All of us have been tapped on the shoulder intentionally or metaphorically to engage in conversation. Sometimes that conversation will have a siginificant impact on your life. This podcast interviews men and men leaders sharing times they have been tapped on the shoulder or to share ways you can tap other men on the shoulder.
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Will Knecht, Founder of More the Man is the guest on this episode. Will has been called to share biblical truth to other men through a weekly enewsletter, sharing what intimacy with Christ and biblical manhood looks like. He and Mike will discuss the struggles men face every day and how we can overcome and encourage other men in their walk with God…
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Bill Dempsey has 45 years of expereince in Naval Special Warfare and Special Operations. On this episode he and Mike talk about the Spiritual Warfare Belivers face everyday and how they need to prepare themselves. So many of our men do not understand about spiritual warfare and how God's Word helps to prepare, train, and guide us through the battle…
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On this episode of Shoulder Tap Podcast we are deviating a little from the premise of a Men's Ministry Leader interviewing Leaders in Men's Ministry to have Tara Hackney as our special guest. Tara is the author of the book Jesus Loves the Little Children , all the Children of the World to discus how dads can use her book to speak into their young c…
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Jay Cookingham, Founder of Strategic Fathering, is our guest on this episode. Jay speaks at men's events throughout the nation encouraging men especially in the area of working through pain. He will discuss some of that in this episode along with other areas of being a father as we will look a little at father wounds. [email protected] www.Strategic…
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Men's Alliance: A ministry to connect all the men of your church
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29:59Are you looking for a ministry to get all the men in your church connected regardless of their age from 13 - 113? This is the ministry for you. David "Goose" Mills the Director and Founder of Men's Alliance is my guest on this episode to talk about how Men's Alliance is revolutionizing ministries to men across the country.…
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My good friend Michael Rivera is the guest on this episode. Michael is on regularly and we talk about ministering to men as God leads us. We had no set agenda and we just flow as God leads. Let us know your thoughts on this episode and is there anything particular you would like for us to cover. Michael Rivera: [email protected] Find him on Face…
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Rick Barnettt, Founder and CEO of Barnett Financial and Tax, is the guest on this episode. Rick discusses the importance of how Believers need to approach finances from a Biblical perspective giving us some insight and tips as we prepare for our family's future. https://bftwealth.com/financial-university/ [email protected] Mike.Sandlin@CapeFearM…
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This is the closing message at the Iron Shaprens Iron National Men's Equipping Conference at Monroe, NC on April 5, 2025. Mike Sandlin, Director of Cape Fear Men was the speaker. He shared three points that every man should consider as he intentionally develop relationships to forge bounds to Speak Into the Lives; 1. Speak into the LIves of Your Fa…
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Marriage - What is Going On in Marriages in Today's Culture?
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32:29Willie Batson, a coach and counseling pastor for couples share what he sees in today's culture as he and Mike discuss the condition of marriages in the United States. Willie also shares about ministering to couples dealing with disabilities of a spouse or child. www.williebatson.com [email protected] www.joniandfriends.org www.capefearmen.net…
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Kevin Gregory of Man in the Mirror will share about what it means to be a spiritual father and the importance for churches to have an effective and effficient ministry to men. So many churches struggle with ministering to their men that only 5-8% of churches in the United States have an effective and efficient ministry to men. www.maninthemirror.or…
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How Serious Are You About Ministering to Men
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30:12Rex Tignor of Iron Sharpens Iron joins Mike on this episode to discusss what he see happening n the churches with men in today's culture. He will also discuss opportunities to be trained as a Certified Men's Ministry Leader and how you can use some of the videos Iron Sharpens Iron is developing for you to use for your men gathering in your local ch…
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As a Dad are You Listening to the Enemy's Lies
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29:57Sometimes us dads listen to the lies the enemy tries to tell us about about being a Father. Kent Evans on this episode will talk about some of those lies and what we need to do to overcome the enemy's attack. What are the rememdies to battle these lies. We will also talk about his new book, Don't Bench Yourself: How to stay in the Game Even hen You…
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Thomas McMIllan of Guardrail Ministries is Mike's guest on this episode. Thomas shares why men need to depend on other men in their day-to-day lives. As he says, "Women need an excuse to meet while men need a reason." We will talk about some of those reasons and how you can engage your men more effectively. Check out his new book, The 4 Tests of a …
