Best The Introverted Nerd Podcasts (2025)

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Cold Approaches Failed. One Night With New Friends Worked, Mrinal's Story 45:45

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1d ago45:45

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🤔 What if months of cold approaching strangers kept you single and frustrated, but making new friends got you numbers? That's exactly what happened to Mrinal, a past client of mine 🤓 He's a nerd who plays D&D, learned Japanese to watch anime without subtitles, and spent months following mainstream dating advice that made him feel uncomfortable and …

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S8E10 - Building the World We Want for Ourselves 33:51

2d ago33:51

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In the final episode of season 8, Jenn and Daren explore the relentless pursuit of dreams and the journey to fulfillment. They share their personal experiences of moving to Maryland, overcoming challenges, and ultimately finding happiness in their new life. Most importantly, they emphasize the importance of perseverance and the joy that comes from …

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Bake Until Done 31:40

6d ago31:40

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This week, professional pastry chef Faith Fedash stops by host Greta Johnsen's kitchen to make pumpkin pie cookies. (Find the full recipe for the cookies here!) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Level Up Your Social Skills Using Online Gaming Communities, with Kaylee Lopez 22:09

15d ago22:09

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🫣 Meeting new people can be scary. That's why online gaming communities are a great way to start if you have Level 1 Social Skills and want to farm some XP! 👾 In this episode, I bring back Kaylee Lopez, an anthropologist who writes about gaming and game communities. We discussed why communities are important and how you can use them to level up you…

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From Cosplay Competition to Long Distance Love: A Convention Crush Love Story with Bimini and Riv 40:11

30d ago40:11

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🧐 How can you find a partner at a convention? The Date Like A Nerd surveys showed that conventions are one of the top places to meet nerds, and that real relationships do come out of those connections. In fact, Bimini and Riv's story proves that a convention crush can turn into something real, even when you think they're already taken, even across …

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S8E9 - Black Food and Gender Roles 32:49

30d ago32:49

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In this episode of "That Black Couple," Jenn and Daren return after a break with a discussion on the intersection of Black food and gender roles. They share personal anecdotes about their relationships with food, exploring how their upbringing shaped their culinary skills and perspectives. Then they delve into the cultural significance of cooking w…

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"You're Nice But I'm Not Interested" After Every First Date, Aaron's Nerd Dating Transformation 1:03:04

1M ago1:03:04

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❌ Are you stuck getting rejected after every first date? Dating apps can feel exhausting when you're anxiously trying to perform for someone who barely knows you. Aaron spent 18 months going through 50+ first dates, constantly hearing "you're great, but [polite rejection]." Sound familiar? 📱 💻 As someone who treats problems like debugging code, Aar…

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Introducing Happy To Be Here! 1:24

2M ago1:24

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Welcome to Happy To Be Here, the show for the perpetually curious! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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How to Approach Your Gym Crush (Without Being A Creep), with Jordan Yaklin 37:31

2M ago37:31

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🏋️‍♀️ Afraid to approach your gym crush? Most dating advice tells you to "just be confident and approach them," but does that actually work at the gym? The gym should be a safe space, kind of like your respawn point, where you recharge after a tough day. People go there to lift weights and decompress, not to be hit on by random NPCs. So how do you …

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'I'm Cooked' (Where to Find Dates After College), with Single Player Brandon 1:08:05

2M ago1:08:05

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🏫 How do you find dates after you're done with college? 🕰️ For many people, high school and uni gave us the perfect place to meet people. But once that's over, what do you do? How can you meet someone to date if you're not meeting... well, basically anyone? 🤷 📜 After graduating, Brandon went from having built-in social circles to basically meeting …

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Dating as an Asexual, with Elyse 27:30

3M ago27:30

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≠ Many of us are different in one way or another, so we try to fit into the social mold. Whether it is being asexual, or a preference like not drinking or doing drugs, playing video games, or anything else that makes us different, dealing with a world where we're different has its challenges 🛑 In this episode, Elyse shares her experience as an asex…

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The Hidden Cost of Finding Love With Red Pill Dating: John's Nerd Love Story 1:02:49

3M ago1:02:49

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💊 What happens when red pill advice "works"? John thought he'd found the cheat code to dating when his nerdy high school friend got a girlfriend using pickup artist tactics. But after years of grinding bars and clubs, he discovered the hidden costs of building relationships on a foundation of masks 🎭 👨‍💻 In this episode, a 40-something programmer s…

