Best Ayushi Podcasts (2025)

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Eldest daughters are stepping in for absent fathers 43:30

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9M ago43:30

43:30

This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions from eldest daughters. They discuss the importance of standing up for yourself as an eldest daughter. How to deal with misogynistic parents and siblings, and also the importance of calling people out who mistreat you Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daug…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 36:39

10M ago36:39

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This week, Xenia and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]…

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As an eldest daughter, Lynette shouldn't have married Tom: A dive into Desperate Housewives 33:49

10M ago33:49

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Yasin and Kiran are back after a well-deserved hiatus! In this episode, they dive into the world of Desperate Housewives, unpacking the dynamic between Lynette and Tom and how it reflects the struggles of eldest daughters everywhere. From managing responsibilities to navigating relationships, they explore why eldest daughters often carry the emotio…

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Maintaining Your Freedom After Moving Back Home ft. Ayushi 41:09

1y ago41:09

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This week, we’re joined by Ayushi to explore the highs and lows of moving back home after experiencing the freedom of university life. We delve into the challenges of navigating life under your parents’ roof again and share insights on maintaining healthy friendships, especially when the responsibilities of being an eldest daughter come into play. …

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 31:39

1y ago31:39

31:39

This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]…

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Eldest Daughters and Resentment + CONFESSION ft. Yasmin 55:01

1y ago55:01

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In this episode, Yasin and Yasmin discuss resentment and how it manifests in different relationships—whether with siblings, friends, or even in the workplace. The discussion centres around how unresolved tensions, unspoken frustrations, and unfairness can build up over time, often leading to a deep-seated resentment. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ h…

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The therapist told my mum "you can learn a thing or two from Zoha’s parenting style" 50:35

1y ago50:35

50:35

CONTENT WARNING: TALK OF SUICIDE This week, Zoha joined us to share her PhD journey, the challenges she faced, and the key realizations along the way. We also delved into family dynamics, including her brother's struggles with disability, mental health, and a suicide attempt. Lastly, we explored her experience of supporting her mum through therapy …

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"As an eldest daughter, my family doesn't always show up for me" 48:40

1+ y ago48:40

48:40

We're sorry we've been away. This week, Yasin and Kiran discuss Yasin's new role as a married eldest daughter. The girls also discuss how family can dismiss your needs and often fail to support you when needed. Finally, we discuss how our upbringing has impacted our emotions as eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymo…

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Eldest Daughters x Life Update 40:03

1+ y ago40:03

40:03

This week, Yasin and Kiran speak about their different life events and what this means for Home Girls in the future. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: hello@home…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 40:13

1+ y ago40:13

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This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]…

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Can work be an escape for eldest daughters? + CONFESSIONS ft. Sahra 33:20

1+ y ago33:20

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This week, Yasin is joined by her Co-director, Sahra. They delve into their experiences running Home Girls. The discussion shifts to the delicate act of balancing work and personal life. Looking at the unique pressures on eldest daughters in the workplace. They offer practical tips and personal anecdotes on managing responsibilities at home and in …

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My partner is healing my eldest daughter trauma ft. Kafayat 42:27

1+ y ago42:27

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This week, Yasin is joined by Kafayat. They discuss how moving out has become a gateway to gaining respect from family members and helping them realize how much you do for them. They also delve into the importance of standing your ground and embracing a rebellious spirit. Finally, they talk about her parents moving back to Nigeria and how that migh…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 22:24

1+ y ago22:24

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This week, Xenia and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]…

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I struggle with celebrating myself ft. Dr Isha 46:02

1+ y ago46:02

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This week, we are joined by Isha, the latest PhD grad in town. We speak about her 12-year journey to getting her PhD and how she balanced it with being an eldest daughter and a mother of 2. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In…

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Eldest Daughters obligation to celebrate fathers day even if your dad isn't worthy 39:17

1+ y ago39:17

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This week, Yasin and Xenia discuss fathers day, the importance of therapy and having grace for our freinds who are on the journey of mohterhood. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Em…

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“I’m one of those people who’s glad they lost a parent” ft. Lydia 32:39

1+ y ago32:39

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This week, we are joined by Lydia, who talks about how her eldest daughter's life has been 2 years after she first came on the podcast. We speak about the loss of her mum and how that has changed her sibling dynamic. We also discuss her journey to rediscovering herself. You can listen to Lydia’s new podcast, The Reforming Pessimist, here Book a RAN…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 39:50

1+ y ago39:50

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This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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Apply For Our Young Women's Leadership Programme 19:02

1+ y ago19:02

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We are now accepting applications for our 2024 TuWezeshe Akina Dada young women’s leadership programme! We have Sumayyah, who is a fellow from the latest cohort, to tell us about her experince. If you're interested in applying or would like to learn more, head over here for more details. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your…

