Best Chuck Nice Podcasts (2025)

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Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Adoration in Marriage 6:25

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7d ago6:25

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Join Chuck Chapman in this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast as he discusses why admiration alone is not enough for a fulfilling marriage. Learn the vital difference between admiring and adoring your wife, and how expressing adoration can transform your relationship. Discover how to connect deeply with your wife's essence, making her feel ch…

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Should We Legalize & Regulate Prostitution? 35:37

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Should We Legalize Prostitution? The Sexual Frustration Crisis Men Are Facing This episode tackles one of the most controversial questions of our time: Should prostitution be legal? But it's not just about policy — it's about the sexual shame, frustration, and isolation that's destroying men in silence. Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the rea…

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Significance vs. Validation: Why Every Man Needs to Feel He Matters 7:48

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Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome: Reclaiming Your Significance In this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast, host Chuck Chapman addresses the common fear among men, especially those recovering from 'nice guy syndrome,' of appearing needy. Chapman explores the origins of this fear rooted in childhood, where many were taught that expressing needs cou…

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Nice Guys Don’t Trust Themselves 31:57

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You second-guess every decision. You overthink every conversation. You're constantly worried about doing the wrong thing, upsetting someone, or messing up. Sound familiar? That's what we're diving into in this episode: why nice guys don't trust themselves — and how that lack of self-trust is sabotaging every relationship in their lives. Chuck, Ari,…

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The Secret to Better Relationships: From Defensiveness to Curiosity 9:43

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Transform Conflict with Curiosity: Moving Beyond Defensiveness in Relationships This episode delves into the concept of defensiveness in relationships and its impact on connection. The speaker shares personal experiences and professional insights to illustrate how defensiveness can escalate conflicts by protecting one's ego, rather than the relatio…

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Nice-Guys Are Afraid To Decide. How Your Indecision Is Costing You Everything 35:01

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You think you're being careful and thoughtful. She thinks you're weak and can't lead. In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Ari, Chuck, and Faisal expose how indecisiveness is secretly destroying your relationships and keeping you trapped in mediocrity. From Ari's embarrassing wedding speech where he called himself "the Obama of the relationship" (…

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Who Should Initiate Sex? She Doesn’t Initiate It 51:00

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Ari, Chuck, and Faisal dive deep into one of the biggest complaints they hear from men: "My wife never initiates sex anymore." Whether you're in a dead bedroom situation, feeling like you're always chasing, or wondering if you stopped initiating whether sex would happen at all… this conversation is going to open your eyes. We get into: Why "it's al…

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I Thought I was Angry, Turns Out I Was Just Hurt 8:37

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By Chuck Chapman, M.A.

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Paying for Dates Nice Guy Trap or Masculine Move. High-Value Men Do this. 1:05:07

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Ari went on three dates with an attractive, successful woman. He paid for the first two dates (including a $200 dinner), then asked her to pay for the third. She immediately went cold and ghosted him completely. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down exactly what happened — what Ari did right, what went wrong, and the deeper dynamics at pla…

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Can't Last? Can't Satisfy Her? Ex-Porn Star Breaks Down What You're Doing Wrong 1:12:04

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Most guys never learned how to lead in the bedroom — or last long enough to even enjoy it. In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, we’re talking about what really satisfies her… and it’s probably not what you think. Former top adult film star Erik Everhard joins Ari, Chuck, and Faisal to break down the hidden causes of sexual performance anxiety — an…

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The Upside of Divorce - Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better? 1:10:07

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In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari flip the script on one of the most dreaded life events a man can face: divorce. Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better? All three of us have been through it. And in this honest, hilarious, and deeply reflective conversation, we explore: Why divorce might be t…

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The Keys To A Resilient Divorce - Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure 43:44

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In this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the messy reality of divorce for Nice Guys. If you're going through a divorce or recently divorced, this conversation will hit you right in the gut — and then lift you back up. We explore: What it means to "Nice Guy your divorce" (and why we all do it) The brutal truth about care…

