The podcast that answers the question, "how do I break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome, so that I never come in last again?" - with hosts Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff, and Chuck Chapman
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Chuck Nice Podcasts
Not So Nice Advice is a comedy driven, entertainment podcast that analyzes advice columns and blogs. The show revisits letters already answered by the columnist or blogger, explains why the given advice is wrong and then offers the correct prescription for a successful solution. Hosted by comedian and television personality Chuck Nice, along with fellow comedians and celebrity guests, Nice Advice is a hilarious take on the industrial opinion complex. Listeners who are wise enough to request ...
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Playing with Science
StarTalk Playing with Science & Gary O’Reilly, Chuck Nice, Neil deGrasse Tyson
The weekly podcast where geeks & jocks collide. Hosts Gary O’Reilly & Chuck Nice welcome athletes, experts & resident astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson. Remember: Playing with fire gets you burned, “Playing with Science” gets you learned.
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A podcast about our messy relationship with technology. Hosted by tech ethicist David Ryan Polgar and comedian Joe Leonardo, and featuring a diverse range of experts about the ways that technology excites us, scares us, and confuses us. It's complicated. “Those who like their comedy on the nerdy side will find just that in the blend of tech and jokes that this show and podcast provides.”-New York Times Previous guests have included Manoush Zomorodi, Douglas Rushkoff, Baratunde Thurston, Trac ...
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The undisputed #1 HipHop podcast, the Combat Jack Show features interviews with HipHop icons & the most in-depth conversations about music, news, culture & race. Listen to Russell Simmons, Chuck D, Damon Dash, Rza, Scarface, D-Nice and more share personal stories and talk exclusively about their journeys, philosophies and viewpoints.
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A Podcast providing a platform to inspire and amplify voices within the community of Long Beach, Ca. Hosted by @sodanny_fame & @philasophical.
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Two bearded white dudes talking politics and culture! Join The Rev. Al and his inimitable cohost Gonzo as they take viewer on a journey to help make you a better, more functional human being! New episodes of ever-increasing quality coming every Friday afternoon!
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The Confident Husband Podcast is for the man who’s done settling. If you’re tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage, confused by your wife’s needs, or unsure how to lead without controlling or caretaking—this podcast is for you. I’m Chuck Chapman, a licensed professional counselor, a men’s relationship expert and creator of The Confident Husband Solution. After 20,000+ hours working with men, I’ve seen the patterns that keep us stuck—and I’ve built the roadmap to help you lead with st ...
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Each week we pair a comedian with a scientist, to break down the scientifically inaccurate elements of popular movies and TV shows. Warning: There will be spoilers.
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Running a business is tough. Every day challenges and obstacles pop up that can keep you from achieving your goals. Most of the time you know what to do; you learn to rely on your own business acumen and experience; but wouldn’t it be nice to have a team of experts behind you to back you up? The Small Business Edge podcast was created to be your team of experts. In my 25+ years of publishing magazines and newspapers for business owners, I had the good fortune to meet some incredibly smart pe ...
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F*ck Chuck Schumer, Bust A Nut, and Go Touch Some Grass
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1:56:59In a stunning display display of political incompetence and malfeasance, 8 democratic senators, with the blessing, tacit or otherwise, torpedoed the stunning gains they'd made in an historic electoral drubbing of the GOP less than a week earlier, but fortunately FOR AMERICA, we're here to explain how it can, maybe, with a hitherto unsee lack of cow…
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Tucker Carlson interviewed Nick Fuentes in an attempt to launder the latter's reputation and endear the former to a younger audience of ghouls. Asmongold then reacted to the interview. We then reacted to the reaction. It's all very meta and the only two people out of the five involved who said anything worth listening to are Rev and Gonzo. You luck…
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The Truth About Incels: It’s Not About Sex
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36:37From Lonely to Angry: Understanding Incels (And How Good Men Lose Their Way) Some men don't start off angry. They start off lonely. Rejected. Invisible. Neglected in childhood. But when the pain festers long enough, it turns into something darker: the incel mindset. In this raw and unflinching episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive into one of the in…
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There are many reasons we can't seem to have nice things anymore. In this episode we explore (some) of the reasosn why.By The Grift Show
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There Are No Real Winners In White Supremacy (except the 0.1%)
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2:41:49It's obvious, or it at least should be, that white supremacy, as an ideology, brutally harms non-white people of all kinds. What's less obvious is how it also harms the overwhelming majority of white people as well.By The Grift Show
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Why Jealousy Destroys Nice Guys (And How to Finally Stop It) You see her laugh at another guy's joke. Your stomach tightens. Your mind spirals. You start checking her phone, stalking her social media, asking the same questions over and over. And then comes the shame. Jealousy doesn't just ruin relationships — it hijacks your entire life. And for Ni…
