Best Relationship Anarchy Podcasts (2025)

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How Authentic Are We in Our Relationships? (Practicing Relationship Anarchy) 24:40

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In this episode, Janice discusses why it's challenging to show up authentically in our intimate relationships, including some of the ways internalizing dominant culture's "relationship rules" had her constantly feeling insecure and trying to manage her past partners. She shares about how practicing relationship anarchy (RA) – which advocates for us…

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Say No to Surveillance, Control and Commodification: River's Top 10 Data Privacy Tips for 2025 42:04

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Luminous life force includes having our sovereignty. Surveillance is just a predecessor to control. Find out why data about YOU is the most valuable commodity in the world right now. Watching allows control. So our data hygiene, in 2025, affects our sovereignty. Which affects our life force, baby! I'm not interested in training their AI. I don't wa…

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The Bisexual Man’s Field Guide to Gay Sex ft. Mark and Bobby Box 1:31:58

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You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all …

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Sovereignty & Soulful Anarchy with Bluebird 2:33:41

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Bluebird represents Texas-style freedom like no one else I know. With sovereignty and soulful anarchy as her guiding lights, she shares her wisdom and insights with poignancy and humor. We talk about sovereignty in the birth process, child rearing, marriage, divorce, life, death. How we are tricked and manipulated into giving up our sovereignty. Th…

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Fearing and Befriending Anger 38:05

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This episode is all about anger! How many of us come to fear, and then disown, this core emotion. And the ways we adapt to our uneasy relationship with anger, including avoiding conflict, people-pleasing, and being passive-aggressive. Janice talks about her own experiences repressing her anger for many years, and why she had come to see anger as a …

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The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy: Become an Artist of Your Own Spirit 32:15

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Don't let shadow scare you away from the sacred fire within your own body. Open and welcome all that presents itself and you have obtained true freedom. What is your current relationship with sexual fantasy? It seems to be a lost art in our world today. In this epidode, I'll give you a simple 3-step process you can use to enjoy sexual fantasy. I'll…

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Is Bisexuality The Same As Pansexuality? ft. Leo And Taty 1:12:32

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Pansexuality: it’s not just bisexuality with extra glitter. We’re tracing its wild origins from the BDSM underground to the free love 70s to the nonbinary explosion of the 2010s, because this label has range. We’re unpacking the bi vs. pan debate, the pan pride flag’s secret meanings, and why pansexuality has always been the sexy rebel of the LGBTQ…

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Living a Meaningful Life with Psychic and Medium Nicole Parish: Part 2 38:53

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An exciting opportunity to learn about the subtle realms, and the life and work of Psychic and Medium Nicole Parish. Nicole talks about how your spirit guides might show up; medical intuitive readings; and clearing entities, attachments and demonic entities. She describes how clients often work with her alongside their doctors or other medical team…

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Living a Meaningful Life with Psychic and Medium Nicole Parish: Part 1 1:15:14

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An exciting opportunity to learn about the subtle realms, and the life and work of Psychic and Medium Nicole Parish. Nicole talks about how your spirit guides might show up; medical intuitive readings; and clearing entities, attachments and demonic entities. She describes how clients often work with her alongside their doctors or other medical team…

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Starting A New Chapter of the Podcast 15:12

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In this introduction to Season 5 of The Soul's Work Podcast, Janice answers four questions: Where has she been for the past two years? (Short answer: Palestine) What does Palestine have to do with the podcast and the inner/relationship work we talk about here? What's changed on the podcast? (Short answer: Janice has been cleaning up shop) What topi…

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Dark Side Revealed: Discerning Light from Dark: A Blueprint for Fearless Living 18:21

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It can seem so dark out there these days. It’s easy to be afraid. Media, government, religion - who can we trust? It will likely get darker in our world in the coming days. Let’s learn the secret code so we never need to fear again. Let’s release confusion, fear and judgment, and learn how to determine the path of Love and Acceptance. In others, in…

