Best Retroactive Jealousy Podcasts (2025)

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High & Low Libidos 36:41

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3d ago36:41

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Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tac…

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Vanilla Sunday w Cami: How To Give Your Children "The Talk" 18:34

14d ago18:34

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Welcome back DT Fam! Cami is here with a Vanilla Sunday all about her course, Empowering Caretakers:NAVIGATING SEX EDUCATION CONVERSATIONS WITH KIDS AND TEENS. She's discussed a bit of it on the podcast here and there, but this is a more in depth look, featuring some of the fascinating things she learned along the way and a look at her experience i…

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Wanking Together 21:02

14d ago21:02

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Welcome back DT Fam! Just the two of us this week :) Given our long distance relationships, we dive into the topic of wanking together with your partner, especially over FaceTime. For LDR couples, this is a great episode going over some tips, finding the confidence, and using this as a way to continue building intimacy together. Enjoy! Enjoy a rest…

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Ways to Surprise Your Partner 38:42

24d ago38:42

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Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp! Use…

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For If Your Partner is Having a Bad Day 39:15

1M ago39:15

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Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get…

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Face for TV, T*ts for Radio ft. Brittany Brave 48:33

1M ago48:33

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Welcome back DT Fam! Today we welcome back Brittany Brave, a comedian who we met thru the pod years ago! For anyone that has been here since day one, she was one of the first guests we had on the show. This conversation takes many turns, we dive into: how your 20s are for mistakes and your 30s are for maturity, learning to leave (a bad relationship…

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Retroactive Jealousy & Studying Jealousy ft. Dr Joli Hamilton 1:03:59

2M ago1:03:59

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Welcome back DT Fam! If you remember Dr. Joli Hamilton from our last episode with her, she is back and we are talking about jealousy again. This time... all about retroactive jealousy and how our imagination shapes those jealous feelings. We also dive into a lot of the studies done around jealousy, including findings, what they measured, how they d…

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Girls Night vs. Guys Night ft. Pete 49:08

2M ago49:08

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Welcome back DT Fam :) Pete joins us yet again, and this time we are talking about girls night vs. guys night? Based on a viral Tiktok where the girl asks the group if her bf can come, we explore the question - is it okay to bring your significant other to girls/guys night? What if they're having a crappy day, do you stay home with them or continue…

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Spicy Books ft. Molly Tullis 50:21

2M ago50:21

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Welcome back DT Fam! Molly Tullis joins us on the pod today, she is a romantic fiction author that we have been following for years. If you're into spicy books, this episode is for you. From the books that featured the first sex scenes we read about, to the ones that healed our parental wounds, it is pretty amazing what reading (and writing!) can d…

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Los Angeles: Play Party Capital 32:26

2M ago32:26

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Welcome back DT Fam! We are moving from Los Angeles, and we take a walk down memory lane. This is the city where we became creators and started the pod! Also where we had so many firsts and explored every play party we could find, thanks to the people who welcomed us into the world of play parties. Join us as we dive into some fun memories and reco…

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PolyGLAMorous ft. Frank Arthur Smith 59:17

2M ago59:17

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Welcome back DT Fam! Today, Frank Arthur Smith is back on the show - he is the creator of Open To It, a series about a polyamorous gay couple exploring the ins and outs of their non-monogamous relationship. Our first episode with him was all about season 1, and this episode is about season 2, where they explore themes of intentional ENM exploration…

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6 Tips for Exploring ENM 37:59

3M ago37:59

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Welcome back DT Fam! Niki read an article about how 41% of Gen Z is interested in exploring open relationships... which is a lot! SO, as two people who have had their fair share of non-monogamous exploration, here are six tips to help anyone who is interested in diving into the world of non-traditional relationship structures. The book Niki mention…

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How to Let It Out ft. Madelyn Moon 55:09

3M ago55:09

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Welcome back DT Fam! Madelyn Moon joins us today, she is a somatic facilitator and author of Artist of Love. She loves championing self expression through creative acting methods, and we dive into those. So if you're struggling to say something and you want to approach it in a different way so you can say what you want to say, give this episode a l…

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How Do You Feel About AI Relationships? 41:54