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Is It Bad To Be A Man? Criticizing Masculinity
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46:06Is It Dangerous to Be a Man? Why Masculinity Gets Criticized Instead of Celebrated A coal miner shows up to his son's basketball game still covered in soot. He rushed straight from work to keep his promise. The photo goes viral — but not for the reason you'd think. Instead of celebrating his dedication, the internet tears him apart. "Performative m…
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You're on a date. She says something unexpected. You freeze. Your brain goes blank. So you excuse yourself to the bathroom… and ask ChatGPT what to say next. Sound familiar? In this raw and thought-provoking episode, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck dive into the complicated relationship between AI and masculinity. From flirty texts written by algorithms…
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Ever caught yourself asking "What do women even bring to the table?" or heard women firing back with "What do men bring?" If you're asking either question, this episode is for you. Faisal, Ari, and Chuck dive deep into the mindset behind these toxic questions — and more importantly, how to shift from scarcity thinking to abundance in relationships.…
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DESTROYING The Patriarchy and CRUSHING Taylor Swift
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2:56:35One of the greatest misconceptions young men and boys often have is that their dissatisfaction with the world and the aimlessness they feel about their place within it is caused by feminism and their perception that it devalues men and thereby them. Rev. and Gonzo explain how this belief is one of the greatest tricks that patriarchy ever pulled in …
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Liberal democracy has a disease, and that disease is people like Ezra Klein going through their political lives under the delusion that facts and calm, reasoned, discourse is the secret to our current authoritarian descent, as if the world were written by Aaron Sorkin. It was not.By The Grift Show
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The Normie's Guide To The Alt-Right Pt 2
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3:10:53Rev and Gonzo continue their explanation of the alt-right and how we all got here.By The Grift Show
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She gives you feedback. Your wife makes a simple request. Maybe she expresses disappointment. And before she even finishes her sentence, you're already building your defense case like a trial lawyer. Sound familiar? In this raw and revealing episode, Chuck, Ari, and Faisal dive deep into one of the most relationship-damaging patterns Nice Guys fall…
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The Normie's Guide To The Alt-Right Pt. 1
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2:44:58This week, beyond covering all the news that got lost in the aether due to Kirk-discourse dominating literally every minute of the news cycle for the last seven days, Rev and Gonzo begin part one of what will be a two part series on the rise and nature of the alt-right with a brief history of how the US managed to go from Nixon to Richard Spencer.…
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Should you date single moms? It's the question that divides the manosphere — and maybe your dating life. In this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive into one of modern dating's most controversial topics. No sugar-coating. No political correctness. Just three divorced dads sharing hard-earned wisdom about navigating the single parent…
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Every parent fears they're screwing up their kids. But as a Nice Guy coach with a 10-year-old son, Ari faces a chilling realization: What if he's accidentally raising the next generation of people-pleasers? In this raw and honest conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck dig into the hardest parenting questions: How do you tell the difference between ki…
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Navigating Perimenopause: How to Support Your Wife and Strengthen Your Marriage In this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast, Chuck Chapman addresses a common yet rarely discussed issue in marriages: perimenopause. Many men notice a significant change in their wives' behavior, mood, and sex drive during this phase, leading to feelings of discon…
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9/11 Is Why 2025 Is The Way That It Is and Another Turning Point For The USA
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2:31:1624 years ago today the trajectory of the United States was changed forever, inexorably leading to everything we're all dealing with today. Yesterday the trajectory of media punditry was also changed forever. Rev and Gonzo talk about both, almost exclusively.By The Grift Show
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Survivors Speak Out, Our Healthcare Leaders Fail Us, And We Angrily Tell You Why You're Wrong
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2:35:07The boys are back after a week off and this is a loud one. Rev and Gonzo cover all the week's news that they can remember off the top of their ill-prepared heads, culminating in a much-needed, co-op diatribe about all the ways that everyone has caused nothing but infuriation with their nonsense.By The Grift Show
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Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Adoration in Marriage
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6:25Join Chuck Chapman in this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast as he discusses why admiration alone is not enough for a fulfilling marriage. Learn the vital difference between admiring and adoring your wife, and how expressing adoration can transform your relationship. Discover how to connect deeply with your wife's essence, making her feel ch…
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Should We Legalize & Regulate Prostitution?