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Off-Planet Wisdom Part 2 27:52

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Off-Planet Wisdom Part 1 30:49

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My epic journey into the world of multi dimensions and multi dimensional life over the past two years. I share my background, my lack of awareness of the issue. My legal, and then sexual and spiritual journey. And how the bread crumbs were laid before me to finally ... Perceive the multi dimensional universe. Resources: Dr. Zach Bush Dr. Steven Gre…

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The Lesbian Relationship Myths We Can’t Kill ft. Shannon 1:10:37

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Do all lesbians think the same? We’re digging into the big three stereotypes. Emotional intensity, U-Hauling, and lesbian bed death, to see if Sapphics really do relationships differently. We’re breaking down where these tropes come from, what’s rooted in history, and what’s just straight-up lesbophobic myth. Joined by hopeless romantic & poet lesb…

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Bisexuality Isn’t 50/50 - It’s a Bi-Cycle ft. Kelc And Joe 1:20:23

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Sexuality isn’t static, it’s a shuffle. Sometimes you’re feeling super gay, sometimes a little straight, sometimes both at once, and that ebb and flow is what we’re calling the Bi-Cycle. We’re breaking down why attraction shifts over time, the label confusion that comes with it, and how to navigate relationships when your desires don’t sit still. D…

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Ep. 46: Big Feel in Polyamory (cuz You're Not Alone) 51:22

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In this episode we're talking about the BIGGEST of the BIG FEELS in Polyamory: Jealousy, Comparison and Fear of Abandonment cuz you are NOT alone if you experience one or all three of these! We changed things up- added some segment titles and SFX this time. Let us know what you think! Curious about Coaching with Greg or Leanne Certified Relationshi…

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How to Hook Up With Your Friends ft. Syd And Zhané 1:25:14

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Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friendship line. With Zhané and Syd, we talk jealousy, intimacy, ENM vs monogamy, and every messy “oops, I made out with my bestie” scenario. Gay disasters, incoming. Use code QUEERCOLLE…

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Ep 45: Mononormativity with Marla Schreiber @polyamarla 1:09:21

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If you've been on IG or TikTok you probably know @polyamarla - and NOW they've got an incredible book out "Non-monogamy and Defying a Paradigm"! We had such a fun time together! Follow us (if you can...three people with ADHD) as Marla takes us through their polyamorous journey, the "h" word (and why they don't want to talk about it), couple privile…

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The Epidemic of Masc Fragility ft. Ms. Myles And Danielle Lastres 1:04:31

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Femininity: feared, fetishized, and slapped with a “no fems” dating bio. We’re pulling femmephobia apart with Ms. Myles and Danielle. From its colonial, patriarchal origin story to the high school boys who think they have to one-up each other in a contest to sound the most heterosexual. CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please …

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“I’m Not a Lesbian Anymore, I’m Queer” ft. Tyra Blizzard And King 1:13:21

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From Oscar Wilde to JoJo Siwa, the word queer has been called a slur, a theory, an aesthetic, and a whole damn vibe. We’re diving deep into the messy, sexy, defiant legacy of queerness with icons Tyra Blizzard and King a.k.a DJ Soundboi. Why are so many ex-lesbians saying “I’m queer now”? Can cis-hets be queer? Is “queer” just bisexuality in a tren…

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104 : My Medicine Path Journey with Ayahuasca & Kambo (July 2025) 1:08:39

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Tune in for a share on the past -- present -- and future of my path become the steward of the soluna medicines altar. Connect with Chantelle : Instagram @solunamedicines Visit solunamedicines.com/offerings Add Chantelle on Facebook Email : [email protected]

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You’re Not Gay, You Struggle With Same-Sex Attraction ft. Luke Wilson 1:18:39

