For creatives, leaders, and multi-passionate humans navigating transitions, reinvention, and the inner work of becoming. Navigate the inner work of personal transformation. Gain clarity, grounding, and permission to evolve with creative tools and honest conversation.
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Pay Attention is a podcast dedicated to a journey from the chaos of the mind to the clarity of the open heart. As a seasoned architect turned teacher and spiritual guide, Holly McNeill spent two decades while working full time and as a single mom exploring neuroscience, psychology, Buddhism, and spirituality all to uncover the transformative power of the present moment. Here you'll find practical tips and insights on how the mind works, why you get stuck, how to break free, how to create spa ...
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35: Embrace The Mess: Create The Life You Love with Marc Scheff
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38:10What if the chaos in your life was actually the beginning of something beautiful? In this inspiring conversation, host Holly McNeill sits down with artist-turned-coach Marc Scheff to explore how creativity, risk-taking, and letting go can reshape the way we live and work. From leaving behind a career in tech to building a thriving art and coaching …
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40: Trusting The Intuition Within with Dr. Lenka Schulze
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41:20This week, the Mindfulness Architect, Holly McNeill is joined by Dr. Lenka Schulze, an Intuologist, Author, Educator and Spiritual Guide. Her lifelong experience, ongoing research, and ample knowledge in the area of intuition and consciousness, create a solid platform from which she invites others to view and to see life from the soul's point of vi…
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39: Why Our Inner Stories Shape Us with Rita Ernst
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36:14This week, the Mindfulness Architect, Holly McNeill is joined by Rita Ernst, the Amazon best-selling author of Show Up Positive (2022) and Culture Impact: Strategies to Create World-Changing Workplaces (2023). Forbes, MSNBC, and over 30 podcasts worldwide have featured Rita as a culture and change management expert. TAP-In Magazine named her the To…
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38: Happiness Is A Habit - Tiny Changes, Big Shifts with Michele Phillips
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31:33On this episode, the Mindfulness Architect, Holly McNeill is joined by Michele Phillips, President of Key Performance — a powerhouse in elevating happiness, excellence, and human potential in the workplace. With more than 25 years of entrepreneurial experience, Michele blends neuroscience, habit formation, and positive psychology into a refreshingl…
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37: To The Alienated, Estranged & Separated During The Holidays
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27:43This special Thanksgiving episode is a pause — a gentle breath — for anyone who feels alienated, estranged, or separated during the holidays. In one of the most personal episodes she's ever shared, Holly opens her heart and tells the story of her long, painful journey through parental alienation, estrangement, and years of fighting to stay connecte…
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36: Disrupting The Script: Awakening Beyond Autopilot with Dr. Jada Phillips
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36:57What if the pause you've been avoiding is the very thing that could change your life? In this powerful conversation, host Holly McNeill sits down with trauma therapist and coach Dr. Jada Phillips to explore what it means to step off autopilot and come back home to yourself. From working in prisons to guiding frontline workers through the pandemic, …
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How do you create when you feel empty. In this episode Tamsin and Marc share some experiences, ones that you've probably had, and how they approached the task of moving through to even more Conscious Leadership and Creativity. You can follow Tamsin here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamsin-astor/ And you can download Marc's free audio course here: h…
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This episode is a little off brand, or maybe the start of a new one. I share a story prompted by a question from my team about why I create. The answer goes back 40 years. Find and solve your life and career puzzles Free audio course. DOWNLOAD NOW https://mailchi.mp/marcscheff/inneradvisors
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34: Mindfulness Meets The Techie Brain with Adam Kobler
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34:11What happens when a tech-savvy mind takes a deep dive into mindfulness? In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Adam Kobler—leadership coach, technologist, and founder of Protagonist—to explore how meditation and awareness transformed his life and career. From his early days in management information systems to guiding t…
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33: Speaking From The Soul with Cheyenne Moore
