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Outweigh aims to break the stigma around disordered eating and eating disorders. Hosts Amy Brown and Leanne Ellington share their own experiences with overcoming food and body image struggles and talk with experts who provide wisdom and careful guidance. Each week provides a dose of encouragement and hope for anyone navigating thoughts and behaviors in this space. These episodes are also helpful for loved ones that are coming alongside someone on this journey. You can hear Amy on "The Bobby ...
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Listener Q&A: Is Chewing and Spitting Food Disordered? Will I Gain Weight If I Heal? Unpacking the Unspoken Struggles
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19:30In this next episode of the Outweigh Q&A series, we're answering more listener questions and diving deep into some of the more hidden struggles with disordered eating that many women face but often don't talk about. Have you ever found yourself chewing food only to spit it out, wondering if that's "normal"? You're not alone. We explore whether thes…
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Listener Q&A: Out of Control? Reclaiming Your Relationship with Food in Stressful Times
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15:29Welcome to the Outweigh Q&A series, where we are tackling your most pressing questions that you submitted. In this first episode of the series, we're diving into some of the most common struggles around disordered eating, especially when it’s fueled by habit, stress, or depression. Have you ever found yourself turning to food for comfort, only to f…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 8 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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15:30Can you be happy and satisfied and feel like you've 'arrived'....AND still desire to do more, be more, have more, create more (and be absolutely unapologetic about it!)? We absolutely think so! And that's why we are here to talk about this very important distinction. These things do NOT have to cancel eachother out or stay mutually exclusive. But..…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 7 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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13:13Yep....it's true! Even the most confident, self-assured, empowered women can revisit old thought patterns.. This does NOT have to mean anything, it does NOT mean that you have backslid or regressed, and in fact, it's totally normal. What matters most is how you RESPOND (instead of react) to those thoughts. And that's why on this episode of Outweigh…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 6 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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16:15Yes.... you heard that correctly. Your life can be amazing, you can be living in gratitude, experiencing joy...AND you can also be coincidingly be going through some sort of mental, emotional, or spiritual [breakdown/breakthrough/existential crisis]. These things do NOT have to cancel eachother out or stay mutually exclusive. But...there are some v…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 5 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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16:35Amy and Leanne are back again sharing Two Things that can ABSOLUTELY be true at the same time: You can be self-endorsed and uber-confident.... AND still care what other people think of you (or fear judgment). These things do NOT have to cancel each other out or stay mutually exclusive. But...there are some very important distinctions that you want …
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 4 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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16:10Can you love food AND maintain a healthy relationship with food? We absolutely think so! And that's why we are here to talk about this very important distinction. These things do NOT have to cancel eachother out or stay mutually exclusive. But...there are some very important distinctions that you want to keep in mind--- especially since there are a…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 3 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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15:09You can be on the journey to self-love and self-worth... AND still have really crappy thoughts about yourself show up. Yep....it's true! Even the most confident, self-assured, empowered women can have "ugly" thoughts about themselves. This does NOT have to mean anything, and in fact, it's totally normal. What matters most is how you RESPOND (instea…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time: Part 2 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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14:24We are back again sharing Two Things that can ABSOLUTELY be true at the same time: You can be on the journey to self-love and self-worth (and not have self-worth tied to your appearance)....AND still care about what you look like. These things do NOT have to cancel eachother out or stay mutually exclusive. But...there are some very important distin…
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Two Things Can Be True At The Same Time Part 1 [The Mini-Series] (Normalizing the In-Betweens and Healing From Extremism)