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What do electric shocks, shame sermons, and fake science have in common? They were all used to “pray the gay away.” We’re diving into the twisted world of conversion therapy with survivor and scholar Lucas Wilson. From evangelical trauma to the ex-gay movement’s most delulu masc villains, we’re unpacking the pseudoscience, propaganda, and lifelong …

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Ep 44: Nicole Thompson from Religion to Relationship Anarchy 1:04:41

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Wow! What a journey Nicole has had! With eloquence and awareness she shares what it was like to grow up in purity culture and to come to terms with her own queer and polyamorous identities. Nicole Thompson is a sex and relationship psychotherapist, host of Modern Anarchy Podcast, the author of the first published research study on Relationship Anar…

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Relationship Anarchy Changed How I Love ft. Pat 1:29:09

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Monogamy is optional. Hierarchies are fake. And ‘the one’ doesn't exist? We're diving headfirst into the world of Relationship Anarchy with queer academic and certified hottie Pat. From dismantling the dating rulebook to navigating multiple partners without losing your mind, this episode unpacks radical love, intimacy without ownership, and why fri…

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Is Black Masculinity Feared in Queer Spaces? ft. Haviah Mighty And DJ Blackcat 1:17:41

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Black masculinity is feared, fetishized, and fiercely policed; so what happens when queerness enters the chat? We’re talking masc performance as survival, straight Black men’s discomfort with queerness, and why traditional masculinity is flopping in 2025. With Haviah Mighty and DJ Blackcat, we’re queering the blueprint and dragging patriarchy by th…

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Ep. 43: Being a Good Hinge 1:08:11

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Let's talk about being a good hinge! Many of the issues in a polyamorous or non-monogamous relationship can be prevented with responsible & compassionate choices made by the hinge - the person with multiple partners. Join us, Leanne & Greg Million, Certified Relationship Coaches specializing in polyamory and non-monogamy as we explore the role of a…

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No Fats, No Femmes, No Asians: The Grindr Industrial Complex ft. Humza and Darynel 1:13:05

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Gay dating can be messy. From hookup culture and emotional avoidance to Grindr’s racial hierarchy, we’re diving into the chaos with guests Darynel Weekly and Mango Lassi. We’re unpacking the trauma, the body standards, the “no fats no femmes,” and giving you tools to heal, find real connection, and maybe even enjoy the apps without losing your soul…

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The Lesbian Identity Crisis: Trans And Non-Binary?! ft. Jay-Marie and Eirene 1:45:59

6M ago1:45:59

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Think all lesbians are women? Think again. We're queering the label with trans and non-binary lesbians who are redefining what it means to love, resist, and rebel. From gender euphoria to TERF drama to navigating dating apps as a gender outlaw, this episode dives into the messy, sexy, revolutionary legacy of lesbianism. Featuring archival hot takes…

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Asian Fetishization And Hyper-Sexualization ft. Ky and Charlotte 1:20:58

6M ago1:20:58

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If you've ever been called “exotic,” or told you're one of the “good minorities” this one’s for you. We’re unpacking the fetishization of Asian bodies, the myth of the model minority, and the tension between queerness and cultural belonging. With personal stories from two badass artists, Charlotte and Ky, we explore femme fetish tropes, family pres…

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103 : My Journey of Conscious Uncoupling + Relationship Anarchy (Plus my poetry!!) 46:37

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Tune in to hear Chantelle talk about : • Her recent romantic separation and their transition to friendship • How years of practicing polyamory has informed her current more monogamous relationship style • Chantelle's poetry about falling in love with Sunshine — to questioning separation — to grieving the loss — to finding the self and eachother on …

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Born Intersex And Surgically Erased ft. Bailey Archer and Noise 57:42

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You were told sex is binary, XX or XY, case closed. But what if we told you that’s just redhead math? We’re unpacking the intersex experience with two brilliant guests: Noise (the intersex karaoke witch) and Bailey (trans, intersex, and hot). We’re diving into the science, the history, the surgeries, the shame and why “normal” is a scam. Expect gay…