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36:18Is self-discovery a final destination—or a story we keep rewriting? ✨ In this heartfelt episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Cheyenne Moore—author, producer, and host of Safe Space with Cheyenne—for a conversation that feels like coming home. (Fun fact: Safe Space was the very first podcast Holly ever guested on!) Cheyenne op…
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32: You're Not Crazy, You're Connected - Embracing The Paranormal
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33:05Holly's guest this Wednesday is ✨ Dr. Margaret Arnd-Caddigan ✨ A lifelong explorer of both the seen and the unseen, Margaret bridges the worlds of psychotherapy, spirituality, and the paranormal. With a PhD in social work and a master's in religious studies, she began her career studying the relationship between magic and religion—a curiosity that …
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31: Unlocking High Performance and Overcoming Trauma with Dr. Don Wood
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26:23Welcome to Pay Attention — a podcast guiding you from the chaos of the mind 🌀 to the clarity of the open heart ❤️. (broadcast every Wednesday at 10 am PST / 1 pm EST). We're going BACK TO THE ARCHIVES on this powerful episode of The Pay Attention Podcast.🌿 In this episode, host Holly McNeill welcomes Dr. Don Wood, PhD — author, speaker, and Founder…
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30: From Heartbreak to Healing: Sara Davison on Divorce, Abuse, and Reclaiming Your Power
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28:53We're going BACK TO THE ARCHIVES on this powerful episode of The Pay Attention Podcast. Host Holly McNeill sits down with Sara Davison—The Divorce Coach. A multi-award-winning coach, two-time bestselling author, and host of the Heartbreak to Happiness Podcast, Sara is also a global media voice on breakups, divorce, and domestic abuse. Together, Hol…
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Mini-Series: The Creative Habit 2.0, Part 4 of 4: adapting with authenticity
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15:31Habits aren’t forever. But if you're a creative, entrepreneur, or leader, it can be hard to adapt. In this episode we talk about how to adapt when life shifts, and why community is essential for accountability. Tamsin shares her story of reshaping routines during a crisis, and we explore cycles of change and the power of shared purpose. Join us for…
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Mini-Series: The Creative Habit 2.0, Part 3 of 4: self-leadership and bringing the full you to your creativity and leadership
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13:25Leaders can get lost in the act of service. Serving their teams and their families makes it all too easy to lose sight of YOU. This conversation is for anyone juggling creativity, business, and family while trying to stay true to themselves. We explore what self-leadership really means, how boundaries build self-trust, and why integration—being the…
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Mini-Series: The Creative Habit 2.0, Part 2 of 4: don't get the right tool, make the tool right.
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19:09Do you feel weighed down by all the “must-have” systems? It's easy to get stuck with the "right" systems, and all the "perfect" features don't... feel right. In this episode we talk about how exactly you can tailor your tools to your values, why vision and mission matter more than software, and how freedom can guide both your business and your life…
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Mini-Series: The Creative Habit 2.0, Part 1: a new view into your CRM
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15:26This episode is for creatives and entrepreneurs who want to build their business without feeling icky about sales. You’ll hear Tamsin share how she redesigned her CRM into a relationship-nourishing system, and how that shift changed the way she values her time, boundaries, and clients. If you’ve struggled with staying authentic while running a busi…
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28: From Chaos of the Mind to Clarity of the Heart
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34:36Step into a space where the noise quiets and presence takes center stage. 🎙️ Pay Attention is a weekly podcast (Wednesdays at 10am PST / 1pm EST) hosted by Holly McNeill — an architect turned teacher and spiritual guide who has spent decades weaving together neuroscience 🧠, psychology 📚, Buddhism 🪷, and spirituality 🌌. This is more than a podcast —…
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29: Rewiring Your Life with Better Habits with Dr. Tamsin Astor
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27:23What if changing your life was as simple as changing your habits? In this powerful episode, host Holly McNeill sits down with Dr. Tamsin Astor—Chief Habit Scientist, neuroscientist, yoga teacher, and Ayurvedic coach—to explore how Eastern wisdom and Western neuroscience converge to help us take back control of our minds, our behaviors, and ultimate…
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27: The Puzzle Pieces of Global Impact with Gretchen Villegas