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How to Make Nerd Friends, with Pete "Belmont" 23:23

4M ago23:23

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😭 Meeting your Player 2 organically can be a challenging quest. It involves balancing making friends while keeping an eye out for potential connections. Sometimes, people in a certain group don't share your same passions. Or perhaps not as much as you'd hope. So, how do you move forward? 🤔 In this episode, Pete and I talk about how we socialize, wh…

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S8E8 - Black August for a New Generation 30:03

4M ago30:03

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In this episode, the hosts discuss the significance of Black August, emphasizing the importance of consistency in activism, the historical context of Black liberation movements, and the need for education and in-person connections in the fight for justice. They reflect on the challenges posed by social media and the necessity of courage in activism…

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S8E7 - Moving Away From Toxic Relationships 39:05

4M ago39:05

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In this episode, Dr. Jenn and Daren discuss the importance of moving away from toxic relationships in various aspects of life, including friendships, family, and work. They explore how personal growth can lead to the end of certain relationships and emphasize the need for accountability, boundaries, and self-worth in maintaining healthy connections…

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From No Dates to Feeling Truly Seen and Accepted: Kirk's Story 1:00:43

4M ago1:00:43

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💔 How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working for you, and all you do is work, stay at home, and meet with the same D&D group or spend full days with one single person at a time playing Warhammer? 🧌 In this episode, Kirk shared his challenges to date as a single nerd 😰 Like many people, he was promised that "if you focus on you…

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Dating In The Tolkien Association, with Jose 21:55

5M ago21:55

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👯 What does dating within a nerd community look like? Finding a group you're comfortable with can help you "just be yourself" and find your Player 2. 🙌 It also means you'll be enjoying yourself until that happens, which makes you more attractive! 🧙‍♂️ In this episode, Jose and I discuss what it was like to date within the Argentine Tolkien Associat…

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IRL Lessons from Video Games, with Dr. Daniel Kaufmann 24:48

5M ago24:48

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🦾 What you consider success and achievements in real life could be similar to how you play video games. Dr. Daniel Kaufmann is back to share how learning what we value in video games reflects what we may also value IRL 🌎 Understanding your player type can help you make choices that align with your personality 🤓 Knowing how you play video games can …

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S8E6 - The Roots of Toxic Masculinity in Black Communities 51:37

6M ago51:37

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In this episode of “That Black Couple,” Jenn and Daren delve into the complexities of toxic masculinity within Black communities. They discuss the impact of patriarchy on Black men, including the emotional struggles they face in unpacking societal expectations and behaviors. Further, they highlight the crucial role women play in challenging these t…

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The High School Reunion: the Nerd Love Story of Pete and Ariana 23:02

6M ago23:02

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📆 High school crushes don't have to end with the academic year. Sometimes, relationships may benefit from a respawn much later. After gaining more XP, both players gain new ways to play together. What used to be two solo players may turn into a Co-Op game 💍 In this episode, Pete "Belmont" shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only …

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Hobbit Hike: Where to Meet Nerds, with Sompi Harmetz 28:53

6M ago28:53

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🧝‍♀️ Wish you could find your Fellowship without having to roll a Nat 20 on charisma? Many shy, introverted nerds want to touch grass and be more sociable... without having to join extrovert quests! If that's you, Hobbit Hike could be the perfect solution! 🙌 In this episode, Sompi invites us to join “Hobbit Hike”, a magical, costume-friendly advent…

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S8E5 - Parenting While Black and Polyamorous 42:19

6M ago42:19

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In this episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Daren discuss the complexities of parenting while being polyamorous, addressing common misconceptions and societal concerns. They explore the benefits of polyamorous households for children, emphasizing open communication, community support, and the importance of diverse experiences. The conversation h…

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Dating The Twitch Streamer on Discord: the Nerd Love Story of Luna and Jason 31:28

7M ago31:28

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💬 Finding love on Discord is possible. Even if your Player 2 is the streamer who created the server. That said, there are some things you should keep in mind and that you want to avoid. After all, you can't meet anyone in person if you get banned! 📵 In this episode, GamerMomLuna and Jason share how they went from a Twitch chat NPC to streamer relat…

