carry a whole emotional thesis underneath. We go deeper into what women really mean, why we soften our truth, and how self-wor…

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150. Love, Lies & Louis Vuitton: The 7 Year Deception 6:09

1M ago6:09

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On Bestie Advice episode, we dive into a story that will have you questioning love, loyalty, and Louis Vuitton. Imagine being with someone for seven years only to discover you weren’t the girlfriend… you were the sponsor. From gut feelings ignored to bank statements that tell the real love story, this episode unpacks betrayal, audacity, and the sho…

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The Promise with Bryan Littlely 48:14

1M ago48:14

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More than 50 years after Joanne Ratcliffe and Kirste Gordon vanished from Adelaide Oval, journalist Bryan Littlely is still chasing their story not for headlines, but for a promise he made. After decades in newsrooms, Bryan left behind the daily grind to follow one of South Australia’s darkest mysteries. Now, with a small team of volunteers and the…

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149. What Women Really Mean Part 1 21:33

1M ago21:33

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On this week’s She Rises, we are translating the hidden language of women everywhere. You know those phrases like “I’m fine,” “Do whatever you want,” and “It’s okay, don’t worry” that absolutely do not mean what the words say? Yes. Those. We break down what women really mean, why we communicate in layers, and how emotional safety influences our ton…

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148. 2 children, 2 different fathers: Lost, scared & ALONE 11:24

1M ago11:24

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On this weeks bestie Advice segment.., we dive into the heartbreak of walking away from someone you still love, while carrying the weight of motherhood, shame, and the fear of being unworthy of love. Our listener shares her raw truth: raising two children with two different fathers, grieving the life she thought she’d have, and silently wondering i…

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Matty and the Magpie - James from Runaway Bay 4:25

2M ago4:25

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When ten-year-old Matty finds a hurt magpie on the edge of the local footy oval, his quick heart and gentle hands set out to make things right. In this heartwarming Aussie tale, we follow Matty’s journey to care for his new feathered friend, helping him heal and take flight once more. A story about kindness, courage, and the bond between humans and…

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147. Faking Happy: Did I choose the wrong person to Marry? 11:28

2M ago11:28

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On this week’s Bestie Advice, we unpack a listener’s raw submission: Did I choose the wrong person to marry? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Podshape

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Katie Matters... 7227 days missing 47:23

2M ago47:23

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In December 2005, 45-year-old Kathleen “Katie” O’Shea travelled from Melbourne to North Queensland to meet her first grandchild. She never arrived. Nearly twenty years later, Katie’s daughter Lily shares the story of her mother’s disappearance — a journey marked by unanswered questions, lost opportunities, and a family’s enduring hope for justice. …

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146. WE’RE BOTH GETTING PLASTIC SURGERY… 20:37

2M ago20:37

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On this week’s She Rises, we’re pulling the veil off one of the most taboo topics out there: plastic surgery. 💉 We get brutally honest about our own journeys — the insecurities that led us here, the whispers of shame, and the empowerment we’ve found along the way. Is surgery a mask for self-doubt or a declaration of self-love? In this raw conversat…

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145. Porn, Lies & Betrayal: Can Trust Ever Be Re-Built After Such a Betrayal? 10:35

2M ago10:35

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On this week's Bestie Advice segment.. we’re unpacking a story of betrayal inside a marriage… when a partner hides something for over a decade, and the truth finally comes out. How do you rebuild trust when the hurt runs deep? Can counselling and changed behaviour heal the wound, or does the shadow of betrayal always linger? We talk about honesty, …

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144. 5 Ways to Take up Space: Learn to Love Attention without Being Arrogant 21:03

2M ago21:03

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In 5 Ways to Take Up Space: Learn to Love Attention Without Being Arrogant, we break down how to step into the spotlight with confidence, grace, and self-worth. This isn’t about ego — it’s about releasing the fear of being “too much,” owning your presence, and learning to love the attention you deserve. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy infor…

