Hey, flirty! With new episodes dropping every week, Flirtations is your go-to resource for getting out of your head and into the flirt! I’m so excited to bring you classic conversations on timeless dating questions around pacing, communication, and confidence ... with a unique Flirt Coach perspective! You can expect thought provoking, inclusive conversations with an array of guests and much, much more. Let’s flirt! You can connect with me on Flirtstagram: https://www.instagram.com/benjaminca ...
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Benjamin Camras Podcasts
Byeeeee! Just kidding ... sort of! In what is a farewell episode for Flirtations, I must share that the show is taking a pause for the foreseeable future. In what was a difficult decision for the Flirt Board (me and my cat, Sugar), we're gonna unplug the mic for a minute. I can't thank you all enough for all of your streams and support of the Flirt…
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148. The Love Episode with Shaun Galanos (fall flashback!)
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56:00It’s the LOVE episode of Flirtations y’all, with Shaun Galanos! The creator behind @thelovedrive and co-host of the “We Can Do Better” podcast is on the show to take us on a journey as we talk about love! Along the way, we’ll answer questions like, “what is love?” “How can we create more of it in our lives?” Whether you're dating, in a relationship…
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147. 104 Dates Later: A Single Parent's Guide to Dating with Heidi Friedman
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50:48Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Heidi Friedman to the show, author of the book Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love. After her divorce and stepping into life as a single parent, Heidi woke up one morning shortly after her fortieth birthday with a realization: she wasn’t sure she’d ever experienced ro…
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146. Big Sister Dating Advice + Dating Q&A with Tisia Saffold (fall flashback!)
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56:50On this episode of Flirtations, we're joined by dating coach and entrepreneur Tisia Saffold who is going to spill the dating tea with us and share all the big sister dating advice you wish you knew, but maybe haven't heard before ... until now! Here's what you can expect from this episode: Why you can’t date potential (and the mindset shift you nee…
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145. The Loneliness Paradox and the Craving for Connection with Dr. James Ellis
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54:47Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking on of the most universal experiences we all share — loneliness. Joining us is Dr. James Ellis, a psychologist known online as @lonelinessdoctor, whose work explores how loneliness shapes our lives — and what it takes to find connection again. We talk about why meeting people can feel so hard i…
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144. The Psychology of Connection and Loneliness with Jemma Sbeg (fall flashback!)
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1:02:02What is connection? And why is connection so important? Not just for our hearts, but for our overall health and wellbeing? What about loneliness? In many ways the inverse of connection, how does loneliness impact our lives? Mentally? Emotionally? Physically? In this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Jemma Sbeg, a creator, author, and host of the "…
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Flirtini #22: I'll Flirt If I Want To! It's My Birthday + Reflections at 40
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22:47It’s a brand new Flirtini! I’m turning 40 today and what I’ve got for you in a honest reflection on where I’m at in my life and what’s coming next. Thank you for being here! 💗 Happy Flirting! 💗 Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over…
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143. Dating in the Age of Algorithms and Connection in a Digital World with Sam Ogborn
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56:12Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Sam Ogborn, a marketing strategist, creator, and pop culture commentator who has a unique lens on how the internet influences the ways we connect. Sam is here to help us break down the narratives we’re constantly consuming — from viral videos to marketing campaigns — and what they reveal abo…
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142. Dating Deliciously with Torah Cents (fall flashback!)
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55:14Are you ready to date deliciously?! On this episode, we welcome Torah Cents, who is going to give us all the details on how to infuse more fun, passion, pleasure, and desire into your dating life for an ultimately delicious experience! We'll hear how to date deliciously on the apps and in person, creating engaging conversations that are sure to kee…
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It’s a BRAND NEW Flirtini! This one is all about how to date (aka choose) yourself! Why this matters, what this looks like, and how to do it! Inside the episode, 7️⃣ ways to date yourself! 💗 Happy Flirting! 💗 __________ Watch on YouTube! __________ Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share …
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141. Romanticize Your Life: Self Love and Confidence with Claira Hermet
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140. Strutting into Main Character Energy and Decentering Men with Star Monroe (fall flashback!)