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Disciple-Making - An Essential Element of the Christian Life
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26:31Disciple-making is one of the most essential elements of the Christian life. On this episode Chris Ackerson of Every Man a Warrior speak about the generational disciple-making and how it leads to success in all areas of life. Disciple-Making will help every man understand how to be successful in their personal walk with God. Chris@EveryManAWarrior.…
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Mark Denison Founder of There's Still Hope is the guest on this episode of The Shoulder Tap Podcast. Mark ministers to those who are struggling with porn addicition helping them to recovery. Are churches beginning to recognize the seriousness of this addicition within the church and what can churches do to help those who are trapped by this addicti…
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Dan Britton of Sports Life Leadership on this episode of The Shoulder Tap Podcast talks about his new book Daily Wisdom for Men among other interesting subjects to encourage and mentor men. Listen as Dan shares how men need to get their face in the book and fill themselves up each day with God's Word. www.SportsLifeLeadership.com DanBritton21@gmail…
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Have you ever notice somene who may seem to be having trouble in life? Have you ever wondered if there was something you could have done? Dennis Gillan of Half A Sorrow Foundation is the guest on this episode to talk about mental health and suicide prevention. It is a subject men tend to shy away from but one we need to be aware.…
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Why is our character so important? I mean, isn't character just who I am? What is the biggest issue men face when dealing with their character? Rod Handley the Founder and President of Character That Counts and MIke's will address these questions and much more on this program. Character that Counts provides many resources to engage men to help iden…
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Interview with a Local Church Men's Leader
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27:31Michael Figgens is a Men's Ministry Leader at his local church in Jacksonville, NC and is Mike's guest on The Shoulder Tap Podcast. Michael (Fig) shares how his church engages the men of the church and community and the ministries he is envolved with. One ministry they use as a tool to disciple men is Betterman. Michael shares how this is changing …
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Mike and Chris Harper of Betterman discuss The state of manhood. They will discuss why we need to be speaking into the next generation, the issues men are facing, why churches are not engaged in reaching their men, and what do we need to do to be better at connecting with men and helping them to understand what is a real man. 2024 State of Manhood …
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The face of addiction is changing with the onset of on-line gambling. Statistics are indicating that gambling addiction is overtaking pronography addiction as the number 1 concern with men in the church. Jack Alan Levine, an addiction expert, joins Mike on this episode to discuss the issues gambling addiction has and what one can do to overcome and…
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The Iron Sharpens Iron National Men's Equipping Conferences
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36:47Brian Doyle, Founder and President of Iron Sharpens Iron joins Mike on this episode to discuss the National Iron Sharpens Iron National Men's Equipping Conferences. We will review the history of the conferences and how these conferences differ from the large stadium and coliseum conferences and how these conferences can be used by the local church …
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On this episode we will discuss the founding and contining ministry of the Grand Strand Men's Conference in North Mrytle Beach, SC. Conference Founder Dusty Dodd will share what he sees hat men need in their lives, and the gap that is between church leaders and what men actually needs. Dusty will also share about the conference and how you can find…
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How do you build stronger deverse relationships? How can men work through various diverse issues? On this episode of The Shoulder Tap Podcast we have Elmo Winters, Founder and Executive Director of Kingdom Group. Elmo will help us work through these questions and share about the Unity Breakfasts Kingdom Group hosts. Elmo Winters: elmo@KingdomGroup.…
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Do you like to fish? Do you like to hunt? As a leader, are you using all the tools available to connect with the men in your church and community? Patrick Tyndell, Executive Director of Ironman Outdoors, on this episode shares about a ministry that will egage with many of the men in your local church and community. Patrick Tyndell: patrick@ironmano…
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An Organization to Help the Local Church in Ministering to Men
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37:33Scott Haima the Excutive Director of the National Coalition of Ministering to Men (NCMM) is the guest on this episode. Some of the topics discussed are; Who is the NCMM and how can this oroganization help the local church men's ministry? We will also discuss the question is there a gap between church leaders and what men are loking for in a church'…
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What Are Men Looking for in Men's Minisries?
