A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
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Hey what's up hello! This week we explore why acespecs are so good at writing smut and why arospecs are so good at writing romance. Pre-Order Dear Luke, Love, Me: https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/dear-luke-love-me/umc.cmc.6qer6q311z5e60jz3s8drkyvm?l=pt Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.sounds…
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Hey what's up hello! Today we're sharing our hot takes and yours! Feel the burn of the hottest takes about evolution, lesbianism, historical friendships, and more. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/hot-takes-2 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our …
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Ep 355: People in Relationships are Treated Better
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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about how people who are in relationships are treated differently than single people. It's like couple privledge but for the individual. We hate it! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/people-in-relationships-are-treated-better Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: ht…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we are back on our Reddit Rabbithole BS. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-18 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss people having AI partners. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ai-relationships Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBy Sounds Fake But Okay
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Hey what's up hello! We're back telling YOUR wild stories from high school relationship drama to pigeon rescues. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-5 Submit your own listener lore: https://forms.gle/HNE2XpfnQkVVV9ha6 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.sou…
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Hey what's up hello! We are back and it is time for a Q&A for SFBO's 8th birthday! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/8th-birthday-qa Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book…
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Hey what's up hello! As June wraps up, we reflect on Pride 2025 - the lack of corporate pride, aspecs at pride events, and rampant biphobia. And do we get a little bit off topic sometimes? Of course we do. See you in August! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pride-2025-and-biphobia Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soun…
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Ep 349: Could Changing for a Crush Be a Good Thing?
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Hey what's up hello! This week we look at examples of times when changing your interests or look for the sake of a crush actually turned out to be a good thing. We know it's shocking and gross, but could changing yourself for a crush actually be good?? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/could-changing-for-a-crush-be-a-good-thing …
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Hey what's up hello! This week we play romance and dating choose your own adventure stories on chooseyourstory.com! Spoiler alert: it goes about as well as you think it will. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/choose-your-own-adventure Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.s…
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Ep 347: Can Womanhood and Aspec Identities Coexist?
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss how society's current conception of womanhood clashes with asexual and aromantic identities. Can gender and sexuality be separated? What does it mean to be a woman when you don't desire or want to be desired? All that and more (after 10 minutes of girlhood and yapping at the top of the episode of course). E…
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Ep 346: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 17
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Hey what's up hello! We are back and so are the people who make so many bad decisions and then post about them on Reddit. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-17 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.…
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Ep 345: Pets Boost Wellbeing More Than Partners
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about a new study that found that having a cat or a dog to keep you company could boost your wellbeing as much as being married. The only problem is the study makes absolutely no sense and we don't understand math. Either way, pets are important!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pe…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're joined by Debbie Urbanski to talk about her excellent collection of short stories, Portalmania. Portalmania dives bravely into the shadowy depths of betrayal, parenthood, revenge, murder, coercive sex, open marriages, asexuality, neurodiversity, and second chances. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/trans…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the phenomenon of queer women loving boy bands and yell from the mountaintops about how you can be a boy band fan without finding any of the band members attractive!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/on-queer-women-loving-boy-bands Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakep…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some more lore submitted by our listeners. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-4 Submit your lore: https://forms.gle/zHQTVVZRACvxmgFn8 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.sound…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the overlap between transphobia and aphobia and the importance of trans aspec solidarity. TW: transphobia Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trans-aspec-solidarity Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book:…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about making assumptions about people. They really do make an ass out of you and me. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/making-assumptions Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about doing things by yourself when they are normally done as a couple or in a group. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/doing-things-alone Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.co…
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You know what time it is. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-16 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBy Sounds Fake But Okay
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Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about the morning shed, appealing to various gazes, and other such beauty standard shenanigans. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/beauty-standards Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/…
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Hey what's up hello! Today we have LOTS of house to keep. Then, we talk about the importance of celebrating major life events that aren't allo-centric things like weddings or baby showers. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/non-allo-major-life-events Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.g…
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Hey what's up hello! Some people are giving things up for Lent. We have ideas. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-to-give-up-for-lent Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/boo…
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Hey what's up hello! We're back reading Reddit stories with a heavy detour to Bologna Fest. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-15 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book…
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Ep 333: Inclusive Sex Ed feat. Dee Whitnell