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15:11Yes.... you heard that correctly. You can be pro body-image (and pro-self worth and body-positive) ....AND still have health goals you want to reach. These things do NOT have to cancel eachother out or stay mutually exclusive. But...there are some very important distinctions that you want to keep in mind to make sure that you are leading yourself i…
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Leanne is back to continue the conversation from last week and dives deeper into the question of "Does it ever get easier?". She argues that restrictive diets and intense exercise plans create a cycle of difficulty and ultimately fail because they train your brain for "hard work" instead of training it for"ease." This week Leanne literally shares a…
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On this week's episode of Outweigh, Leanne tackles a question on every woman's mind stuck in the diet-and-weight-loss cycle: "Does it ever get easier?" Leanne challenges the idea of quick-fix diets and restrictive plans, arguing that they simply create more of the yo-yo effect that you're desperate to break free from AND leave you feeling like a pr…
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Conversations with A Brain Surgeon With Dr. Lee Warren - Part 4: Neuro-habits
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20:22So far, we've explored the incredible power of neuro-thoughts, neuro-feelings, and neuro-beliefs. But how do these translate into action? In this final episode of "Conversations with a Brain Surgeon", Dr. Lee Warren guides us through the fascinating realm of neuro-habits. We'll discover how your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs shape your daily acti…
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Conversations with A Brain Surgeon With Dr. Lee Warren - Part 3: Neuro-beliefs
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17:08We are back with Dr. Lee Warren to explore the two-way-street between thoughts and beliefs. In Part 1 we explored the power of neuro-thoughts, and part 2 revealed how they influence your neuro-feelings. Now, we get to the core: your beliefs! Dr. Warren delves into the fascinating world of neuro-beliefs, explaining the intricate dance between your t…
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Conversations with A Brain Surgeon With Dr. Lee Warren - Part 2: Neuro-feelings
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12:47In Part 2 of our series, "Conversations with A Brain Surgeon," we explore the profound connection between our thoughts and our feelings. Building upon the insights from Part 1, we delve into how our neuro-thoughts shape our emotional landscape, affecting our emotional regulation and overall well-being. Join us as we uncover the intricate interplay …
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Conversations with A Brain Surgeon With Dr. Lee Warren - Part 1: Neuro-thoughts
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13:22Ever wonder if your thoughts can literally change your brain? Welcome to the first episode of our Neuro-series where we are joined by Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon, author, and fellow podcaster, as we dive into the fascinating world of neuro-thoughts. Discover the power of neuroplasticity and neurobiology, and how there's an entire science behind …
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When ‘Not Enough’ Becomes Who You Are (and How to Gently Unhook from It) - Part 6
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11:43OUTWEIGH: In this 6th and final episode of this series on Outweigh, we end by shining a light on the deepest layer of unworthiness—the kind that doesn’t just feel like “I’m not enough”… but becomes your identity. Leanne walks you through how this kind of wiring happens, why it can be so hard to spot, and how to gently unhook from it using compassio…
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What If You’re Not ‘Too Much’—You’re Just Not Meant to Fit Into Their Standards? - Part 5
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11:25OUTWEIGH: This next episode in our series is not just a conversation, it is a reclamation. If you’ve ever been told you’re too sensitive, too intense, too loud, or too opinionated—this episode is for you. Leanne explores how the fear of being “too much” actually stems from a lifetime of shrinking, silencing, and squeezing into standards that were n…
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The Silent Rules That Keep You Stuck (and the Truth That Sets You Free) - Part 4
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10:17OUTWEIGH: Ever feel like you’re following a set of rules no one actually spoke out loud? “Be nice.” “Don’t take up too much space.” “Be grateful, not needy.” In this next episode of our series, Leanne unearths the unspoken ‘contracts’ that many women live by—rules that silently dictate what’s acceptable, lovable, and worthy. You’ll discover how to …
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The Invisible War: When Food and Body Become a Battlefield for Worthiness - Part 3
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10:03OUTWEIGH: This next episode in our series gets real about the hidden emotional war so many women are fighting with food, their bodies, and themselves. Leanne unpacks how worthiness wounds often get expressed through restriction, bingeing, body obsession, and self-judgment—and how that fight isn’t really about food at all. You’ll learn how the brain…