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1:00:45On the show today is none other than Star Monroe! We've got an incredible conversation about how to embrace - strut! - into main character energy (and what the truly means), as well as how to decenter men and center your fine self! A few topics discussed include internal vs. external validation, seeing the world through the male gaze, what happens …
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Flirtini #20: Getting Over a Situationship
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139. Rewiring the "What Ifs": Anxiety, Overthinking, and Perfectionism in Dating with Dr. Jennifer Wolkin
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1:00:23Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking anxiety, overthinking, and perfectionism in dating! You know that feeling when you replay every text, second-guess what you said on a date, or try so hard to show up as your “best self” that you forget to just be yourself? Joining us for this conversation is Dr. Jennifer Wolkin. Dr. Jen is a n…
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138. Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response with Dr. Ingrid Clayton
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51:00Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Dr. Ingrid Clayton to the show! Dr. Clayton is a clinical psychologist, speaker, and author of the brand-new book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves and How to Find Our Way Back. If you’ve ever found yourself people-pleasing, over-accommodating, or twisting into knots to keep…
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It's a BRAND NEW Flirtini! In the last one we talked about multi-dating and in this one, it's how to get a date! Here's what you can expect: ➡️ Where to meet people: online vs. in person ➡️ The dating app trick you need so your profile stands out FREE Dating App Survival Guide ➡️ Meeting people in person (what do looks have to do with it?) ➡️ How t…
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137. A Sexpert's Guide to Trust, Expectations, and Accountability in Dating with Dr. Juliana Hauser
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1:00:27Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re looking at the intersection of sexuality, trust, expectations, and accountability in dating! Joining us is Dr. Juliana Hauser, a licensed couples and family therapist, known as the “sexpert’s sexpert” for her decades of work in sex and relationships, and author of the upcoming book "A New Position on …
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136. Autumnal Equinox Dating Horoscope with Fernie!
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51:14Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Fernie is back on the show as we celebrate the change of seasons with something a little magical — it’s the autumnal equinox dating horoscope! Fernie, an astrologer, mystic, and guide to all things cosmic and flirty, is here to help us navigate this shift and together, we’ll explore what dating and flirting…
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Flirtini #18: Is Multi-Dating Right for You?
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21:33It’s a BRAND NEW Flirtini! This one is all multi-dating! Here’s what you can expect: ➡️ What is multi-dating and how to do it. ➡️ How multi-dating is different from roster dating. ➡️ The two multi-dating traps (and how to avoid them). ➡️ Examples of timelines in multi-dating (how many people do you date and for how long?). ➡️ How to deal with compa…
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135. How to Detach in Dating with Sabrina Bendory
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53:19Flirties, today we’re diving into a concept that can truly transform the way you date: detachment. Not the kind where you shut down or stop caring, but the kind where you finally stop tying your worth to someone else or external circumstances. Joining us for this conversation is Sabrina Bendory, a dating and relationship expert, host of the You Wil…
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134. Polyamory and Non-Monogamy in Dating with Leanne Yau
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55:56Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re diving into the world of polyamory with Leanne Yau! Leanne is an award-winning polyamory educator and through her platform PolyPhilia, she creates educational and entertaining content to help people navigate non-monogamous relationships with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Inside the episode, we’…
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Flirtini #17: Expressing Interest in Dating
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18:19It’s a BRAND NEW Flirtini! This one all about expressing interest in dating and here’s what you can expect: ➡️ How to express interest in dating and why this matters! ➡️ What does expressing interest have to do with someone’s emotional availability? ➡️ How showing interest will help you attract higher quality connections and dates. ➡️ What you can …
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133. The Lovebombing Episode! with Kelsey Wonderlin
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52:58Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting into one of the most confusing— and yet sometimes intoxicating—dating experiences out there: it’s lovebombing. You know that rush when someone comes on strong with over-the-top attention, affection, and promises? At first, it can feel magical—like you’ve finally found ‘the one.’ But beneath th…
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132. Small Talk Secrets: How to Spark Real Connection with Dr. Connie Wang
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51:19Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re diving into a topic that makes so many of us squirm—small talk. Maybe you dread it, maybe you wonder what the point even is, or maybe you just want to know how to turn casual conversations into real connections. To help us out, we're joined by Dr. Connie Wang, a dentist, creator of the Just a Quick Pi…
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The Flirtinis are BACK and this one is all about "Tips for a First Date!" Here's what you can expect from this Flirtini: ➡️ First date communication (planning the date and confirming the date) ➡️ What you can wear and dating mindset ➡️ Where you can go/what you can do for a date ➡️ How you can greet each other ➡️ Conversation tips/what to talk abou…
