Best Phoebe Swinger Podcasts (2025)

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Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?) 35:22

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8d ago35:22

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoeb…

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You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters) 1:05:19

1M ago1:05:19

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-…

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The One Chemical Behind Chocolate, Swinging, and Addiction 1:03:55

1M ago1:03:55

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party? This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to wal…

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Does My Hobby Offend Your Lifestyle? 26:49

2M ago26:49

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Is swinging just a lighthearted hobby… or a defining lifestyle choice? In this episode of our swinger lifestyle podcast, we dive into the hobby vs lifestyle debate that’s sparking conversations across the swinger community and beyond. We explore why some couples …

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The Controversy of Reclaiming: Hot Ritual or Problematic Possession in Swinging 35:55

3M ago35:55

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Is "reclaiming" in the swinging lifestyle sexy ritual or possessive play? Ed and Phoebe unpack this controversial term, sharing their real experiences and perspectives from within the community. In this episode, we cover: The origins and controversy around the te…

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STI Myths Busted The Naked Truth About STI Testing & Safer Sex 42:06

3M ago42:06

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Get real answers to burning questions about STI safety in the swinging lifestyle. Ed and Phoebe break down common myths, honest risks, and practical tips for safer sex at parties, events, and orgies. Why standard STI tests and "full panels" don't cover everything…

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Breaking Stereotypes: Age, Body Type, and Preferences in the Swinger Community 57:52

4M ago57:52

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Curious about what diversity really means in the swinger lifestyle? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe break down the surprising variety you’ll find—and why it’s not what you might expect. The wide range of body types, ages, and preferences within swinger communities…

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Top Signs You Might Be With the Wrong Couple! 40:48

4M ago40:48

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what red flags you should watch for in the swinging lifestyle? In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into real-life stories of dates gone wrong, rude behavior, mismatched expectations, and questionable consent. From couples …

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5 Tips That Made Swinging Work For Us 25:18

5M ago25:18

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show Want More? 👀 Watch on YouTube…

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Does your swinger card expire? 52:42

7M ago52:42

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your de…

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How a Random Podcast Changed Our Marriage Forever! - Our First Swinger Experience 34:40

8M ago34:40

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and compl…

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Unlocking the Swinger Lifestyle: No Experience Required! 40:32

8M ago40:32

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties …

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Is Swinging at Risk? The Political Fight for Non-Monogamy Rights 1:08:40

8M ago1:08:40

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Ex…

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ED, Performance Anxiety & Swinging – The Secrets No One Talks About 48:16

9M ago48:16

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep i…

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America’s Sex Ed Problem: Alex Liu Tells All in "A Sexplanation" 1:11:43

9M ago1:11:43

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from mole…

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Alcohol and Cancer Risk: What Every Swinger Should Know 35:29

10M ago35:29

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and w…

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We Threw Out All Our Rules - But How Did You Feel? 48:35

10M ago48:35

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection t…

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Navigate New Relationship Energy NRE - Without Breaking your Marriage! 41:05

10M ago41:05

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs an…

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Unlock Your Best Sex Life with Ashley Manta - Mindfulness, Cannabis, and Consent 1:19:07

11M ago1:19:07

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of c…

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Flirting Masterclass: How to Approach, Connect, & Seal the Deal in Any Dating Situation 37:09

11M ago37:09

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal…

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Admit You're DTF - It's Okay, We Understand! 44:18

12M ago44:18

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the life…

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Kissing and Telling: Is Sharing Sexy Stories Ever Okay? 35:05

1y ago35:05

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations,…

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We threw out all our rules - Our first full-swap swinger experience 31:26

1y ago31:26

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters…

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Why Swingers Face Judgment: Unpacking Society’s Need to Impose Beliefs 41:23

1y ago41:23

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the var…

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Casual Sex Sucks - But could it be better? 35:48

1y ago35:48

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community. 💬 Discover how the quality of sex can vary, why many encounters leave you wanting more, and how you can enhance your intimate experi…

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Swingers are rule-breakers - Which rules are ok to break? 27:11

1y ago27:11

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, hosts Ed and Phoebe tackle the provocative idea that swingers are "rule breakers" in society's eyes. They explore how the swinger lifestyle challenges traditional norms around relationships and sexuality, pushing…

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5 Tips for Better Swinger Event Experiences 16:37