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Do Queer Muslim Women Exist?! ft. Urvah Khan 49:29

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Betterhelp: betterhelp.com/COLLECTIVE Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Queer. Muslim. Rockstar. Activist. Urvah Khan is all of the above, and she’s here to spill the tea on holding identities the world says don’t mix. We’re talking queerness, faith, feminism, and the fight for liberation, plus why the West needs to stop act…

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102 : All About Elemental Existence -- An Immersive Art, Ritual, & Music Festival 47:45

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Learn more and get your tickets : Elementalexistence.com USE CODE AIR AT CHECKOUT FOR $30 OFF ANY SINGLE 2-DAY TICKET -- expires May 1 Tune in to here Creative Director Chantelle share all about Elemental Existence. Get your answers to questions such as : What is it, really? What is the inspiration and intention behind EE? What can you expect the v…

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Ep 42: Lola Phoenix The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy 1:05:10

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Join us, Leanne & Greg Million, Certified Relationship Coaches as we chat with Lola Phoenix, the delightful author of "The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy" and "The Non-monogamy Journal"!We spoke to Lola about the concept of "anchor" as a grounding tool for navigating non-monogamy, especially for anxious individuals. She shared her struggles…

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Isabelle Santin And Chosen Few Software: What Liberation Can Look Like In Tech 47:12

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Intro: S: This is Sprout C: and this is Charyan, and we are the hosts of Molotov Now!, on The Channel Zero Podcast Network, thank you for joining us on this episode of the podcast. S: if you like what we do here and want to support it, you can do that by going to linktr.ee/al1312 and clicking donate, or scrolling to the bottom for Patreon. C: "Hell…

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The Secret to Sapphic Sex and Dating ft. Zhané and Eva Bloom 1:10:42

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off https://splashblanket.com/en-ca Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Losing your sapphic v-card? Terrified you’ll fumble the bag? We got you. This episode is your survival guide to sapphic sex, confidence, flirting, and ahem hands-on skills included. We’re joi…

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101 : Body Shame Recovery Through Ritual & Voice with Charlotte Malin Collins 53:24

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Charlotte shares insight on how she teaches people to release the burden of carrying body shame. Tune in for for different real life stories from Charlotte, Chantelle, and their respective clients on ways body shame and body shame healing has shown up for them. Expect to recieve relatable stories on body shame and disordered eating. You'll finish t…

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100 : Are You Actually Too Much (Or Not Enough)? With Ashley Allard 56:50

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Tune in for for different real life stories from Ashley, Chan, and their respective clients on ways they have felt they are "too much" or "not enough" -- at work, in partnership, in friendship, in their way of expressing, in how the feel emotions -- and ways to put that story of "too much" and "not enough" down. Prepare to feel inspired and uplifti…

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How to Open Your Relationship (and Actually Make It Work) ft. The Polyamory Therapy Collective 1:03:54

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So, you wanna open up your relationship but don’t wanna crash and burn in a fiery mess of jealousy and regret? We got you. We’re joined by three queer, non-monogamous therapists from the Polyamory Therapy Collective to give you the ultimate survival guide to ENM—how to start the convo, avoid rookie mistakes, and actually enjoy the ride. We’re unpac…

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99 : Getting + Staying In Creative Flow with Ace on Earth (Austin Pereira) 45:51

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Tune in for an interview with Austin aka Ace on Earth a musician and DJ who finds himself often tapped into creative flow. Listen expecting to hear how Austin & Chan suggest moving with creative blocks, opening to the source of creativity, and building aligned community to uplift your art. Connect with Austin : aceonearth.com Instagram @aceonearth …

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Ep 41: Kathy Labriola & "Polyamorous Elders" 1:02:41

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Join us, Leanne & Greg Million, Certified Relationship Coaches as we chat with the one and only Kathy Labriola - author of "Love and Abundance: A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships" (NEW EDITION AVAIL), "The Jealousy Workbook", and "The Polyamory Break Up Book". We spoke to her about her latest work "Polyamorous Elders: Aging in Open Relation…