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35:37Should We Legalize Prostitution? The Sexual Frustration Crisis Men Are Facing This episode tackles one of the most controversial questions of our time: Should prostitution be legal? But it's not just about policy — it's about the sexual shame, frustration, and isolation that's destroying men in silence. Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the rea…
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Significance vs. Validation: Why Every Man Needs to Feel He Matters
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7:48Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome: Reclaiming Your Significance In this episode of The Confident Husband Podcast, host Chuck Chapman addresses the common fear among men, especially those recovering from 'nice guy syndrome,' of appearing needy. Chapman explores the origins of this fear rooted in childhood, where many were taught that expressing needs cou…
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You second-guess every decision. You overthink every conversation. You're constantly worried about doing the wrong thing, upsetting someone, or messing up. Sound familiar? That's what we're diving into in this episode: why nice guys don't trust themselves — and how that lack of self-trust is sabotaging every relationship in their lives. Chuck, Ari,…
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Dennis Prager And His Fake "University" Are A Nightmare
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2:19:05With that godawful Christopher Columbus clip making the rounds again on social media, Rev and Gonzo explore just a small number of the nigh infinite ways Dennis Prager and his fake "university" are the ghoulish worst.By The Grift Show
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The Secret to Better Relationships: From Defensiveness to Curiosity
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9:43Transform Conflict with Curiosity: Moving Beyond Defensiveness in Relationships This episode delves into the concept of defensiveness in relationships and its impact on connection. The speaker shares personal experiences and professional insights to illustrate how defensiveness can escalate conflicts by protecting one's ego, rather than the relatio…
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Nice-Guys Are Afraid To Decide. How Your Indecision Is Costing You Everything
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35:01You think you're being careful and thoughtful. She thinks you're weak and can't lead. In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Ari, Chuck, and Faisal expose how indecisiveness is secretly destroying your relationships and keeping you trapped in mediocrity. From Ari's embarrassing wedding speech where he called himself "the Obama of the relationship" (…
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Our Continuing Descent into Fascism and the Philosophical Nature of Existence
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2:01:38We cover a lot this week.By The Grift Show
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Who Should Initiate Sex? She Doesn’t Initiate It
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51:00Ari, Chuck, and Faisal dive deep into one of the biggest complaints they hear from men: "My wife never initiates sex anymore." Whether you're in a dead bedroom situation, feeling like you're always chasing, or wondering if you stopped initiating whether sex would happen at all… this conversation is going to open your eyes. We get into: Why "it's al…
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I Thought I was Angry, Turns Out I Was Just Hurt
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8:37By Chuck Chapman, M.A.
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We don't like ICE. At all. In fact, you could say we hate ICE. This is the episode why we explain why. Doesn't really get more straightforward than that, does it?By The Grift Show
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Paying for Dates Nice Guy Trap or Masculine Move. High-Value Men Do this.
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1:05:07Ari went on three dates with an attractive, successful woman. He paid for the first two dates (including a $200 dinner), then asked her to pay for the third. She immediately went cold and ghosted him completely. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down exactly what happened — what Ari did right, what went wrong, and the deeper dynamics at pla…
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Not gonna lie, this is not an episode where we have what anyone could call a topic. Fortunately, we're often at our best when we're running entirely on vibes and getting sidetracked You do get extended rants about Star Trek II and 7th Heaven, though, so you've got that to look forward to.By The Grift Show
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Can't Last? Can't Satisfy Her? Ex-Porn Star Breaks Down What You're Doing Wrong
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1:12:04Most guys never learned how to lead in the bedroom — or last long enough to even enjoy it. In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, we’re talking about what really satisfies her… and it’s probably not what you think. Former top adult film star Erik Everhard joins Ari, Chuck, and Faisal to break down the hidden causes of sexual performance anxiety — an…
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The Upside of Divorce - Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better?