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Is It Time for Men to Man Up? 50:49

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In this episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari tackle one of the most triggering phrases for modern men: “Man up.” You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve been shamed by it. But what if — just maybe — it’s a wake-up call we actually need? In this deep and vulnerable conversation, we explore: - Why “man up” can feel like a slap — or a step forward - The difference b…

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She Left Without Warning: Walkaway Wife Syndrome Explained 1:03:56

2M ago1:03:56

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Most guys don’t even see it coming. One day everything seems fine, and the next… she’s done. Moved out. Checked out. Gone. That’s what we’re talking about in this episode: Walkaway Wife Syndrome — the slow emotional exit a lot of women make while their husbands are completely asleep at the wheel. Ari, Chuck, and Faisal all share what happened in th…

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Why Every Man Needs a Retreat 42:11

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What happens when men unplug, step away from their routines, and connect deeply—with themselves and each other? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Gronich dive into the transformative power of men’s retreats. From adventures in the Mojave Desert to solo days in state parks, we explore why retreats are more …

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How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard To Set A Date 30:36

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NGS 105 – How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard to Set a Date 🔥 Ever found yourself trying to set up a simple date… and suddenly it turns into a negotiation or a rejection minefield? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari break down how charismatic, high-value men navigate situations where women make it difficult t…

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A Men's Coach Gets Friendzoned: How to Handle It & Avoid It Next Time 1:05:12

3M ago1:05:12

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It happened again! Ari got friend-zoned, and he's bringing his dating dilemma to the Nice Guy Show for a raw, real, and incredibly helpful discussion for all men. In this episode, we dive deep into the painful experience of being friend-zoned and, more importantly, how to avoid it and ignite genuine attraction. What you'll learn in this episode: 💔 …

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The Secrets of Confident Husbands 1:04:38

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In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Graff dive deep into what it means to be a confident husband and how to achieve an integrated marriage. Chuck Chapman, the focus of this episode, shares insights into his "Confident Husband Solution" program, designed to help men navigate the complexities of marriage…

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Nice Guys Unleashed: Real Talk from Cancun - What We Learned from Dr. Glover's NCON 25! 33:35

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Summary In this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Coker, and Ari Graf reflect on their recent experiences at a men's conference in Cancun, Mexico. They discuss the importance of in-person connections, the courage displayed by participants, and the nuances of leadership. The conversation highlights the journey of personal gro…

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Why Are Women Hard To Please? With Samantha Berke #101 56:37

4M ago56:37

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By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Our 100th Episode! #100 56:23

4M ago56:23

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We celebrate our 100th Episode!By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Is Love Toxic? #99 38:32

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Is love toxic? For Nice Guys, understanding love can be a struggle.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Escaping the Nice Guy Trap: Ending Relationships in a Healthy Way #98 22:18

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You’ve done the work—you’ve read the books, gone to therapy, embraced your own growth, and finally stepped out of that old Nice Guy pattern. You’re more confident, more assertive, and you’ve started living with purpose and integrity. But here’s the thing: even though you’ve changed, she hasn’t. The relationship still feels like it’s stuck in the sa…

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Never Date A Woman If She Does This: It’s A Major Red Flag EP #97 20:41

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There is one major red flag many of us ignore at the initial stages because it's the norm. Everyone does it, but those who do it all the time and do it with intensity are dangerous and you MUST in all circusmtances not take them. Never! Because if you do, they will eventually make your life a living hell and even ruin your professional world.…

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What's Wrong With Pickup Artists? #96 26:15

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If you've been around the Manosphere, there's no doubt you've heard of the term pickup artist. These are gurus who will tell you how to pick up women like you're picking up samples at Costco. But there's a few problems with this. And today I want to talk about the pickup artist industry and why nice guys tend to follow their advice and maybe a litt…

