Hosted by trauma-informed self-love coach Danielle Bernock aka “that lady on the internet who loves you” Danielle is a trauma survivor who knows what it's like to feel powerless. She fought to reclaim her value, dignity, & power back through faith, love, & taking ownership. Danielle and her guests will empower you to become victorious in life & embrace your God-given greatness. This podcast provides 2 types of content: short episodes of actionable encouragement & interviews of Victorious Sou ...
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For Christian Women who struggle with their relationships--with God, themselves and others. They know that to have more...they need to want more, expect more and be more.
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Episode 128: Rising After Trauma - A Conversation with Danielle Bernock
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45:01Send us a text Danielle Bernock has spent a lifetime turning pain into purpose — not by pretending her trauma never happened, but by courageously confronting it, healing from it, and then helping others do the same. In this powerful conversation, Danielle shares her journey from childhood wounds to becoming an international, award-winning author, s…
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Episode 127: The Silent Hurt of Husbands - How Good Women Sometimes Cause Unintended Harm
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25:07Send us a text Most people assume that if a husband is hurting, we’ll see it — anger, withdrawal, distance, or frustration. But the truth is far more complex. Many men in Christian marriages aren’t exploding… they’re imploding. Their wounds aren’t loud; they’re quiet. They don’t show up as shouting matches or slammed doors; they show up as fading c…
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Episode 126: The Communication Mistakes Couples Don’t Realize They’re Making — And How to Fix Them
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39:40Send us a text If you’ve ever found yourself in a conversation with your spouse thinking, “How did we get here? We were talking about the dishes ten minutes ago…”, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I sit down with Raffi Bilek, a long-time couples therapist, communication expert, and the kind of guest who brings both humor and hard-e…
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Episode 125: The Pain No One Sees - Recognizing Emotional & Spiritual Abuse in Marriage
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21:56Send us a text When you think of “abuse,” you picture bruises, yelling, or explosive anger. But for many Christian wives, the abuse they endure looks nothing like that. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, we dive into a form of harm that is rarely talked about in the church and often misunderstood: subtle abuse—the slow, quiet erosion of a wo…
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Episode 124: Faith, Family, and Raising the Next Generation to Know God
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40:56Send us a text What if the best spot in life isn’t found by following the crowd—but by trusting God to lead you forward? In this uplifting episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle sits down with Jennifer Bosma—Christian wife, mom, grandma, and author. With wisdom from over 36 years of marriage and ministry, Jennifer shares how her “Front Par…
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Episode 123: Invisible Work, Visible Burnout - The Truth About Emotional Labor in Marriage
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19:30Send us a text What do you do when you’re the one holding the entire mental checklist—appointments, bills, meals, kids’ schedules, family birthdays—and no one seems to notice? That’s emotional labor, and it’s one of the most overlooked causes of exhaustion and resentment in marriage. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle breaks do…
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Send us a text What happens when the life you built falls apart—and you have to face the pain, the questions, and the loneliness you never expected? In this episode I sit down with Francis DeLellis, a father of two and a remarried survivor of divorce. Francis' story is honest. Raw. And rooted in the faithfulness of God. We talk about his journey th…
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Episode 121: Keeping Your Cool When Love Gets Heated - Mastering Emotion Regulation in Marriage
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15:34Send us a text In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle unpacks one of the most important—but least talked about—skills for building a healthy marriage: emotion regulation. Every couple fights, but not every couple fights well. Many of the most painful moments in marriage don’t come from major betrayals—they come from unregulated emo…
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Episode 120: Weaponized Words - How Sarcasm, Jokes, and Criticism Quietly Destroy Trust in Marriage
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21:10Send us a text In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle uncovers one of the most overlooked forms of emotional erosion in marriage—weaponized words. It’s not always shouting or name-calling that breaks a relationship; sometimes it’s the subtle sarcasm, the cutting joke, or the offhand criticism that leaves the deepest wounds. Through…
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Episode 119: Why Emotional Safety Is the Secret to Lasting Intimacy in Marriage
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22:04Send us a text Emotional safety is the soil where true intimacy grows. Without it, even the strongest relationships begin to wither. In this week’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle unpacks what it really means to become a safe place in marriage — not just physically, but emotionally. You’ll learn why criticism, defensiveness, and inc…
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Episode 118: Personality, Purpose, and the Power of Reinvention with Marita Tedder
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46:47Send us a text In this week’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Marita Tedder—author of 20 books including the classic Wired That Way, international speaker, and founder of Living Your Best Life 60 Plus—for a conversation that goes far beyond age or stage. Marita has spent decades teaching people how to understand themselves and oth…
