A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expect ...
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Create Generational WEALTH in Your Marriage with these FOUR Simple Principles!
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41:02In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Ben Black, father of four and founder of Dynasty Foundry, to discuss his mission to empower men to build lasting wealth—not just for today, but for generations to come. Ben shares his journey from a self-focused mindset to embracing the responsibility of creating a legacy for his children, emphasizing the…
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5 Rock Solid Reasons Men Are Made to Lead in Marriage: Blending Logic, Biology & Faith
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17:10In this eye-opening video, we dive into 5 compelling reasons why men are made to lead in marriage, blending logic, biology, and faith for a balanced perspective. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or understand traditional roles better, this discussion equips men to step up as the leaders their wives truly desire. Key highlights…
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Why ”Partnership” in Marriage = Betrayal of Masculine Leadership: A Case Study
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11:23In this thought-provoking video, we explore a real-life dilemma faced by a couple struggling to align on a critical decision: whether to expand their family further. Based on a conversation with a woman on X, we unpack a situation where her husband made a unilateral decision to get a vasectomy behind her back, leading to feelings of deep betrayal. …
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What Women Find Attractive in Men: The Ultimate Guide to Masculinity and Long-Term Attraction
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16:32Discover the secrets behind how women subconsciously assess a man's masculinity and how you can rank higher in their eyes to boost attraction. In this in-depth video, we break down the key factors that women prioritize when evaluating men, from the critical importance of personal hygiene to the impact of facial features, grooming habits, and body c…
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Why Your Wife Stopped Sleeping with You: And It’s Not Your Technique:
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19:12In this thought-provoking video, we explore the hidden reasons why modern marriages are struggling, both in the bedroom and beyond. The core issue? For women ages 20-49 it's most likely due from the overwhelming mental load that women carry while trying to "have it all." From balancing demanding careers and motherhood to maintaining relationships a…
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Relationship Expert Reveals Why Being a NICE GUY Leads to a Dead Bedroom
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How to Talk to Your Wife About the Lack of Sex Without Pissing Her Off
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17:16Struggling with a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the difficult but crucial conversation about addressing a lack of intimacy in relationships. Talking about the "birds and the bees" with kids is awkward, but discussing intimacy issues with your spouse can be even harder. With 25-50% of marriages facing low libido or sexless challenges, t…
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Relationship Expert Laura How: The Secret to Marriage Happiness & Keeping the Bedroom Hot Long Term
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1:00:56Join us for an in-depth and inspiring conversation with Laura How, a renowned UK-based relationship counselor and coach, and the creator of the YouTube channel @LauraHow. In this episode, we explore the complexities of building and sustaining a thriving marriage in today’s world. Laura shares her personal journey, from overcoming a challenging upbr…
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PART 2: Why Your Husband Won’t Sleep with You: 7 Key Insights
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19:41Explore the seven critical reasons behind a husband's lack of interest in intimacy in this comprehensive video guide. Building on Part 1, where we discussed low testosterone, changes in a wife’s appearance, and chronic disrespect, this video delves into the final four reasons that can strain marital intimacy. We provide detailed insights into emoti…
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Why Your Husband Won’t Sleep With You: 7 Key Reasons
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18:59In this eye-opening episode, we dive into a question that’s more common than you think: Why does my husband have a low libido? While this issue is often discussed from a male perspective, many women face the challenge of a sexless marriage due to their husband’s lack of desire. With 25-50% of marriages classified as sexless (Psychology Today) and 1…
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Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want to Sleep With You: Debunking Common Myths
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11:43Are you struggling to understand why your wife’s interest in intimacy has waned? In this video, we dive deep into the common myths about why women may lose sexual interest in their husbands and reveal the truth about what drives female attraction. From debunking the idea that it’s all about technique or financial motives to exploring the emotional …
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Happy Marriage Possible? Or Are They All Doomed? | Relationship Advice for Men
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16:22In this video, we dive deep into the complexities of female attraction and why so many men struggle to maintain it in marriage. From navigating the overwhelming advice on YouTube to understanding the different "crowds" of men offering solutions, we break down what works and what doesn't. Whether it's the "never get married" group, the "pump and dum…
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The Real Reason She Won’t Forgive: Relationship Advice for Men When She Can’t ”Get Over It”.