3M ago41:54

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Welcome back DT Fam! Two friends of ours told us to listen to a podcast about a (married) woman who had a ChatGPT boyfriend. Niki listened to the podcast and recounts it all to Cami, bringing us to ask ourselves.. how do we feel about AI/ChatGPT relationship? If you'd like to listen to the original podcast episode, it is linked here. Curious to hea…

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Attending Play Parties with Your Ex ft. Tia 1:00:28

3M ago1:00:28

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Welcome back DT Fam! We brought back a favorite of y'alls: Tia :) Unfortunately, she is going through a break up in her non-monogamous relationship, and has run into the dilemma of having to attend play parties with her ex - they share a friend group! We talk about potential rules and boundaries, what the transition has been like, and what she's ca…

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Vanilla Sunday w/ Niki: For When You're Doomscrolling 15:09

4M ago15:09

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Welcome back DT Fam :) Niki's been struggling with doomscrolling lately, especially in today's political climate, so this episode is all about helping you stay aware and proactive so you're not letting social media put you in a pit of despair. I hope you all enjoy, and see you again soon for another Vanilla Sunday!…

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Dating in a New City ft. Peteski 1:00:00

4M ago1:00:00

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Welcome back DT Fam! Our good friend Pete, a TikTok creator we met on the app, joins us today :) He recently moved from Colorado to California, so we talk about dating in a new city, romanticizing your life, finding new hobbies to meet people, and and joining run club (aka IRL Tinder). Check out Peteski on TikTok! If you're a parent or caretaker, h…

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Babygirl: A Movie About Suppressed Desires 32:15

4M ago32:15

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Hey DT Fam! Here is our review of Babygirl, Nicole Kidman's latest movie. A lot of our friends in the kink community were not fans, and we totally get it... it wasn't a great representation of power exchange, but we argue: it wasn't a movie about kink! Tune in to find out more. We recommend it, and if you haven't watched it, go check it out, then c…

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Who Pays for What ft. Steff 52:19

4M ago52:19

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Welcome back, DTFAM! Steff from Broke Girl Therapy is back on the pod today. We dive into rich ex-boyfriends, who pays for what in a relationship or when dating, and also how it's going for her and her man now that they are working together after his recent layoff. Be sure to tune into Broke Girl Therapy now that she is making her return. If you ar…

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Vanilla Sunday w/ Niki: How to Set a Boundary 16:15

4M ago16:15

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We are finally back with Vanilla Sundays! And for this one, Niki goes through her process for setting a boundary. Too many people use the term "boundary" without properly knowing what that actually means or what that entails, so hopefully, this is helpful.By Cami and Niki

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Friends of the Opposite S*x 46:02

4M ago46:02

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Welcome back DT Fam! This week we dive into boundaries and considerations around friends of the opposite s*x when you are partnered, although honestly a lot of it can apply to friends of the opposite s*x when you are single too, because boundaries are definitely important. Find out why Cami absolutely loathes one of her man's female friends, the te…

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Relationship Anxiety: What if they cheat and you never find out? 7:11

5M ago7:11

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Ever found yourself spiraling with "what if" thoughts? What if they cheat? What if you never find out? What if your worst fears come true? Relationship anxiety can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. In this episode, we dive deep into: Why these thoughts arise & how to manage them The role of trust, insecurity, and past expe…

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What Women Think About During S*x 1:00:36

5M ago1:00:36

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Welcome back DT Fam! Another episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast :) This time, we are diving into what women think about during sex, based on a Q&A Abby did on her Instagram. Do women think about other dicks? What's happening when we close our eyes? What if the guy comes too quick, is that an issue? Click on Iroha at doubleteamfam.com and u…

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Retroactive Jealousy: How it destroys relationships & how to stop it from destroying yours. 21:42

5M ago21:42

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In this episode, we dive into the complex and often destructive world of retroactive jealousy—the obsessive jealousy over a partner’s past relationships or experiences. Whether it’s scrolling through old photos, fixating on past partners, or battling intrusive thoughts, retroactive jealousy can create deep insecurity and resentment, slowly eroding …

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Delete Ur Ex's Noods 32:35

5M ago32:35

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Welcome back DT Fam! This week we're talking about what to keep and what to delete when it comes to pics of past lovers and such. Is it okay to keep spicy pics? When do you delete them? Is it when you break up the relationship or when you're ready to let the pics go? What about pics you've sent to exes? Lots to discuss. This is our second to last e…

