Best Ruth Vercoe Podcasts (2026)

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057 How Play Can Transform Your Parenting in 2026 9:05

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Join the 2026 Family Preset waitlist! Preset week is 12th-16th January 2026. The new year can feel full of pressure, new routines, new goals, and the quiet expectation that everything should suddenly feel more “together.” But if you’re parenting a toddler or preschooler and your day still involves toast on the floor and snack requests five minutes …

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056 From Baubles to Tantrums: How Play Schemas Can Transform Your Christmas Day with Toddlers 15:23

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! If you'd love a ready-to-go cheat sheet with all the schema explanations and ideas from today’s episode, you can download the free Christmas Play Schema Guide at playschemas.com/free. Ever wondered why your child suddenly throws baubles across the room, moves ev…

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055 Less Stuff, More Play: Creating a Connected Christmas 9:42

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! If your living room has ever looked like a toy shop exploded on Christmas morning, you’re not alone. The wrapping paper, the noise, the overstimulated kids… and that quiet thought in the back of your mind: “How did we end up here again?” In this episode of Demys…

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054 The Secret Language of Play: How to Read What Your Child Is Telling You 7:30

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Have you ever watched your toddler throw toys, empty your handbag for the tenth time, or spin in circles until they fall over, and wondered, why on earth are they doing that? This episode will help you finally make sense of it, and trust your child’s play in a w…

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053 Water Play + Play Schemas: 10 Ways Kids Learn Through Splashing, Pouring & Play 28:56

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Why is your toddler obsessed with pouring, tipping, splashing, and carrying cups of water around the house? In this episode, Shelly from HapiTap and I dive into the world of water play through the lens of play schemas, so you can finally understand what your chi…

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052 A Playful Christmas: Understanding Your Child’s Play for Calm, Joyful Holidays 10:24

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Is your toddler more interested in the box than the toy this Christmas? You’re not alone, and there’s a reason behind it! In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re kicking off our festive three-part miniseries, A Playful Christmas, exploring how unders…

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051 Nourishing Nutrition for Mums: Preconception to Postpartum with Hannah Eriksen 27:29

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! How can mums nourish themselves through conception, pregnancy, and beyond? NZ dietitian Hannah Ericksen from oh Goodness Nutrition joins Ruth Vercoe to unpack nutrition for mums , the real, practical kind. From the “first thousand days” to postpartum recovery, d…

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050 Create a Connected, Calm, and Joy-Filled Christmas with Your Child 21:30

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! What Your Child Really Wants for Christmas (It’s Not What’s Under the Tree) This week on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe is joined by Linda from The Thriving Home and The Connection Couple to explore what truly makes Christmas magical... connection. If yo…

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049 Connect Before You Correct: Parenting Neurodiverse Kids with Compassion 34:28

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever wondered how to truly connect with your neurodiverse child, especially when life feels like one long guessing game? In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, host Ruth Vercoe welcomes Sarah from We Are Equal — a mum of four, early childhood teacher, and…

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048 Dinovember, Dinosaurs & Play Schemas: Turning Toddler Chaos into Connection 11:09

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Discover the Magic of Dino-vember, and the Hidden Learning in Your Child’s Play! What if your child’s love of dinosaurs could actually help you understand why they play the way they do? In this fun and insightful episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe…

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047 Why Knowing Your “Normal” Could Save Your Life 18:23

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! What if prioritising your own health could be the most important thing you ever do for your children? In this powerful and deeply honest conversation on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe talks with Tamara Milne, a radiographer and mum who was just 33 and we…

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046 How Play Builds Language: The Secret Link Every Parent Should Know 24:19

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Did you know your toddler’s everyday play is secretly building the foundations for language and communication? If you’ve ever worried about whether your child is talking “enough,” or wondered how you can best support their speech and confidence, this episode wil…

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045 Everyday Moments Matter: Turning Daily Routines Into Language-Rich Opportunities 22:43

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! How does play shape your child’s speech and language? If you’ve ever wondered whether those endless games of peek-a-boo, block towers, or toy tea parties actually do anything for your child’s speech development, you’re not alone. In this episode of Demystifying …

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044 From Mess to Meaning: Baking and Child Development with Play Schemas 12:15

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever felt like baking with your toddler is more mess than magic? You’re not alone. But what if I told you that the flour on the floor and the endless stirring are actually signs of learning in action? In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I share the 10 …

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043 Baking with Kids Made Easy: Create Memories, Not Stress 16:27

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever thought about baking with your toddler but stopped yourself because of the mess, the chaos, or the fear it’ll all go wrong? You’re not alone. Many parents love the idea of baking with their kids but find the reality overwhelming. Flour on the floor, sticky …

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042 Five things I wish I knew about Birth and Postpartum with Jade from Your Mama Journey 24:42

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Feeling overwhelmed after birth? You’re not alone. In this week’s episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I’m joined by Jade from Your Mama Journey. A mum, an accredited mental health social worker, and the creator of beautiful guided journals designed to help wom…