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Why We Keep Looking Outside Ourselves for Validation (and How to Finally Stop) - Part 2
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13:32OUTWEIGH: In Part 2 of our series, Leanne dives deep into the brain science behind why we crave approval—and how that craving can become a constant chase for validation. From diet culture to social media to people-pleasing, we explore how the world wires us to outsource our self-worth. But we don’t have to stay stuck in that loop. You’ll learn what…
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Reclaiming Your Worthiness: Even if You Don’t Accept Yourself Yet - Part 1
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10:46OUTWEIGH: We are kicking off a brand new series here on Outweigh with a truth most women never hear: you don’t have to love yourself first in order to feel worthy. In this powerful conversation, Leanne redefines worthiness—not as something you have to earn, hustle for, or feel 100% confident about—but as something you can reclaim right now. Even if…
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Using Brain Science To Create A Natural "Ozempic Effect"
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14:14OUTWEIGH: In this episode of Outweigh, we’re diving deep into the science behind why food feels so powerful—and how to create the “Ozempic effect” naturally (using the power of your brain), without medication, side effects, or yo-yo weight regain. Leanne breaks down the brain’s food-seeking circuit, the hidden driver behind cravings, emotional eati…
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The Courage to Feel—Transforming Your Relationship with Emotions (With Dr. Chip Dodd)
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18:51OUTWEIGH: What if the emotions you fear most are actually the gateway to your greatest freedom? In this final episode of our series, Chip and Leanne explore how to stop fearing emotions and start listening to them instead. They break down the connection between numbing and disconnection, why vulnerability is the key to healing, and how embracing yo…
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Healing from the Inside Out—Breaking Free from the Need to Numb (With Dr. Chip Dodd)
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16:49OUTWEIGH: If willpower alone isn’t enough to stop numbing, what is? In this episode, Chip and Leanne explore why true healing starts with understanding the function of our coping behaviors—not just trying to “fix” them. They share the first steps to recognizing an unhealthy coping pattern, decoding what it’s really telling you, and shifting from av…
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Why We Numb—The Real Reason We Avoid Pain & Seek Comfort (With Dr. Chip Dodd)
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18:45OUTWEIGH: Why do we turn to food, alcohol, shopping, or even busyness when life feels overwhelming? In this episode, Chip and Leanne dive into the real reason we numb—what we’re actually trying to escape or avoid—and how society conditions us to suppress rather than process emotions. They break down the neuroscience behind coping mechanisms, reveal…
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What Is Addiction, Really? The Coping Mechanism That Becomes a Trap (With Dr. Chip Dodd)
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20:15OUTWEIGH: Addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s about the ways we cope with pain, stress, and unmet needs. In this episode, Chip Dodd and Leanne unpack how behaviors like emotional eating, over-exercising, workaholism, and social media addiction follow the same addictive patterns as substances. They explore the difference between coping mechan…
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Finding Love Within Herself Allowed Her To Receive It From Another (Suzanne's 2 Year update)
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44:04OUTWEIGH: Two years after our case study from last week, Suzanne came back to share what’s happened since her Stressless Eating journey—and the transformation goes far beyond food and body image. In this powerful follow-up, she reveals how healing her self-image not only gave her peace with food but also opened the door to calling in true love. Wha…
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From Food & Body Prison to Authentic Self-Love: Suzanne’s Transformation
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52:39OUTWEIGH: In this special case study episode of Outweigh, Leanne sits down with Suzanne, a woman who spent decades trapped in the exhausting cycle of dieting, binge-eating, and self-rejection. Despite her external success, she felt stuck—knowing deep down that life had more to offer but unsure how to break free from the vicious cycle of food and bo…
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The Lies Women Believe About Their Bodies Part 4: “I’ll Always Struggle With Food/My Body/My Weight”
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12:47OUTWEIGH: The belief that food and body struggles are a life sentence keeps so many women stuck in cycles of frustration and self-doubt. In this episode, Amy and Leanne shine a light on why this story feels so true and how years of diet culture and negative self-talk make struggling feel “normal.” They’ll explore the brain’s role in keeping you stu…
