Best Princess Rara Podcasts (2025)

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Online D/s Relationships Explained - Episode 250 1:05:12

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Can a power exchange really work if you’ve never met in person? Short answer: yes. Longer answer? It depends on how it’s built. In this episode, we break down what online Dominant/submissive relationships actually look like, why people choose them, and what makes them healthy or harmful. We talk honestly about the benefits, the challenges, and the …

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Stop Calling That “Submissive” - Episode 249 1:02:29

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So many people try to label actions as Dominant or submissive based on how they look from the outside. But in real D/s dynamics, it isn’t the act that defines the role. It’s the intention and the power behind it. In this episode, we break down why the same behavior can mean something completely different depending on who’s driving it, and how under…

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Surviving Kink Reddit - Episode 248 1:05:46

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We’re diving back into the madhouse that is Reddit advice, where strangers ask wild kink questions and we do our best not to spit out our drinks while answering them. Expect giggles, good-hearted roast sessions, and the occasional “bless their heart” as we break down what’s actually good advice…and what belongs in the digital dumpster. Visit https:…

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Counting Our Kinky Blessings - Episode 247 1:07:04

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It’s our annual Thanksgiving episode, and this year we’re taking a moment to slow down, reflect, and talk about what we’re truly grateful for. From the growth of our Pink Kink community to the personal lessons, connections, laughter, awkward moments, and meaningful conversations that shaped our year, we’re sharing it all. This one feels especially …

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Using Kink to Cope - Episode 246 1:04:23

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Kink can do more than turn you on. It can help you calm your mind, process emotions, and feel grounded again. In this episode, we talk about how kink becomes a coping tool, why it works, and the difference between healing and avoiding. We cover both pain and non-pain ways kink helps with stress, connection, and emotional release, plus a few signs t…

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What Dungeon Safety Really Looks Like - Episode 245 1:07:06

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Feeling safe in a dungeon isn’t as simple as having rules on the wall. In this episode, we dig into what really shapes safety in kink spaces, from strong leadership and active dungeon monitors to the messy reality of consent culture and human behavior. We also share stories from our patrons about the dungeons that made them feel protected, the ones…

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More Wild and Niche Kinks - Episode 244 1:02:18

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We’re back with another round of Niche Kinks and this time we pulled inspiration straight from our episode on America’s Top Fetishes. These were the kinks people kept asking about, the ones we didn’t have time to unpack, and the ones that genuinely surprised us. Come hang out with us while we explore the weird, wonderful corners of kink and talk ab…

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When Fantasy Goes Too Far - Episode 243 1:01:59

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Inspired by the chaos at Sinners & Stardust, this episode takes a hard look at what happens when fantasy goes too far. From groping and flashing to tracking and harassment, we’re breaking down why fictional kinks never excuse real-world violations — and why consent still matters, even at cons. Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to ou…

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The Problem with Dominant-Led Submissive Training - Episode 242 1:05:30

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“Submissive training” gets tossed around a lot in kink—but when Dominants use it as a control tactic or sales pitch, it stops being education and starts being manipulation. In this episode, Rara and Dara break down why Dominant-led training can be harmful, how predators exploit new subs who just want to “get it right,” and why coaching is teaching—…

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Private Kink Is Valid Too - Episode 241 55:31

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Not all kink happens in public spaces—and that’s perfectly valid. While dungeons, play parties, and community events are one way to experience BDSM, many kinksters explore power exchange, sensation play, and ritual entirely in private. In this episode, we unpack the stigma that sometimes surrounds at-home kink and explore why public visibility isn’…

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Bringing Smut to Life - Episode 240 56:45

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Romance novels make kink look so easy—instant trust, flawless scenes, and zero talk about limits or lube. But real life doesn’t come with an editor. In this episode, we break down what’s fantasy versus reality and explain how to take what you read and bring it to life safely. We’ll talk about scene negotiation, bratty play, punishments, aftercare, …

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Our Pink Bold Birthday Bash - Episode 239 58:46

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Our birthday bash was one for the books! In this episode, we’re spilling all the details from our birthday scenes—what we set out to do, how we challenged ourselves, and the goals we crushed along the way. Expect plenty of laughter, some surprising moments, and maybe a few outrageous confessions. Because nothing says “happy birthday” like celebrati…

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Bound by BDSM: Life Lessons from the Dungeon - Episode 238 1:05:46

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We’re joined by Alicia M. Walker and Arielle Kuperberg, authors of Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life. Their groundbreaking book dives into the ways BDSM can teach us about trust, communication, vulnerability, and joy — lessons that extend far beyond the dungeon. We talk with Alicia and Arielle about what inspired their r…