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041 Do Twins Really Need to Share Everything? 5 Insights for Twin Parents 23:28

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Parenting twins is a beautiful gift but, it can also feel overwhelming. From double nappies to double tantrums, everything feels doubled. And when it comes to sharing, many parents wonder: Should twins always share? What if they’re constantly fighting over the s…

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040 5 Messy Play Tips Every Parent Needs with Sam from Messy Mates 14:54

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Messy play can feel like chaos… but what if it’s actually one of the best things you can do for your child’s learning, confidence, and connection? In this episode, I sit down with Sam, founder of Messy Mates, to talk about the hidden magic of messy play and how …

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039 New Baby, New Balance: How to Care for Yourself While Caring for Your Baby 23:01

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Bringing a new baby into the world is magical, but it can also feel overwhelming. Between sleepless nights, adjusting to life as a bigger family, and trying to find time for yourself, it’s easy for mums to feel stretched thin. That’s why this week, I’m joined by…

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038 Welcoming a New Baby? Help Your Toddler Adjust with Less Stress & More Connection 11:28

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! If you’re a parent of a toddler or preschooler and you’ve got a newborn on the way, you already know it’s about to be a season of big feelings, big changes, and a whole lot less sleep. Between preparing the cot, stocking up on nappies, and navigating your own em…

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037 Sibling Conflict & Play Schemas: A Guide for Parents of Toddlers 9:12

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Is your home filled with cries of “Muuuum, he took my toy!” or “She wrecked it again!”? If so, you’re definitely not alone and you’re absolutely in the right place. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play Through Play Schemas, we’re diving deep into a topic…

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036 You Can Always Make More Memories, But You Can’t Make More Time 9:15

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! If you’re a parent of toddlers or preschoolers, you’ll know that feeling all too well—time seems to slip through your fingers. One moment your baby is crawling, the next they’re racing across the playground with fearless determination. The days feel long, but th…

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035 Throwback Episode: The Magic Behind Repetitive Play | Episode 002 20:40

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! “Why is my toddler always dropping things, spinning, or hiding under the table?” If you’ve ever found yourself asking this (or wondering if it’s normal)... this episode is for you. Hi, I’m Ruth from The Play Schemas Collective, and I help parents make sense of t…

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034 Why Is My Toddler Always Throwing Things? Understanding the Trajectory Schema 9:23

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever wondered why your toddler throws their food, launches toys off the couch, or can’t stop running back and forth? It’s not just chaos - it’s science in action. In this episode, I’m giving you exclusive access to one of the most-loved modules from The Play Sch…

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033 Getting Outside as a Family with Guest Adiva 15:35

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Feeling overwhelmed by the idea of getting your kids out the door for a walk or a play at the park? You’re not alone. But what if those muddy puddles, long car rides, and slow wanders were actually building blocks for your child’s development? In this episode of…

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032 Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor Now & Play Freely With Your Kids | Guest Caren 27:55

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Is your pelvic floor holding you back from truly enjoying play with your kids?You’re not alone — and this episode is here to help. Whether it’s needing to cross your legs when you sneeze, quietly avoiding playing chase the backyard... not to even mention the fea…

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031 “I Can’t Play With My Kids”: Why It Feels So Hard and What Actually Helps 15:43

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever feel like you should be playing with your child… but you just can’t bring yourself to do it? Maybe you’re exhausted. Maybe you feel silly or awkward. Maybe you’re not even sure how to play anymore. If this sounds familiar, you are so not alone. In fact, man…

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030 Play, Not Pressure: How Everyday Play Builds Your Child’s Literacy Foundation with Alex Weehuizen 33:35

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Worried your toddler isn’t “school ready”? Feel like you should be doing flashcards, worksheets, or alphabet drills — but it just doesn’t sit right? This episode is your deep breath and warm reassurance. We’re busting the myth that early literacy needs to look l…

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029 Why Play Builds Connection With Your Child 12:19

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Connecting with Your Child Through Play — Why It Matters More Than You Think Is your toddler constantly throwing toys, lining them up, or wrapping things in blankets and you’re not quite sure why? What if these repetitive behaviours are actually your child’s way…

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028 Unlock Your Child's Learning Through Play: Join 'The Play Schemas Collective' BETA 8:06

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Apply to Join the BETA Test Group – Spaces Are Limited! Applications close 26 June 2025. Only 5 spots available. For more information and to apply now, head to https://playschemas.com/beta Or flick me a DM on Instagram: @Play_Schemas Get FREE access during the B…

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027 Why I Still Say “Be Careful” Even Though I Love Risky Play 14:24

7M ago14:24

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Do you ever catch yourself saying, “Be careful!” — even when you’re trying to let your child take healthy risks? You’re not alone, and you’re not doing it wrong. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we unpack one of the biggest tensions many parents fac…

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026 Why Imperfection Matters in Parenting - with Sophie Moskowitz 24:10

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever feel like you’re the only one dropping the ball as a parent? Spoiler alert: you’re not, you're not alone in feeling this... and this episode might just be the breath of fresh air you didn’t know you needed. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Pla…