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Never Start A Sentence With This: Makes You Look Weak and Low-Value # 95 11:24

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Never ever, ever start a sentence with this word. It’s all too commonly used by nice guys and it makes you look weak, you lose respect and it’s very uncharismatic.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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You’re Doing Sex Wrong #94 19:34

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We are given so many conflicting ideas about how to do sex or have sex. You’ve got to be dominant and lead. You’ve got to make sure you talk about and get consent for everything you do. You gotta make sure you please your partner. You gotta focus on pleasing yourself. You’ve gotta schedule sex. You’ve gotta be spontaneous. You should tap into your …

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Ari's Struggles #93 27:29

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In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Ari Graff opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for co…

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Faisal's Struggles #92 22:14

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In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Faisal Khokhar opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conver…

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Chuck's Struggles #91 23:48

6M ago23:48

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In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Chuck Chapman opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The convers…

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Grow the F*ck Up! The Nice Guy Syndrome is a Sign of an Immature Man #90 20:36

6M ago20:36

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Nice Guys aren’t being nice—they're being manipulative, using approval-seeking and people-pleasing as a way to control how women see them, all because they’re too afraid to be rejected for who they really are. When it comes to women and men, I’ve come to the realization that it’s insecurity that drives us to seek approval from women. It’s subtle, o…

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Caught Between Mother and Wife: How the Nice Guy Can Handle Family Conflict #89 17:54

7M ago17:54

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Got a guy with a situation involving his mother and wife. He’s newly married, and they all live together—him, his wife, and his mother. It all started well. Everyone got along, and they were one happy family. But after a few months, fractures start to appear. The mother starts interfering, picking faults with his wife, and that’s when the tension s…

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What Nice Guys Must Have In Their Morning Routine EP #88 22:49

7M ago22:49

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What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Do you hit the snooze bar? Do you hate the world, hate your life, hate your job? Do you feel like the day is another day to get through? Do you scroll through instagram? Do you rush to get ready? Do you struggle with what to prioritize that day? Well good news, today we are going to explain what you …

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The Dark Side Of Masculine & Feminine Energy That Enables Toxic Relationship Patterns EP #87 22:22

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If you’ve been into relationship development, you would have heard about Masculine & Feminine Energies and how important they are to relationships. Men are grounded, stable, like a lighthouse. The feminine is ever-changing emotions and she is the storm. Men need to weather the storm. Really? Now, I don’t know about you, but this statement or someth…

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How Much Can You Fix Your Woman? EP #86 19:09

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Have you ever wanted to get your partner to be nicer? To help out more around the house? To get in shape and lose weight? To like sex or even like sex with you? To like your parents? To earn some money? How much can you get your partner to change?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Lead, You Spineless Chicken. Lead! - EP #85 19:45

8M ago19:45

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If you want to create polarity, attraction, and connection in a relationship, it’s up to you to lead. I know, it’s not fair! A lot of the men I work with ask, "What about her? When is it her turn to lead?" And women often say, "I want to lead too." Why is this? Nice Guys tend to avoid leading in their relationships because they fear rejection or up…

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What Happened When I Quit Women For 9 Months EP #84 20:53

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Have you ever felt so stuck on getting women to meet your needs that it occupied nearly every free moment? Well that was me a couple years ago. I was a few years out from my divorce. When I wasn’t working or parenting, I was thinking about dating or sex. I felt a chronic hunger for women that had been there since forever. So I decided it was time t…

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The Time I Lied About Having My Car Stolen So I Could Hook Up With A Chick - EP #83 21:21

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Before I even knew what a Nice Guy was in terms of the Nice Guy syndrome, I thought of myself as just that—a Nice Guy. And I truly believed I was. When I first read *No More Mr. Nice Guy* about 15 years ago, it was like looking into a mirror. Every page felt like it was written about me. But there was one thing in that book that hit me hard, like a…

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The Cure For Your Small Thinking EP #82 20:26