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34:16What if the key to solving global poverty starts with truly listening? In this powerful episode, Holly McNeill sits down with Gretchen Villegas, a global development executive and "social impact architect," whose journey began as a Peace Corps volunteer in South America and led to decades of transformative work across Africa, Asia, and Latin Americ…
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26: From Rock Bottom to High-Speed Healing with Debora Wayne
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35:05What if your chronic pain isn't just physical — but deeply connected to your thoughts, emotions, and energy field? In this episode of Pay Attention, Holly McNeill sits down with Debora Wayne, founder of the International Chronic Pain Institute® and creator of the revolutionary HighSpeed Healing® method. After a spiritual awakening on her closet flo…
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25: What Your Dreams Are Trying to Tell You | Inside Holly's Dreams (Part 2)
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31:47What if recurring dreams held the key to understanding who we truly are—and what we're here to do? In this follow-up to their first conversation on dream tending, host Holly McNeill invites dream tender and therapist Valerie Johns back for a raw and revealing live dream tending session. If you've ever wondered who Holly really is beyond the mic, th…
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24: What Your Dreams Are Trying to Tell You (Part 1)
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26:05What if your dreams weren't random at all—but meaningful messages from the deepest parts of you? In this two-part episode of Pay Attention, Holly McNeill sits down with dream tender and therapist Valerie Johns for a profound, soul-stirring conversation about how your dreams can support emotional healing, personal clarity, and spiritual growth. Unli…
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23: "Hey, Wait": A Pause Practice with Jay Moon Fields
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28:25In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill chats with Jay Moon Fields, a leading educator, coach and author. She stops by the show to discuss her Hey Wait framework, which teaches people how to honor their emotional experiences and share them authentically, helping them to break free from the cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and s…
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22: Orgasm Equality — Reclaiming Pleasure, Dismantling Shame with Dr. Laurie Mintz
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28:38Following last week's conversation about trauma and body-based healing, this episode of Pay Attention moves us into the next essential layer: reclaiming pleasure. Holly sits down with Dr. Laurie Mintz—licensed psychologist, sex educator, and author of Becoming Cliterate—to explore how cultural conditioning, religious messaging, and gender norms hav…
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21: Reclaiming Intimacy: Healing the Hidden Shame of Trauma with Juliette Karaman
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27:40In this powerful episode of Pay Attention, Holly is joined by Juliette Karaman, mentor, hypnotherapist, and creator of the Touch Base method, to explore how trauma—especially sexual trauma—gets stored in the body and quietly shapes our self-worth, relationships, and sense of safety. Juliette shares her own journey of collapse and awakening, reveali…
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20: Your Soul's Secrets Are on File | Inside Holly's Akashic Records (Part 2)
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43:20In this intimate follow-up to Part 1, we open the Akashic Records—literally. This episode features Holly McNeill's actual reading with Akashic Records expert Jennifer ALLY Kern, paired with in-depth commentary that unpacks the insights as they unfold. From patterns rooted in Holly's nervous system to the energetic meaning of eye contact and creativ…
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19: Your Soul's Secrets Are on File | Akashic Records Explained (Part 1)
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27:17I'm excited to share this episode exploring the Akashic Records—an ancient concept that invites us to look at consciousness, memory, and energy through a broader lens. This conversation is part of my ongoing exploration of how science, psychology, and spirituality intersect to deepen our understanding of the mind. Have you ever felt like your life …
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18: Today's Conversation Will Change the Way You Think About Self-Doubt
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27:49What if you could finally recognize just how powerful you really are? In today's conversation, Holly McNeil sits down with empowerment coach Dana Theus to unpack the deep, often hidden narratives that fuel imposter syndrome—especially for women. From generational beliefs encoded in our very DNA to the brain's surprising loyalty to outdated programm…
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17: Speaking From the Soul with Cheyenne Moore