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025 Parenting Hacks: Master ‘When’ & ‘Then’ Magic! 9:36

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! The Two Words That Will Transform Your Parenting — “When” and “Then” Are you tired of endless toddler negotiations, meltdowns during transitions, or repeating yourself a hundred times a day? You’re not alone — and there is a gentle, effective way forward. In thi…

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024 Part 1 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah Sadlier 18:10

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Part 1 of 2 In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-care. Instead of waiting for naptime or feeling guilty for needing a break, we’re inviting you to see the magic already happening in your everyday parenting life — through play schemas. Parenting you…

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024 Part 2 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah Sadlier 20:14

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Part 2 of 2 In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-care. Instead of waiting for naptime or feeling guilty for needing a break, we’re inviting you to see the magic already happening in your everyday parenting life — through play schemas. Parenting you…

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023 Why Your Toddler Isn’t Listening — And What to Do About It with Heather Schalk 35:56

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever feel like your toddler is just ignoring you on purpose? You’ve asked nicely (three times), tried raising your voice, or even taken a toy away — and still, they won’t listen. Before you start second-guessing yourself or wondering if it’s just your child, tak…

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022 Growing Curiosity: How Gardening Supports Play Schemas & Child Development 22:14

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! What if your toddler’s obsession with mud, watering cans, or hauling carrots isn’t just play—but a window into how they learn best? In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we take you into the garden—yes, dirt and all—to uncover how vegetable gardening can…

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021 Easter Play Ideas for Toddlers that Support Play Schemas 14:32

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Free download available! Grab your free Easter Play Ideas PDF with all 10 schema-based activities, family-friendly versions, and our go-to oaty pancake recipe at playschemas.com/free Feeling overwhelmed by all the Easter hype—and wondering how to make it meaning…

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020 Keeping Kids Safe: Practical Tips for Parents with Victoria Barendsen 29:22

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Looking for the discount code? use playschemas10 at the checkout! ww.thesafekidsproject.com As parents, we want to protect our children. But when it comes to body safety, it can feel overwhelming—where do we start? How do we talk about it in a way that’s age-app…

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019 Understanding Play Schemas & Love Languages in Parenting 12:01

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Wrapping Up the Love Languages Series: How Play Can Deepen Your Connection with Your Child Do you ever wonder what’s really behind your child’s play? Or why they behave a certain way when they’re feeling disconnected? Understanding play schemas and love language…

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018 Acts of Service = Love in Action! 14:06

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Unlock the Secrets of Your Child’s Play: Play Schemas & Acts of Service in Parenting! Have you ever wondered why your child insists on lining up their toys, spinning in circles, or moving objects from place to place? It might seem random (or even frustrating!), …

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017 Loving your child through gifts and play 16:14

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Send us a text Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January 2026. Jump on the waitlist here! If you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into …

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016 Make Memories: Play & Quality Time Tips! 19:22

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Ever feel like your child is constantly throwing, spinning, or building the same thing over and over—and you’re not quite sure why? Or maybe you’re wondering how to give your child the quality time they crave without adding more to your already packed schedule? …

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015 Why Your Words Matter: Affirmation in Play 15:30

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of child play through the lens of play schemas and the powerful impact of words of affirmation. Understanding why children engage in particular play patterns allows us to connect with them on a deeper level an…

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014 Play Schemas & The Love Language of Physical Touch | Understanding Your Child’s Needs 23:01

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Did you know that something as simple as a hug, a high-five, or a game of tag could be the key to your child feeling deeply loved and secure? In this episode, we’re exploring Physical Touch as a love language—how it shapes your child’s emotional development, why…

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013 Play Schemas and Love Languages - a Match Made in Heaven 15:05

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! LOVE to a Child is Spelt TIME: Understanding the 5 Love Languages of Children 💛 Do you ever wonder if your child truly feels loved? You tell them “I love you” a hundred times a day, but sometimes, their behaviour suggests they need more. The secret? Kids don’t j…

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012 Engage your little helpers at home through Play! 15:01

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Play Schemas at Home: Turning Play Into Productivity How to Encourage Your Child to Help Around the House—Through Play! FREE list of play and helping around the home ideas - head to playschemas.com/free! Does it feel like you’re constantly cleaning up after your…

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011 Playing Together – How Adults Can Join the Fun Without Taking Over 11:41

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Playing Together – How to Join the Fun Without Taking Over Have you ever found yourself ‘playing’ with your child, only to realise that you’re the one in charge? One moment you’re happily stacking blocks, and the next, you’re directing the entire build like an o…

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010 Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) You 13:58

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) You! 👧👦 Do your kids constantly clash over toys, fight over space, or seem to have completely different play styles? You’re not alone! Sibling play can be tricky—one child wants to build, wh…

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009 The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative Kids 15:24

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Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January. Jump on the waitlist here! Episode 9: The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative Kids Do you dream of guilt-free moments to enjoy a hot drink while it’s still hot—without hearing a desperate “Muuum!” every two minutes? What if those moments didn’t just give you a bre…