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Becoming Ourselves Through Kink - Episode 237 1:10:37

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This episode is a deep dive into our personal journeys through the lifestyle. We’re answering 20 journaling prompts that explore how kink has shaped us, challenged us, and helped us grow. From scenes that changed the way we play to beliefs we had to unlearn, we’re reflecting on what it really means to become yourself through kink. Some lessons came…

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When Kink is Your Outlet and You Can’t Do It - Episode 236 1:12:03

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Kink isn’t just about play — it’s stress relief, identity, and connection. But what happens when life throws up walls and you can’t engage the way you want? In this episode, we talk about the realities of dry spells, why they happen, and the emotional toll they can take. We’ll bust the myths that make people feel “less kinky” when they can’t play, …

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Exploring America’s Top Fetishes - Episode 235 1:02:53

4M ago1:02:53

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From tickling in Florida to vore in California and cuckolding in Texas, this episode takes you on a kinky road trip through the most-searched fetishes in every U.S. state. Based on recent studies by FetishFinder and Clips4Sale, we break down what each fetish is, where it’s most popular, and what regional patterns might reveal about our private desi…

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The Power of Challenging Yourself - Episode 234 1:10:25

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Are you just going through the motions in your kink life? Feeling disconnected, uninspired, or like you've hit a plateau? This episode is your wake-up call. From navigating intense scenes to watching others step into their fears for the first time, this episode explores why self-challenge is essential in kink and how it can reignite your passion, d…

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I'm Not Your Kink Dispenser - Episode 233 1:06:48

4M ago1:06:48

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Have you ever felt like someone only wanted you for your kink? Like you didn’t matter—just what you could do for them? In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to be treated like a kink dispenser. We’ll look at how it happens, what it feels like, and what to do if you’re on either side of the issue. You’ll get tips, scripting, and real ta…

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Poly Littles - Episode 232 1:01:54

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Poly Littles can mean twice the fun, twice the Caregivers, and sometimes twice the crayons on the floor. In this episode, we explore the unique joys and challenges of polyamorous dynamics that include Littles—whether that means multiple Caregivers, multiple Littles, or both. We’ll talk about balancing different caregiving styles, keeping rules and …

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Saying "No" is Service - Episode 231 1:03:03

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Can a submissive say no to their Dominant and still be in service? Absolutely. In this episode, we’re challenging the outdated idea that submission means saying yes to everything. Instead, we explore how setting boundaries, speaking up, and honoring your own needs are essential parts of a healthy D/s dynamic. Saying no isn’t disobedience—it’s a pow…

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Why Yes Isn’t Enough - Episode 230 1:07:16

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Consent is the foundation of kink—but it’s not the finish line. In this episode, we dig into why “they said yes” shouldn’t shut down deeper conversations about safety, risk, and responsibility. What happens when a scene is so dangerous it could affect more than just the people involved? And who, if anyone, gets to decide what’s too much? Let’s talk…

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Power Comes with Responsibility - Episode 229 1:02:26

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Being a Top isn’t just about giving orders or holding the crop—it’s about holding responsibility. In this episode, we’re digging into what it really means to lead with care in kink. From medical safety and emotional well-being to ethical decision-making and community accountability, we’re calling in all Dominants, Tops, and handlers to step up and …

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Kink Burnout - Episode 228 1:00:14

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Feeling drained by your kink life? In this episode, we talk about what burnout looks like in the BDSM lifestyle, how to spot the signs, ways to prevent it, and how to come back from it. If kink is starting to feel like a chore, this one’s for you. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your…

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When Abusers Hide Behind BDSM - Episode 227 1:09:34

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What happens when abuse is disguised as kink? In this episode, we unpack the disturbing trend of powerful people—like Diddy and Marilyn Manson—using BDSM as a cover for coercion and control. We break down why that’s not kink, how it harms the community, and what ethical BDSM actually looks like. Spoiler: consent isn’t optional. National Sexual Assa…

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When to Reveal You're Kinky - Episode 226 1:03:59

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When do you tell someone you’re kinky? On the first date? After sex? Six months in? In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of revealing your kink at different stages of dating, how to know when you’re ready, and tips for having that conversation with confidence. There’s no one right answer—but we’ll help you find yours. Visit us at pinkki…

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Littles Supporting Littles - Episode 225 1:01:42

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Who says you need a Caregiver to enjoy Littlespace? In this episode, we’re busting the myth that Littles need a Daddy, Mommy, or CG to feel valid. We explore the beauty of peer-based Littlespaces—where Littles support each other through creativity, connection, and care, without formal power exchange. From craft nights and snack rotations to setting…