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131. Beyond the Checklist: Values Based Dating with Kelsea Warren
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1:00:29Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking values based dating with Kelsea Warren! Picture this: you date based on timing, chemistry, or pressure—like friends settling down or feeling like you’re running out of time. While this can all be very real, what if dating wasn’t about chasing a spark or checking boxes, and instead was about gr…
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Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re diving into a topic that I know many of you wonder about, but don’t always say out loud: friend crushes. You know the feeling—when someone who started out as “just a friend” suddenly makes your heart race, or when you catch yourself asking: could we be more? To explore this fascinating—and sometimes c…
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129. The Anxious/Avoidant Dynamic in Dating with Carly Ann
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58:52Coming up on this episode of Flirations, we’re joined by Carly Ann, a therapist and attachment expert, here to have a conversation with us about the anxious/avoidant dynamic in dating! We’ll talk about why this duo happens so often in dating, how to spot the difference between lovebombing and genuine interest, are they avoidant or not interested, a…
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128. Connection vs. Attachment with Dr. Janine O'Brien
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1:01:27Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re answering one of the biggest questions in dating! Are we actually connecting — or just attaching? Joining us Dr. Janine O’Brien, a psychologist, educator, and trauma-informed relationship specialist, who helps people untangle their attachment patterns and build more secure, meaningful relationships. W…
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127. Codependency in Dating with Vanessa Bennett
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56:23Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going into the world of codependency with Vanessa Bennett! Vanessa is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a sought-after speaker, co-host of the hit podcast Cheaper Than Therapy, and author of the new book The Motherhood Myth. Her work shines a light on how generational trauma, societal expectat…
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126. Hookup Culture Uncovered with Dr. Lisa Wade
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50:35Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Wade, a sociologist, assistant professor at Tulane University, and the author of the landmark book American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus. Her groundbreaking research draws from the intimate, real voices of college students and reveals that hookup culture isn’t just about…
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125. Dating Beyond the Patriarchy and Asking for More with Lily Womble
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1:04:39Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by the marvelous Lily Womble—a feminist dating coach, former top matchmaker, host of the Date Brazen podcast and author of Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love. Lily is on a mission to help us break free from the beliefs the patriarchy has embe…
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124. The Subconscious Mind and Reprogramming Limiting Beliefs with Natalie Stavola
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49:58Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going straight to the source of transformation—the subconscious mind. Joining us for this conversation is Natalie Stavola, a certified hypnotherapist, coach, author, and speaker with a deeply personal story of healing—from addiction and self-sabotage to empowerment and purpose. Natalie helps people re…
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123. How to Know When It's Time to Walk Away with Amber Rae
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55:05Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by speaker, creative force, and bestselling author Amber Rae, author of Choose Wonder Over Worry and her new book, Loveable, One Woman’s Path from Good to Free. In this memoir, Amber shares how one day, four years ago, while married, she looked into the eyes of a stranger and fell instantly in …
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122. Soulmates, Twin Flames, Karmic Connections, and Timing in Dating with Danny Santos
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1:02:17You know what Flirties, I have a question for you. Have you ever met someone and just knew they were the one? Maybe it was instant chemistry, maybe it was a slow burn, or maybe it was heartbreak that cracked you open in a way nothing else ever had? Well today, we’re diving into the soul-level stuff—those invisible forces that draw us to each other,…
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121. Is Happiness a Choice? Practical Optimism and the Science of Hope with Dr. Sue Varma
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57:58Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking practical optimism and how this grounded, science-backed approach can help guide us toward more fulfilling connections and loving relationships. Joining us for this conversation is Dr. Sue Varma, a board-certified psychiatrist, clinical assistant professor at NYU, and the author of Practical O…
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120. Beyond the Pods: Flirting, Friendship, and Life After Love is Blind with Tom Stroud
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50:31Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re crossing the pond and getting into it with none other than Tom Stroud! You may know Tom from Season 1 of Love Is Blind UK and his podcast Why Do Men…? and today, we’re going beyond the pods as we talk about what it was really like dating through a wall and how vulnerability, oddly enough, came more ea…
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119. The Breakup Episode! with Lucy Price
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1:09:21Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by breakup recovery and relationship coach Lucy Price, who is here to help us turn heartbreak into healing and a breakup into a breakthrough! If you’ve ever found yourself crying on Facetime with your friend, rereading old texts, stalking your ex’s socials, or wondering how the hell you’re supp…