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Find Love Through Online Games, with Kaylee Lopez 21:27

7M ago21:27

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👾 How do people find a partner who plays online video games? It often feels like you're damned if you join a community looking for a relationship, and you're damned if you don't (because how else can you meet someone outside dating apps?!) 🤨 🎮 In this episode, I talk to Kaylee Lopez, an anthropologist who writes about gaming and game communities. W…

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S8E4 - Celebrating 19 Years of Marriage 45:08

7M ago45:08

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In this anniversary episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Darren celebrate 19 years of marriage and 22 years of being together. They dive into the dynamics of their non-traditional relationship, discussing their unique identities as a monogamous person and a polyamorous person. The couple shares insights on communication, the importance of underst…

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Tolkien meets Star Wars: The Nerd Love Story of Kaia and Celania 41:53

8M ago41:53

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👀 Can your Tolkien hyperfixation get in the way of your Love at First Sight? Love at first sight is rare. But if it happened, what would you do? Would you talk to them or text them first? What if they don't like you? What if you don't know what to talk about? What if you have nothing in common? Or worse, what if you overwhelm them with your hyperfi…

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S8E3 - “The Black Legacy Model” 26:29

8M ago26:29

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In this episode of That Black Couple Podcast, Jenn and Daren dive into the thought-provoking concept of the Black Legacy Model, inspired by a viral TikTok series. They explore the four pillars that define this model: income, labor, community and family investment, and career flexibility. The couple reflects on how these ideas resonate with their ow…

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S8E2 - Our Journey from Cali to the East Coast 22:25

8M ago22:25

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In the second part of the season 8 opener, Jenn and Daren dive deep into the complexities of their relationship journey, revealing the pivotal moments that shaped their love story. They reflect on the early days of their romance, starting from their college years. The conversation takes a candid turn as they discuss the challenges they faced from f…

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The Nice Guy vs The Kind Man, with April 23:02

8M ago23:02

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😇 The alternative to being a Nice Guy™ is often considered to be a Bad Boy 👨‍🎤 Because many people think that the problem is being a good person. And, sure, some people might be attracted to that... in the short term. But if you're looking to build a healthy and loving relationship, you may want to look into becoming a Kind Person, instead 😌 🖤 In t…

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S8E1 - Reintroducing That Black Couple 22:00

8M ago22:00

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In this 2-part episode, Jenn and Daren kick off Season 8 of That Black Couple Podcast with their first-ever video episode, allowing listeners to finally see their dynamic personalities in action. Join them for a heartfelt and humorous exploration of love, friendship, and the origins of That Black Couple. They reflect on their journey together, star…

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Animé Los Angeles: Where to Meet Nerds, with Matthew Lewis 26:46

8M ago26:46

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🍜 Looking for a waifu, husbando, or just a partner who enjoys anime? Animé Los Angeles could be the perfect place for you to unlock the weeb branch of your Social Tree. Whether you like to cosplay, read manga, or even build miniatures, there are many ways for you to meet people over this 4-day event! 🍣 In this episode, Matthew Lewis shares how otak…

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Cosplayers and Conventions: the Nerd Love Story of Elyse and Matt 22:41

9M ago22:41

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🦸 One convention might not be enough to get to know someone. But as you start attending more often and keeping in touch with everyone, feelings can start to develop. In the case of cosplayers, their passion for specific characters is just one more thing for them to bond over 😍 Elyse was introduced to Matt by her group of cosplayer friends. They got…

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Find Your Nerd Community: Where to Meet Nerds, with Jose 18:37

9M ago18:37

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🔎 Finding your community can sometimes be challenging. Even within the same hobby, different groups may be polar opposites. Even within the Argentine Tolkien Association, the online forum didn't always fit with the association 🧩 In this episode, I bring Jose back to talk about how we found a place where each of us felt we belonged 😌 Not feeling lik…

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From Friends with Benefits to a Nerd Wedding: the Nerd Love Story of April and Scott 32:12

10M ago32:12

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🔥 Dating Apps like Tinder often get a bad rep about what people there are looking for. But even if you start something with no strings attached, if you matched with the right person... you might end up having a nerd wedding with swords and the LOTR soundtrack! 🧝‍♂️ April expected to meet a jock 💪 Someone with whom she wouldn't have much in common. …