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Healthy Jealousy vs Toxic Jealousy In Relationships 5:57

5M ago5:57

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Are intrusive thoughts, doubts, and anxiety sabotaging your relationship? You’re not alone. Whether you’re struggling with fear of the future, distressing thoughts about your partner’s past, or constant uncertainty about your feelings, this podcast offers guidance, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you cultivate a healthy, confident relationsh…

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The Key To Overcoming Relationship Anxiety. 15:51

5M ago15:51

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Are intrusive thoughts, doubts, and anxiety sabotaging your relationship? You’re not alone. Whether you’re struggling with fear of the future, distressing thoughts about your partner’s past, or constant uncertainty about your feelings, this podcast offers guidance, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you cultivate a healthy, confident relationsh…

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Let Jealous Women Run the FBI 1:15:39

5M ago1:15:39

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Hey DT Fam! This week, we are co-releasing this episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast. We dive into some of the toxic things we've done in the name of jealousy, as well as our jealous triggers, jealous exes, and jealousy coping mechanisms. Hope you all enjoy this episode! & if you're a parent or caretaker, give your kids the s*x talk with the…

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ROCD & Relationship Anxiety: The trap you need to avoid! 5:50

5M ago5:50

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In this episode, we dive into why following your intuition can be misleading and even harmful when struggling with Relationship OCD (ROCD). While trusting your gut often seems like the right choice, ROCD thrives on uncertainty and intrusive thoughts, making intuition an unreliable guide. Book your one on one breakthrough session here: https://calen…

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The Year of Waterproof Blankets 39:38

5M ago39:38

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Welcome back DTFAM! We are so excited to be back here with you guys, we have definitely missed you all and the pod. OKAY SO, first things first - CAMI FINISHED HER ONLINE COURSE ON EMPOWERING PARENTS AND CARETAKERS! More to come on that, but please feel free to check out the link here and order your course today, even if you don't have children. Us…

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Vanilla Sunday w/ Niki: Reflecting on Work & Home Life 12:12

5M ago12:12

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Hey DT Fam! Here's a Vanilla Sunday all about reflecting on our work and home life as Mars retrogrades through the signs of Leo and Cancer (Dec 6th thru Feb 23rd!). I find this is a time I am usually questioning where I am putting my energy, reflecting on my relationships and my home life, but also a time when I am feeling more sensitive and emotio…

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Retroactive Jealousy: Why do some people struggle while others don't? 7:15

5M ago7:15

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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison. A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental m…

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Retroactive Jealousy vs. Incompatibility 8:29

6M ago8:29

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Book your one on one breakthrough session here: https://calendly.com/overcomingrelationshipanxiety/the-breakthrough-session Website: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overcoming_relationshipanxiety Client testimonials: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com/testimonials…

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Bi Dilemma 42:56

6M ago42:56

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Happy Holidays DTFAM :) This is our last episode of 2024! Don't worry, we will be back mid-January 2025 for our next season. We hope you all have an amazing holiday break, and please stay safe out there. In this episode, we cover some Vag Facts by Evvy, how to rate your sex life, and Niki's current dilemma in missing exploring parts of her bisexual…

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Vanilla Sunday w Cami: Relationship Check Ins 12:26

7M ago12:26

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Welcome back DT Fam! This Sunday, Cami's walking us through the recent check-in she did with her boyfriend and the framework/outline she used to make it successful for the both of them. From example questions to tips on how to soften the blow for the hard stuff, she's got some great advice if this is something you're looking to incorporate in your …

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Why do the thoughts feel so real? (ROCD, Relationship Anxiety, Retroactive Jealousy) 11:17

7M ago11:17

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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison. A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental m…

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Could've Represented ENM Better 35:40

7M ago35:40

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Welcome back DTFAM :) Another short lil episode just the two of us, about two of our favorite shows we've watched recently. One showcases toxic relationships, the other showcases healthy relationships, and one of them had a representation of non-monogamy that we had a bone to pick with! If you haven't watched Tell Me Lies on Hulu or Nobody Wants Th…