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37:11Is there a gap between church leaders and the men of their respective churches? What are men looking for in regards to ministry to men? Do we need to connect with the next generation and speak into their lives? These are the questions Rex Tignor of ManUp Ministries as our guest will discuss and answer on this episode of The Shoulder Tap Podcast. Re…
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On this episode we will discuss why there is such a lack of Bible knowledge in the church today and how can we address this. We will talk about the lifestyle known as cultural christianity and the difference it has with Biblical Christainity and we will answer the question, "What should a man be looking for in a church when praying and searching fo…
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Michael Rivera of Building Brothers discuss with Mike what is happening with men and what we as men leaders need to do. The answer is to get men engaged in growing in Christ and understanding who they are in Christ. Michael Rivera's Email: [email protected] Find Building Brothers on Facebook www.CapeFearMen.net Mike Sandlin's Email: mike.sandlin…
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Spiritual Fathers: Boys Need Fathers, Men Need Spirituel Fathers
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31:30Do you ache for the next generation? Have you become the older man you wished you had in your life when you were the younger man. Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 2:2, "What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men who will be able to teach others also." Kevin Gregory and Chris Rondeau from Man in the Mirror joins me …
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Discussing Identity and Loneliness with Jeff Kemp
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38:29Jeff Kemp of the NFL fame is Mike's guest on this episode. The dicussion is centered around Jeff's new book Recieve: The Way of Jesus for Men. We discussed what shapes a man's identity and why are men feeling lonely. One of the solutions is developing Level 5 Friends. We will share what a Level 5 friend is and how we establish those relationships. …
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Dave Brown, Washington Area Coalition of Men’s Ministry (WACMM)
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34:41Dave Brown is the Director and Pastor-at-Large of the Washington Area Coalition of Men's Ministry. Dave and Mike discuss what it takes to engage the men in our community and the importance to speak into future generations. Dave worked in the Federal Government system for 25 years before he was called into full-time ministry to reach the men in the …
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A Local Church Men’s Leader: Brian Battle
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33:02Brian Battle is a Men's Ministry Leader in his local church. He doesn't have a ministry outside his church nor has written a book, but he has a heart to help men grow in their relationship with Christ. He is like many men in the local church seeking to make an impact. He is Mike's guest on this episode sharing his story of coming to Christ and how …
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Dennis Gillan of Half a Sorrow Foundation is on a mission to reverse the stigma of getting help for one's mental health. Being deeply touched by suicide he helps us to undersatnd why we need to be checking on our family and friends when they do not act normal. The statistics of who is more at risk of a completed suicide may surprise you. Mike and D…
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Josh Smith, the author of The Titus Ten is our guest on this episode. Josh discussed the foundations for Godly manhood and how everything in a man's life hinges on the kind of man he is. The Titus Ten: Foundations for Godly Manhood Josh's email: [email protected] Website: www.pabc.org www.CapeFearMen.net [email protected]…
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Michael Rivera of Building Brothers joins us again to share his story. Michael will share his favorite verse and his story about his journey into a relationship with Jesus Christ. [email protected] Find Building Brothers on Facebook www.CapeFearMen.net [email protected] Mike Sandlin / Cape Fear Men
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Tonya Skelly, the Pray-NC Event Coordinator and Elaine Funderburk join Mike to provide an update on the Pray-NC Event happening in Raliegh, NC on the capitol grounds on Saturday, October 14, 2023. www.Pary-NC.com [email protected] www.CapeFearMen.net [email protected] Mike Sandlin / Cape Fear Men
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Phil Routly, the President and Head Coach of Soul Impact is MIke's guest on this episode. Soul Impact is a coaching, training, teaching, speaking stratigic planning, and leadership development ministry. It is where Phil has the opportunity to serve individuals, businesses, ministries, teams and executives so they can increase their value to their c…
