The world of leadership is rife with information, listicles and re-hashed advice. We all know that we need to have more difficult conversations, be kinder and more empathetic with those we lead, and walk the path of servant leadership. And yet we rarely seem to get any closer to developing ourselves as the leaders we wish to be. Instead, we clutter our brains with more information, enact a new promise to ourselves and those around us to lean in and show up more powerfully than we did last ti ...
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Ep 374: Why We Think We're Already Doing the Work
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17:18We often believe we are already doing the transformational work by reading books, watching videos, attending seminars, or having deep conversations with friends. These can look like transformation, but more often they skim the surface without truly shifting who we are. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks why our ego convinces us that we are “doing…
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Relationships are the foundation of powerful coaching. Yet, many clients and coaches lean heavily on methodology, certifications, or step-by-step processes, thinking that is what guarantees success. While methods can be useful, they can also become a shield that keeps real connection at arm’s length. In this insightful episode, Adam Quiney shares w…
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Ep 372: Meeting Someone vs. Stopping Someone
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18:27How does transformation lead to kinder, more compassionate, and more generous leaders? In this episode, Adam Quiney shares why the heart of transformational leadership begins with a simple question: What do you want? We often meet people at the surface, seeking money, power, or control, but true change happens when we meet them where they are inste…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with special guest Seth Drugatz, who will be sharing about his experience inside The Forge.
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The idea of being a product of your own product means that, in a setting or structure where you are both selling and using the product. That is the kind of idea of it. You ought to be modeling or demonstrating that the products work, that your life is better. It’s easy to fake the results. But real leadership shows in how you live, not in what you …
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion about the trap of "I know what I need to do, I just need to do it", as well as ontology, dancing and leadership.
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Ep 370: Why Traditional Marketing Fails Coaches
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21:36Most people market coaching like they’re selling windshield wipers; quick, generic, and low trust. But transformational work doesn’t work that way. In this episode of The Transformational Leader, we dive into why coaching is a relationship-based business and not a sales-based one. We’ll explore how to shift from lead generation to genuine service, …
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Mid-week Ep 139: Bay LeBlanc Quiney
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1:16:49On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with his wife and partner in this work, Bay, for an honest conversation about transformation - what it truly looks like, the very real challenges, and the immense rewards on the other side. They’ll also dive into The Forge (https://evergrowthcoaching.com/the-forge/), their signature container …
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Ep 369: Transformation vs. Comfort: Why the Floor Is Tilted
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22:18Most people say they want transformation, but when it’s time to take action, resistance shows up. In this episode, Adam Quiney explores why the path to real change always feels tilted against us, and how our strategies to avoid discomfort often make perfect sense but keep us stuck. Listen as we explore the hidden role fear plays, why you can’t outr…
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Ep 368: From the Vault Ep 146 — Accountability
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25:34Accountability: a common term yet essential for a company and leader. But really, what does it means for leaders, and how can it be developed? What does it mean if someone is held accountable? Let’s find out. In this episode, the talk will focus on accountability and developing it in your people -- what accountability is, the relationship towards i…
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Ep 367: From the Vault Ep 144 — Leadership Sandtrap: I Just Need to Grind
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23:24Today’s show opens up a new series called Leadership Sandtrap. These are ways to get people to show up in their leadership, as the sticky quicksand traps, providing short-term results, compelling for leaders or those practicing leadership. These short-term results make it hard to reflect on what they lack or their breakdown or next-edge leadership,…
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Ep 366: From the Vault Ep 133 — What is My Zone of Genius
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20:35While the zone of genius seems like a straightforward thing, there’s more to it than meets the eye. For instance, it’s easy to mistake your zone of excellence for your zone of genius. What occurs when this happens? For starters, you get to work more and more with whatever it is that you’re already comfortable with. This means you are stuck. There i…
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Ep 365: From the Vault Ep 131 — Content vs. Context
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21:30In most cases, the conversations people have with each other revolve around content as opposed to context. Simply put, context is what lies beneath the content. Most people spot the content but miss the context. In this episode, I’ll tackle what context really is, how to spot it, and why it is challenging to create any significant shift when you ca…
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Ep 364: From the Vault Ep 129 — Leadership vs. the Performance of Leadership
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15:12While very subtle, there is a distinction between leadership and the mere performance of leadership. Most people want to do leadership right, they want to look good, do right, and be inspiring as leaders. However, many don’t know the distinction between the two. In this episode, I’ll discuss how one is different from the other and how it impacts bo…
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A gradient is the steepness with which we confront you and present whatever work there is for you to do. It’s like going into a gym and picking up a 6,000-pound weight. That rate is going to be a high gradient for your muscles to adapt to, while a low-pound weight might be too low of a gradient. In transformational work, we seek to find the gradien…