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32:12Is self-discovery a destination, or is it something we're constantly rewriting? In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Cheyenne Moore—author, producer, and host of the podcast Safe Space with Cheyenne (a full-circle moment, since it was the first show Holly ever guested on!). Cheyenne brings refreshing wisdom to the con…
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16: Healing Doesn't Have to Take a Lifetime with Barb Varcl Smith
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25:54What if you could heal in months what took someone else decades? This episode is for you. In this installment of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Barb Varcl Smith—Trauma Therapist, international speaker, podcaster, mentor, and educator—joining from Scotland. Barb specializes in Complex PTSD, PTSD, and the coping mechanisms that supp…
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15: Lead Like You Mean It: Jamie Diglio on Mindset, Strategy & Success
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27:27What separates a good leader from a truly great one — especially when the pressure is on? Today's episode has the answers. Holly sits down with Jamie Diglio — high-performance coach, TEDx speaker, Harvard Business School sales coach, author, and CEO — to unpack the mindset and strategy behind peak performance. Jamie shares the origin and impact of …
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14: Yoga & Mindfulness for Success With Adhana McCarthy
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28:24Do high-stakes situations leave you feeling frozen and overwhelmed? Guest Adhana McCarthy shares powerful mindfulness tools—like yoga and cognitive reframing—to help you regain clarity and confidence. As a scholar, Certified Yoga Therapist, Certified Life Coach, and Army Physician Assistant with 20 years of military service, Adhana has guided milit…
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13: Finding Clarity in the Chaos with Dr. Shahana Alibhai
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31:09Amid the chaos of your daily thoughts, what truly cuts through? One thing—Clarity. In this episode, Holly sits down with Dr. Shahana Alibhai, a TEDx speaker, best-selling author, family physician, and mental health expert. Inspired by Dr. Shahana's powerful 2019 TED Talk, Holly was drawn to her insights on embracing clarity instead of getting lost …
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12: Breaking Free from Trauma with Dr. Jenny Hughes
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29:36Why do we react to trauma the way we do—and more importantly, how can we heal? In this powerful episode, Holly sits down with Dr. Jenny Hughes, a trauma expert, licensed clinical psychologist, and author of The PTSD Recovery Workbook and Triggers to Glimmers: A Vicarious Resilience Journal and Workbook. Dr. Jenny has dedicated her career to helping…
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11: Finding Strength: Tiffany Harrington Shah on Resilience, Motherhood & Starting Over
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28:02In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly talks with her neighbor and friend, Tiffany Harrington Shah—a therapist and advocate for women, children, and mental health. Tiffany shares her journey from being a stay-at-home mom to building a career as an MFT while raising four daughters. In 2019, her family was rocked by a traumatic event caused by …
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10: Rewiring Pain: How to Understand and Manage Discomfort with Jen Uschold
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26:55In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly sits down with Jen Uschold, PT, NBHWC, CPQC—a seasoned physical therapist with over 30 years of experience specializing in pain science, mental fitness, and health coaching. As a National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach and a Fellow in Pain Science through Evidence in Motion, Jen brings a wealt…
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09: Decide to Heal: How Faith Transforms Personal Growth with Alejandra Crisafulli
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34:11In this powerful episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with award-winning Master Coach and global speaker Alejandra Crisafulli, the visionary behind the 180 Method®. With over 21 years of coaching experience and a track record of transforming thousands of lives, Alejandra shares a profound truth: personal development without a conn…
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08: Embracing Worth: Wes Woodson on Resilience, Compassion, and Mental Well-Being
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32:36In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill returns to sunny California for an inspiring conversation with Wes Woodson. Holly first met Wes at the APCA Conference in Lincolnshire, Illinois, where they both took the stage as speakers. She was immediately struck by his authenticity, resilience, and unwavering positivity—especially given the …
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07: Building Resilience and Thriving Through Adversity with Dr. Kate Lund
