Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like⦠a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 10: Flipping the Switch: How Shaun Lieser Transformed His Trial Practice with the H2H Method
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35:27You ever meet someone and think, "Oh, they're about to break wide open." That was PI attorney Shaun Lieser. When he first joined our H2H world, he was smart (still is), capable (still is), and honestly? A little stuck. Then he FLIPPED the switch. Inside the episode, we talk about: ππ½ Why wanting to be liked is killing your presence in court ππ½ The β¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 9: How to Master Difficult Conversations: The Tool I Swear By
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20:22Ever been in a conversation that went sideways fast? π«£ You had good intentionsβ¦ but suddenly it felt like you were speaking different languages? Yeah. Been there. That's WHY I'm dropping this week's episode: How to Master Difficult Conversations: The Tool I Swear By. It's based on a life-changing framework I got from my very first coach and I stillβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 8: Practice Makes Progress (So Why Aren't You Doing It?)
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34:48If instinct is your only strategy in the courtroom, you've already lost ground. This week's episode might ruffle a few feathers. Because I'm calling BS on the myth of "natural trial talent." You know the one. π The idea that great trial lawyers are just BORN that way. That some people just have it. Instincts are a starting point. BUT they'll only tβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 7: 5 Storytelling Rules Every Attorney Needs to Know
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28:00If you've ever found yourself spiraling mid-trial, wondering "am I doing this right?" β this episode is for you. Because here's the truth: β‘οΈ There is no "right." β‘οΈ You can't perform your way to presence. β‘οΈ You can't think your way into connection. You have to practice being present. In this episode, I share 7 ways to step out of your head and inβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 6: How to Get Off Notes (Without Memorizing!)
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27:23We've all done it. Sat at our desk, typing out an opening statement word-for-word, hoping it'll somehow click once we're standing in court. But here's the thing: The way you practice is the way you'll perform. And if you're only rehearsing in your head, hunched over a keyboard, your brain's gonna BAIL on you the moment you stand up. In this week's β¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 5: 7 Words or Phrases You're Using in Trial That are Damaging Your Case
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25:44Have you ever heard a phrase in court and cringe a little? Not because it's wrong, but because it's soβ¦ overused. We've all said them. BUT. The game has changed. Jurors are sharper. Attention is shorter. And credibility is everything. So in this week's podcast, I'm breaking down 7 phrases that are killing your case and offering better ways to buildβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 4: You Stand on the Side of the Right w/Special Guest Michael Takla
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38:24I recently sat down with Mike Takla on the Bad Law, Worse Facts podcast, and we went deep. π£οΈWe talked bias. π£οΈWe talked voir dire. π£οΈWe talked WHY so many attorneys are afraid to ask for the damn money. And of course, I shared what I've been teaching inside the H2H Playground, at Command the Courtroom, and our upcoming Damages Masterclass β includβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 3: Pain & Suffering - Are Either Avoidable?
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26:35Life hurts sometimes. ππ½ Your case bombs. ππ½ Someone says something that cuts deep. ππ½ You lose something or someone that mattered. That's PAIN. That's inevitable. BUT, then your brain chimes in: π§ "This shouldn't be happening." π§ "I should've done it differently." π§ "I'm not good enough." That's NOT pain. That's sufferingβ¦ and it's OPTIONAL. (evenβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 2: From Homelessness to Owning Her Own Law Firm - Special Guest Kim Valentine
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54:17This week's episode is a little different. Raw. Real. And one of the MOST powerful stories we've ever shared on the podcast. I sat down with the incredible Kim Valentine β a powerhouse trial attorney who went from being homelessβ¦ To someone who now walks into the courtroom fully expressed, fully embodied, and fully herself. π Her story WILL move yoβ¦
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Sari Swears Podcast | Season 8, Ep. 1: I Don't Stay in My Lane (and neither should you)
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14:49Welcome to the very first episode of Sari Swears β the podcast that FINALLY sounds like me, looks like me, and says the things I've ALWAYS wanted to say without editing myself down to fit in a box. We ditched the old name. Rebuilt the studio. And YES β there's a theme song now that SLAPS. This episode is the start of something completely new. π« NO β¦
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] β Design Your Dream Client: Selecting Clients Who Fuel Seven-Figure Verdicts
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1:07:00This week's episode is your blueprint for setting the bar (and the boundaries) before the case ever starts. We're talking SYSTEMS that protect your time, your team, and your peace. We're getting into: π£ My 7+ Point Case Filter: the BS-proof checklist every case goes through π£ Three-Strikes + Deal-Breakers Rules: no more back-and-forth with on-the-fβ¦
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] - The Permission Principle: How to Read, Increase and Sustain Permission With Jurors
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38:08Ever wonder what you're REALLY communicating in the courtroom? Your posture. Your tone. Your presence. It ALL lands with the jury LONG before your words do. This week, I'm talking about something I call Nonverbal Intelligence and WHY it's one of the most overlooked (and powerful) tools in your trial arsenal. Here's what we get into: ππ½ WHAT you're β¦
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] β Eliminate Trial Fear & Boost Your Credibility with Jurors
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58:08Your brain's job? To keep you safe. Your job? To lead anyway. Most of the fear you feel in trial is fake news β just recycled thoughts about losing, judgment, or not measuring up. But here's the kicker: Your thoughts aren't facts, and you can rewrite them. This week's episode hands you the tools to: π£ Ditch the vague labels and call it what it is: β¦
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FHTH Podcast Special Episode β The Permission Principle: How to Read, Increase and Sustain Permission With Jurors
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42:31There's this quiet habit so many of you haveβ¦ AND it's costing you in the courtroom. You're waiting. Waiting to be liked. Waiting to be approved of. Waiting for some signal that it's safe to lead. But here's the truth: Nobody hands you authority in that courtroom, you CLAIM it. In this episode, I'm diving into what I call the Permission Principle. β¦
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] The H2H Method: Proven Steps to Master Voir Dire, Opening Statements & Verdict-Winning Strategies
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1:21:18Jurors DON'T need a show. They NEED a leader. In this week's episode, I'm handing you the entire back-of-house blueprint, so you can finally STOP faking confidence and START generating real influence β WITHOUT THE BURNOUT. Ditch the fear-based prep. Drop the performance act. And lead the hell out of your next trial. π§ Hit play. Your real influence β¦
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BONUS EPISODE β 8 Steps to an 8 Figure Verdict [Live Training]
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1:21:18People always ask me: "How do I get big verdicts using the H2H Method?" Wellβ¦ this episode breaks it down. No fluff. Just the real, step-by-step story of how I used H2H to help secure an 8-figure verdict in a REAL case. From the very FIRST consult to the moment the jury DELIVERED the verdict β this is exactly what went down. In this episode, I walkβ¦
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Encore Episode β Why Confidence Is Overrated in Court (and What REALLY Moves Jurors)
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18:36Waiting to feel confident before stepping into court is like waiting to get in shape BEFORE hitting the gym. Cute idea, but that's not how this works. PLEASE, for the love of voir dire: β STOP rehearsing defeat. β STOP letting fear run your case. β STOP pretending some "big name" lawyer is better for your case than you are. π§ Push past panic, polisβ¦
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