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The Shiniest Shell - Sophie from Canberra 4:47

2M ago4:47

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When Lila the crab joins the Great Beach Treasure Hunt, she’s determined to finally outshine her best friend Penny the seahorse. But when a moment of danger puts friendship before winning, Lila discovers that the brightest treasures aren’t the ones we find—they’re the ones we share. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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143. I Didn’t Just Lose a Bridesmaid… I Lost a Best Friend 11:52

2M ago11:52

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On this week's Bestie Advice segment..... we’re unpacking what it feels like when a friend pulls away during one of the biggest moments of your life and you’re left wondering if it’s grief, distance, or the quiet end of a friendship. It’s tender, complicated, and so deeply relatable… Stick around for our most honest bestie advice. See omnystudio.co…

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Billy Matters... 14,721 days missing 51:14

2M ago51:14

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On June 17th, 1985, William “Billy” Steffen vanished from North Hobart, Tasmania, leaving behind two young children, a tent burned on the beach, and decades of unanswered questions. Forty years on, his daughter Susie shares her memories, grief, and determination to uncover what really happened to her dad. From lost police records to missed DNA matc…

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142. TRANSPARENCY: The Secret to Stronger Bonds & Preventing Relationship Breakdowns 25:08

2M ago25:08

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This week on She Rises podcast… we’re talking all things transparency…why it matters, how it prevents breakdowns, and what it really looks like in relationships, friendships, and business. We unpack the difference between being truthful and being truly transparent, how to approach hard conversations with reassurance first, and the wounds that make …

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142. Soft Girls in a Harsh World: How to Stop losing your Spark 12:16

2M ago12:16

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On this week's Bestie Advice segment..... we’re answering a message from a listener who’s feeling lost, anxious, and stuck in a school environment that doesn’t feel safe or supportive. She wants to feel like herself again… but doesn’t know where to start. Let’s talk about finding your people, rebuilding your confidence, and getting your spark back …

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141. Ugly truths, betrayal & Disapointment: Tijana breaks down 33:51

2M ago33:51

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TRIGGER WARNING this episode contains conversation about suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised. On this week’s She Rises, we talk Ugly Truths, Betrayal & Disappointment: the deep questions we rarely explore but expose on todays episode. we rip into the raw questions most of us avoid the wounds that still shape our choices, the betrayals…

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Leo Finds the Music Within - Nick from West End 4:36

2M ago4:36

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When Leo’s first guitar feels more like frustration than music, he almost gives up. But with a little help from his grandma, a loyal dog, and the sounds of the world around him, he learns that real music comes from the heart — not the hands. A gentle reminder that every song, and every dream, begins with one brave note. See omnystudio.com/listener …

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140. When Friendships Trigger Insecurity: "Am I Overthinking This?” 9:58

2M ago9:58

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On this week's Bestie Advice segment.… we’re talking about friendship insecurities… those moments when you feel left out, overthink the little things, or wonder if your friends love you as much as you love them. What do you do when long-time friendships trigger old wounds, and how do you stop spiraling without making things awkward? We dive into th…

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Lorrin Matters... 4625 days missing 51:14

2M ago51:14

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Sally Leydon sits down with families still searching for their loved ones, stories that have faded from headlines but never from their hearts. In this episode, Sally speaks with Amelia Grozdanovski, whose mother, Lorrin Jane Whitehead vanished from Bannockburn, Victoria, in 2013. Together they revisit that day, the unanswered questions, and the emo…

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139. Healing Yourself While Raising Children: Conscious Parenting with Psychologist & Author Dr. Shefali 29:42

2M ago29:42

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In this special episode, we sit down with world-renowned clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Shefali Tsabary, the woman Oprah herself called “revolutionary.” As the author of The Conscious Parent, Dr. Shefali has transformed the way millions of parents view their role—not as behavior managers, but as guides who evolve alongside their c…

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