Best Queer Communication Podcasts (2025)

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Prentis Hemphill 1:01:44

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Prentis Hemphill joins Dean Spade in this episode to talk about love, organizing, and healing. They talk about projection, practice, and their approaches to writing books in the self help genre. Check out Prentis's book, What it Takes to Heal, and podcast, Becoming the People. This episode is available in video format on YouTube. Support this podca…

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Messy Love Stories Part 1 23:44

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"Why do we keep moving in together after just four days when it never works out?" That's the burning question at the heart of this hilarious and honest exploration of U-Hauling in queer relationships. Steph and Shellbz hold nothing back as they dissect their own disastrous experiences with moving in too quickly—from Steph's teenage romance with a w…

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communicating your sapphic desires 30:56

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How to ask your girlfriend to try something new?? Want to explore what you're into with women, but don't know how to communicate it to a partner? This episode is all about how to communicate your boundaries, desires, and curiosities about sapphic intimacy! 🌈 Join the waitlist for the Queer Enough program running Sept 30th-Nov 18th! https://www.subs…

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E53 - How to work with large organization to implement research and policy with Mushfiq Mobarak 53:25

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In this episode we talk with Mushfiq Mobarak on how to work with governments and large organizations to implement research. Mushfiq is a Professor of Economics at Yale University with concurrent appointments in the School of Management and in the Department of Economics. He is also the founder and faculty director of the Yale Research Initiative on…

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Encore: Burnout is Not Your Fault 30:30

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This week we have an encore of one of our earlier EEDA Pod episodes focused on the topic of burnout, exploring its causes, symptoms, and the systemic issues that contribute to it. We discuss how burnout is often rooted in societal and structural problems rather than individual shortcomings, and share practical strategies for mitigating its effects.…

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Ex Marks The Spot: Exes Who Try To Spin The Block 1:12:05

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In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into what happens when exes spin the block. From an old flame asking about a “pass,” to a wild dream about becoming our baby daddy, to a surprising threesome proposal—this week brought it all. We open up about the respectful, the messy, and the off-limits, while breaking down how queer couples navi…

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Your Love Language is Avoidance Part 2 27:16

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Relationships fail. It happens. But why is it so hard to admit when we've played a role in their demise? This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truth about relationship endings—they're rarely one person's fault. Through candid stories of marriages that crumbled and partnerships that dissolved, we explore the liberating power of…

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how to bust queer imposter syndrome 34:14

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Do you struggle with not feeling "queer enough"? Feel like you're missing some secret info all the other sapphics have? Question if it's "too late" for you to come out? Let's dive into what queer imposter syndrome is, why you have it, and what to do about it! 🌈 Join the Queer Enough program for Oct-Nov 2025! Doors open to the waitlist first Sept 11…

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E52 – Working in Global and U.S. Economic Policy with Sandile Hlatshwayo 57:26

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In this episode, we talk with Sandile Hlatshwayo about working in important institutions such as the Council of Economic Advisors and the International Monetary Fund. Dr. Sandile Hlatshwayo is an IMF economist who previously served as a senior economist at the Council of Economic Advisors. She holds a PhD in Economics from UC Berkeley and works in …

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Long Distance and Electronic Communication 30:06

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Is sexting sex? And is sexting cheating if someone is monogamous? How can we be clear in our communication and boundaries? Can we feel ok giving a maybe or accepting a no? Morgan Bassichis is back with Dean to talk through frequently asked questions about navigating long distance and electronic communication in relationships. Do you have a question…

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Your Love Language is Avoidance Part 1 28:33

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Ever catch yourself doom-scrolling until 3AM after a breakup? Or suddenly becoming a workaholic when your heart gets broken? You're not alone. Steph and Shellbz pull back the curtain on the coping mechanisms we develop after relationships end – those unhealthy healing habits we don't even recognize until we're in a better place. From self-isolation…

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To Queer For Comfort 1:00:49

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This week, we dive deep into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes dangerous world of queer PDA (public displays of affection). From debates about what’s “appropriate” to the very real risks of holding hands in the wrong neighborhood, this episode is as raw and real as it gets. We open up about our own experiences—navigating affection in front of kid…

