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Welcome to Lez Say More: the podcast where your favorite duo of best friends—together for over 20 years—gets real about the queer community. Join us every Wednesday as we dive into everything from health and wellness, to fashion, relationships, sex - and even the occasional celebrity gossip. With our trademark humor and brutal honesty, we’re here to share stories, laughs, and insights about the (queer) modern life and all the fabulousness it has to offer. Whether you're part of the community ...
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Tan Lines, Trolls, and Micro-Cheating: Just a Casual Chat
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Send us a text Solange and Ava dive into hilarious vacation mishaps, awkward changing room experiences, and relationship boundaries in this candid, laughter-filled conversation. • Ava recounts her Dominican honeymoon adventures, including an unexpected sun allergy and a phone destroyed by foam party soap • Exploring the discomfort of navigating gen…
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We're judging each other, spilling tea, and answering your questions
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Send us a text Solange and Ava dive into Hollywood scandals, reality TV critiques, and answer your burning questions with their trademark honesty and humor. They share unfiltered thoughts on everything from the Diddy controversy to what they'd never do for a million dollars. • Discussion of recent Diddy scandal and allegations about other celebriti…
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What Happens When We Stop Trusting and Start Questioning Everything?
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Send us a text Trust issues can silently destroy relationships, creating an unsustainable cycle of suspicion and conflict that ultimately leads to breakdowns in communication and connection. Solange and Ava dive deep into trust issues, long-distance relationships, compatibility, and aging fears while touching on personal experiences with cheating a…
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From Torres Del Paine to TikTok: Solange Reflects on Nature and Celebrity Drama
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Send us a text Solange returns from her breathtaking journey to Patagonia, Chile, where she experienced landscapes that felt like "walking through a painting" and spotted rare wildlife including a puma. • Traveling to Torres del Paine National Park in Patagonia, described as being at "the end of the world" • Hiking the challenging 16-mile French Va…
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"I Cheated": A Journey Through Bisexuality and Regret
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Send us a text A transformative conversation unfolds as Francesca shares her gripping journey of coming out, navigating sexuality fluidity, and coping with infidelity. Her raw reflections offer listeners a unique understanding of love, choice, and personal growth. • Francesca opens up about her unique perspective on sexual identity • Discusses the …
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Navigating Friendships: The Breakup Dilemma
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Send us a text Our latest discussion dives deep into the often unspoken world of friendship breakups. It's a tough topic, but we believe it's essential to explore. Solange and Ava share their personal stories while offering listeners insights on how to recognize when a friendship is no longer serving you. • Understanding the emotional impact of fri…
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Send us a text This episode explores how to clock into your relationship by putting in the essential effort needed to thrive. We discuss the importance of communication, empathy, and understanding in navigating stress and the challenges that arise in partnerships. • Emphasizing the connection between effort and relationship success • Recognizing di…
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Did Someone Say “Who Wears the Pants?” Let’s Talk Misconceptions!
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Send us a text This episode dives into the misconceptions surrounding lesbian relationships, revealing the truth behind common stereotypes. We share personal experiences and answer listener questions about navigating love, culture, and acceptance. • Examining the biggest misconceptions about lesbians • Understanding gender roles within same-sex rel…
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Navigating Heartbreak: Solange on Love, Loss, and Self-Discovery
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Send us a text Solange opens up about her journey through marriage, grief, and personal growth after a painful divorce. This episode explores the importance of therapy, self-reflection, and the impact of loss on relationships, ultimately leading to a hopeful outlook on future love. • Solange reflects on her early relationship and living together • …
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From Clubs to Commitments & Why Some Lesbians Are Now Dating Men?
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Send us a text Mickey shares her heartfelt journey from the vibrant nightlife of her youth to the beautiful yet complex world of marriage and family planning. The episode highlights the realities of love, loss, and new beginnings, offering listeners an intimate glimpse into Mickey's life as a newlywed while discussing deeper themes of commitment an…
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Love Outside the Box: Soft Goth, Sexy Games & V-Day Ideas with Rosella
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Send us a text Join us as we explore love, fun, and unexpected gifts this Valentine’s Day with our special guest, Rosella. She shares insights about her book and personal experiences while we engage in playful games and discussions about love and intimacy, encouraging thoughtful and creative celebrations. • Introduction of the Valentine’s Day speci…
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Love, Identity, and Parenting: A Valentine's Day Special with Fernanda
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Send us a text Join us on this week's episode as Ava's wife Fernanda shares her transformative journey of coming out and becoming a mother at just 16, navigating the challenges of identity and co-parenting while fostering love in unique family dynamics. The episode delves into love, acceptance, and self-discovery, leaving listeners with powerful in…
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Non-Birthing Mom Tales: IVF, Tantrums & Triumphs in Two-Mom Families
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Send us a text This is part 2 of Amanda and Jackie's IVF story, in this weeks episode we sit down with Jackie and explores the intricacies of navigating IVF and same-sex parenting, focusing on the emotional, relational, and developmental challenges experienced by both partners. Insights are shared on communication, patience, and the process of bond…
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Sperm Donors, IVF Costs, and Legal Hurdles: The Lesbian Parenting Roadmap
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Send us a text This episode explores the highs and lows of the IVF journey through the eyes of Amanda and her partner Jackie, in this episode we sit down with Amanda to discuss her perspective and we discuss the challenges of becoming parents as a same-sex couple. Alongside host discussions, listeners gain insights into sperm selection, the emotion…
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The Stepmom Struggle: Parenting, Discipline, and Love in a Same-Sex Family
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Send us a text Ava shares her enlightening journey from girlfriend to stepmom while discussing the complexities of parenting a stepchild. The episode highlights the challenges of building bonds, handling discipline, and navigating conversations unique to stepparenting, as well as reflections on love and acceptance in family dynamics and parenting i…
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Murder Accusations, Breakups & Hollywood Chaos!