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The Lies Women Believe About Their Bodies Part 3: “I’ll Never Measure Up” / “I Have to Earn My Worth”
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14:47OUTWEIGH: From constant comparison to impossible expectations, this episode dives into the lie that your worth is conditional—tied to your looks, achievements, or success. Amy and Leanne discuss why the comparison game is unwinnable, how societal pressures keep us stuck, and what it takes to find peace and contentment in your unique story. Takeaway…
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The Lies Women Believe About Their Bodies Part 2: “I’m the Only One Struggling Like This”
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12:03OUTWEIGH: Shame thrives in isolation, convincing us that we’re the only ones struggling with food, body image, or self-esteem. In this episode, Amy and Leanne explore the impact of silence and secrecy on mental health and how connection can break the cycle of shame. By opening up about your struggles, you can find support, validation, and healing. …
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The Lies Women Believe About Their Bodies Part 1: “I’ll Be Happy When…”
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13:12OUTWEIGH: The belief that happiness and confidence are tied to achieving a specific weight or size is one of the most common lies women tell themselves. In this episode, Amy and Leanne unpack how cultural conditioning and personal narratives convince us that joy is always “one goal away.” They’ll share real-life stories of why chasing a “goal body”…
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Unhooking from Unrealistic Ideals: Guiding Teens to Find Their Own Path Rather Than Chasing Others’ Approval (Outweigh)
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15:04OUTWEIGH: In the final episode of our series, Leanne sits down with Natalie Borrell of Life Success for Teens to tackle one of the biggest pitfalls facing today’s youth: the constant battle for external validation. With social media, peer pressure, and cultural standards all shouting for attention, teens’ developing brains are especially vulnerable…
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Your Teen’s Real Hunger: Meeting Emotional Needs When Food Isn’t the Answer (Outweigh)
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14:53OUTWEIGH: Have you ever wondered why your teen seems to reach for snacks—even when they’re not hungry? In this second part of our series, Leanne is back with Natalie Borrell of Life Success for Teens to dig into the hidden emotional triggers that push teens toward food for a quick dopamine hit. They look at how stress, loneliness, boredom, and anxi…
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Under the Surface: Guiding Teens Through Stress, Overwhelm, & Crushing Expectations (Outweigh)
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16:51OUTWEIGH: If you’ve ever seen your teenager spiral into stress, overwhelm, and food obsession—and felt utterly helpless—this conversation is a game-changer. In today’s episode, Leanne sits down with Natalie Borrell of Life Success for Teens, who’s spent nearly two decades helping students thrive not just academically, but emotionally and mentally. …
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Why Intuitive Eating Fails the Women Who Need It Most (And Why ‘Just Listen to Your Body’ Isn’t Enough) (Outweigh)
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13:05OUTWEIGH: If you’ve tried Intuitive Eating and found yourself even more confused, ashamed, or convinced you’re “broken,” this episode is for you. We’re digging into the hidden reason why “just listen to your body” often fails women who’ve used food to cope with stress, loneliness, or chronic dieting for decades. It’s not that Intuitive Eating is fl…
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Throw Out the Checklist: Starting the Year on YOUR Terms (Outweigh)
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13:31OUTWEIGH: In this episode of Outweigh we’re tossing out the tired “New Year, New You” playbook. Instead of sprinting into another year burdened by rules, restrictions, and impossible goals, we’re exploring what it looks like to trade stress for self-compassion and external pressure for true inner alignment. Rather than chasing some perfect version …
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Ending the Year with Self-Compassion: Reflecting and Celebrating Wins Beyond the Scale (Outweigh)
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12:34OUTWEIGH: As we close out the year, it’s easy to fall into the trap of measuring our worth by the scale or the “perfect” body we never quite achieved. In this episode of Outweigh, we’re challenging that narrative head-on. Instead of focusing on what your body didn’t accomplish, let’s celebrate the deeper, more meaningful wins that have nothing to d…
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Getting Her Groove Back at 62: A Story of Healing, Strength, and New Beginnings After Losing Her Husband (Outweigh)
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40:37OUTWEIGH: “She spent decades caring for everyone else. But at 62, Lisa finally learned how to care for herself.” Meet Lisa. For over 20 years, Lisa felt trapped in a relentless food and diet prison. Food carried the weight of shame and guilt, and she was stuck in the endless cycle of dieting, losing, and regaining. And after the heartbreaking loss …