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Send us a text So many women know the weight of burnout. We say “yes” to everyone, push through commitments, and tell ourselves that a weekend of rest will fix the exhaustion. But what happens when it doesn’t? In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Ioana Popa—physician, psychiatrist, leadership coach, and co-founder of Team for the Soul® —to tal…
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Episode 116: Learning to Walk Together Without Losing Yourself
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17:23Send us a text Welcome back to The High Ticket Woman. In the first two parts of this series, we explored mismatched libidos and mismatched love languages—the hidden ways couples can drift apart when their needs don’t line up. Today, we wrap up with one more area that quietly impacts almost every marriage: mismatched lifestyles. What happens when on…
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Episode 115: How to Build Lasting Connection in Midlife Relationships
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46:14Send us a text What does it take to build a relationship that isn’t just exciting in the beginning, but deeply committed and emotionally fulfilling for the long haul? In this conversation, I sit down with Bern Mendez—a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach whose YouTube channel has drawn over 30 million views worldwide. With 14+ years of…
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Send us a text In Part One of this series, we explored mismatched libidos and how differences in sexual desire often carry deeper messages of rejection, pressure, and longing. Now in Part Two, we’re turning to another subtle but powerful mismatch: love languages. You and your spouse may both want to love each other well—but if you’re speaking two d…
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Episode 113: Parenting, Resilience, and Finding Strength in the Storm
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42:32Send us a text In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Jennifer Robb—nurse practitioner, coach, author, and founder of Warrior Moms Rising. Jenn opens up about her personal journey through parenting a child battling anxiety, depression, and trauma, and how those battles reshaped her own identity and calling. From long nights of fe…
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Episode 112: Navigating Mismatched Libidos in Marriage
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18:38Send us a text One of the most common—yet least talked about—challenges in marriage is mismatched desire. What happens when one spouse wants intimacy more often than the other? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle opens the first part of a new series on mismatches in marriage: mismatched libidos, love languages, and lifestyles. T…
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Episode 111: The Neuroscience of Self-Sabotage - Why We Don’t Do What We Know
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49:09Send us a text Jonathan McLernon knows what it means to lose everything—and rebuild from the ground up. After surviving a brutal attack in South Africa, betrayal from a close friend, and years of battling PTSD, binge eating, and self-sabotage, Jonathan hit rock bottom. But instead of staying there, he discovered how to rewire his brain—and lost 100…
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Episode 110: Four Patterns That Destroy Marriage—and How to Re
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23:01Send us a text Conflict is normal in every relationship—but some patterns of conflict don’t just sting in the moment, they slowly erode the foundation of a marriage. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, we look at the groundbreaking research of Drs. John and Julie Gottman, who spent over 40 years studying thousands of couples to identify the f…
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Episode 109: Why Most of Us Stay Stuck in Survival Mode (and How to Break Free)
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47:56Send us a text Jennifer Price knows firsthand what it means to rebuild life and health from the ground up. After facing devastating health challenges—including concussions, chronic illness, and a near-death experience—Jennifer discovered that true transformation doesn’t come from willpower or quick fixes. It comes from aligning the mind, body, and …
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Episode 108: When Growth Creates Distance - Navigating Unequal Healing in Marriage
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21:19Send us a text What happens when one person in a marriage begins healing, growing, and changing faster than the other? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, we explore the dynamic of unequal healing—when one spouse is diving into counseling, prayer, and personal growth while the other is moving at a different pace. It’s not about right or wrong…
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Episode 107: Hope for Hurting Marriages - A Conversation with Larry Bilotta
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41:15Send us a text After spending 27 years in a loveless marriage, Larry Bilotta discovered the keys that not only transformed his own relationship but have since helped thousands of couples around the world. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Larry and I dive into the realities of long-term marital struggle, why so many couples feel stuck, and …
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Episode 106: When Conversations Turn Into Courtrooms
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18:12Send us a text What starts as a simple disagreement can quickly escalate into something far bigger. One unpaid bill becomes a battle over old wounds. Instead of listening, we build cases. Instead of seeking solutions, we seek to win. And in marriage, when one person “wins,” both people lose. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I unpack why so…
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Episode 105: A Journey of Healing, Transition, and Authentic Living
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33:58Send us a text This week on The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Ashley Hudson, therapist and founder of Pearl in Process Counseling. Ashley’s work is rooted in the belief that growth is never instant—it’s a process, like a pearl forming under pressure. In our conversation, Ashley opens up about her own journey through postpartum depression, the …