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Tonya Skelly and Pastor Julius Knooce joins Mike to update us on what is happening with Pray-NC as we move toward the monumental event on October 14, 2023 on the Capital Grounds in Raliegh, NC. www.Pray-NC.com [email protected] www.CapeFearMen.net [email protected] Mike Sandlin / Cape Fear Men
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Senator Josh Hawley of Missouri recently wrote, "All is not well with men in this country. The numbers tell the tale. Men are lonelier than ever before. They're dropping out of the labor force .... They're struggling more with drug abuse and alcohol. They increasingly forego a college education, even as they delay getting married and having kids." …
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On Saturday, October 14, 2023, men, women, and children in Christ will be gathering at the North Carolina State Capitol to pray for the state of North Carolina and our nation. Mike has as his guest on this episode, Tonya Skelly, Event Coordinator for Pray NC, and Pastor Mike Shoaf, an advisor for the Pray-NC organization to discuss the event and ho…
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Mike and his guest Mike Rivera of Building Brothers talk about some of the difficulties of ministering to men. The difficulties churches have in developing a mininstry to men and some of the rewards from working in men's ministry. Men's Ministry is one of the hardest mininstries a church can undertake but yet when you watch men begin to "Get It," i…
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Do you want to know the definition of a Real Man as the Bible defines a real man? Chris Harper of Betterman is MIke's guest on this episode and they will discuss a discipling ministry that will help you and the men in your sphere of influence to help men discover what a Real Biblical Man is as God design. This episode may change your thought on how…
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Dennis Merritt, Founder of FENG Men's Ministry is Mike's guest on this episode. FENG is a national ministry with chapters in several cities of the nation with one international chapter. Dennis will help us understand the mission of FENG, how the ministry came about, and their goals in the coming months. www.FENGMensMinistry.com FENGMensMinistry@gma…
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Carolina Men’s Group - a Network of Men Ministry Groups
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29:52Mike Sexton of Carolina Men is Mike's guest on this episode. Carolina Men is a ministry that connects various men's ministry opportunities and men's groups throughout the Carolinas. Starting in Charlotte, NC, Carolina Men has begun to spread. This episode will explain the mission of Carolina Men and its leaders and may imspire you to creat a simila…
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Mike's guest this week went through a disastrous divorce several years ago. As he worked his way through this event in his life, God led him to begin a ministry called Men's Divorce Recovery to encourage men going through and picking up the pieces from a divorce. Dale Brown, Founder of Divorce Recovery explains how the ministry began and how it hel…
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Haines Maxwell, one of the Founders of The Barn Ministry in Indian Lands, SC is Mike's guest on this episode. They will discuss the Barn Ministry, how it started and how it is reaching and encouraging men. This is a ministry that you could start in your community. www.BarnBrothers.org [email protected] [email protected] www.CapeFe…
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Thomas McMillan with Iron Shaprens Iron is the guest on this episode. Thomas is a frequent speaker at Iron Sharpens Iron Conferences. Thomas and Mike discusses the importance of connecting with men at different levels within the confines of ministering to men in the church. [email protected] www.IronSharpensIron>net Mike.Sandlin@…
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Chris Rondeau of Man in the Mirror is Mike's guest on this episode. They will discuss the common mistakes most churches make when ministering to men. Is your church making these mistakes? Listen and compare how your church is connecting with men and see if yours is one of those churches. www.ManInTheMirror.com [email protected] www.Ca…
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Michael Rivera of Building Brothers is Mike's guest on this episode. They are discussing being there for each other and having each other's back. Training is another key area seasoned men need to be doing to help the younger men be what God has called them to be. Leave a comment about the episode to help us bring you topics that you want to hear. m…
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