Best Brad And Lisa Valencia Podcasts (2025)

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168. Let Them Feel It: The Healing Power of Consequences 1:14:25

24h ago1:14:25

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What if the most loving thing you could do… was let someone face the full weight of their choices? In this episode, we unpack the hard truth that rescuing isn’t always love. We dive into why stepping in too soon can actually delay growth, how consequences can be the very tool God uses for transformation, and how to release the people we care about …

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167. The Warrior and the Helper: Reclaiming Biblical Roles in Marriage 1:05:10

8d ago1:05:10

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“Be strong and courageous.” (Joshua 1:9) God calls men to be protectors — not to dominate, but to defend with love. Women were created to strengthen, not diminish. In this episode, we break down God’s original design for marriage: where leadership is sacrificial, help is powerful, and true protection honors, covers, and brings life. We reclaim the …

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166. Quirks, Perks, and Love That Works 55:28

15d ago55:28

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Ever notice how the little quirks in your partner’s behavior can be endearing, amusing, and quickly shift to irritating? In this episode, we dive into the everyday idiosyncrasies that can sometimes drive us up the wall—like leaving cabinets open, repeating stories, or even being hilariously enthusiastic about dishwasher organization—and uncover how…

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165. Marked by Love : Loving and Serving Like Jesus — Especially When It’s Hard 1:00:01

22d ago1:00:01

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What does real love look like? In this episode, we explore the heart of Jesus’ love—the kind that washed Judas’ feet, embraced the outcast, and laid down everything for those who didn’t deserve it. Jesus said the world would know we are His followers by the way we love. That includes our spouses, especially when it’s difficult. Love isn’t just a fe…

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164. Silent or Explosive? How Shutting Down & Raging Both Hurt Your Marriage 56:35

29d ago56:35

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In this episode, we dive into the challenges many couples face when communication breaks down—particularly when reactions fall to extremes. Whether it's shutting down and withdrawing or explosive outbursts fueled by anger, both responses can cause long-term damage to your relationship. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, bu…

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163. Don't Skip Assessment: How This can Help Build Trust & Strengthen Your Marriage 45:51

1M ago45:51

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Trust and connection in marriage don’t just happen—they require regular reflection and assessment. In this episode, we discuss why honest self-assesement, and assessment of your marriage, is essential for both preventing issues and rebuilding trust after challenges. Join us as we discuss practical ways to assess communication, spiritual growth, and…

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162. Middle of the Miracle - Building faith to persevere 55:58

1M ago55:58

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of holding onto faith, even when the road gets tough, and why sometimes the greatest miracles happen in the middle of the mess. Whether you’re facing challenges in your marriage or looking to strengthen your relationship with your spouse, this episode offers biblical encouragement, practical advice, and po…

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161. The Empty Promise: Unmasking Infidelity’s Deception 46:11

2M ago46:11

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Infidelity often stems from deep-seated insecurities and unchecked pride, leading individuals to seek fulfillment outside their covenant with God and their spouse. The enemy cunningly offers half-truths, mixing a semblance of truth with poison, enticing hearts away from divine purpose. In this episode, we delve into the common threads underlying un…

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160. The Hidden Cost: Are you willing to sacrifice? 54:27

2M ago54:27

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What separates those who thrive in marriage from those who struggle? There’s a hidden factor—one that reveals who is truly willing to love sacrificially and who holds back. In this episode, we explore the biblical foundation of sacrifice in marriage, the unseen heart attitudes that define our willingness, and how embracing God’s design can transfor…

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159. Sacred & Set Apart: Protecting What Matters Most in Marriage 52:43

2M ago52:43

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In marriage, what you pursue is what you protect—so how are you safeguarding what matters most? In this episode of Unrelenting Pursuit, we’re diving into the sacredness of marriage—what it means to be set apart, held in high regard, and fiercely committed to honoring your covenant. We’ll explore how treating your marriage as holy and intentional cr…

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158. Stronger Together: Emotional Intimacy & Decision-Making in Marriage 50:41

2M ago50:41

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In this episode, we’re diving into two key areas that impact every marriage: emotional intimacy and decision-making. Many couples struggle to connect deeply, not because they don’t love each other, but because they don’t always understand how men and women experience emotional intimacy differently. We’ll also unpack the OODA Loop (Observe, Orient, …

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157. Stand by Me : Who you choose to stand beside shapes who you are inside 1:03:51

5M ago1:03:51

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The people closest to you have a powerful influence on your character, growth, and life’s direction. Yet, many—especially men—often overlook the importance of investing in this critical area of life. In this episode, we dive into how the people standing beside you shape the person you are inside. We’ll discuss the necessity of building a strong, in…

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156. Rooted in Connection – Keeping what REALLY matters 54:27

