Welcome to the podcast where it’s time to talk about talk therapy. Meet Maddy and Jennifer, two NYC-based licensed therapists who have swapped the couch for the mic to offer listeners a weekly glimpse into life from a clinician’s perspective. As founders of their own therapy practices—Maddy of Downtown Behavioral Wellness and Jennifer of Manhattan Wellness—both help hundreds of clients each week. Now, they sit down to share stories and insights about the multitude of highs and lows faced in ...
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she persisted | mental health, self-care, psychology, gen z, dbt, depression, anxiety, healing
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gen z talks about mental health more than any generation before—but most of what we hear online is incomplete, unproven, or impractical. she persisted bridges that gap. hosted by sadie sutton, a 22-year-old upenn psychology grad who’s lived the struggle and now studies the science, each episode turns proven psychology and personal insight into clear, relatable steps—making mental health make sense. subscribe for weekly episodes & monday minis! @shepersistedpodcast [email protected] ...
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239. why dbt hits different (it literally saved my life) feat. dr. maddy ellberger
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44:04#239 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! what sets dbt apart + is it actually effective?! today’s guest is dr. maddy ellberger— the founder of downtown behavioral wellness, a therapeutic practice that utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (cbt), dialectical behavior therapy (dbt), and mindfulness-based…
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241. why you feel RESENTFUL (& how to stop)
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23:55#241 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! here’s the truth: you cannot resent someone for a need you’ve never communicated. but most of our day-to-day frustration comes from exactly that — unspoken expectations, misunderstood triggers, and assumptions we never check. in this solo episode, i walk you thr…
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This week, Jen and Maddy are diving into the full experience of pregnancy -- from the early weeks of simply trying to survive to the big identity shifts that comes with this new chapter. They get into the body changes, mood swings, comparison traps, and the moments that feel overwhelming. Plus, they talk about what real support from partners and fr…
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240. why you keep choosing the wrong people (and how to stop) with dr. molly burrets
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48:29#240 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! what’s really stopping you from finding love??! today’s guest is dr. molly burrets— a clinical psychologist and adjunct professor in the department of marriage and family Therapy at the university of southern california. her areas of expertise include couples th…
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mini: reverse engineer your life for SUCCESS in just 5 mins!
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5:57welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is dr. angela duckworth– the rosa lee and egbert chang professor at the university of pennsylvania and faculty co-director of the penn-wharton behavior change for good initiative…
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are we… owning what we really want (aka a real relationship)?
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30:00Today, Jen and Maddy are digging into something they see all the time in their practices... the quiet pressure of never having been in a “real” relationship and why so many people find themselves stuck in situationships instead of something solid. They unpack the shame, the swipe-culture perfectionism, and the fear of labels —plus how to tell when …
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238. i asked 9 experts how to heal from anxiety (what you NEED to know)
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34:21#238 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! what’s causing your anxiety and how can you heal?!! today’s episode is a mental health mashup featuring expert advice from some of my favorite she persisted guests. i’ve compiled the most insightful tips and quotes from past episodes into your ultimate guide on …
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are we... letting our anxiety run our lives?
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29:01Today, Jen and Maddy are talking about anxiety... how it impacts your thoughts, your body, and your ability to show up in your life. From spiraling about the future to replaying conversations on a loop, Jen and Maddy break down why anxiety shows up the way it does and how to stop letting it take the lead. They explore the patterns, comparison traps…
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mini: a dbt crash course– everything you need to know about this therapy in 5 mins!
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5:56welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s episode is a solo where i break down where dialectical behavior therapy (dbt) came from + how it can help transform your mental health! to listen to the full episode, click HERE! …
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Today, Jen and Maddy get real about breaking up with New York City. Jen (now suburban and serene) and Maddy (still clinging to city chaos) unpack how money, identity, and timing shape the decision to leave ... and what happens when change feels like giving up. Key Topics: When your zip code becomes part of your identity How to know it’s time for a …
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237. can gen z actually make change? let’s talk burnout, hope, + leadership feat. amanda litman
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33:51#237 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! how gen z can lead with hope (even when it feels impossible)? today’s guest is amanda litman— the co-founder and president of run for something, a nonprofit organization that recruits and supports young leaders to run for state and local office. she has written …
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are we... catching up, cracking up, and getting spooked?
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33:30Happy Halloween! Today, Jen and Maddy are giving you some candy — a catch-up episode! They’re talking hobbies that have gone by the wayside, finding tiny joys, and why we need to let our kids wave their freak flag loud and proud. Plus, they’re answering listener questions about everything from dating someone who has kids to knowing when it might be…
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mini: a day in the life in mental health residential treatment?!!
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5:56welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is eileen kelly– a sex and dating writer for vogue magazine and host of the podcast going mental. in this mini-episode, we discuss what daily life can look like while receiving r…
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236. the 🦋 BUTTERFLY EFFECT of mental health?!