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1:10:07In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari flip the script on one of the most dreaded life events a man can face: divorce. Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better? All three of us have been through it. And in this honest, hilarious, and deeply reflective conversation, we explore: Why divorce might be t…
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The Keys To A Resilient Divorce - Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure
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43:44In this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the messy reality of divorce for Nice Guys. If you're going through a divorce or recently divorced, this conversation will hit you right in the gut — and then lift you back up. We explore: What it means to "Nice Guy your divorce" (and why we all do it) The brutal truth about care…
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In this episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari tackle one of the most triggering phrases for modern men: “Man up.” You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve been shamed by it. But what if — just maybe — it’s a wake-up call we actually need? In this deep and vulnerable conversation, we explore: - Why “man up” can feel like a slap — or a step forward - The difference b…
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The Truth About Right Wing Populism
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2:13:01Rev. Al has a thesis about right wing populism that he's developed, and dammit, he intends to share it to anyone who'll listen (and anyone who won't) We also cover the news, as usual, and gush lovingly about James Gunn's brilliant new Superman (THERE WILL BE SPOILERS)By The Grift Show
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Hey! We're back after yet another unexpected week off due to yet another catastrophic air-conditioning failure in the studio! Join us as we talk about as much of the things that have happened that our respective ADHD will allow us to talk about without getting distracted, most of which does, in fact, revolve around our boy Donnie's less-than-stable…
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It's A Skibidi Massacre! or Big Beautiful Blunder
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1:44:51Where does one even begin with this past week? Nothing good happened. We discuss all the not-good until we decide we can't discuss it anymore. What else is there even to say at this point, eh?By The Grift Show
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She Left Without Warning: Walkaway Wife Syndrome Explained
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1:03:56Most guys don’t even see it coming. One day everything seems fine, and the next… she’s done. Moved out. Checked out. Gone. That’s what we’re talking about in this episode: Walkaway Wife Syndrome — the slow emotional exit a lot of women make while their husbands are completely asleep at the wheel. Ari, Chuck, and Faisal all share what happened in th…
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Trump Bombed Iran, NYC Democrats Chose Mamdani, and That One Time a 12-year-old Gonzo Was The Leader of a Cult.
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2:04:18Jesus Christ, a lot can happen in a single week, and we're here, powered by ADHD and mild substances, to wade through it all as best we can. Is it WWIII? Is NYC a glimpse of our future? Also, what's this about Gonzo being the leader of a cult he didn't know about when he was in the eighth gade? Let's find out!…
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What happens when men unplug, step away from their routines, and connect deeply—with themselves and each other? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Gronich dive into the transformative power of men’s retreats. From adventures in the Mojave Desert to solo days in state parks, we explore why retreats are more …
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How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard To Set A Date
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30:36NGS 105 – How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard to Set a Date 🔥 Ever found yourself trying to set up a simple date… and suddenly it turns into a negotiation or a rejection minefield? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari break down how charismatic, high-value men navigate situations where women make it difficult t…
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Live From The Kava Bar, It's THE GRIFT SHOW
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2:09:21The a/c in the studio being broken kept us down last week, but we weren't about to let that happen again, so its our very first remote shoot! A lot happened the last two weeks, and Rev and Gonzo are on location to do their best to make as much sense as possible of it all as only they can: entirely stream of consciousness.…
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A Men's Coach Gets Friendzoned: How to Handle It & Avoid It Next Time
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1:05:12It happened again! Ari got friend-zoned, and he's bringing his dating dilemma to the Nice Guy Show for a raw, real, and incredibly helpful discussion for all men. In this episode, we dive deep into the painful experience of being friend-zoned and, more importantly, how to avoid it and ignite genuine attraction. What you'll learn in this episode: 💔 …
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It's June! That means Pride month is upon us. Why does that matter? Why should you care? LET'S FIND OUT TOGETHER! (Note: Gonzo and Rev. Al know why it's important, but we're not sure everyone else does, so we're pretending to learn this together to lure them in surreptitiously. It's a clever ruse, you see… a cunning attempt to trick people into emp…
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In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Graff dive deep into what it means to be a confident husband and how to achieve an integrated marriage. Chuck Chapman, the focus of this episode, shares insights into his "Confident Husband Solution" program, designed to help men navigate the complexities of marriage…
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Nice Guys Unleashed: Real Talk from Cancun - What We Learned from Dr. Glover's NCON 25!
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33:35Summary In this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Coker, and Ari Graf reflect on their recent experiences at a men's conference in Cancun, Mexico. They discuss the importance of in-person connections, the courage displayed by participants, and the nuances of leadership. The conversation highlights the journey of personal gro…
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Trump's TACO Trouble and The Systemic Collapse Of The Economy
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2:39:26We're back again, this week delving into the myriad ways that our economy has been set up for failure due to systemic inadequacies. Its a hoot!By The Grift Show
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Yes, We're Mostly Talking Andor Again
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2:51:52We can't help if its one of the top five best television shows of all time AND just so happens to be frighteningly relevant to our current real world predicament, can? No. No we cannot. Because of that, and because the season and series are both complete, we don't feel the least bit bad about talking at length, again, about how much we love the ent…
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