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"I consult everyone before making decisions" 40:48

1+ y ago40:48

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This week, Yasin and Xenia discuss decision-making and how it impacts the eldest daughters. They also discuss how they might have thought strict parenting was their parents protecting them from outside harm. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 36:03

1+ y ago36:03

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This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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Our Parents Community Wasn’t a Safe Space 39:43

1+ y ago39:43

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This week, we talk about how sisterhood and community have been a safe space for eldest daughters. We speak about third spaces, the importance of creating safe communities and how different generations value different types of communities. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠…

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"I was essentially one of their first bullies growing up because I was bullied" ft. Zita 53:04

2y ago53:04

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This week, we are delighted to welcome Zita as our guest. In this episode, Zita delves into the less-explored aspects of the eldest daughter role, specifically addressing the challenges of mistreating siblings—an experience many of us share but seldom discuss openly. She candidly shares her journey of acknowledging the difficulties in her sibling r…

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Media Club: "That show was banned in our house" 33:07

2y ago33:07

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We are so excited to launch our media club for eldest daughters officially. We want to use this opportunity to talk about the things we enjoy the most: books, films, theatre, TV shows and more. We will be running a book club and a monthly bonus podcast episode speaking about our favourite hot topics that relate to our eldest daughter life. Be it ou…

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Eldest daughters, do we break or follow the rules? 45:57

2y ago45:57

45:57

This week, the girls discussed rule-breaking and how being the eldest daughter doesn’t often give you the luxury of breaking the rules like your younger siblings may be free to do. They also talked about how being pressured to follow the rules can lead to consequences of substance abuse after we gain some freedom. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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“Media and Medicine a constant battle in my life” ft. MoChunks 32:10

2y ago32:10

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This week, we have a conversation with MoChunks. MoChunks is a Media Mogulette in the making. We speak about her eldest daughter role and how she juggles many other roles in her life. We discuss careers, education, burnouts and breakthroughs. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find u…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 22:07

2y ago22:07

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This week, Xenia and Yasin look at a confession sent in by an eldest daughter. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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Dealing with the holiday season as an eldest daughter 40:32

2y ago40:32

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This week, Xenia and Yasin speak about some of the stresses that come with being an eldest daughter during the holiday, especially when you are spending time with family emembrs that trigger you. They also give some tips on how to manage these streses, how to prepare yourself to be around family members, self-care tips and creating your own traditi…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 28:36

2y ago28:36

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This week, Xenia and Yasin look at a confession sent in by an eldest daughter. Book a RANT session⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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"Invite eldest daughters, even if they can't make it" - Eldest Daughters x Friendships 39:50

2y ago39:50

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This week, Xenia and Yasin talk about all things friendships. Looking at how the eldest daughter role impacted their friendships and how we overcame it. They also discuss friendship break-ups, how to not take on most of the responsibilities in your friendships and finally, the effects of parents not encouraging friendships from a young age. Book a …

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Meet Xenia, our new co-host 23:51

2y ago23:51

23:51

Join us today as we get to know one of our second co-hosts, Xenia. Book a RANT session⁠ here⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠here⁠ Find us on ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠ Instagram⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 34:35

2y ago34:35

34:35

This week, we look at two daughter confessionsand come up with possible solutions Book a RANT session⁠⁠ here⁠⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Find us on ⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠, ⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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What do eldest daughters experience on their wedding day? 40:53

2y ago40:53

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This week, we discuss how eldest daughters are often referred to as party poopers. We delve into why many of us struggle with relaxing and having fun at parties. We also discuss how eldest daughters may feel on their wedding day. Will everyone let them have the day of their dreams, or will eldest daughters continue being planners and making sure ev…

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 42:21

2y ago42:21

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This week, we look at two daughter confessions and come up with possible solutions. Book a RANT session⁠ here⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠here⁠ Find us on ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠ Instagram⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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Do eldest daughters see themselves as an extension of their parents 37:24

2y ago37:24

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This week, we talk about the guilt that comes with accepting things from your parents (gifts, money, etc.) and how we can overcome this. We also speak about why eldest daughters communicate differently from their younger siblings. Book a RANT session⁠ here⁠ Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠here⁠ Find us on ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠ Instagram⁠ …

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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER 35:25

2y ago35:25

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This week, we look at an daughter confession. Book a RANT session⁠ here⁠. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions ⁠here⁠ Find us on ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠ Instagram⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ Email us: [email protected]

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Eldest daughters should do less, because "when we’re not there, they figure it out" 45:25