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How Do You Feel After Wanking? 26:44

7M ago26:44

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Welcome back DT Fam :) Today is a short and sweet episode analyzing what to do if you feel crappy after a wanking sesh, something Niki has been struggling with. If you share this struggle, hope it helps! And if not, perhaps it might still give you some good questions to reflect on when it comes to self love. Head on over to soakingwet.com and use c…

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How WOMEN experience Retroactive Jealousy 5:52

7M ago5:52

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Book your one on one breakthrough session here: https://calendly.com/overcomingrelationshipanxiety/the-breakthrough-session Website: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overcoming_relationshipanxiety Client testimonials: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com/testimonials…

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Vanilla Sunday w Niki: Is It a Fated Connection? 19:54

7M ago19:54

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Welcome back to another Vanilla Sunday :) This week, let's look and see if you and your boo are a fated connection. If you feel that inexplicable tug, astrology can definitely tell you why. We're diving into north node synastry, south node synastry, why everyone says to avoid moon/south node synastry, and what it means when they touch the personal …

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7. Boundaries: The Invisible Walls That Build Strong Relationships 26:14

7M ago26:14

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Drop me a message, a question or a suggestion! Have you ever felt drained, undervalued, or manipulated in a relationship? That unsettling feeling might be a sign of weak or nonexistent boundaries. But what if we told you that setting boundaries isn't about pushing people away—it’s about protecting what truly matters to you?In this episode, we’ll ex…

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The worst advice you can give a retroactive jealousy sufferer 6:03

7M ago6:03

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Book your one on one breakthrough session here: https://calendly.com/overcomingrelationshipanxiety/the-breakthrough-session Website: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overcoming_relationshipanxiety Client testimonials: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com/testimonials…

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Pastor Turned Stripper ft. Nikole Mitchell 50:24

7M ago50:24

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*** Apologies for the technical difficulties, the first 3 minutes of the episode are cut off by the platform. Full episode can be found YouTube.*** Hey DT Fam! A new guest is joining us today - Nikole Mitchell, known as the pastor turned str*pper that went viral on social media. She is now a life coach and adult content creator, and she is just abs…

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Vanilla Sunday w Cami: Calling In Money & Abundance 12:19

7M ago12:19

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Happy Sunday, fam! In this episode, Cami walks us all through the practices we use to call in more abundance in our home. This includes: salt and cinnamon ritual, money corner plants, crystals around the home, and cleansing out any energy that gets in the way of your abundance. It's a little woo woo, but come with an open mind - these have really w…

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How MEN experience retroactive jealousy 6:35

8M ago6:35

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Book your one on one breakthrough session here: https://calendly.com/overcomingrelationshipanxiety/the-breakthrough-session Website: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overcoming_relationshipanxiety Client testimonials: https://overcomingrelationshipanxiety.com/testimonials…

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PreCare & AfterCare 29:02

7M ago29:02

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Hey DT Fam! A listener asked for some aftercare tips, so we decided to share our favorite forms of both pre and after-care, because it's all about the intention both going in and out of an intimate experience. From snack buckets to breathing exercises, we hope you find inspiration to add some new forms of precare and aftercare to your routines :) A…

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Retroactive Jealousy: How to stop feeling hopeless 6:14

8M ago6:14

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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison. A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental m…

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6. Casual Dating vs Serious Relationships - What's Up Duck? 35:01

8M ago35:01

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Drop me a message, a question or a suggestion! In this insightful episode of Love Chronicles with Coach John, we’ll unpack the complexities of modern relationships and the rise of casual dating. Titled “Casual Dating vs Serious Relationships - What's up Duck?” the episode will address a common question in today’s dating world: Is it love, or just a…

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Try TEAMA With Ur Boo ft. Vibeslut 1:03:12

8M ago1:03:12

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Hey DT Fam, Abby from Vibeslut & the Rat Girls Podcast is back on our show this week! We love her, she always has us laughing. We recap her wedding, which she made sure to stick to what was true to her! And we also dive into the healthy aspects of our respective relationships including: growing and learning from past mistakes, showing commitment to…

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Is Retroactive Jealousy a RED Flag? 6:27

8M ago6:27

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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison. A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental m…