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The Great Lesbian Divide: Butch vs Femme ft. Pkat and Haviah Mighty 1:35:17

9M ago1:35:17

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What does it really mean to be a lesbian? Is it a vibe? A gender? A political stance? We’re diving headfirst into the evolution of lesbian identity—breaking down butch and femme history, masculinity, queerness, and what it truly means to de-center men (spoiler: it’s liberating). With three wildly different lesbians at the table - Haviah, Pkat, and …

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Biohack Your Menstrual Cycle And Stop Suffering! Ft. Miranda of The Period Lab 1:01:11

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What if we told you that your period pain isn’t just a fact of life — and that your 9-5 job might actually be making it worse? We’re hacking the menstrual cycle with Miranda Popen, hormone expert and founder of The Period Lab. We’re talking PMS myths, biohacking for better energy, and why the system was not built for menstruators (or trans folks on…

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98 : Inspiration, Intimidation, and Attraction Within Community with Melissa Joy Haqq 52:16

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Tune in for a conversation with mystic bodyworker Melissa Joy Haqq where we unpack inspiration, intimidation, and attraction within concious community spaces. Natural feelings that arise for each and every one of us!Joy generously shares her own experience of balancing befriending and doing ceremonial work with Chan. Chan shares her own stories of …

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Intro To BDSM: Creating A Dom Persona ft. Yaz 1:16:57

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What if embracing dominance could unlock parts of yourself you never knew existed? We’re diving into the art (and magic) of crafting a Dom persona with our friend Yaz - the non-binary, bisexual, Middle Eastern powerhouse you may remember from our polyamory episodes. We're talking confidence, embodiment, and the kinky intersections of BDSM and gende…

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Ep7. Poly Purity, Relationship Anarchy, and the D/s Dynamic 1:31:29

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On this week's episode Ep7. Poly Purity, Relationship Anarchy, and the D/s Dynamic, your favorite throuple sits down with one of Kam's dear friends, who happens to be be a former Bumble match and Dom extraordinaire, William! The four discuss some of the pitfalls of poly purity, how relationship anarchy can provide the functional fluidity so many se…

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97 : The Wisdom of Perimenopause (And Holistic Support!) with Chaya Aronson 48:14

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Tune in for an interview with Chaya from Your Sacred Pelvis, a holistic pelvic health practitioner and bodyworker of 20+ years. Chaya shares non-mainstream information on how to take care of yourself during perimenopause including common symptoms, herbal remedies, insight on how hormones work during this time, and the spritual + emotional lessons o…

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Navigating Conflict in Polyamorous Relationships ft. Decolonizing Love 1:31:00

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Polyamory with a sprinkle of chaos, a dash of queer magic, and a whole lot of deep questions? We’re tackling the juicy challenges of ethical non-monogamy—from jealousy to ADHD-induced impulsivity—and answering real audience dilemmas with expert guests Millie & Nick from Decolonizing Love. Plus, we explore the BIPOC experience in poly spaces, unpack…

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Ep6: Wicked Musings, Divorce Trauma, & Near Death Health Journeys 1:37:49

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On this week's episode Ep6: Wicked Musings, Divorce Trauma, & Near Death Health Journeys, your favorite throuple sits down with their friend Christina to discuss shared divorce trauma, and near death health issues. This episode has plenty of laughs, but does discusses some heavier topics that give listeners a chance to know Will, Paige, and Kam on …

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Ep. 40: Cheating in Polyamory/CNM 1:07:12

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Content Warning: mentions (with no detail) self-harm and abusive relationships. Celebrate 4 years and 40 episodes with us, Greg and Leanne Million Certified Relationship Coaches, as we unpack an AI-generated list of reasons (which Leanne printed but didn't "create") why people choose to cheat in Polyamorous or Non-monogamous Relationships. For thos…