2+ y ago45:25

45:25

When did you first realise that your eldest daughter role dominated your life? This week, we speak about how the eldest daughter role dominates our lives. We discuss the guilt that comes with deciding to put yourself first and how to work around that guilt. We also look into the types of roles eldest daughters go into and how to manage a good work/…

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Meet Kiran, the new co-host 22:50

2+ y ago22:50

22:50

WE ARE BACK!! With two new co-hosts. Join us today as we get to know one of our new co-hosts, Kiran. Book a RANT session here. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Find us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok Email us: [email protected]

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“I decided to estrange myself from my birth parents” ft. Holly 1:11:05

2+ y ago1:11:05

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This week, we are joined by Holly. Holly talks us through a step-by-step process of being estranged from her family. We speak about estrangement from both parents and some siblings, the rationale behind her choices and how it has helped her currently. We also discuss aspects of her life when she experienced abuse and financial mistreatment. Finally…

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Why are eldest daughters lonely? 19:28

2+ y ago19:28

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This week, I look at how loneliness impacts the lives of eldest daughter and how they can work to overcome it. If you need to speak with someone, please book a rant session with us. Book a RANT session here. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Find us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok Email us: [email protected]…

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"I don't want to be the bigger person all the time" ft. Praise 37:10

2+ y ago37:10

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This week, we are joined by Praise. We speak about gendered parenting and how she moved away without feeling guilty.We also speak about careers and how her eldest daughter role helped her in this role. Book a RANT session here. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Find us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok Email us: hello@homegirlsu…

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“Am I trying to be the eldest daughter for my community?” Ft. Nicole 39:21

2+ y ago39:21

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This week Nicole joins us. We discuss dating and moving in with a boy without your parents’ approval. We also discuss the work that goes into endingpeople-pleasing tendencies. Finally, we discuss her career, how she ran for CONGRESS, and her parent’s disapproval of this decision. Book a RANT session here. Anonymously send your eldest daughter confe…

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Biologically I’m a sister but I haven’t experienced it ft Usna 46:17

2+ y ago46:17

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This week, we joined Usna, the eldest daughter of six. We discuss how her eldest daughter role has infiltrated many parts of her life, including her relationship with her siblings and how she has never felt like a sister, but a parent, dating life, the guilt of eldest daughter life and more, even after moving out. Book a RANT session here Anonymous…

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In a long-distance relationship with my family ft. Cellia 25:03

2+ y ago25:03

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This week, I am joined by Cellia. We discuss being in a long-distance relationship with her family after moving abroad. We also discuss the resentment that comes with the eldest daughter role, the differences in treatment between her and her siblings, career choices and going into the creative sector. Finally, we speak about conversing with your pa…

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“My parents didn’t respect my education, I’m now doing a PhD" ft Zoha 33:16

3y ago33:16

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This week, we are joined by Zoha. We discuss life in an abusive household and how education helped her escape. We also discuss how she supported her mother with English classes and eventually helped her secure a job. Book a RANT session here Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Find us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok Email us: he…

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Sacrificing Friendships, Education & Dating Ft. Naomi 29:40

3y ago29:40

29:40

This week we are joined by Naomi. We speak about how she had to pause her life to look after her younger siblings. How difficult friendships and dating is and also how her eldest daughter role has affected her education. Book a RANT session here Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Find us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok Email us…

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Caring for my sick Sister ft Ridwan 52:33

3y ago52:33

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This week, we are joined by Ridwan. We speak about all things moving out, friendships, and supporting your family. We also discuss how her eldest daughter role changed after her sister was diagnosed with Leukaemia, caring for her and making sure she also prioritised her own needs. Book a RANT session here Anonymously send your eldest daughter confe…

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Eldest Daughters & Missing Out - January Twitter Space 1:17:27

3y ago1:17:27

1:17:27

After some well-needed break, we are backkkk!! This week, we are on Twitter spaces having some good conversations about missing out on things and how to deal with them. We also discuss how patriarchy plays such a huge part in how our mothers raised us and let their sons be free. Book a RANT session here Anonymously send your eldest daughter confess…

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Eldest Daughters Guide To Financial Savviness ft. Yvan 29:43

3y ago29:43

29:43

This week, we are joined by Yvan, creator of BudgetingBred. An online platform about Yvan's personal finance journey. We discuss how eldest daughters can save, spend money without feeling guilty, and work through the idea of being their parent's retirement plans. Book a RANT session here Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions here Email …

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Losing Both Parents As An Eldest Daughter ft Jo 43:31

3y ago43:31

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This week we are joined by Jo. We discuss eldest daughter life from a generational perspective. Both she and her mother rejected the role and chose to put their education first. We also discuss life dealing with a high-functioning alcoholic father and how all this affected her education. Finally, speak about having to be there for her siblings when…