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Decluttering, Delegating, and Doing Less: The Art of Letting Go 29:58

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In this episode of Enthusiastic Encouragement & Dubious Advice, Patricia and Nicole discuss their recent efforts to declutter their home, reflecting on the emotional and practical benefits of letting go of unnecessary items. They explore the challenges of self-imposed responsibility, the importance of delegating tasks, and the psychological costs o…

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Love and Insecurities Pt. 2 26:03

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Have you ever found yourself caught between the exhilaration of new love and the whispers of your past trauma? In this deeply personal episode, Steph and Shellbz pull back the curtain on what happens when you find someone who loves you exactly as you are—anxieties, insecurities, and all. The conversation explores that maddening internal voice that …

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Love and Insecurities Part 1 23:55

23d ago23:55

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Nothing says "queer relationship" quite like getting matching face tattoos and looking at houses together within weeks of dating. In this candid episode, we pull back the curtain on what it means to fall hard and fast while still carrying the baggage from past relationships. The conversation flows naturally from lighthearted tales of relationship m…

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New Episode Drops On Wednesday 0:17

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Life has been lifin’ ya’ll, so we will drop a new episode on Wednesday! Yay! We will be talking about Queer PDA! See y'all then!!By Beautifulll & Ace

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The Courage to Walk Away Part 2 35:09

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What happens when the chaos and drama you've grown accustomed to in relationships suddenly disappears, replaced by something calm, supportive, and—dare we say—"boring"? Steph and Shellbz dive deep into the disorienting transition from toxic relationships to healthy ones, revealing the unexpected challenges that arise when you finally experience gen…

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The Courage to Walk Away Part 1 28:50

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Ever wondered why it's so hard to cut ties with someone you know isn't right for you? Or felt that strange mix of guilt and relief when you finally find happiness after a toxic relationship? Steph and Shellbz tackle the emotional rollercoaster that comes with exes discovering new relationships and the complicated feelings that follow. From the surp…

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Lez Communicate Trialer 1:06

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LezCommunicate is the unfiltered, heartfelt, and hilarious podcast where Shellbz and Steph dive deep into the highs and lows of life, love, and everything in between. From navigating relationships to surviving heartbreak, healing from the hard stuff, and celebrating queer joy, these two bring their authentic selves to the mic. Whether they’re spill…

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E51 - Communicating stats to non-stats people with Jeremy Weber 54:22

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In this episode we talk with Jeremy Weber about applying statistical concepts and lessons into applying to the real world. Jeremy is a professor in the University of Pittsburgh Graduate School of Public and International Affairs. He has a PhD from the University of Wisconsin Madison and he is focused on the economics of environmental and energy iss…

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Mariame Kaba 1:11:27

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Mariame Kaba joins Dean Spade for this episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. Mariame and Dean talk about the dangers of putting leaders on pedestals in our movements, what to do when you or someone you know is getting canceled, how to relate to the concept of hope in this time, how norms about sex and romance influence resistance work, and letting …

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how to make queer friends as an adult 42:35

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WELCOME TO THE OUT IN BLOOM SEASON 1 FINALE :') Season 2 out in September! Making queer friends as a late bloomer can be challenging! Maybe you're going from a group of all straight friends or maybe you feel disconnected from queer folks who've been out for decades. Let's talk about how to actually make queer friends, friend groups, and community. …

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We're Talking About It (S2E10) 29:47

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We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE All of it. From lactose intolerance, how to save thousands of dollars on music production classes, upcoming artists and surprise familial connections -- come join the conversation! #cainculto #connection #lactose Support the show 🎧 Thanks for Listening to Queerly Committed! Stay connected with us & join th…

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The Missteps of Modern Activism: Awareness vs. Action 37:49

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In this episode of Enthusiastic Encouragement and Dubious Advice, hosts Patricia and Nicole discuss the significance of community and activism amidst the prevalence of digital misinformation. They delve into how algorithms shape our online experiences, the pitfalls of generative AI, and the importance of real-world actions over mere online awarenes…

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E50 - Getting better at Teaching with Tal Gross 52:41