5M ago54:27

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In this episode, we explore how to keep the true heart of connection alive in your marriage and family during the Thanksgiving season. With all the expectations and traditions that come with the holidays, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters: your connection with God and your spouse. Join us as we discuss how to prioritize love, grace, an…

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155. Recognizing Manipulation: The Hidden Harm 1:01:10

6M ago1:01:10

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Manipulation often disguises itself in subtle ways, yet it deeply damages relationships and undermines trust. In this episode, we expose common tactics of manipulation, including: • Emotional Blackmail • Gaslighting • Passive Aggression • Victimhood • Control • Withholding Affection Learn how to identify and address these harmful behaviors—whether …

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154. The Breaking Leads to Breakthrough: Don’t Compromise 54:54

6M ago54:54

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In this episode, we explore how true breakthrough often requires a process of breaking, as God calls us to let go of the things that no longer serve His purpose in our lives. This journey applies to marriage, too, where compromising on Godly standards can feel like a way to avoid discomfort but ultimately leads us toward temporary relief instead of…

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153. The Little Things That Hurt: How Micro-Rejections Show up in Marriage 1:00:31

6M ago1:00:31

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In this episode, we dive into the subtle, often unnoticed behaviors—micro-rejections—that can slowly create a chasm between you and your spouse. Join us as we explore what micro-rejections look like, why they’re easy to overlook, and how they can build up over time to erode trust and connection. Learn how to recognize and address these small hurts …

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152. Transforming Your Marriage: 3 Questions That Can Change Everything” 52:06

6M ago52:06

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In this episode, we explore three transformative questions from Gary Chapman that can change the course of your marriage: •What can I do to help you? •How can I make your life easier? •How can I be a better husband/wife? These questions, when asked with humility and selflessness, open the door to deeper communication and connection. When you choose…

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Avoid the Trap of Weaponizing Intimacy 29:22

7M ago29:22

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In today’s episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Doug and Leslie Davis dive deep into an often-overlooked issue in marriage: weaponizing intimacy. When intimacy is used as a tool for control or punishment, it can cause deep wounds that weaken the foundation of trust and connection in a relationship. Leslie shares biblical insights and practical st…

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151. Love Languages: Unlocking Deeper Connection in Your Marriage 52:21

7M ago52:21

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In this episode, we dive into the connection between love languages, respect, and how you both give and receive love. Understanding your own love language, as well as your spouse’s, can radically impact the health of your marriage. We discuss how the way you express love ties into showing respect and how this directly influences your relationship w…

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Love, Laughter, and Legacy: Building a Strong Marriage with Latasha Kennedy 51:36

7M ago51:36

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Episode Overview: In this uplifting episode, Doug and Leslie Davis sit down with Latasha Kennedy, founder of Girlfriends Thriving, to discuss how couples can build a lasting, joy-filled marriage. Latasha shares valuable insights on the power of prayer, the importance of honesty, and how couples can avoid weaponizing intimacy. She also emphasizes th…

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150. Beyond Behavior: Living Out Genuine Transformation 48:58

7M ago48:58

48:58

In this episode, we explore the crucial difference between behavior modification and true transformation. While behavior modification focuses on outward actions and temporary change, true transformation comes from Christ and leads to lasting growth. Repentance plays a key role in this process, allowing you to move beyond simply altering your behavi…

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The Armor of God: Standing Strong in Marriage When Your Husband Denies God 36:19

7M ago36:19

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Episode Summary: In this powerful episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast, we sit down with Monica Hansen, host of The Graceful Warrior Podcast. Monica opens up about her personal journey of standing strong in her marriage while her husband denies God's existence. With raw honesty and deep faith, she shares how she relies on the armor of God …

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149. Navigating the Aftermath: When, How, and IF to Talk to Your Kids About Your Marriage Struggles 48:42

7M ago48:42

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In this sensitive episode, we tackle the challenging topic of communicating and healing with your children after experiencing the fallout from an affair. We understand that this is a difficult conversation, filled with emotions and uncertainties. Join us as we explore: 1. Finding the Right Words– How to approach the conversation honestly and age-ap…

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Core Values in Relationships: What They Can Do For You. 27:22

7M ago27:22

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In this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Doug and Leslie Davis dive into a common struggle in marriage—criticism over different methods. Have you ever found yourself frustrated because your spouse approaches things differently than you would? It’s easy to get caught up in how things are done, but true unity comes from focusing on shared value…

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148. Unlocking Her Heart: learning what really matters to your wife 51:14

7M ago51:14

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Men, respecting your wife means more than just making decisions—it’s about valuing her contributions, recognizing her wisdom, and praising her openly. Join us as we dive deeper into how these biblical principles can create a more balanced and fulfilling relationship. Go after strengthening your marriage by speaking your wife’s respect language. We …

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Strengthening Your Marriage with Shared Values: Don Manning's Advice for Couples 44:46