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118. The Enoughness Equation: How Hustle Culture Shapes Our Dating Lives with Israa Nasir
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57:41Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Israa Nasir, a psychotherapist, speaker, mental health advocate, creator of the digital platform Well Guide, and author of the brilliant new book Toxic Productivity, here today to have a conversation with us about what it means to feel enough in a world that constantly tells us otherwise. In…
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117. Flirting, Chasing, and Choosing: Dating Dynamics Decoded with Mark Rosenfeld
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53:25Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Flirties, we’re joined by one of Australia’s most sought-after dating coaches — it’s Mark Rosenfeld. He’s one of Australia’s top dating and relationship experts, author of the book Make Him Yours: Beating the Odds of Modern Dating, and over the course of his career, he’s coached more than 50,000 women in lo…
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116. Queer Crossroads: Navigating Gay Dating and Relationships with Nathan Serrato
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1:01:16Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking all things queer and gay dating with the incredible Nathan Serrato! Nathan is a trauma-informed coach and host of the Queer Conscious podcast, helping LGBTQ+ individuals and couples build thriving, intentional relationships rooted in self-worth, communication, and emotional intimacy. Inside th…
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115. Dating Inside Out: Your Inner Critic and How to Stop Self Sabotage with Britt Frank
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55:29Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re welcoming someone whose work has helped thousands of people move from stuck to aligned, it's the brilliant Britt Frank. A licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma specialist, speaker, and bestselling author of The Science of Stuck and her brand-new book Align Your Mind, her insights have been featured in…
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114. Dating Deeper: How to Build Intimacy and Connection in a Swipe Culture with Court Vox
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1:02:33Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting intimate—literally—with certified sex and intimacy coach, Court Vox. Court is the founder of The Body Vox , a somatic sex educator and has been featured in Vogue, Men’s Health, Allure, The New York Post, and more. He’s worked with individuals and couples all over the world, helping them build …
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113. The Evolution of an Icon: Exploring Confidence and Reinvention with Rebecca More
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50:27Coming up on this episode of Flirtations is the iconic Rebecca More! Adult industry legend, one-half of the unforgettable Cock Destroyers, star of Slag Wars, and soon competing in an Ironman, today we’re going beyond fame to talk about reinvention. In this conversation, Rebecca shares her journey of stepping away from porn and adult work, grieving …
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112. Herpes, Honey! HSV, STIs, and Sexual Health with Tricia Wise
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53:52Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting real, raw, and radically open with the incredible Tricia Wise. You may know Tricia as the @safe.slut across social media, Tricia is a master aesthetician, reiki practitioner, sexual health advocate, herpes stigma breaker, and meme queen—and today, she’s joining us to talk about something that,…
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111. Exclusivity and Defining the Relationship in Dating with Carleigh Ferrante
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56:08Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re defining the relationship, ya’ll, with Carleigh Ferrante! Carleigh is the creator and voice of @mostlydating on Instagram and host of the Mostly Dating podcast, having built a community of over 200,000 with her honest takes on dating and relationships. Whether you’re feeling things out with someone ne…
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110. Summer Solstice Dating Horoscope with Fernie!
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53:35Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Fernie is back on the show for our summer solstice dating horoscope! With a brand new season comes new energy for dating, romance, flirting, and cosmic possibility. Joining us today is Flirtations’ in-house astrologer, fortune teller, and magic mystic, Fernie, here to read the stars and pull back the planet…
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109. Stop Forcing, Start Flowing: The Art of Surrender with Dr. Shanté Holley
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55:56Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Dr. Shanté Holley to the show! Dr. Shanté is a certified life coach, writer, professor, and host of the podcast The Whole In Your Heart podcast on YouTube. Specializing in guiding individuals through the complexities of healing, wellness, and personal development, today we have a conversation for…
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108. Columnist Confessions: A Conversation with Jana Hocking
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48:33Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going to have a cheeky good time with the fabulous Jana Hocking! You might know Jana from her spicy columns in the Daily Mail, her time behind the scenes casting and producing The Bachelor, or her wildly popular 'saucy secrets' series on Instagram, where no confession is too hot to handle. In this epi…
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107. Communication in Early Dating with Erica Turner
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56:12Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Erica Turner to the show, the creator of The Relationship Reset on Instagram and the Secure Dating Playbook, to have a conversation with us about communication in early dating! We open the show with how to reset the relationship we have with ourselves and reframe some common experiences we might …
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