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're chatting with Dee Whitnell about their new book Beyond Bananas and Condoms: The LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Sex Education You Never Got at School. Episode Transript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/inclusive-sex-ed-feat-dee-whitnell Follow Dee: @s3xtheorywithdee Dee's Substack: https://s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/ Bu…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're celebrating Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week by chatting with Rachel Levi and Kerry Chin, two of the authors of AUREA's upcoming book on aromanticism! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aro-week-feat-aurea For updates on the book, follow AUREA on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AromanticA…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about emophilia - a psychological trait that describes people who fall in love easily, quickly, and often. Personally, we cannot relate. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/emophilia Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.co…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about (alleged) Gen Z dating slang. And the moon, apparently. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/gen-z-dating-slang Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some lighthearted and silly stories submitted by you! Content Warning: Sex trafficking Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-3 Submit your lore: https://forms.gle/zHQTVVZRACvxmgFn8 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt w…
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Hey what's up hello! We are back and just as mediocre as ever. This week we're answering the internet's most burning relationship questions from 2024. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/googles-year-in-search Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our bo…
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Ep 327: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Fifth Year)
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Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of the year we're returning to our annual tradition of recording the same episode one year apart, a la the Billie Eilish Vanity Fair interviews. Thank you for another fantastic year! We are so grateful for you all and will be back in your ears in 2025! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/s…
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Ep 326: Reddit Rabbit Hole pt 14 (Kids Edition)
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Hey what's up hello! For our penultimate episode of the year, we're heading back to Reddit to react to some wild stories involving kids. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-14-kids-edition Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our b…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're TOGETHER coming at you live from Kayla's hometown. We talk all about Hallmark Christmas movies from an aspec perspective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/hallmark-christmas-movies Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com…
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Hey what's up hello! We're back with another edition of Listener Lore. We give some updates on last time's stories and then get into more truly wild stuff. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-2 Submit Your Lore: https://forms.gle/74KWs2JV9R932rkj7 Rat in Oven: https://www.tiktok.com/@ladymixerlot/video/74366304833…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the Korean 4B Movement and how it could or could not be applied to the US post-election. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/2024/11/17/ep-323-the-4b-movement Next week we're doing another listener lore drop! Submit your lore here: https://forms.gle/VaC2rp2BZMuscToy6 Donate: patre…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about conjugal visits - what they are, their history, and what they mean for the importance of sex in society. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/conjugal-visits Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we discussing the concept of "Hear Me Out" cakes and asking the age-old question: are the allos okay? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/hear-me-out-cakes Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.c…
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Hey what's up hello! This week instead of heading to Reddit to find wild stories about love and life, we're getting our stories straight from you, our loyal listeners. Strap in, it's about to get wild (literally). Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-aita Drop your Listener Lore: https://forms.gle/b5Vs7VNk6ZJTrcCq7 Do…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're playing a good old-fashioned game of Would You Rather - aspec edition. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/would-you-rather-aspec-edition Drop your Listener Lore: https://forms.gle/b5Vs7VNk6ZJTrcCq7 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.so…
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This week we're talking all about PDA and just how much Sarah hates it no matter what. Also please write Vote FWD letters with Sarah or else she'll cry and think you hate democracy. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/public-displays-of-affection Support Aromcom: seedandspark.com/fund/aromcom Write Vote FWD Letters With Us: https:…
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Hey what's up hello! Once again we are in the Reddit and Am I The Asshole trenches. Content Notice: Discussions of gun violence, abuse, and police Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-13 Write Vote FWD Letters With Us: https://votefwd.org/goal-page/soundsfakepod Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @sound…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about unconditional love - Is it real? Should it exist? What problems does it cause? We also talk a lot about hell. I don't know man. You know how this podcast is. Content Warnings: discussion of school shootings Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/unconditional-love Shop our Bookshop.org she…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about heterosexual men, and how actually... homoerotic they are? Content notice: Brief mentions of sexual assault Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/cishet-men-are-homoerotic Shop our Bookshop.org shelves: bookshop.org/shop/soundsfakepod Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @sound…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about our famous "Don't Should" life philosophy. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-dont-should-philosophy Rock the Don't Should sweatshirt: www.soundsfakepod.com/shop/dont-should-sweatshirt Shop our Bookshop.org shelves: bookshop.org/shop/soundsfakepod Donate: patreon.com/soundsfa…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about sexuality (and gender) are fluid, the idea of being "born this way" and honestly a lot about coconut trees. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sexuality-is-fluid Virgin Radio Pridecast Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Cb6mSudbWXnRSdRgqCsPp?si=fe0fcd6bbe894442 Donate: pa…
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Hey what's up hello! You know that time it is. The artist formerly known as Am I the Asshole is back — this week we come to you with Reddit stories of all sorts, and also a Google review for some reason. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-12 ELLE article: https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/a6…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we are talking about trad wives by way of the Ballerina Farm controversy. What are they? Why are they? Are they okay??? Content Notice: Mentions of miscarriage Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trad-wives-and-ballerina-farm The Times Article: https://www.thetimes.com/magazines/the-sunday-times-maga…
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Hey what's up hello! We are back and ready to utilize our hard-earned PhDs in yappology. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/yapping Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book…
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Ep 309: Do Romance Tropes Actually Work in Real Life??
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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about common romance fiction tropes, try to decide if they would actually work in real life, and decide how we would react if one of our friends was in an IRL romance trope. See you again in August!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/do-romance-tropes-actually-work-in-real-life Donate: pat…
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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about ~aspec awakenings~ and our own SFBO lore. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-origin-stories Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com…
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