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16:18Struggling with unforgiveness in your marriage? In this in-depth video, we unpack a real-life story from my free community about a husband caught in a common relationship mistake that spiraled into a major conflict. After receiving “accidental” text messages from a woman—the husband engaged in friendly, non-sexual conversations. His wife claims thi…
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Why Women Avoid Accountability in Marriage & Why Men Should Stop Trying to Make His Wife ”Happy”
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58:26Join us for an insightful and transformative episode of the podcast where I’m thrilled to be joined by Karyn Seitz, the creator of the Happy Wife School YouTube channel. Both of our channels share a mission to empower women to cultivate their own happiness and help men navigate the complexities of modern relationships. In this engaging conversation…
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Keep her Wanting You For Decades! The 6 Attraction Pillars Men MUST Master
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48:50Thanks for joining our exclusive live broadcast. Where we will go over the 6 Pillars to Long Term Sexual Attraction. This is a surface level mini bootcamp for my new course How to Create and Maintain Long Term Sexual Attraction. Join My Free Community Here: https://www.skool.com/understanding-women-4317/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73…
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Monetized in 6 Weeks: The Secret to 50K+ YouTube Subscribers in the 1st Year & Earnings Revealed!
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22:38Discover how I grew my YouTube channel, Modern Marriage with Monica, to 50,000 subscribers in just one year and how I got monetized in just 6 weeks! Learn the exact strategies, equipment, and editing tips that helped me succeed, plus behind-the-scenes insights on creating viral content (like my clip with 300,000+ views) that resonated with men seek…
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Relationship Expert Reveals What Actually WORKS to Keep Women Attracted Long Term
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48:15In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his…
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Sexual Self Mastery: How to Direct Your Masculine Energy that Creates Attraction
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39:05In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity. Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disc…
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Why You Discount Harsh Truths in Your Relationship: The Message Vrs the Messenger
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8 Characteristics of ”Unframed” Men Part 2: Become the Man a Woman Truly Desires
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11:43Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth. Building on last week’s insights—where we defined fra…
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8 Characteristics of ”Unframed” Men that Kills Her Sexual Attraction: Part 1
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15:43Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is ess…
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10 Laws For Married Men: Top Advice to Implement for Relationship Success: Part 1
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17:25Discover the final 5 of the 10 Laws for Married Men in Part 2 of our series. In this video, we dive deep into essential tips for a thriving marriage, covering why open communication is critical, how to avoid letting sex become a reward, and the importance of maintaining effort. Learn why setting boundaries and being willing to walk away are game-ch…
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10 Laws For Married Men: Top Advice to Implement for Relationship Success: Part 1
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21:28Unlock the secrets to a thriving, passionate marriage with my "10 Laws for Married Men" series! In this must-watch Part 1, we break down the first 5 essential principles every husband needs to master to become a better partner and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Designed specifically for men, these powerful laws cut through the nois…
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Marriage Not Worth It for Men? Surprising Benefits that Just Might Change Your Mind
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13:42Is marriage really a financial disaster waiting to happen, or could it be the key to a richer, happier life for men? In this in-depth video, we’re tackling the big question: Is marriage worth it? We’re diving into a fascinating article from the Institute of Family Studies (https://ifstudies.org/blog/debunking-the-ball-and-chain-myth-of-marriage-for…
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The Hidden Truth About Sex, Marriage & Divorce in Scripture: For Men Suffering in a Dead Bedroom
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30:19Are you a married man stuck in a sexless marriage for years—or even decades? You’re not alone. In this in-depth video, we explore the heartbreak of sexless marriages, a major source of unhappiness for countless husbands. Why do men stay? The top reasons I hear in the comments are: 1) wanting to raise their kids, 2) fearing financial ruin from divor…
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Dead Bedroom Fix: Advice for Married Men Suffering with a Low Libido Wife
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1:09:37In this powerful episode, Monica Almaguer sits down with Ralph from Dad Starting Over and HelpForMen.com to dive deep into the topic of "dead bedroom" struggles in relationships. Ralph, author of the bestselling book The Dead Bedroom Fix, shares his personal journey from divorce to rebuilding his life and offers practical advice for men facing inti…
