Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Sari Swears Podcast: Why Every Trial Lawyer Needs a Brag List with Special Guest, Coach K
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27:44If you're a trial lawyer, you've probably been told some version of this: 🚫 "Don't be arrogant." 🚫 "Stay humble." 🚫 "Let the work speak for itself." Sounds right… until it starts shrinking how you show up. In this week's podcast, Coach K and I talk directly to YOU about a mindset trap we see all the time — the humble saboteur 🧠. It's the voice that…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 15: Top Three Mindset Issues for Trial Lawyers with Special Guest, Coach K
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24:53The year is winding down. Trials are slowing. Your brain is STILL going a mile a minute. This week on Sari Swears, I'm joined by guest speaker Coach K for a conversation that feels like hitting the reset button before the new year. We talk through the mindset traps that quietly wear trial lawyers down and what to do about them. We Break Down: 👉🏽 Wh…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 14: How Secondary Trauma May Be Holding You Back with Special Guest, Coach K
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31:48Have you ever felt COMPLETELY drained by this work… even when everything is technically "going fine"? Not just tired, but heavy? That's exactly what we're talking about this week on Sari Swears and Coach K is back with me for this episode. We're diving into secondary trauma — the kind you absorb from: 👉🏽 The cases 👉🏽 The injuries 👉🏽 The families 👉🏽…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 13: What You're Getting Wrong About Non-Economic Damages
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26:26Let's talk about money. Specifically: what money can buy... and what it can't. That distinction? It's everything in trial. And it's everything when it comes to damages. Economic damages? You've got bills, life care plans, receipts… Non-economic? You're asking the jury to put a number on grief. On lost joy. On the inability to hold your child again.…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 12: Do You Have the Right People in the Right Seats?
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34:36If you're anything like I was a few years ago… You're doing everything. You're hustling. You're building. And you're running a successful business. BUT, you STILL feel trapped. That's because you're operating like a solopreneur, not an entrepreneur. (Spoiler: one burns out, the other builds a team.) In this week's podcast, I'm sharing something out…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 11: Are You Repeating Yourself? Maybe You Should
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23:37Do you ever catch yourself repeating things in trial and worry it's too much? Let me stop you right there: it's NOT too much. In fact, you probably need to repeat yourself MORE. This week's podcast episode is all about how intentional repetition helps your jurors: ✔️ Understand your case ✔️ Remember your core messages ✔️ Trust YOU Too many attorney…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 10: Flipping the Switch: How Shaun Lieser Transformed His Trial Practice with the H2H Method
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35:27You ever meet someone and think, "Oh, they're about to break wide open." That was PI attorney Shaun Lieser. When he first joined our H2H world, he was smart (still is), capable (still is), and honestly? A little stuck. Then he FLIPPED the switch. Inside the episode, we talk about: 👉🏽 Why wanting to be liked is killing your presence in court 👉🏽 The …
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 9: How to Master Difficult Conversations: The Tool I Swear By
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20:22Ever been in a conversation that went sideways fast? 🫣 You had good intentions… but suddenly it felt like you were speaking different languages? Yeah. Been there. That's WHY I'm dropping this week's episode: How to Master Difficult Conversations: The Tool I Swear By. It's based on a life-changing framework I got from my very first coach and I still…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 8: Practice Makes Progress (So Why Aren't You Doing It?)
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34:48If instinct is your only strategy in the courtroom, you've already lost ground. This week's episode might ruffle a few feathers. Because I'm calling BS on the myth of "natural trial talent." You know the one. 😉 The idea that great trial lawyers are just BORN that way. That some people just have it. Instincts are a starting point. BUT they'll only t…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 7: 5 Storytelling Rules Every Attorney Needs to Know
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28:00If you've ever found yourself spiraling mid-trial, wondering "am I doing this right?" — this episode is for you. Because here's the truth: ⚡️ There is no "right." ⚡️ You can't perform your way to presence. ⚡️ You can't think your way into connection. You have to practice being present. In this episode, I share 7 ways to step out of your head and in…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 6: How to Get Off Notes (Without Memorizing!)
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27:23We've all done it. Sat at our desk, typing out an opening statement word-for-word, hoping it'll somehow click once we're standing in court. But here's the thing: The way you practice is the way you'll perform. And if you're only rehearsing in your head, hunched over a keyboard, your brain's gonna BAIL on you the moment you stand up. In this week's …
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 5: 7 Words or Phrases You're Using in Trial That are Damaging Your Case
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25:44Have you ever heard a phrase in court and cringe a little? Not because it's wrong, but because it's so… overused. We've all said them. BUT. The game has changed. Jurors are sharper. Attention is shorter. And credibility is everything. So in this week's podcast, I'm breaking down 7 phrases that are killing your case and offering better ways to build…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 4: You Stand on the Side of the Right w/Special Guest Michael Takla
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38:24I recently sat down with Mike Takla on the Bad Law, Worse Facts podcast, and we went deep. 🗣️We talked bias. 🗣️We talked voir dire. 🗣️We talked WHY so many attorneys are afraid to ask for the damn money. And of course, I shared what I've been teaching inside the H2H Playground, at Command the Courtroom, and our upcoming Damages Masterclass — includ…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 3: Pain & Suffering - Are Either Avoidable?
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26:35Life hurts sometimes. 👎🏽 Your case bombs. 👎🏽 Someone says something that cuts deep. 👎🏽 You lose something or someone that mattered. That's PAIN. That's inevitable. BUT, then your brain chimes in: 🧠 "This shouldn't be happening." 🧠 "I should've done it differently." 🧠 "I'm not good enough." That's NOT pain. That's suffering… and it's OPTIONAL. (even…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 2: From Homelessness to Owning Her Own Law Firm - Special Guest Kim Valentine
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54:17This week's episode is a little different. Raw. Real. And one of the MOST powerful stories we've ever shared on the podcast. I sat down with the incredible Kim Valentine — a powerhouse trial attorney who went from being homeless… To someone who now walks into the courtroom fully expressed, fully embodied, and fully herself. 💖 Her story WILL move yo…
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 1: I Don't Stay in My Lane (and neither should you)
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14:49Welcome to the very first episode of Sari Swears — the podcast that FINALLY sounds like me, looks like me, and says the things I've ALWAYS wanted to say without editing myself down to fit in a box. We ditched the old name. Rebuilt the studio. And YES — there's a theme song now that SLAPS. This episode is the start of something completely new. 🚫 NO …
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] – Design Your Dream Client: Selecting Clients Who Fuel Seven-Figure Verdicts
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1:07:00This week's episode is your blueprint for setting the bar (and the boundaries) before the case ever starts. We're talking SYSTEMS that protect your time, your team, and your peace. We're getting into: 💣 My 7+ Point Case Filter: the BS-proof checklist every case goes through 💣 Three-Strikes + Deal-Breakers Rules: no more back-and-forth with on-the-f…
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