7M ago44:46

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In this 80th episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Doug and Leslie Davis sit down with Don Manning from Crazy Cool Family Ministries for an inspiring conversation on how couples can grow closer by focusing on shared values rather than getting stuck in criticism. Don unpacks the difference between values and methods, offering practical wisdom and p…

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147. Unspoken Signals: Learning how to communicate what REALLY matters to your man 53:00

8M ago53:00

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In this episode, we explore 6 practical ways to build up and empower your husband through respect, trust, and unwavering support that is covered by "Through The Word: Marriage Talks". https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans 1. Let Him Lead– Trusting and following his leadership helps him feel strong and confident. 2. Communicate Trust– Affirm your b…

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Overcome Impostor Syndrome: Mark Collins’ Journey to Finding Identity in Christ 41:04

8M ago41:04

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In this episode, we sit down with Mark Collins, a passionate minister who helps men overcome the grip of impostor syndrome. Mark opens up about the struggles he faced from a young age, growing up with deep feelings of inadequacy and guilt. He shares how a strained relationship with his father and a lack of affirmation from his mother caused him to …

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146. UNBREAKABLE : The Strength of Not Letting Go in Your Marriage 36:43

8M ago36:43

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Join us as we discuss the importance of never letting go! In this episode we dive deep into the power of perseverance in relationships. Every marriage faces challenges, but what sets lasting unions apart is the decision to hold on when times get tough. We’ll explore how commitment, faith, and intentional effort can help you overcome obstacles and b…

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Faith in the Fire: Addiction, Recovery, and Marriage with Tanya Gioia 48:59

8M ago48:59

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In this powerful episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we sit down with Tanya Gioia to hear her raw and inspiring story of navigating the storm of addiction within her marriage. Tanya opens up about her husband's battle with addiction and how her desire to "fix it" led to a cycle of enabling and frustration. Just four days before Christmas, everyt…

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10 things To Say To Defuse an Argument In Your Relationship 34:52

8M ago34:52

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In today's episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we're tackling a topic that every couple can relate to: navigating disagreements in a way that strengthens, rather than weakens, your relationship. Even the most devoted Christian couples will face conflicts from time to time, but it's how we respond to these challenges that truly defines the health…

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Building a Balanced Partnership: Sharon Costanzo on Shared Values and Resilience in Marriage 35:23

11M ago35:23

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Ever wondered how to maintain a strong, balanced marriage amidst life's chaos? Sharon Costanzo from Respected and Connected joins us to share her compelling journey from an achievement-oriented upbringing to creating a partnership that thrives on mutual respect and egalitarian values. Sharon opens up about the unique challenges she faced in finding…

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Healing and Renewal in Marriage: Brad and Lisa Valencia's Journey of Faith, Redemption, and Personal Growth 49:48

11M ago49:48

49:48

Could your marriage withstand the weight of hidden challenges and small compromises? Join us on this powerful episode of the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast as we welcome Brad and Lisa Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit. They courageously share their transformative story from marital strife to triumph, driven by Brad's conviction to reveal the miracl…

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Overcoming Communication Barriers in Marriage: 3 Key Deterrents and Biblical Insights: A Throw-Back Episode 35:42

12M ago35:42

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Ever found yourself lost in translation within your own marriage? This week on The Vision-Driven Marriage we drop a throwback episode to continue on our quest to help you avoid separation. In this episode we return to episode 4 of the podcast to discuss the importance of understanding our differences and giving grace in times when communication is …

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Honest and Open Communication: The Art of Transformative Communication in Marriage 19:43

12M ago19:43

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Have you ever wondered how to turn communicating in a relationship from mundane check-ins to profound connections? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we reveal how open and honest communication can act as the glue that binds the hearts of spouses together. Honest and Open Communication Our discussion peels back the layers of fear that often shroud …

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145. Distract, Deceive, Destroy - Paying attention to how these three tactics impact your marriage. 49:57

12M ago49:57

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The truth is that you make time for what you prioritize, and that plays out in your spiritual, emotional, and physical health, along with your marriage. You have to create space for connection because the distractions will always be there! The enemy uses the same playbook with all of us, and if he can't deceive us or destroy us, he will settle for …

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Loving Selflessly 24:34

12M ago24:34

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Unlock the secrets to a more resilient and loving marriage with us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we delve into the art of selfless love on the Vision-Driven Marriage podcast. Inspired by the profound wisdom of 1 Corinthians 10:24, we reveal how putting your spouse's well-being at the forefront can dramatically shift the dynamics of your relationship. …

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144. What You Tolerate Dominates - How what you tolerate impacts you, your marriage, and your walk with God. 54:30

1y ago54:30

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In the book, "Extreme Ownership," by Jock Willink he quotes, "It's not what you preach, it's what you tolerate." This caused us both to take a good hard look at ourselves, and areas in our life where this has had an impact. The reality is that what you tolerate...dominates. Challenge for this week is to look inward at what you are tolerating indivi…