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Ep 362: Choice - Circumstances vs. Ontology
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20:00An ontological leader can bring the being of a leader to whatever they are doing. One of the things that an ontological leader does is to perpetually be at choice for what is happening. What we mean by we are choice is that we are choosing what is going on, which allows us to be empowered by what we are up to. In this episode of The Transformationa…
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It is an exciting episode to get to know more about Adam Quiney. Today, he shared his story of how he came to be here, his journey through transformation and ontological work, and how he arrived at this point. Adam Quiney as a kid loves to read and the library represents freedom to him. He is very reliable in reading things that will make him bette…
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Just listen. Why is it important to listen? If you ever take on any recovery work, you'll notice a lot of what makes that so potent, which is simply that people listen. You share, they thank you for your share, they listen, and then they move on. In this episode, Adam Quiney narrated a scenario he witnessed when a person didn't get the opportunity …
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Humans are incredibly adaptive and tolerant. We are very reliable just like a frog who sits in hot boiling water slowly but surely dying. We can tolerate things and as we tolerate them more, they just slowly shift and become our baseline. It's not until there's an acute moment in our lives that people reach out and ask for support. This is related …
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a powerful live coaching conversation with Ral West. Ral , an accomplished entrepreneur from Alaska, has built several businesses and is now launching an exciting new mastermind. In this episode, Adam and Ral explore a surprising realization: sometimes, what looks like a gap in our growth or goa…
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Have you heard of people who complain about people complaining? Why do people complain? In this episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney distinguished the three categories of people in terms of complaining: The first group is those who don't care about things. Sometimes they complain, and sometimes they don't. The next category is those …
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When you are presented with someone who is boring, the first thing that happens is that you want to stop talking and lose interest in them. You start to turn your attention elsewhere and move away. Therefore, one of the consequences of being boring is that it turns people off to them. You have to ask these questions: Why would someone choose to bec…
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Mid-week Ep 137: Mounica Veggelam & Brian Piper
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1:16:21On this week’s mid-week episode, Adam Quiney hosts a Live Coaching and Feedback Demonstration with Mounica Veggelam and her client, Brian Piper.
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What does it mean to stand? The stand is not a much-talked-about topic in leadership conversations. The art of standing is something that we learn not from a didactic or informational context, or just by knowing. It's more like about riding a bike. The way stand is best learned by having yourself stood for, and by getting to practice standing for p…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, Adam Quiney discusses Theory vs. Practice.
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Ep 355: The Fallacy of Seeing Your Blindspots
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17:21When people come into coaching or getting into leadership conversation, the starting point is a question of "What do you want to do?" One of the most common things leadership coaches hear is that people want to see their blind spots. The reason that being eager to see your blind spot is problematic is that inquiry allows you to avoid putting any sk…
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In this episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney talks about the ontology of the empath. What does it mean to be an empath? The idea of the empath has become popular in the last 10 years. It is described as someone with a heightened ability to feel what others are feeling. Society has dismissed or bullied this trait in favor of a more em…
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Quiet quitting is when employees disengage and leave without a fuss. Employees seem fine on the surface and everything is good, then suddenly they disengage and leave. Leaders in this situation are often left feeling frustrated and powerless. In this episode, Adam Quiney dives into the ontology of quiet quitting. What is going on with quiet quittin…
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In this episode of The Transformational Leader, we will get to know Donald Trump. Yes, you read it right. We get to know Trump on the ontological level, the service of addressing being rather than doing, being able to see things at a deeper level than just what we are doing on the surface and understanding things with a little bit more (0:22) depth…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, Adam Quiney discusses The Ontology of Play in High-Stakes Arenas, The Unjust Nature of Transformational Work, The Ontology of Readiness, Soft Power in Leadership, The Ontology of Motivation, The Ontology of Blame, The Art of Unlearning, and more!
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In this week's episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney, whose profession involves selling relationships with people, introduced a new concept on how to learn to sell. A lot of entrepreneurs end up being stuck in the idea of not having to feel the context and pain they have around rejection. They are no longer conscious of these rejectio…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a very special conversation with David Hardy about the parallels between functional neurology and ontology.
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If you are someone who does a lot of speaking and wants to be able to bring people along with you, this is an exceptional skill to develop, leading people's listening. When we are leading someone's listening, most of the time, we have an understanding of what we want to do, and then we just begin to speak from that place. What often happens is that…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a very special conversation with special guest JoinMichèle Soregaroli, as they talk about all things related to living a fully-expressed life. Come join us.