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You're Valid at Every Level - Episode 224 1:03:14

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What makes a kink “extreme”? And why does that word cause so much harm? In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth that certain kinks are more real, more intense, or more valid than others. Whether your play leaves bruises or just leaves you breathless, your kink counts. We’ll explore the hidden hierarchies in the kink world, why emotional inten…

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Bill of Rights for Subs and Doms - Episode 223 1:02:08

7M ago1:02:08

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Inspired by a post on FetLife and real conversations with kinksters, this episode explores why both Dominants and submissives need clear, affirming rights in BDSM. We walk through the Submissive’s Bill of Rights and the Dominant’s Bill of Rights—not as rules, but as tools to support autonomy, respect, and consent in power exchange. Because no matte…

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Ethical Caregiving in Ageplay Dynamics - Episode 222 1:04:11

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CG/L dynamics are deeply personal and emotionally rich. They can offer comfort, structure, play, and healing—but only when built on a foundation of consent, communication, and respect. From bottle feeding to bedtime routines, from emotional support to power exchange, caregiving in kink is never one-size-fits-all. And it definitely isn’t just about …

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Inside the Spanko Community - Episode 221 1:06:55

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Get ready to crack into the world of Spankos! In this episode, we’re joined by the legendary Miss Chris—Professional Disciplinarian, BDSM educator, and all-around badass—to take us deep into the Spanko community. We talk about what defines a Spanko, the unique appeal of spanking as a kink, and how this corner of the kink world builds trust, connect…

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D/s Hierarchy of Needs - Episode 220 57:16

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Who comes first in a D/s dynamic? The Dominant? The submissive? Their needs? Their wants? In this episode, we’re digging into the D/s Hierarchy of Needs—a framework that helps make sense of how to prioritize care, safety, and power in a consensual exchange. We’ll explore what qualifies as a need versus a want, how to tell the difference, and why ge…

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Why Breaking Your Submissive is Wrong - Episode 219 54:29

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We’re sharing our strong (and spicy) opinions on the all-too-common idea that Dominants should “break” their submissives. Hint: we’re not fans. We’ll dive into where this harmful mindset comes from, why it shows up in kink spaces, and the real damage it can cause. Plus, we’ll talk about what ethical, empowered D/s actually looks like—because submis…

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Electro 2 Bugaloo - Episode 218 1:00:49

8M ago1:00:49

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We’re turning up the voltage and diving deeper into electro play! Dara’s absolutely buzzing to explore the three electrifying styles—sensual, sadistic, and sexual—and share how each one charges up your scenes in totally different ways. From teasing tingles to shocking surprises to hands-free O’s, we’re breaking it all down with new tips, tools, and…

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Let's Talk Watersports - Episode 217 54:23

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It’s time to get wet and wild—literally. In this episode (affectionately known as The Wetpisode), we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and controversial kinks out there: watersports. This is a topic that brings out very strong opinions, and we get it—it’s not for everyone. But that’s exactly why it deserves a closer look. We explore the …

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Kink in the Headlines - Episode 216 59:27

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We're back with another fan-favorite In The News episode, and this one is packed with deliciously kinky chaos. From a steamy music video dripping in BDSM visuals to articles diving into DD/lg dynamics, modern vampirism, and the age-old question—why are people so horny for monsters? We’ve got thoughts, opinions, and our usual blend of education and …

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Building Your Dominant Toolbox - Episode 215 1:04:01

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Dominance isn’t just about giving orders—it’s about leading with skill, intention, and heart. In this episode, we’re unpacking the essential tools every Dom should have, like clear communication, creative scene planning, emotional awareness, and the ability to check your ego when it matters most. Packed with real talk, personal stories, and plenty …

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Safe is a Four Letter Word - Episode 214 1:02:42

9M ago1:02:42

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BDSM is built on trust, knowledge, and negotiation—but it can never be 100% risk-free. In this episode, we explore why the word “safe” is misleading in kink, and why relying on it can create a false sense of security. We’ll dive into better frameworks like RACK and PRICK, share real-life examples of scenes where things went wrong despite being “saf…

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Embracing Your Little Side Without a Caregiver - Episode 213 1:03:15

9M ago1:03:15

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Just because you don’t have a caregiver doesn’t mean you have to put your little side in time-out! In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to explore, nurture, and fully enjoy your little space—even when you’re flying solo. Whether you're between dynamics, intentionally unpartnered, or just figuring things out, we’ll share tips, activities…