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Rescuing Your Marriage from the Brink: Randy Pryor's Guide to Reconnection and Personal Growth 41:23

1y ago41:23

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Have you ever felt the ground beneath your marriage start to crumble, leaving you scrambling for a foothold? Randy Pryor joins us to extend a lifeline, introducing his SOS Reconnection Method for men facing separation head on. As a former workaholic whose marriage was torn apart, Randy transformed his life and now guides others through the labyrint…

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143. Facing Your Fears - How to gain confidence and let go of control 50:00

1y ago50:00

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So often, fear can take us down a road that leaves us crippled, trying to be prepared for all scenarios and in control. But that control is an illusion, and instead fear ends up robbing us of our present, and of our future. Stand in God's truth for your life and have confidence in who He is and what He can do. https://open.spotify.com/episode/0BMxs…

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The Top Three Things That Keeps Couples from Playing The Long Game 25:41

1y ago25:41

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Have you ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your partner, even when you're both speaking English? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the top three things that keeps couples from playing the long game. In our heartfelt dialogue, we discuss the art of active listening and echo back techniques that forge a path to clari…

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142. Part 2 - Practical Steps to Protect Your Marriage 1:09:31

1y ago1:09:31

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The reality is that every marriage faces stress, and the first responder world has some additional stressors to navigate. HOW you navigate those, who you turn to, your relationship with Christ, how you listen, how you die to self, and how you handle the adrenaline rush will determine the direction of your marriage. Don't be a statistic. You are eas…

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Feeling Lonely In a Marriage? How to Deter Miscommunication and Connect in Your Marriage 23:29

1y ago23:29

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Feeling lonely in a marriage? Have you and your spouse ever found yourselves surrounded by a life full of blessings yet shadowed by an inexplicable sense of solitude? That's the silent shadow we, Doug and Leslie Davis, confront this week as we candidly open up about our own journey through the nuanced challenges of marital loneliness. Amid the hust…

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141. How Your Job impacts Your Marriage - A look into the first responder world 1:10:17

1y ago1:10:17

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The first responder world is riddled with a high divorce rate, and constant variables that contribute to an unhealthy marriage. We dive into our own experience in this realm as both a team member and spouse, and offer some insight to help protect and bring hope to your marriage. Links: https://thinblue1st.org/mission-%26-vision https://digitalcommo…

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Will My Relationship Last? Understanding How To Play The Long Game in Marriage 33:25

1y ago33:25

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Have you ever found yourself at a Christmas celebration, only to realize that what you thought was the perfect gift led to a miscommunication and a need for forgiveness? Leslie and I found ourselves in such a pickle, which became a lesson in grace and understanding—a story we share with you, our cherished listeners. This episode of Vision Driven Ma…

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140. Saying Yes to God - What does it look like to take the next right step? 1:04:01

1y ago1:04:01

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We were so honored to have our daughter on this episode as she shares what saying yes to God has done in your life. There were so many truths that emerged throughout this conversation for your faith, life, and marriage. When God asks you to say yes to something, don't practice delayed obedience, and when He asks you to let go, don't hold on. Life i…

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Secrets of a Successful Marriage with Colette and Bryce Schaffer 44:15

1y ago44:15

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Discover the sacred blend of divine guidance and practical wisdom as marriage coaches Colette and Bryce Schaffer join us to unravel the secrets of a successful marriage. They shed light on the sobering reality of marriages breaking at an alarming rate and how to counteract this trend with a robust Biblical foundation. The Schaffers bring nearly thi…

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139. A Year of Firsts - How to navigate through the anniversaries of the hard things in life 54:24

1y ago54:24

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This is a discussion we had never had before this episode. We openly wrestle through what it looks like to hold both joy and pain together at the same time, and allow you to hear the perspective of both of us and what it looked like to navigate through the first year after our breach in trust. Ultimately, we encourage you to lean into a perspective…

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Navigating Life's Journey with Faith: Barbara Culver's Testimony of Love, Purpose, and Resilience 32:16

1y ago32:16

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When Barbara Culver joined us, her words painted a vivid tapestry of a life utterly transformed by faith. Her story, which we're thrilled to share with you, begins with a lonely childhood and unfolds into a rich narrative of love, purpose, and the profound influence of Scripture. As she recounts her path to becoming a cherished teacher of the Word …

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138. Obstacles to Better Sex in Your Marriage 1:01:40

1y ago1:01:40

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There are many things that can create obstacles to great sex in your marriage. These include your memories, communication, past trauma, libido, age, changes, stressors, insecurities, and addiction. There are many obstacles, but there is such hope! God can redeem, heal, and restore this area. Don't let anything stop you from reclaiming ground in thi…

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