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In this episode, we talk with Tal Gross about new teaching techniques. Tal is a Professor in the Department of Markets, Public Policy & Law at Boston University. He is also a Faculty Research Fellow at the National Bureau of Economic Research. His research focuses on health insurance and household finance. In this book, Tal shares about his new boo…

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Love Is A Responsibility 1:06:41

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This is a Patreon Episode Check out our visuals and support the Pod: patreon.com/TogetherRealBad 🎙️ Episode Summary: Love, Responsibility, and Real-Life Frustrations In this raw and vulnerable Patreon episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive deep into relationship responsibility, emotional triggers, and real-life stressors, all while keeping their signature…

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how to dress so everyone knows you're queer 39:44

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Queer fashion is more than just fabric on a body - it's euphoria, community, history, a political statement and beyond. This week on Out in Bloom we're talking a walk down queer history memory lane, talking flagging, and more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating min…

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wondering if you're "queer enough"? THIS IS FOR YOU 37:25

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Compulsory heterosexuality means that many sapphics come into themselves later in life. It can also mean a lot of frustration and confusion about labels - or doubting if you're "queer enough". Answer: YES! There are infinite paths & experiences of queerness. 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pa…

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How the Wedding Gig Ends With A Black Eye (S2 E9) 35:23

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We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE What happens when you play "What's New Pussycat" by Tom Jones seven times at a wedding that isn't prepared for it? You might get an upset mother of the groom... In this episode - Cori + Eryn share their eventful weekend. Bartending backflips, updates to the ice cream social planning and how a wedding gig e…

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What Else is True? 13:29

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When we're fixated on something, it may be helpful to ask ourselves What Else is True? Morgan Bassichis joins Dean Spade to walk us through this tool for getting perspective when we're tied up in knots. The What Else is True? worksheet that Dean describes is available here (PDF) You can watch this episode on YouTube. Transcript available at https:/…

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Our Most Popular Communication Skill: Some/Many/Most 26:12

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This episode of "Enthusiastic Encouragement and Dubious Advice" covers Nicole and Patricia's recent activities, including a trip to Santa Rosa, obtaining library cards, and trying new hobbies like crochet and Pilates. They introduce and explain the communication tool "some/many/most," which helps avoid sweeping generalizations in conversations. The…

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Claiming Your Space: Invisible Labor and Your Home 44:34

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Professional organizer George Tanner joins Emry to unpack what clutter really represents—and how organizing your home is deeply entwined with gender, parenting, neurodivergence, and societal pressure. From dishwasher arguments to invisible labor, this episode is a heart-opening reminder that reclaiming your space is reclaiming your power. Learn mor…

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What’s Going On: Communication Gaps in Black Families and Queer Love 1:05:54

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In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into how generational communication habits in Black families impact our adult relationships—both romantic and platonic. Beautifulll and Ace share stories from their childhood, how they were raised to handle (or avoid) conflict, and what it’s like navigating communication with family as out, queer B…

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non-binary lesbians have always existed 36:59

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Gender can be challenging as a late bloomer - if it's figuring out your own funky gender, or learning how to support a new trans or non-binary partner! In this week's episode we break down different non-binary identities, talk queer history & more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab …

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Music: Not Just a Playlist, but Coping Strategies and Healing 34:42

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What even is music therapy—and why does it matter to parents? In this heart-filled episode, Emry sits down with music psychotherapist Al Hoberman to explore how music supports connection, regulation, and resilience in everyday life. From singing in the bath to powering through surgery with Idina Menzel on loop, they unpack how music lives in our bo…

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gatekeeping is boooring & how to know if you're a lesbian 24:11

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It's the first Q&A episode of the Out in Bloom podcast and we're diving deep - how to date women when you've never dated *ever*, how to know if you're bi or a lesbian and more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace +…

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Don't Quit (S2E8) 25:11

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We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE This episode - as a whole - tells a really amazing story, that we're grateful to share. You know the saying "we plan and the god(s) laugh" -- yeah. Well, that's exactly what happened when we were recording this episode on resiliency...the irony isn't lost on us. The episode starts with Cori saying "I feel …

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Tourmaline and Morgan Bassichis 1:01:42

