Best Relationship Anarchy Podcasts (2025)

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EP452 - Relationship Anarchy: Breaking the Norms 41:32

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Welcome to Episode 452 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Roy Graff who speaks to me about relationship anarchy, consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication in alternative relationship structures. In this episode, Roy shares his deeply personal journey from decades of serial monogamy to embracing polyamory a…

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Relationship Anarchy vs. Traditional Love: What Works for You? 2:21

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What is relationship anarchy? Is it anti-commitment—or just a call for conscious love? In this solo mini episode, Valery explores the difference between freedom and chaos in relationships—and how to define what works for you. 🎙 New expert episodes return in September! Check out past interviews in the meantime. 💬 Want help designing a relationship t…

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Should You Hook Up With Your Friends? Lesbian Chaos Theory ft. Syd And Zhané 1:35:15

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friends…

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EP453 - Just Watch Me: A Hotwifing Story 32:15

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Welcome to Episode 453 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Serenity Cox and partner Timothy of WIFEY, who speak with me about their journey into the hotwifing lifestyle and how it has shaped their relationship. In this episode, Serenity and Timothy share how their interest in hotwifing began as fantasy and roleplay, before e…

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Value-Driven Love: The Dating Shift That Changes Everything 2:05

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Are your values and your relationship aligned? This week’s short solo episode breaks down how dating and partnership are evolving—and why getting clear on your values can shift everything in love. 🎙 Guest episodes return in September. Catch up on past favorites while we’re on break! 💬 Ready to get clarity on your relationship values? Book a 1:1 coa…

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Ep 45: Mononormativity with Marla Schreiber @polyamarla 1:09:21

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If you've been on IG or TikTok you probably know @polyamarla - and NOW they've got an incredible book out "Non-monogamy and Defying a Paradigm"! We had such a fun time together! Follow us (if you can...three people with ADHD) as Marla takes us through their polyamorous journey, the "h" word (and why they don't want to talk about it), couple privile…

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The Epidemic of Masc Fragility ft. Ms. Myles And Danielle Lastres 1:04:31

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Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to skip to the next episode if it’s not the right time for you. CONTACT DANIELLE Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/danielle…

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EP451 - Coloring Outside the Lines: Freedom in Polyamory 46:14

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Welcome to Episode 451 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who speaks to me about navigating non-monogamy, jealousy, and building healthy polyamorous relationships. In this conversation, I invite Joli to share the very human, very messy path she took from a long-term monogamous marriage into consensual non-m…

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Phubbing: The Subtle Intimacy Killer 3:25

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This mini episode explores the modern intimacy killer most of us are guilty of: phubbing—snubbing your partner with your phone. Valery breaks down why this behavior is more harmful than it seems, and how to create small but powerful shifts to rebuild emotional presence. 🎙 Back in September with new expert guests! Catch up on episodes with Jayson Ga…

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Ep. 98 Timea Kristof on the factors for a successful succession process 1:10:14

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Handing the baton over to someone else can be risky, especially when it’s your company you’re handing over. Timea Kristof shares her research on six key factors necessary for a successful succession process to happen, and one of the most important factors might surprise you. It’s love. Timea shares insights from her research, including examples of …

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EP450 – Monogamish: Exploring Intimacy and Freedom 41:11

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Welcome to Episode 450 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Carrie Jeroslow who speaks to me about exploring monogamish relationships, communication, and relationship diversity. In this conversation, Carrie unpacks the term “Monogamish,” originally coined to describe a space between strict monogamy and fully open relationships…

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“I’m Not a Lesbian Anymore, I’m Queer” ft. Tyra Blizzard And King 1:13:21

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EP449 - Sex and Self-Image: A Pleasure Journey 31:23

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Welcome to Episode 449 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Jackie Goldschneiderwho speaks to me about eating disorders, body image, recovery, and how all of this intersects with sexuality and pleasure. In this conversation, Jackie shares the raw, unglamorized realities of living with anorexia for two decades, much of it whil…

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Rewire Your Nervous System for Love & Connection with Jessica Maguire 1:02:07

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Get ready to transform how you love and connect. In this empowering episode of Relationship Rescue, Jessica Maguire—nervous‑system expert and trauma-informed coach—joins us to explore how regulating the vagus nerve can help you feel more grounded, compassionate, and emotionally available. What you’ll discover: How the vagus nerve impacts connection…

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104 : My Medicine Path Journey with Ayahuasca & Kambo (July 2025) 1:08:39

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Tune in for a share on the past -- present -- and future of my path become the steward of the soluna medicines altar. Connect with Chantelle : Instagram @solunamedicines Visit solunamedicines.com/offerings Add Chantelle on Facebook Email : [email protected]

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Ep. 97 Allan Rhodes on organisational gardening and Konsileo 1:10:32

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Allan Rhodes is Chief People Officer at teal-inspired insurance broker Konsileo. He shares what he’s learned over the last three years about helping to design a self-managing organisation, including how to onboard people into a totally new way of working. We also talk about his favourite metaphor of organisational gardening. We can be inspired by o…