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In this episode, we will talk about politics. Politics is on the ontological side, which is the study and science of being. The being underneath the words that we say and do. Politics is a system by which every four years or so, is that there's an election. In that election, the public votes for whichever party or candidate runs for a specific posi…
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In this episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney discusses the ontology of reframing. He will briefly explain what is the ontological thing happening when we reframe. Reframing is about choosing how we want to relate to the circumstances of our lives. Most people frame the way they approach, feel about, and relate to life as it shows up.…
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As a leader or coach, the time you are going to stand up for people to go beyond their comfort zone also means that some might get triggered and confronted. In short, you are going to piss or upset people. The only way we can ensure we never upset people is to keep ourselves quiet. Being upset is part of the abundance of a fully expressed life. In …
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Today, Adam Quiney will be talking about one of the big breakthroughs that he had to create for himself along the way; it is about making 'The Path and A Path.' 'The Path vs A Path' is a fundamental trap of leadership. Most people into coaching and leadership are on the wrong side of the distinction between 'The Path' and 'A Path.' The nature of ou…
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Mid-week Ep 132: Seth Drugatz and Maggie Buchana
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55:28On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a very special conversation with special guests, Seth Drugatz and Maggie Buchana. In this episode, they dive into exploring the topic of possibility.
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Ep 345: Distinguishing Breakthroughs for the Retreat
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20:45Live from a retreat location in Costa Rica, Adam Quiney talks about one of the things they do at the start of the retreat which is establishing breakthroughs. In this episode, Adam revisits the concept of a breakthrough which is often a missed concept and poorly understood. How do we make breakthroughs happen? What most people think about breakthro…
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Ep 344: Everything is Your Relationship to It
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12:11The first stumbling block for most of us is that we get very caught off in facts. The facts will be the same, and we can do nothing about those. Whatever story we tell ourselves, it will have an impact on our energy, motivation, and intentionality, and what we see is possible and impossible. The results we can create, the way we thrive or struggle …
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a very special conversation with special guest, Hans Phillips. In this episode, they dive into talking about all things life, leadership and everything in between.
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Ep 343: Understanding That You'll Get It Wrong
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12:41In this episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney talks about practicing the fact that you won't always get things right. He also talks about working with the fact that you are not going to get something right, and why not getting it right actually supports you in transforming. Usually, early on, people will explore things that they want …
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What a great opening statement for 2025! In the first episode of the Transformational Leader for this year, Adam Quiney talks about this essential aspect of your journey in leadership. The journey of developing yourself as a leader through the experience of being with someone whose leadership is genuinely something they've worked on and spent time …
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Ep 341: From the Vault Ep 103 — Being Committed to Something Greater Than Yourself
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14:04Simply put, committing to something greater than yourself means having a mission, purpose, and commitment that goes beyond your own human contrivances. However, most people tend to make commitments from their internal state—their moods, feelings, and what their present to at the moment. While not committing to something greater than yourself can se…
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Ep 340: From the Vault Ep 98 — Leading in Relationship and the Dance of Polarity
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16:40In this episode, I’ll dive deep into the concept of polarity and how it can show up in relationships including your leadership. The ability to distinguish between the 2 energies—the masculine and feminine—can give you a clear idea of how to lead in a way that creates polarity. How do you distinguish and embody both aspects so it benefits your leade…
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Ep 339: From the Vault Ep 96 — Five Distinctions to Help You Lead
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20:29To create a truly transformational leadership, you need to have access to new possibilities. Distinctions are tools that can give you access to new possibilities. In addition, distinctions will also allow you to cut through all the thought and make a decision right away as opposed to wasting time analysing things. In this episode, I’ll talk about 5…
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Ep 338: From the Vault Ep 94 — Developing the Power of Your Word
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23:18While unfortunate to note, many people (including powerful leaders), assume not honouring their word is harmless. However, if truth be told, not keeping your word has a significant impact not only in your life but in your leadership as well. When you don’t honour and keep your word, you end up losing people’s trust both in you as a person and as a …
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Ep 337: Transformational, Facilitative and Neutral Conversations
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18:45There are three kinds of conversations that we usually see in coaching and leadership. These are neutral conversations, facilitative conversations, and transformational conversations. Transformational conversations are the type of conversation that most people get into coaching for. It is more of seeing your blind spots. Inside a transformational c…
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On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a conversation on Resistance —the hidden force that holds us back from our next level of leadership. Tune in now to explore how resistance shows up, its impact, and strategies for transformation.
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