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Non-Consensual BDSM Doesn’t Exist - Episode 212 1:09:21

9M ago1:09:21

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In this episode, we’re tackling a phrase that makes our skin crawl: “non-consensual BDSM.” Spoiler alert—it’s not a thing. If it’s non-consensual, it’s not BDSM... it’s abuse. Full stop. Join us as we rant (with love), laugh through the frustration, and break down why this term is harmful, how predators use vague language to justify consent violati…

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Exploring More Niche Kinks - Episode 211 1:00:31

9M ago1:00:31

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Kink is a vast and fascinating world, and sometimes, the most unexpected things can spark desire. In this episode, we’re diving into the wonderful realm of niche kinks—those unique, specific turn-ons that don’t always get the spotlight. From the allure of beards to the thrill of shaving play, we explore the sensory delights, psychological appeal, a…

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Inside Studio 58 Naughty Conventions - Episode 210 1:00:04

10M ago1:00:04

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Get ready, folx, because we’re diving into the world of Studio 58 and their incredible Naughty conventions! In this episode, we sit down with JP, the mastermind behind Studio 58 and the Naughty series of events, to talk about how it all began, what drives their passion for creating these unique spaces, and what attendees can expect. We also get the…

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Return to the Kinky Depths of Reddit - Episode 209 1:00:04

10M ago1:00:04

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We’re diving back into the wild, weird, and sometimes downright unhinged world of Reddit! From questionable advice to jaw-dropping confessions, we’re revisiting some of the best (and worst) BDSM-related posts we could find. Join us as we react, rant, and maybe even offer some much-needed education—because let’s be real, Reddit can be a lawless plac…

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The Submissive’s Toolbox: Episode 208 55:59

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Submission isn’t just about obedience—it’s about building the skills that make you a confident, capable, and thriving submissive. In this episode, we’re diving into The Submissive’s Toolbox—a collection of practical and emotional tools that help bridge the gap between intention and action. From communication and time management to resilience and se…

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Dominant Littles - Episode 207 1:01:25

10M ago1:01:25

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What if everything you thought you knew about Littles in BDSM was wrong? You’ve probably heard that Littles are always submissive, playful, and eager to obey—but what if some of them prefer to take charge? In this episode, we’re diving into the world of Dominant Littles—yes, they exist!—and exploring how power, play, and authority can blend in ways…

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Thriving in BDSM as an Introvert - Episode 206 1:04:00

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Being an introvert in the BDSM community can feel like showing up to a dungeon party without a safeword—but fear not! In this episode, we explore what it really means to be an introvert in kink, bust some common myths, and highlight how introverts can thrive in BDSM dynamics. From finding your space in the scene to navigating munches without meltin…

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Unlocking Your Dominant Archetype - Episode 205 1:04:28

11M ago1:04:28

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Discover how understanding your Dominant archetype can deepen your self-awareness, enhance your dynamics, and boost your confidence. This episode breaks down common Dominant archetypes like the Caregiver, Ruler, Protector, Master/Mistress, Bratty Dom, and Pleasure Dom, highlighting their motivations, challenges, and ways to thrive. Learn how to int…

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Exploring Your Submissive Archetype - Episode 204 1:02:20

11M ago1:02:20

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Not all submissives are the same—everyone has their own style, needs, and desires when it comes to power exchange. In this episode, we explore different submissive archetypes and how understanding yours can help you build stronger dynamics and deeper connections. Are you a service sub who finds joy in acts of devotion? A brat who thrives on playful…

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Demystifying CBT - Episode 203 1:01:32

11M ago1:01:32

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Let's face it - the name 'Cock and Ball Torture' (CBT) can make even seasoned kinksters cringe a little. But this misunderstood kink isn't all about extreme pain or wild stunts. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths and tackling common misconceptions surrounding CBT. We discuss beginner-friendly techniques and explore how CBT can deepen em…

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Embracing Sadism - Episode 202 1:04:03

11M ago1:04:03

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We dive into what it means to embrace your inner sadist. We talk about the different types of sadism—physical, mental, emotional, and more—and how they can bring intensity and excitement to your BDSM play. We also get real about the struggles that come with accepting this side of yourself, like dealing with guilt or fear of judgment. But don’t worr…

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Coloring, Crafting & Creativity - Episode 201 1:00:17

12M ago1:00:17

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Welcome to the first episode of our newest series, dedicated to topics all about Littles! In this series, we’ll explore everything that makes being a Little special, with episodes focusing on the joys, challenges, and unique experiences of life in Little space. In this episode, we’re diving into why coloring and crafting are such beloved activities…