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EP448 - Connection and Pleasure: Reclaim Lost Desire 26:33

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Welcome to Episode 448 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, who speaks to me about navigating low desire and reigniting intimacy in long‑term relationships. In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares…

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Toxic Love or Training Ground? Why Your Worst Relationships Might Lead to the Right One 1:02:30

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Was it really a mistake—or was it preparing you for the love you actually want? In this soul-stirring episode, love coach Annie Lalla shares why your most painful, messy, or toxic relationships might not have been failures… but masterclasses. Annie—known as the “Cartographer of Love”—has spent decades helping people attract soul-aligned partnership…

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43. How Do You Assure AI For Bias and Accessibility in the NHS? With Adam Byfield 48:09

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Adam Byfield is a Principal Technical Assurance Specialist at NHS England. After his previous appearance on the podcast, discussing providing ethical assurance for AI applications in healthcare, we were keen to get him back to dive into some more specific issues. We chose bias and accessibility, two related issues that are clearly central for anyon…

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You’re Not Gay, You Struggle With Same-Sex Attraction ft. Luke Wilson 1:18:39

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Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA What do electric shocks, shame sermons, and fake science have in common? They were all used to “pray the gay away.” We’re diving into the twisted world of conversion therapy with survivor and scholar Lucas Wilson. From evangelical trauma to the ex-gay movement’s most delulu masc villains, we…

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EP447 - The Mother of Sex Coaching: Wanting Love, Finding Yourself 48:24

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Welcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Patti Britton, who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age. In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding pat…

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Ep 44: Nicole Thompson from Religion to Relationship Anarchy 1:04:41

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Wow! What a journey Nicole has had! With eloquence and awareness she shares what it was like to grow up in purity culture and to come to terms with her own queer and polyamorous identities. Nicole Thompson is a sex and relationship psychotherapist, host of Modern Anarchy Podcast, the author of the first published research study on Relationship Anar…

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Is This Real Love or a Red Flag? | Susan Winter 1:00:13

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How do you know if it’s real love—or just a red flag in disguise? In this insightful and empowering episode, world-renowned relationship coach Susan Winter shares the signs you’re with the right person, the wrong person, and what it really takes to build a healthy, lasting relationship. With appearances on Oprah, CNN, Cosmopolitan, and over 40 mill…

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Ep. 96 Xavier Costa on lessons from self-managing organisations in Spain 1:10:35

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Why does Spain appear to be a hotbed for progressive organisations lately? Xavier Costa shares three hypotheses: the implementation of the NER self-management approach in over 100 companies, a rich history of cooperatives, and a culture of innovation in the boundaries of Spain. We also talk about lessons learned from Xavier’s experience of transfor…

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EP446 - Feminist Porn: Producing Pleasure 41:53

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Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent. Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn …

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Allana Pratt | "Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People" 1:01:00

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This week on Relationship Rescue, Valery sits down with world-renowned intimacy expert Allana Pratt to uncover the real reason so many of us keep ending up in the same painful relationship patterns—over and over again. In this raw and revealing episode, we talk about: Why we sabotage love even when we say we want it What “intimacy blindspots” are—a…

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42. How Should Clinicians Communicate with Young People Experiencing Mental Health Difficulties? With Lisa Bortolotti 49:54

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Professor Lisa Bortolotti is a philosopher at the University of Birmingham, who has been working on a fascinating interdisciplinary project looking at what happens when young people experiencing mental health difficulties talk to clinicians about those difficulties. The project has involved closely examining hours of audio and video material of the…

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Relationship Anarchy Changed How I Love ft. Pat 1:29:09

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Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46 Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Monogamy is optional. Hierarchies are fake. And ‘the one’ doesn't exist? We're diving headfirst into the world of Relationship Anarchy with queer academic…

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EP445 - How to Have Mindful Masturbation 38:27

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Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration. In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into …

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Going No Contact: Why Cutting Off Toxic Family Might Save Your Life 54:43

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Do you really have to stay connected to toxic family members just because they’re family? Dr. Sherrie Campbell says no—and in this raw, powerful episode, she explains exactly why going no contact might be the most loving thing you can do… for yourself. Dr. Campbell is a nationally recognized psychologist and author of But It’s Your Family… Cutting …

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EP444 - Exploring Sex Tech Trends and Listeners’ Most Asked Q&A 35:54

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Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent, who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation. In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer …

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Conflict as Connection: How to Get to Zero Without Losing Yourself in Love 48:27

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If you keep ending up in the same toxic cycles—or feel like you're the only one doing the emotional work—this episode is your wake-up call. Relationship expert and founder of The Relationship School, Jayson Gaddis, joins me to unpack why we attract emotionally unavailable people, how to break patterns from childhood, and what it really takes to bui…

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Is Black Masculinity Feared in Queer Spaces? ft. Haviah Mighty And DJ Blackcat 1:17:41

