Are you an Unwitting Wife of an Addict or Alcoholic? Me too. Did you know that just by living so closely to such a cunning, deceptive, self-serving disease, you, too, have become "sick"? And did you know that YOU are often the key to motivating your partner, a good person suffering from addiction or alcoholism, into getting help? Take a deep breath and join me on this journey today. Welcome to your awakening.
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Understanding Predictable Behaviors in Addicted Households
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Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships
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The Topic of Treatment: Beware of the Body Broker
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Can Narcissitic Behaviors be Learned? How it Results in Addiction
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Understanding Addiction Mindset vs. Narcissism, Key Differences
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Have you observed your addicted or alcoholic partner behaving in a way that appears as; - Arrogant - Selfish or Self Centered - Grandiose Thought Patterns Have you ever thought, "I wonder if they are a narcissist"? This article clearly defines Narcissistic Personality Disorder, as stated in the DSM-5 while applying clinical definitions to addiction…
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The Impact of Double Binds on Mental Health
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The Complex Relationship between Manipulation, Love Bombing, and Codependency
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Want to know how manipulation, love bombing and codependency present in relationships with alcoholic or addicted partners? Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, k…
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Identifying Manipulative Behaviors in Addiction
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Ready to learn a new skill? Understanding how manipulative behaviors arose in your partner. Learning how to recognize the tactics employed in any manipulation. Today you learn ABOUT it, HOW to spot it, and thats just the first step. Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to …
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Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Family Dynamics
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Understanding the Myths of Addiction and Recovery
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Let's address the #1 Myth of the unwitting wife..."If they just get sober. Go to treatment. All my problems would be solved." Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks…
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What YOU Need to Do While Your Partner is in Treatment.
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The scariest thing in my world at any given moment is the word, “relapse”. Can you relate? Oh man, to feel the pain, trauma, and heartbreak of a relapse is something very very unique to this community. Lean on your sisters here; we know your fears, your pain, and your inner turmoil, truly. So let’s talk about what YOU need to do while your loved on…
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Understanding Covert Abuse in Emotional Relationships
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The most cunning type of emotional and psychological abuse. It is difficult to identify due to its secretive nature. Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep pr…
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Today, we’ll focus on defining different types of abuse and how they present in the home with an addict or alcoholic as the primary “abuser”. It’s important to reinforce the truth here: NO TYPE OF ABUSE is EVER acceptable. If you suspect that you are the victim of abuse, or someone you know is the victim of abuse, you MUST SEEK HELP NOW. Help is av…
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Giving Space to the Emotional Weight of the Family Roles
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Identify "The Roles of the Family Members"
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Have you subconsciously stepped into a role to achieve balance in the home with an addict? Find out today. Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing co…
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Strategy: Detaching Yourself from the Outcomes
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Strategy: Defining your Addicted Partner as 2 Different People
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Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing content tailored to the wife of an addict or alcoholic. If you have comments, suggest…
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Reviewing the lies that live within the ecosystems of the addict or alcoholic and who believes them more? Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing con…
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Let's explore toxic family systems and how the addict emerges or copes with the dynamic. Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing content tailored to …
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Are you the ultimate gambler? Maybe. Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing content tailored to the wife of an addict or alcoholic. If you have comm…
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Let's learn how to TRUST Do you like this content? Do you find it helpful for navigating your own journey? If you do, please take the time to subscribe to the Secret Spirits podcast. By subscribing to this channel, you can help me, Anonymously Becks, keep providing content tailored to the wife of an addict or alcoholic. If you have comments, sugges…
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Welcome. I am the wife of a GOOD MAN suffering from addiction. My husband, a kind soul, became deeply entangled with addiction in his adolescence, relying on intoxication as a numbing agent for surviving an abusive, toxic family dynamic. If you, like me, are the wife (partner, spouse, etc) of a good person, suffering from alcoholism (alcohol use di…
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