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Send us a text What happens when your marriage looks busy, but feels empty? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I share the story of Alicia and Jordan—a couple doing all the “right” things, yet missing the heart connection they both long for. We’ll unpack the subtle trap of performance-based worth, how it shows up differently for husbands and…
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Episode 103: What I Learned Serving in a Prison for Over a Decade
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45:33Send us a text In 2008, James Early walked into a prison for the first time—not as an inmate, but as someone determined to make a difference. What started as a volunteer opportunity turned into a long-term commitment that’s reshaped the way he sees people, justice, and hope. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, James shares the surprising less…
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Episode 102: When Mood Swings Rock the Marriage - Navigating Emotional Instability Together
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17:30Send us a text What happens when your spouse’s emotional state sets the tone for the entire marriage? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I share the story of “Mason and Claire”—a composite of real couples navigating the highs, lows, and unpredictable shifts that come with unmanaged mental illness. We’ll unpack the difference between cyclical…
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Episode 101: Healing the Wounds You Can’t See: Melissa Armstrong’s Story of Faith and Recovery
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45:16Send us a text What happens when the pain of your past shows up in your body? In this powerful episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Melissa Armstrong, a trauma-informed functional health coach whose journey from horrific childhood abuse, a school shooting, and profound grief led her to discover a deeper path to healing—without pills, g…
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Episode 100: Why Most Couples Don’t Argue About Money—They Argue About Meaning
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19:09Send us a text They weren’t in crisis—but they weren’t connected either. In this final episode of the More Than Money series, we explore how couples can stop surviving and start building something new—together. From a simple notebook on the counter to shared financial vision, you’ll hear how Chris and Tasha moved from shutdown to teamwork—not by ma…
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Send us a text In a world that celebrates independence, too many of us are silently suffering in isolation. This week on The High Ticket Woman, I sat down with Jake Thurston, author of You Need Friends, to talk about something we don’t say enough in Christian circles: you can’t heal without community. We dove into: Why friendship is more than a “bo…
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Send us a text She’s doing it all. He’s feeling like a failure. And no one’s talking about it. In Episode 2 of our More Than Money series, we revisit Chris and Tasha—a couple navigating the silent storm that hits when financial roles flip. He used to be the provider. Now he’s unemployed. She’s picking up the slack—and the weight is getting heavier …
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Episode 97: Why We Still Choose Each Other—5 Years In
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43:10Send us a text This week, Jeff and I are celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary—and we’re inviting you into the moments that have shaped our journey together. We asked each other questions we didn’t plan. We reflected on what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what we’re still learning. We talked about the good, the challenging and everything in between. …
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Send us a text If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling into an argument over a $40 charge, a spontaneous Amazon order, or a golf bag that wasn’t in the budget—you know it’s never just about the purchase. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle kicks off a three-part series called More Than Money—beginning with the story of Tasha and…
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Episode 95: When Happily Ever After Breaks - A Candid Conversation on Faith, Marriage, and Starting Over
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49:18Send us a text What happens when the love you thought you chose no longer feels safe? In this heartfelt conversation, Debbie sits down with longtime friend Chantelle Reynolds to talk about the quiet unraveling of a difficult marriage—and the deep inner work it takes to come out whole on the other side. Together, they explore: The early expectations…
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Send us a text In today’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, we’re unpacking a pattern that shows up in so many marriages—especially when the wife is strong, competent, and deeply committed to doing things right: the parenting dynamic. You don’t mean to micromanage. You don’t mean to correct his every move. You don’t mean to take over leadership in …
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Episode 93: Reclaiming Masculinity - What Men Aren’t Saying Out Loud
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46:47Send us a text You’re not leading the way you could be—because no one ever showed you how.” In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Rory Paquette—Christian husband, coach, podcaster, and serial entrepreneur—for a raw conversation about the modern man’s internal battle. We talk about: Why so many faith-based men feel emotionally st…
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Episode 92: Triggered by Love: Why Your Spouse Can’t Heal What They Didn’t Break
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18:14Send us a text What if the argument you’re having isn’t really about what was said—but about what was never healed? In this week’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, we’re exploring why conflict in marriage can awaken childhood wounds—and why your spouse isn’t the one who’s supposed to fix them. You’ll learn: Why small arguments can trigger big emot…
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Episode 91: The Lioness Wife: How Strong Women Can Build Strong Marriages
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40:54Send us a text What happens when you’re the lioness in your marriage? Strong. Capable. Independent. Spiritually grounded. And sometimes… a little too used to leading alone. In today’s episode of The High Ticket Woman, I’m joined by Leah Chrest—author, blogger, and Christian meditation teacher—for a deep and honest conversation about what it means t…