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Tourmaline and Morgan Bassichis join Dean Spade on this episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. Tourmaline, Morgan, and Dean talk about how sites of capture and violence, like sexuality, romance and love, are also sites of pleasure and freedom, and how complex that tangle can be in the day to day. They also talk about what it means to support each ot…

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Own Your Words: How 'I Statements' Change Everything 31:41

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In this episode of "Enthusiastic Encouragement and Dubious Advice," Patricia and Nicole reflect on their experiences at the Trans March and discuss their recent activities involving harvesting garlic and decluttering their book collection. They delve into effective communication techniques, particularly “I statements,” to improve personal interacti…

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Traveling with Friends 55:46

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In this episode of Together Real Bad, your favorite queer couple podcast dives into what happens when you mix travel, friends, and relationship expectations. Beautifulll and Ace get vulnerable about a recent trip to New Orleans — and how a birthday vacation quickly turned into a lesson on boundaries, communication, and prioritizing your partner. 💬 …

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the ultimate guide to sapphic intimacy for newbies 27:21

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Coming out but nervous about what to do in the bedroom? Not sure if scissoring is real? Want to wow future queer cuties with your skills? Buckle up, it's the sesbian lex episode! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace…

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Toxic Consumption (S2E7) 1:04:19

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We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE Living in fast paced consumerism world can leave us feeling exhausted, drained and deprived of hope. In this episode, Cori and Eryn explore the realities of daily consumer consumption. From news notifications to doom scrolling for dopamine -- it's okay for us to take a break from it all. As consumers - we …

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if you were obsessed with these movies as a kid, you know the lesbian masterdoc 32:43

3M ago32:43

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Let's talk about the media that lead to my gay awakening! I am SUCH lover of all things queer books, TV shows, movies, music and more. In this episode we're talking about queer media and also media for affirmation on your coming out journey! 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by …

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S2E6 - Tea From T - Listener Letter 23:00

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We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE Grab some snacks, settle in- cause the tea is h-o-t-t-o-g-o 😘 This week - we got a listener letter from "T" - they shared what they found out about what their partner has been up to 👀 T asked us for some #relationshipadvice for a messy situation. #QueerlyCommitted #listeneradvice #needadvice Support the sh…

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Hard Feelings 15:50

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Morgan Bassichis joins Dean Spade to talk about how to deal with hard feelings–like jealousy, possessiveness, and control–when they inevitably come up. Morgan and Dean talk about how it doesn't help to shame ourselves for having feelings that don't align with our principles, and how we can use humor and curiosity to find playful ways to engage thes…

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Encore: A Starting Place to Learn About Pride & the Queer Community 58:45

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This week, we have an encore of last year’s Queer 101 episode! Mentioned on the show: Bookshop Affiliate Storefront (links below are affiliate) Become a patron! Patreon.com/eedapod Subscribe to the ongoing Enthusiastic Encouragement & Dubious Advice Newsletter Resources mentioned can be found here. Find the full show notes and official transcript o…

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Love Is Fluid 57:48

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In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re diving into the deep end of what love, gender energy, and fluidity actually look like in our relationship. From surprise birthday letters and edible arrangements in New Orleans to unpacking who “wears the pants” at home, we're getting real about how we show up for each other in ways that break the mold. W…

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how to flirt with girls without being creepy & other sapphic dating advice 37:37

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Are you new to dating women? Want sapphic/queer/lesbian dating advice? THIS IS THE EPISODE FOR YOU! 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva …

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why do I feel like a teen when I'm a 30 something queer person?? 31:01

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Coming out late in life can sometimes mean starting over, or starting from the very beginning. Let’s chat about second adolescence, queer time, being a baby gay, and the awkward moments and healing that comes along with it! Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Wor…

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Halfway Check-in: Progress, Pride, and Practical Advice 39:35

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In this episode of "Enthusiastic Encouragement and Dubious Advice," Patricia and Nicole discuss their mid-year review of personal goals, emphasizing decluttering and strengthening community connections. They offer book recommendations for Pride Month, focusing on LGBTQ+ history and resources. The hosts also share what's currently bringing them joy,…