Best Bobo And Flex Podcast Podcasts (2025)

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what is cheating? 54:38

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in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that constitutes as cheating? how does monogamy culture affect this? and so much more! enjoy!! FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW U…

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what happens when we die? 49:46

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in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, and we dissect the extent to which those accounts are fictional constructs or accurate depictions of the path into the afterlife. We also discuss the role of aliens in our cosmos, and the Garbovoi hea…

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meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith 47:26

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Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the various ways that we tend to live in bad faith and differentiate between actively living vs passively settling into life's circumstances. And, so much more!! e…

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ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis 1:06:18

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Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently ableist. We talk about some of the ways that society is disabling and how that lives alongside the online trends of depression/anxiety. We also talk about the controversy of self-diagnosis and how cu…

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is it ethical to lie to kids? 44:12

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This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and nurture their imagination and sense of fantasy without shielding them from reality? We discuss the context and cultural nuances that come with truth vs lies. We dissect the consequences of growing up u…

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wedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness 1:20:36

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We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *really* owe each other," and "what should we expect from each other?" We also discuss the toxicity of wedding culture and why romantic traditions carry so much weight. AND; we dissect why marriage has such a low success rate. enjoy!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: …

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shrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind 57:34

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What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it affects your perception of life and self. We also discuss the politics of drug culture and the stigma's attached to certain drugs. We then finish off with a spiralyyyy conversation about all the different ways our minds work - and how that's all affe…

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conflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love 57:36

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In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and whether or not romantic love is sustainable. We discuss the nuances of conflict compatibility, the various ways in which we all process and express our emotions, and whether or not heteronormative relationships are sustainable in a world where women a…

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what is the perfect religion? 1:05:25

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this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ... if that were even possible. We discuss how ambition intersects with compatibility. We get into whether or on adopting kids is morally superior to having kids ... and so much more! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&…

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Q&A: did eve really eat the apple? 59:19

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this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we talk about our dream dinner guests, we unpack whether or not adam gaslit Eve, and we try to understand why people still settle for unfulfilling relationships and whether or not romance is actually sustainable. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.…

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everything is a scam 1:12:55

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WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusions of reality. We discuss whether or not there is such a thing as a *good* politician. We get into virtue signaling, woke culture and question the utility of pursuing political change. enjoy!! ALSO; we would LOVE if you could take this survey to help …

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bella thorne & white feminism 1:03:34

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this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional feminism? was feminism as a whole, ever intended to liberate us? AND; we discuss Bella Thorne's white saviourism. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455 BOBO'S…

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sacrifice vs compromise 1:20:59

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this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health and capitalism. we interrogate; who's responsibility is it to protect our mental health? what do influencers and celebrities owe us? we also dive into a juicy AITA and unpack the idea of sacrificial love and where we should draw the line between sacrif…

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make your statement and go 1:04:14

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this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We also get into Plato's allegory and how it can help us understand each other's realities and help us have more productive conversations about race.enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com…

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the aliens are coming 53:15

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this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow children, the origins of humankind, the limitations of being in a 3-dimensional world ... and we figure out whether or not reality is real. hint: it's not!enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.faceb…

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people don't care 1:16:42

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this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode your health for the benefit of capitalism, as well as our argument for anarchy!! Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:https://www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com…

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AITA for cleaning poop off my friend 1:11:38

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This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean to be a good friend? when, if ever, is it appropriate to give unsolicited advice? and, is honesty really the best policy?Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTA…

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Jada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour 1:05:56

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This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We unpack what it really means to commit and be loyal to someone. AND; most importantly we talk about sexual consent and how that intersects with class, privilege and power dynamics.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:ww…

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what is the point of representation? 1:03:26

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This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss the futility of getting a 'seat at the table,' why being 'the first black' is not success, and we unpack the popular idea that the black experience is improving over time.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.face…

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are you morally obligated to love your family? 56:48

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This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma, whether or not the nuclear family is an outdated format for raising kids, and so much more! enjoy :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/bo…

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growing up in a black household 58:24

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This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised African. We talk about black parenting vs white parenting, and the exhaustion of being perceived as a strong black woman. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGR…

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PLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets? 59:47

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This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everything from the ethics of animal agriculture, the moral significance of our thoughts, the paradox of moral obligations, AND SO MUCH MORE !BUY REFLEX:https://flexfactory.store/collections/everything-but-cl…

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why is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide? 1:11:49

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This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black lives, and we discuss whether liberation can or will ever be achieved! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON…

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do you think black lives actually matter? 58:55

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This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is activism still valid even if it's performative? Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/bo…

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how your friends impact your success 1:17:40

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This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is success even a worthwhile pursuit? Enjoyyy!!! And let's continue the conversation on socials!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW U…

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lana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness 1:12:43

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This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist world and tackling racism head-on.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON P…

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learning to give and receive love 1:11:37

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This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLL…

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the pressure to be positive on social media 52:24

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This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let's goooooooo :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patre…

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what does it mean to be rich in 2020? 1:08:58

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This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and how do we navigate financial dilemmas in our romantic relationships without making our relationships transactional? Enjoy!!!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.faceb…

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what do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas 1:06:23

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This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how should we relate to each otherJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PA…

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navigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner 1:07:15

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This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboa…

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is depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend? 1:09:34

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This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships with your depressed friends. And what relationships will look like after corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT U…

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is anger a useful tool for change? 1:08:46

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This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's negative perceptions of us and we talk about why we will NOT be having moderators in our facebook group. Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagra…

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2020 is the year of realizing things 55:42

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This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our mental health during quarantine season? what is corona here to teach us? JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:w…

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lessons we learnt too late in life 52:46

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This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it really means to live a good life. Enjoy!BUY REFLEX THE CARD GAME HERE:https://flexfactory.store/collections/reflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagr…

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corona virus: is this the beginning of the end? 51:35

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This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism survive the wrath of corona? SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITT…

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is the law of attraction a delusion? 51:34

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This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit for our success? How much does the law of attraction play into our delusions about ourselves? And; is there a fundamental purpose and reason for human existence??? WHAT IS IT!!!!ENJOY SPIRALING!SUPPOR…

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is being pretty the ultimate privilege? 56:55

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This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or elitist? We talk about this and so much more. Enjoy -and don't forget to follow us on socials!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW …

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"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself 57:38

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This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how do we learn to love ourselves when we've internalized depression as the coolest new personality trait?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboan…

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do abusers deserve forgiveness and grace? 50:00

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TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're in close proximity to you.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWIT…

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introducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner 1:08:38

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Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantly - how to give excellent head lol. And so much more! Listen now!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.inst…

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so, how are we going to end racism? 1:12:23

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In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtuous? And is ending racism a worthwhile pursuit? Click to listen and let's continue the conversation on social media!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/…

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how do you get over someone you never dated 1:08:43

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This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness and attachment styles. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:tw…

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incompatible love languages 1:22:48

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This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YO…

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tanning vs blackfishing 57:55

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This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OU…

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what is the point of feminism? 1:07:49

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in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHA…

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reasons why you should cheat 37:49

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yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUT…

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how to break up with a friend 1:06:43

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yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how to navigate forgiveness without compromising yourselfSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/bob…

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the incel epidemic 1:07:34

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Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR…

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Drake and the men who date teens 1:07:49

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trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways has pedophilia been normalized? do the fashion and beauty industry sexualize children? in what ways does society encourage child sex abuse, and how can we all prevent it? Enjoyyy!!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:…