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7 Mistakes Men Make that Destroys His Wife’s Emotional Connection
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27:24Are you feeling emotionally disconnected from your spouse? In this in-depth video, we explore why emotional connection is the key to a thriving marriage—and why it’s often the missing piece when intimacy fades. Based on real-life insights, I share my own experience of noticing distance from my husband and realizing it stemmed from unspoken issues. …
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Man Sends Wife a Spreadsheet of all the times She Denied Him Sex: What You Can Learn from It
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19:34What Would You Do If Your Husband Tracked Your Sex Life? | Viral Reddit Story Breakdown Ever heard of the husband who made a spreadsheet of all the times his wife denied him sex? This wild story, originally posted anonymously on Reddit in 2004, went viral again recently—and people have opinions. Over 7 weeks, he logged 27 attempts, with only 3 succ…
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The Sex Conversation Churches Refuse to Have & How It’s Contributing to Dysfunctional Marriages
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16:53I attended a marriage conference hosted by a Las Vegas community church last weekend—not to learn, but to research. What are these events teaching about marriage priorities? After two days, I found the same surface-level advice: pray together, communicate better, keep God at the center. Check, check, check. But something critical was missing—sex. S…
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7 Signs Your Wife Might Be Cheating (Don’t Ignore These Red Flags!)
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13:26Is your wife having an affair? Discover 7 subtle signs your wife might be cheating or your marriage is at risk— from leveling up her appearance to secretive phone habits. Don’t confront her too soon—gather proof first! We dive into stats (like a 75% divorce risk if her friend’s divorced) and real-life insights. Watch now to spot the clues: new ling…
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With a 50% divorce rate and women filing most cases, are men opting out of marriage? In this video, we dive into hypergamy—women’s natural tendency to seek higher-status partners—and the concept of 'monkey branching.' Does hypergamy stop after marriage, or do women keep searching for a better option? We debunk myths (no, it’s not just about money!)…
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When Is It Time to Leave a Sexless Marriage? | Dead Bedroom Advice for Men
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16:19Struggling in a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the tough question: When is it time to leave a sexless marriage? From years of no intimacy to a complete lack of affection, too many men are stuck in "Sexless Island" —some for decades—turning into shells of their former selves. We explore why guys stay (faith, finances, kids), when divorce…
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Overcoming Infidelity: How Marriages Can Survive & Even Thrive After The Ultimate Betrayal
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47:35Welcome back to our channel where today we dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity in marriage. Can a marriage truly recover from such a betrayal? To explore this, we're joined by George Hayworth, a husband, father, combat veteran, and the founder of Elite Sentinel Coaching. In This Video: Introduction to George Hayworth: Discover George…
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MASTERCLASS: Women’s Hormones & Sexual Desire: What Men Need to Know
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24:51Ever wondered why your sex life might change after marriage? In this eye-opening video, we dive deep into the world of hormones and their impact on marital intimacy. What You'll Learn: The Reality of Hormonal Changes: Learn why your wife or fiancée might lose interest in sex as she ages, and how this is a common biological shift rather than a perso…
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The Gentleman Vs the Beast: The Key to Mastering Long Term Attraction in Relationships
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20:03Explore the complex dynamics of love, safety, and excitement in relationships! In this insightful video, we delve into: Core Needs of Women: Understanding why love and safety are fundamental yet can lead to issues like boredom. The Gentleman vs. The Beast: How the dual nature of providing stability (Gentleman Mode) and adventure (Beast Mode) can ke…
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3 Things Men Should NEVER Say to Women (And How to Improve Communication)
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12:00In today's video, we're diving into an important topic: the impact of the words men use when addressing a female: whether it is their wife or daughter. Have you ever said something that unintentionally made your wife feel like she's "not enough"? Let's break down common statements like "you always..." and "I wish you were more..." and explore how t…
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The Powerful Secret Strategy for a Happy Marriage
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8:08The Power of Reframing A few days before Christmas, I found myself in the ER after weeks of mysterious headaches. What followed was a rollercoaster of emotions, a surprising diagnosis involving a "brain crystal," and a heartfelt lesson in reframing life’s challenges. 🧠✨ In this video, I share my personal story, the quirks my husband now attributes …