1+ y ago16:37

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Maximize Your Fun at Swinger Events with These 5 Essential Tips! 🎉 Welcome to another insightful episode of Swinger University! Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they share their top five tips for creating unforgettable experiences at swinging events. Whether you're a …

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How Bad is Social Media For Your Swing Game? 21:45

1+ y ago21:45

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Join Phoebe and Ed as they escape to the mountains for a candid discussion on the impact of social media on both regular and Swinger lives. This episode explores the addictive nature of social media, its effects on mental health, and how it shapes our self-esteem…

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Hedonism Review - Part 1 First Impressions on Day 1 10:46

1+ y ago10:46

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to Jamaica! Join us for an in-depth look at our first visit to the infamous Hedo II resort. From the moment we arrived, we were captivated by the vibrant atmosphere, the welcoming crowd, and the array of activities that make this place truly unique. In th…

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Hedonism Review - Part 2 Sexy Fun and Chocolate 12:49

1+ y ago12:49

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to another exciting episode reviewing Hedonism in Jamaica! Join us as we dive into our second day at the beautiful Hedo Beach resort. This episode is packed with unforgettable moments, including a fun-filled jungle photoshoot, lively poolside parties, and…

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Hedonism Review - Part 3 Excursions, Fun, Hedo vs. Cruise 12:07

1+ y ago12:07

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Continuing our in-depth review during our week in Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Phoebe and I dig into some of the excursions (some of them are free too!). We take a trip on a glass bottom boat looking for Nemo and his friends. We all take a dance class to learn s…

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Hedonism Review - Part 4 Spa and Poolside Issues 11:46

1+ y ago11:46

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com It's not all fun and games in paradise. Phoebe and I discuss the challenges of pool time when trying to connect and flirt when both partners aren't right next to each other... We try out the Italian restaurant, hit the spa, and dance our butts off at a glow party…

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Hedonism Review - Part 5 Catamaran Cruise 5:47

1+ y ago5:47

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Join us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! 🌊✨ Overcoming our initial hesitations due to motion sickness, we set sail on a smooth, scenic journey along the beautiful coastline. From …

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The Pitfalls of Swinging - It's not all fun and games 25:32

1+ y ago25:32

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of dru…

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The Dirty Side of the Swinging Business 27:41

1+ y ago27:41

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Do you love your community and want more events? Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are. We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game. We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt…

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Chat Rooms Suck! - But you might love them... 48:13

1+ y ago48:13

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat…

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Why you should go on a Swinger Cruise! - Bliss Cruise 18:37

1+ y ago18:37

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out! Interested in Booking…

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We're Back! 20:01

1+ y ago20:01

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversity Wonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want …

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Breaking Free from the Pink Box: Challenging Society's Beauty Standards 17:18

2y ago17:18

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, includi…

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Dreaming in Ecstasy: The Fascinating World of Nocturnal Female Orgasms 16:19

2y ago16:19

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨ 🛌 In this episode, the hosts …

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Taking One for the Team - Do You Compromise? 31:15

2y ago31:15

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide s…

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Swinger Lifestyle Exposed: 10 Things That Suck about the Lifestyle 21:20

2y ago21:20

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable…

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30 Days in a Cage - The LOCKtober Challenge 42:48

2y ago42:48

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in L…

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Folsom Street Fair: A Liberating Experience 25:54

2y ago25:54

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sexual liberation and openness, where self-expression knows no bounds. From public displays of…

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Gossip and Bullying in the lifestyle - What should you do? 27:47

2y ago27:47

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Learn about the nuances of good and bad gossip, how to handle negativity and bullying, and di…

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Testosterone Replacement - Are You Sure It's Good for You? 29:09

2y ago29:09

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com As we've matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women's issues in a previous episode about hormone replacement for Women. Gentlemen, today it's your turn to get the low down on low Testosterone.…

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Testosterone therapy for women. Is it safe for you? 31:12

2y ago31:12

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as celebrity endorsements. The claims associated with this therapy are numerous, rang…

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Is Bioidentical Hormone Replacement (BHRT) Right for You? 32:17

2+ y ago32:17

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Menopause is a phase in a woman's life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mass, fat distribution, libido, mood swings, cholesterol levels, and the risk of heart diseas…

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😯 The Condom Slipped Off! How To Have "THE" Conversation 37:07

2+ y ago37:07

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off? How was it communicated to you? What was your reaction? Can you come back from this? Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our …

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Negative Swinger Reactions to the No Kissing Rule 44:17

2+ y ago44:17

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle. To shed light on the matter, we combed through a surv…