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Do you think small? Do you poo poo any big idea you have as far fetched? Do you feel like big ideas and big things are for other people? Is it hopeless or is there a cure for thinking small?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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What's The Female Equivalent Of The Nice-Guy Syndrome? EP #81 18:00

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So you’ve heard of the nice-guy syndrome and why nice-guys finish last. So what’s the female equivalent nice-guy syndrome and is she as nasty and manipulating as nice-guys or is she a helpless damsel in distress? Let’s find out…By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Fear Keeps Nice Guys From Getting The Life They Want - EP #80 17:48

9M ago17:48

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Fear. If there is one thing that holds Nice Guys back from getting the life they want it’s fear. Fear is the filter every decision is made or not made because Nice Guys anticipate and imagine failure, rationalize being comfortable and avoid pressure and tension. They are scared fo being exposed as frauds, not meeting expectations and losing control…

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From Transactions to Trust: Rebekah Rice’s Guide to Building Authentic Relationships in Business 41:28

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In this episode, Brian talks with Rebekah Rice, SVP of Business Banking and Market Executive at Bank of America, about building trusted relationships with clients, navigating digital transformation, and empowering her teams to succeed…all done in her own genuine and unique way.By Brian Moran

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Why Nice-Guys Are Not Respected By Women, Kids & Other Men - EP#79 14:29

9M ago14:29

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Do you find that women don’t respect you? Or maybe if you have kids, they fail to speak in a respectful way? Maybe your colleagues at work, your customers, or even your friends don’t treat you with the respect you deserve. In this podcast, we will explore why women, children, and even men don’t respect nice guys.…

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Did Feminism Make Me A Nice Guy? EP #78 24:00

9M ago24:00

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In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about how some radical feminists claimed that men were the cause of all of the problems in the world. Or that men were merely an unnecessary nuisance. This contributed to a climate that convinced many men that it was not OK to be just who they were.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Body Count: Jealous over her past - EP #77 23:44

9M ago23:44

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Let’s say you’re dating someone or in a relationship, and the infamous topic of body count comes up. What’s the magic number that would make you question if you should stay with her? Does body count really matter when you're in a relationship? How do you get over your partner's past, especially if her count is higher than yours? Should you even bot…

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Why Nice Guys Attract Borderline Women EP #76 23:03

10M ago23:03

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Have you ever fallen for a woman you knew was bad for you? You know something is off but the combination of hotness, excitement, and possibility of a love connection keep you hooked.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Commitment Crisis: Why Men Are Avoiding Relationships And Staying Single #75 20:54

10M ago20:54

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In this podcast, we’re going to look at the crisis behind why so many men are struggling to get into relationships? Are men the problem? Or maybe women are the reason why men are single or is it society or maybe dating apps? Who’s fault is it and can we rescue relationships? Should we rescue relationships and you are probably thinking, what’s wrong…

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Are Nice Guys Narcissists Too? #74 21:41

10M ago21:41

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Back in January, my son and I were testing for our next tae kwon do belt. I had just started tae kwon do 2 months earlier after quitting 30 years ago, so I was excited to do it with my son. Long story short, my ex, who had picked him up from school, texted me and said he didn’t want to go to my testing because he was tired and had a long day. I was…

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Attract More Hot Women: Set Boundaries- EP #73 21:24

10M ago21:24

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If you’re anything like I was early in my Nice Guy recovery, you have a hard time setting boundaries. Especially with women. We tend to let a pretty woman walk all over us, afraid if we set boundaries she will walk away. Over the years, working with hundreds of Nice Guys, I’ve noticed they struggle with boundaries too. I used to think boundaries we…

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TRUTH: Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women? #72 20:50

11M ago20:50

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In this podcast, we’re going to explore Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women? Now, there are a lot of messages fed to men that being vulnerable is key in relationships, but this is also confusing as some men as they report that when they are vulnerable, she pull away, look disgusted or become upset. So, should you be vulnerable in a relationsh…