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Send us a text This episode goes deeper into the heart of celebrity gossip, diving into the latest dramas, relationships, and absurdities within Hollywood. From lawsuits and breakups to gym rants and playful games, we explore what fascinates us about the lives of the famous. • Discussing Blake Lively's lawsuit and its implications • Analyzing Megan…
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Resolutions & Zodiac Revelations: What 2025 Holds for You!
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Send us a text HAPPY NEW YEAR! In this week's episode we discuss resolutions, vision boards and what's to come in the new year, we also have a very fun guest Roxanne, the Rose Red Emperor, who dazzles us with a humorous and insightful horoscope forecast. Will Ava rush home to make sure her wife still loves her after hearing her horoscope for 2025! …
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Holiday Spirit & Celebrity Gossip, Announcing Our Holiday Giveaway Winner!
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Send us a text Did Beethoven rock the 'naughty or nice' list? Ava and Solange kick off this merry episode with some holiday sweater antics and a playful debate about the legendary composer himself, (spoiler: he was deaf). Grinch sweaters, some laugh-filled reflections on our annual behavior report—naughty or nice? We also announce our snail giveawa…
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Holiday Proposals & Last Minute Gift Ideas + Giveaway!
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Send us a text In this episode, we chat about the awkward dance of returning an engagement ring post-breakup? Setting the stage for a lively debate about the etiquette of ring returns when wedding bells fails. We’re joined by Ava and Solange, who spill the beans on their personal stories. We also share our last minute gift guide for the queers and …
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Tequila Truths & The Orgasm Secret: Cheers to Honesty in the Bedroom!
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Send us a text We find out what Solange's bombshell cliff hanger is, who's Ms. O? To can honesty in the bedroom transform your intimate relationships? Join us for an eye-opening journey as we toast to vulnerability and unmask the misconceptions surrounding female orgasms. We kick things off with a lighthearted cheers and tequila shots, setting the …
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Sex-pectations A Lesbian Take On Sex, Toys & Taboos
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Send us a text On this weeks episode of the Lez Say More podcast we navigate the tricky terrain of gender roles in sexual relationships, sharing personal stories that reflect the confusion and discovery that come without the traditional "birds and the bees" talk. With open hearts and open laughs, we recount the missteps and learning curves of align…
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Pumpkin pie & friends that flirt with the line.
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Send us a text Clearing the air on our last episode about cougars, pumas, cheetahs and jaguar! We kick off this episode with a playful exploration of these often misunderstood labels. We humorously unpack the quirky dynamics of age and relationships they imply, and even stumble upon the term "gerontophile" for those who prefer older partners. Our c…
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Send us a text Ever had a beauty mishap right before a major event? Ava sure did, with an eyebrow lift incident just days before her wedding! In our latest episode, we—Solange and Ava—share some hilarious Botox tales and candidly discuss our self-care rituals. We’re not afraid to laugh at ourselves while highlighting the importance of choosing the …
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Closeted Girlfriends and Reformed Cheaters
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Send us a text Have you ever found yourself trapped in the intricate web of lies that comes with juggling multiple relationships? In this episode of the Lez Say More podcast, we unravel personal tales of infidelity and the emotional chaos that ensues when secrets are revealed. We explore the devastating impact on trust and self-worth, and share the…
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Bye Girl Bi! Lesbian Breakups to Breakthroughs
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Send us a text Ever felt blindsided by love's unpredictable twists? We've been there, and we're recounting those messy, magical moments that define our journey to self-discovery. From Solange's humorous tale of shared ex-girlfriend Mildred to Ava's reflections on youthful intuition and trust, we explore how the chaos of early relationships shapes w…
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Happy Halloween! From Stalkers to jailbird girlfriends
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Send us a text Have you ever had a dating experience so spooky it left you glancing over your shoulder? This Halloween special is filled with spine-chilling tales from our listeners and our own encounters, painting a picture of the eeriest side of dating. As we don our themed costumes—one of us as a symbol of being hunted and the other as a valiant…
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Send us a text What happens when cultural expectations clash with personal identity? Join us as we navigate the emotional highs and lows of coming out in diverse family settings. From the heart-wrenching confrontation in an Islamic household triggered by the discovery of photos, to the struggle for acceptance within a non-religious family led by a …
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Send us a text Made it out of the group chat. Hello!!! From your hosts Ava and Solange! Our first episode is out! We made it out of the group chat! Today we introduce ourselves, our podcast and talk a bit about who we are and what to expect from us on this new venture we are embarking on! We are excited to share our experiences and also bring on gu…
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