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25:51On this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, host Holly sits down with Dr. Kate Lund—an inspiring author, keynote speaker, and licensed clinical psychologist known for helping people of all ages build resilience and thrive through life's challenges. With specialized training from Harvard Medical School-affiliated hospitals, Dr. Lund shares her uni…
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06: From Victim to INVINCIBLE: Meet Vince Bellito
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36:34In this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, host Holly sits down with Vince Bellitto, a trauma-informed coach dedicated to empowering new and aspiring coaches and healers. Vince shares his transformative journey from a past marked by crime, violence, and drug dealing to a life of purpose, inspired by a profound self-realization event in 2000. Thi…
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05: A Quick Check In with Holly: Finding Connection in a Divided World
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13:27In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill reflects on her personal journey, from transitioning out of her architecture career to creating a community centered around mindfulness. She shares how these experiences led her to contemplate the importance of connection in a world increasingly divided, touching on the challenges of her separati…
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04: Unlocking High Performance and Overcoming Trauma with Dr. Don Wood
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26:53In this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, host Holly is joined by Dr. Don Wood, a PhD, author, speaker, and the Founder & CEO of the Inspired Performance Institute. Don is also the creator of the groundbreaking TIPP method (Trauma Informed Performance Psychology), a neuroscience-backed approach designed to help individuals overcome trauma, stre…
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03: Moving Through Divorce with Grace: Thriving Before, During, and After with The Divorce Coach, Sara Davison
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29:18In this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, host Holly delves into the challenging topic of divorce with Sara Davison, famously known as The Divorce Coach. Sara, a multi-award-winning coach, two-time bestselling author, and host of the Heartbreak to Happiness podcast, shares insights drawn from her own painful split and her work as a global media…
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In this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, host Holly shares her transformative journey from architect to podcast host, revealing timeless wisdom that has shaped her path. She introduces essential truths inspired by ancient teachings and modern thinkers, including the idea that we are observers of our thoughts, emotions, and habits rather than b…
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01: Breaking Free from the Quarter-Life Crash
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21:36In this episode of The Pay Attention Podcast, Holly shares her powerful, 20+ year journey to self-awareness and living life to the fullest. She dives into the concept of the "quarter-life crash," a common experience for nearly 75% of people in their late 20s to early 30s—a period often marked by anxiety, disillusionment, and doubts about career, li…
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Change Happens Quick And Slow With Rebecca Guay
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28:26Rebecca Guay is that rare combination of kindness and compassion along with an absolute burning focus that has launched her through many transformations in her art career. In this episode, she shares how change happens in both quick and slow ways, offering valuable insights into navigating transitions with intention. Whether you're an artist, entre…
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Pathways Into Self-Discovery With Coach Diamond Drip
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37:07Ever feel like you're living a life out of alignment with your true self? Coach Diamond Drip, a self-proclaimed "spiritual skeptic," shares her incredible journey of self-discovery through Human Design and Gene Keys. From a life-changing ketamine trial to navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship and motherhood, Diamond reveals how these tools …
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Practice Vs Pursuit With Cody Christensen (BJJ Black Belt)
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36:34In today's episode, we explore the concept of practice vs pursuit with one of MY teachers and learn how the road to mastery has transformed his life. Cody Christensen was an absolute lifesaver for me during COVID. When COVID hit, I had to stop training jiu-jitsu. Cody put together a small group of folks who all trained hard (and played it safe). We…
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Sometimes bravery means holding on but daring means letting go to create something new. This episode’s guest shows us how she moved from brave to daring. Community-building dynamo Bri Leever unpacks the difference between bravery and daring in the context of making big life changes. While bravery is about facing adversity and enduring tough times, …
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