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The Gift of Self-Acceptance: Giving Yourself Permission to Truly Enjoy the Holidays (Outweigh)
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17:51OUTWEIGH: In the final part of our holiday series on Outweigh, Amy and Leanne explore the transformative power of self-acceptance as the greatest gift we can give ourselves during the holiday season. Amy introduces the idea that self-acceptance is often overlooked in holiday conversations, yet it is the key to fully enjoying the festivities. They d…
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Dealing with Holiday Weight Gain Fears and Body Anxiety (Outweigh)
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20:34OUTWEIGH: In the third part of our holiday series on Outweigh, Amy and Leanne tackle a topic that resonates with many women during this time of year: dealing with fears of holiday weight gain and body anxiety. Amy sets the stage by acknowledging how these fears can intensify with the increased focus on food and body image that the season brings. Le…
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How to Handle "Food Pushers" and Unwanted Comments About Your Body (Outweigh)
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20:23OUTWEIGH: In the second part of our holiday series on Outweigh, Amy and Leanne address a challenging topic: handling "food pushers" and unsolicited comments about your body during family gatherings. Amy introduces the discomfort and triggering nature of these situations, while Leanne helps listeners understand the motivations behind food pushing—of…
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Navigating Holiday Gatherings Without Food Guilt (Outweigh)
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18:10OUTWEIGH: Welcome to the first part of our holiday series on Outweigh, where Amy and Leanne tackle a challenge that many listeners face during this festive season: navigating holiday gatherings without the burden of food guilt. As the holidays approach, the temptation of indulgent foods can lead to feelings of being "out of control." We dive deep i…
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How This Female Pastor Ditched The Shame & Finally Addressed Her Biggest "Demons" (Outweigh)
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36:54OUTWEIGH: Deedee has spent decades as a leader and source of strength in her community, supporting and guiding others while struggling silently behind closed doors. Her battle wasn’t with her role or her responsibilities—it was with food. For years, food felt like her secret demon—something she couldn’t seem to conquer, no matter how much disciplin…
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If Positive Mantras Feel Like a Lie, Here’s What You’re Missing (Outweigh)
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18:27OUTWEIGH: Have you ever stood in front of the mirror, repeating mantras like “I love my body” or “I’m enough,” only to feel that little voice in your head whispering, “Who are you kidding?” In this episode of Outweigh, Leanne Ellington breaks down why the “just think positive” approach doesn’t work—and what’s really keeping you from truly loving yo…
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"No One Knows I Have A Problem" (Outweigh)
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13:05OUTWEIGH: Have you ever felt like you’re carrying a heavy secret—one that no one knows about? In this episode of Outweigh, Leanne Ellington dives deep into the struggle that so many women face but rarely talk about: feeling trapped in a hidden battle with food, body shame, and self-judgment. Leanne opens up about her own experience of being stuck i…
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Breaking the Cycle of Broken Promises: Reclaiming Your Self-Trust (Outweigh)
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20:22OUTWEIGH: Have you ever found yourself making promise after promise to “start fresh on Monday” or “stick to your plan this time,” only to fall off track again and again? If so, you’re not alone—and today’s episode of Outweigh is for you. In this powerful episode, Leanne Ellington tackles the struggle that so many women face: breaking the cycle of b…
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The Brain Science of Sugar Cravings (And How to Reclaim Control) (Outweigh)
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13:16OUTWEIGH: Ever felt like a sugar addict? Like no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to break free from its grip? In today’s episode, Leanne Ellington dives deep into the brain science behind those relentless sugar cravings and why it’s not about willpower or discipline. She shares her own struggle with food and body image—starting from a …
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Trapped in Diet Prison for 4 Decades: How This Therapist Found Freedom at 54 (Outweigh)
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38:20OUTWEIGH: Susan had been living in a 40-year food and diet prison, and she didn't know how to get out. Diets eluded her, and even though she had hope that there was a better way to go about her relationship with food, her body, and her health, she was almost at that point that she felt helpless. Food and her body was a topic that carried a lot of s…
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