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Episode 90: When You’re the Strong One - Submission, Resentment, and the Passive Husband
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18:37Send us a text You're driven. Responsible. Capable. You're the glue that holds everything together — the one who makes the plans, pays the bills, remembers the birthdays, keeps the faith, and carries the weight. But underneath all that strength? There’s resentment. Exhaustion. A deep longing for partnership — not passivity. In today’s episode of Th…
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Episode 89: Faith, Foster Care, and Finding Purpose
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54:34Send us a text Today I'm joined by a woman whose story and wisdom will encourage every heart feeling stretched thin: Kim Patton. Kim is an adoptive and foster mom living in North Carolina. She’s the author of two books — with a third on the way in 2026 — and she’s the host of the Book Therapy podcast, where she helps readers find hope through hones…
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Episode 88: When the Heart Wanders - Understanding and Preventing Emotional Affairs in Marriage
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15:13Send us a text They almost never start with bad intentions. An inside joke with a coworker. A deep conversation with an old friend. A text you hide from your spouse — just to avoid “overreacting.” Emotional affairs are quiet intruders. They slip in through cracks we didn’t even know we left open: unmet needs, unresolved conflicts, lonely moments we…
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Episode 87: Selling, Goals, and Second Chances: A Conversation with Brian McFarland
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51:55Send us a text What does it take to stay at the top — in business, in love, and in life — when life keeps throwing curveballs? In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Brian McFarland: a powerhouse in digital media sales, a natural goal-setter, and a man who has rebuilt not just his career, but his personal life after heartbreak. B…
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Episode 86: Marriage on Mute: How ADHD Hijacks Connection and What to Do About It
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15:35Send us a text Is it forgetfulness… or something deeper? If your spouse struggles with attention, impulsivity, or emotional overwhelm—and it’s starting to wear down your connection—you’re not alone. ADHD isn’t just a childhood diagnosis. It’s a neurodevelopmental condition that follows many into adulthood—and into marriage. And it doesn’t just affe…
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Episode 85: Through the Fire: Turning Pain Into Purpose with Ryan Wickline
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39:31Send us a text In this episode, I sit down with speaker and mindset coach Ryan Wickline to explore what it really takes to rise after loss, heartbreak, and spiritual burnout. Ryan shares how hitting rock bottom became the catalyst for answering God’s call on his life—and how he now helps others do the same. From wrestling mats to coaching high perf…
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Episode 84: Why Your Marriage Feels More Like a Job Than a Joy—And How to Change It
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15:50Send us a text You love your spouse. You’re committed. You’re doing all the right things to keep the wheels of life turning—but deep down, your marriage feels… flat. There’s no big fight. No betrayal. Just the slow fade of connection. In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle explores the quiet crisis of marriage burnout—when love get…
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Episode 83: Living Beyond Doubt-Understanding Relationship OCD
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40:02Send us a text In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Erin Davis—therapist, coach and founder of Live Beyond Doubt—to talk about how Christian women can overcome relationship OCD and move from fear and overthinking into action, clarity, and unshakable faith. Erin shares her own journey of breaking through cycles of doubt, perfect…
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Episode 82: You Should’ve Known-The Silent Expectations That Sabotage Marriages
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17:06Send us a text Ever found yourself thinking, “They should’ve just known”? Whether it’s about how to show love, what respect looks like, or who handles what at home—unspoken expectations are like emotional landmines in a marriage. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common but least discussed marriage killers: assumptions. We’ll unpac…
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Episode 81: The Widow's Comeback: Finding Faith and Purpose After Loss with Lisa Woolery
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39:08Send us a text In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Lisa Woolery—widow, mother, author, and founder of The Widow's Comeback—to explore her journey through grief, resilience, and rediscovery. After the sudden loss of her husband, Lisa faced the daunting task of navigating life as a solo parent while grappling with profound sorrow and unanswere…
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Episode 80: Atmosphere Check: What’s Shaping Your Marriage?
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17:09Send us a text We talk about culture in churches, companies, even countries… But have you ever stopped to ask: What’s the culture of our marriage? Every relationship has one. It’s the unspoken atmosphere that influences how you make decisions, handle stress, speak to each other, and show up day after day. Some marriages run on anxiety. Others on av…
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Episode 79: Peaceful Doesn’t Mean Passive: How to Navigate Divorce with Dignity, Wisdom, and Strength
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39:58Send us a text What if you could protect your peace—even in the middle of a painful divorce? In this episode, I sit down with Shaunis Mercer, founder of Peaceful Law, a family law attorney who is redefining how women approach divorce—not through battle, but through strategy, faith, and clarity. Whether you're in the midst of a separation or helping…
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