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Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46 Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Betterhelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/collective Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Black masculinity is feared, fetishized, and fiercely policed; so what happens when queerness enters the…

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Ep. 43: Being a Good Hinge 1:08:11

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Let's talk about being a good hinge! Many of the issues in a polyamorous or non-monogamous relationship can be prevented with responsible & compassionate choices made by the hinge - the person with multiple partners. Join us, Leanne & Greg Million, Certified Relationship Coaches specializing in polyamory and non-monogamy as we explore the role of a…

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EP443 - Somebody Hold Me: Single and Touch Starved 46:04

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Welcome to Episode 443 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Epiphany Jordan who speaks to me about the essential role of nonsexual, nurturing touch in our lives and how it intersects with wellness, relationships, and even trauma recovery. In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying …

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What Your Birth Chart Reveals About Love & Communication – with Debra Silverman 48:11

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Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same type of partner—or why your relationships seem to repeat the same emotional patterns? 🔁 This week on Relationship Rescue, Valery Molone is joined by world-renowned astrologer Debra Silverman to decode how your birth chart shapes your love life, communication style, and emotional triggers. Whether you’re …

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41. How Should We Rebuild Trust in Journalism? With Tim Watkin 47:05

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Tim Watkin is a journalist and media manager. He works as executive editor for audio at Radio New Zealand, but is currently on sabbatical at the University of Glasgow, studying how to rebuild trust in journalism as part of a project on Epistemic Autonomy. In this interview we discuss the nature of trust, why it's important, why journalists seem to …

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EP442 - Dance Naked: The Joy of Sexual Fantasies 44:37

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Welcome to Episode 442 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Eleanor O’Brien who speaks to me about exploring erotic fantasies through creativity, theater, and self-expression. In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the f…

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How to Stay True to You in Love & Work 47:39

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This week on Relationship Rescue, Valery Molone sits down with powerhouse marketing influencer and podcast host Michelle Barone for a raw and inspiring conversation about self-worth, boundaries, and building healthy relationships without losing yourself in the process. Michelle opens up about: Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for e…

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No Fats, No Femmes, No Asians: The Grindr Industrial Complex ft. Humza and Darynel 1:13:05

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Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Gay dating can be messy. From hookup culture and emotional avoidance to Grindr’s racial hierarchy, we’re diving into the chaos with guests Darynel Weekly and Mango Lassi. We’re unpacking the trauma, the body standards, the “no fats no femme…

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EP441 - Falling In Love Again: Bringing Erotic to Your Everyday 36:55

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Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners. In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and…

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Behind Hollywood Beauty with Angela Levin 1:09:07

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She’s the woman behind the signature looks of Jennifer Aniston, Nicole Kidman, Reese Witherspoon—and now she’s here to share the relationship lessons behind the glam. In this premiere episode of Season 2 of Relationship Rescue, Valery sits down with legendary celebrity makeup artist Angela Levin for a powerful conversation about what it really take…

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40. How do you decide whether law enforcement and national security operations are ethically justified? With Joe Fogarty 49:43

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Joe Fogarty has spent over 30 years working in national security and law enforcement, in the UK and elsewhere. He's currently working on cyber-security risks and organised crime for the UK's central government, as the Head of the Government's Cyber Resilience Centre. Recently, he's been looking at security and law enforcement through a philosophica…

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EP440 - Sexual Power: Go All Night Long 47:05

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Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it. In this enlightening convers…

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The Lesbian Identity Crisis: Trans And Non-Binary?! ft. Jay-Marie and Eirene 1:45:59

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Think all lesbians are women? Think again. We're queering the label with trans and non-binary lesbians who are redefining what it means to love, resist, and rebel. From ge…

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EP439 – The Number One Mistake People Make in the Bedroom 22:14

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Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman,…

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39. How Should We Motivate Cosmopolitanism? With Luke Ulas and Josh Hobbs 46:08

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Luke Ulas from the University of Sheffield and Josh Hobbs from the University of Leeds are both interested in cosmopolitanism. Cosmopolitanism is a name used for a few different political ideas, but the core thought, according to the Stanford Encyclopaedia of Philosophy, is "the idea that all human beings, regardless of their political affiliation,…

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EP438 - Sex and Conflict: The 4-Minute Exercise 50:33

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Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement. In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of ea…

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Asian Fetishization And Hyper-Sexualization ft. Ky and Charlotte 1:20:58

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If you've ever been called “exotic,” or told you're one of the “good minorities” this one’s for you. We’re unpacking the fetishization of Asian bodies, the myth of the model minority, and the tension between queerness and cultural belonging. With personal stories from two badass artists, Charlotte and Ky, we explore femme fetish tropes, family pres…

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103 : My Journey of Conscious Uncoupling + Relationship Anarchy (Plus my poetry!!) 46:37

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Tune in to hear Chantelle talk about : • Her recent romantic separation and their transition to friendship • How years of practicing polyamory has informed her current more monogamous relationship style • Chantelle’s poetry about falling in love with Sunshine — to questioning separation — to grieving the loss — to finding the self and eachother on …