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Gamify Your Dating Anxiety, with Michael Berger 35:07

10M ago35:07

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👻 Fear of rejection can ruin your dating life in multiple ways: you won't start conversations, ask for a number, invite on a date, or show how you truly feel. Fortunately, you can get over it with gamification! 👾 Although many video games can teach you the Growth Mindset, you may not be applying it IRL... yet 💡 And that's where gamification comes i…

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Podcast Extras: Thank You, Coach Hickman 10:39

10M ago10:39

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In this heartfelt previously unrelased episode from 2022, we honor Coach Mike Hickman, who taught life lessons beyond basketball. From guidance and wisdom to accountability, his influence shaped character on and off the court. Tune in for a reflection on mentorship, leadership, and gratitude for those who push us toward our potential.…

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The TTRPG Group: the Nerd Love Story of Frank and Mouse 45:10

11M ago45:10

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🎲 TTRPG groups can help you make friends and even find your life partner. They're also small enough that they shouldn't cause too much anxiety. But the trick is not to limit your interaction with the other players only to game nights. Use the group to make friends outside the paper! 📝 Frank's wife is fighting stage 4 cancer. Please help them in any…

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Podcast Extras: Do You Hear Ms. Simone? 21:22

11M ago21:22

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In this special bonus episode from 2021, we delve into the powerful story of Simone Biles and other brave survivors who exposed years of sexual abuse. Despite their courage, many turned a blind eye and deaf ear, showcasing the systemic failures that enable abuse to persist. This episode highlights the resilience of survivors, the importance of list…

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S7E10 - Year In Review: Doing Things Differently in 2025 26:42

11M ago26:42

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In this episode, Jenn and Daren celebrate the milestone of reaching 2025 with an untraditional year-in-review format, reflecting on the tumultuous events of 2024. They kick things off by sharing their personal and podcasting achievements, including Jenn's book launches and their feature in The Huffington Post.In The Conversation, they delve into th…

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The Tolkien Association: Where to Meet Nerds, with Vir 33:57

11M ago33:57

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🧝‍♂️ If you're into Lord of the Rings and want a partner who shares your passion, start by making friends who are also into fantasy! Vir and I found long-term relationships at our local Tolkien Association, as did most of our friends there... except for very specific people who got rejected by everyone 🙄 🧓 In this episode, we reminisce about our ex…

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Podcast Extras: Fighting Fire with Community 8:49

12M ago8:49

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In this previously unreleased "Podcast Extras" episode from 2022, we delve into a compelling story from Emmanuel Acho's hometown village, where neighbors banded together to combat a fire that threatened their very existence. This tale isn't just about extinguishing flames—it’s about the power of community and the individual’s role in collective sur…

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Introverted Nerds on Dating Apps: the Nerd Love Story of Phillip and Darcy 31:41

12M ago31:41

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📺 Staying in watching Naruto and eating pizza might not be everyone's preference for a first date. But that doesn't have to stop you from finding a Player 2! 🎖️ After serving in the military, Phillip moved to a new city full of extroverts. As an introverted nerd dealing with anxiety and starting to build a life from scratch, with no money or even a…

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Podcast Extras: Zora @ 20 10:15

12M ago10:15

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In this special episode of Podcast Extras from 2022, we honor my eldest niece, Zora, on her 20th birthday. Zora is not only an extraordinary artist but also a beacon of purpose and creativity. Join me as I reflect on her journey so far, the incredible art she creates, and how she navigates her 20s with passion and grace. This episode is a celebrati…

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Episode 131: What's Your S.T.O.R.Y. ? 34:57

12M ago34:57

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In this episode of The Semi-Social Life of a Black Introvert Podcast, we dive into the art of living a meaningful and authentic life, using the acronym S.T.O.R.Y. as our guide to unlocking life purpose and personal growth: Start – Why the first step, no matter how small, is essential to unlocking your potential. Test – How life’s challenges are dis…

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S7E9 - Fake Holidays: Truth Telling vs. Myth Making 41:16

12M ago41:16

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In this episode, Jenn and Daren tackle the myths and realities of holiday traditions, questioning the authenticity and significance of these celebrations. As they reflect on the end of 2024, they discuss the societal pressures surrounding holidays and the myths that shape our understanding of them. In The Conversation, they delve into the notion of…