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Women Behaving Badly: 3 ”Small” Ways Women in Relationships Destroy their Man
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10:383 Ways Women Destroy Their Relationship Without Realizing It | Women Behaving Badly In this video, we dive into three behaviors that can unknowingly damage your relationship, and how women sometimes destroy their man's confidence without even realizing it. Relationships can be complicated, and small actions or comments can have a lasting impact on …
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The #1 Attraction Trigger Men Overlook to Get & KEEP Women
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1:19By Monica Almaguer
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7 Signs She’s Cheating or About to End the Relationship
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17:25Ever wondered if your wife might be having an affair? In this eye-opening video, I share personal insights from my own past experiences as a former cheater to help you spot the signs. Here's what we cover: Sign 1: Sudden Improvement in Appearance - Why a change in style might signal more than just self-care. Sign 2: New Friends or Interests - The i…
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Why Your Husband Should NEVER Be Your Best Friend
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11:15Many couples proudly proclaim their spouse as their 'best friend" . In this video, we discuss why your husband or wife should never be your best friend. This is due to the fact that the more of a friend you are, the less of a lover you tend to be.By Monica Almaguer
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Obesity in Men: Hidden Dangers that WILL Destroy Your Relationship
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17:47In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concerns: Physical, financial, a…
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Wake Up MEN Before OBESITY Ruins Your Marriage Forever
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56:33Is your marriage at risk? In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concer…
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STOP Trying to ”Logic” Away A Woman’s Emotions! Do THIS Instead.
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11:44Fellas, have you ever found yourself in the middle of a heated moment with your wife, wondering, "Why is she so emotional about this?" If you’ve tried to “logic” her out of her feelings, only to make things worse, this video is for you. We dive deep into the emotional dynamics of relationships, explaining why logic doesn’t work in these situations …
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7 Signs She’s Into You (And 1 Misleading Signal You Need to Ignore!)
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18:52🎥 7 Signs She’s Into You (And 1 Misleading Signal You Need to Ignore!) Do you ever feel like women are speaking in a secret code when it comes to showing interest? Don’t worry—you’re not alone! In this video, I’ll guide you through 7 unmistakable signs that she’s into you. From personal space to lingering glances, I’ll help you decode the signals y…
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Why Men Stay in Awful Marriages & Why the Price May Be Too HIGH
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7:12Many men choose to stay in bad marriages for a variety of reasons. The most common are 1. Children still at home 2. The Financial Implications 3. Playing it "Safe" In this video I discuss why staying with a contentious, demeaning woman, for any of the above reasons is a poor decision.By Monica Almaguer
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Men! Feel Bait & Switched? Her Financial Security Plan Revealed
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10:16Do You Feel Like You've Been Bait-and-Switched in Your Marriage? 🤔 In this video, we explore why some men feel like their marriage took a turn for the worse after the honeymoon phase ended. You might be feeling like your wife has lost interest, the passion has faded, and that you've been bait-and-switched. But is that really what’s happening? I bre…
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Cheat Code for Men: What Women Need From You Revealed
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20:02Understanding each person's core needs the basis for a relationship/marriage long term success. In today's video, we explore what are the core needs of women. It is only by understanding your spouse's core needs that you can then meet them and have a long term healthy and happy marriage. Core needs are the building blocks in which the rest of the r…
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My $10,000 Mistake! 5 Expensive Life Lessons I Learned Playing This Game of Life
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13:09Life can be difficult but even in those tough times there's valuable lessons that can be learned. In this episode we explore 5 life lessons I learned by playing a treasure hunt type of radio station contest for the last seven years including one big mistake that cost me the $10,000 prize. Stick around for these motivating, inspiring and funny stori…
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Say Yes to Duty Sex! Why Men Should ALWAYS accept His Wife’s Offer
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14:01Men often will rejected their wife's offer for duty sex due to feeling like it's just another chore, something to cross off her "to do" list, taking it as a lack of physical attraction and desire for him, leading to a cascade of problems in their marriage. This video covers why duty sex shouldn't be considered pity sex. How it's not a rejection of …
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