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29:38#236 🍿 watch on spotify & youtube 💌 ask me a question or leave feedback on the podcast! how can you break unhealthy cycles for GOOD?! in this week’s solo episode, i’m sharing the butterfly effect of mental health. i’m breaking down how your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are all connected and the one simple step you can take to change your most …
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Today, Jen and Maddy get real about self-care overload. From $800 facials to 20,000-step goals, the wellness world is louder (and more expensive) than ever. Maddy and Jen dig into what happens when “taking care of ourselves” becomes another pressure, another performance, and even another personality. Key Topics: The difference between self-care and…
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are we... protecting our peace or just avoiding the mess?
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33:48In today's episode Jen and Maddy get real about “cutout culture." The growing trend of cutting people off in the name of boundaries and peace. From friendships that fade to relationships that end abruptly, they unpack what’s healthy self-protection and what’s emotional avoidance. Through personal stories, therapy insights, and listener questions, t…
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mini: what your fav taylor swift song says about you (mental health edition)
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5:51welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is amanda e. white– a licensed therapist, author, creator of the popular instagram account @therapyforwomen, the host of the recovered-ish podcast. in this mini-episode, we revea…
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235. society is shaping women’s core beliefs… so let’s rewire them feat. kara loewentheil
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43:34#235 today’s guest is kara loewentheil—a nyt bestselling author, ivy league women’s rights lawyer turned master feminist coach, practical philosopher, and the founder of the new school of feminist thought. she also hosts a top-rated podcast, unf*ck your brain, and started her own coaching program designed to help you live life on your own terms. in…
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What happens when the honeymoon phase fades and real life takes over? Jen and Maddy get candid about losing the spark in a relationship, spotting the signs early, and reigniting connection when things start to feel… routine. From mental load and communication to intimacy and independence, they’re breaking down what it actually takes to keep love al…
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234. what taylor swift says about mental health (a psych grad UNPACKS her best lyrics, quotes, + more!)
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are we... catching flights, tossing our $$$ skincare, and telling all?
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42:10The gals are back with a catch-up episode filled with life updates, new obsessions, and candid confessions!! Jen shares her big news (spoiler: she’s pregnant again!) while Maddy is catching flights, leaning into a fresh outlook on dating, and calling in her favorite professional organizers (again) to get her life in order. They close the episode by…
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233. wilderness therapy doesn’t work… so why are we still sending our kids??! feat. dr. will dobud
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56:42#233 today’s guest is dr. will dobud— a social worker, researcher, and educator who has worked with adolescents and families in the united states, australia, and norway. he is dedicated to improving adolescent therapy outcomes and promoting safe, ethical practices and is an advocate for youth impacted by america’s troubled teen industry. in this ep…
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From career burnout to the pressure of finding fulfillment in your job, the gals break down what it really means to spend 90,000 hours of your life at work and what to do if every one of those hours feels like torture. They unpack why it’s okay if your job isn’t your passion, the freedom that comes from separating work from identity, and how hobbie…
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232. your school friends matter… here’s why & how to make them
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37:21#232 in this week’s solo episode, i’m explaining why your friendships in school matter a lot more than you think! in this episode dedicated to the psychology of school friendships, i’m answering important questions including: is the quality or quantity of your friendships more important? how do your school friends affect your grades and even your f…
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Season three is here (!!) and the gals are back and better than ever. After a summer of spontaneous trips, parenting chaos, and the occasional existential crisis, Jen and Maddy are diving headfirst into one of their favorite dating topics: the chase. Why is it that sometimes not being wanted feels more exciting than actually being wanted? From the …
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231. gen z mental health: is it really that bad?? - a pediatrician’s take feat. dr. ken ginsburg
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30:37#231 today’s guest is dr. ken ginsburg— a pediatrician specializing in adolescent medicine at the children’s hospital of philadelphia and a professor of pediatrics at the university of pennsylvania school of medicine. his research over the last 35 years has focused on facilitating youth to develop their own solutions to social problems and teaching…
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welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is michele rosenthal– an award-winning trauma/PTSD blogger, award-nominated author and keynote speaker. in this mini-episode, you'll learn the number one thing you need to know a…
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230. a mental health plan you can actually follow
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42:26#230 in this week’s solo episode, i’m breaking down some of my favorite mental health frameworks to improve your mental health. one of the biggest mental health challenges is figuring out exactly where to start and what steps to take when you’re really struggling. this episode will be your guide to figuring out what order of operations you can use …
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229. why you’re struggling in college (& what to do) feat. dr. jessi gold
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46:31#229 today’s guest is dr. jessi gold— a nationally recognized psychiatrist, writer, and speaker specializing in mental health care for students, faculty, healthcare professionals, and others in high-stress professions. she is the inaugural chief wellness officer for the university of tennessee system and an associate professor of psychiatry at the …
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mini: master your COLLEGE ROUTINE in just five mins!
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5:46welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s episode is a solo episode on creating a college routine that works for you. in this mini-episode, you'll learn my favorite tips and life hacks on maintaining your mental health in coll…
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228. dr. angela duckworth on how to be gritty + set yourself up for SUCCESS!
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51:22#228 today’s guest is dr. angela duckworth— the rosa lee and egbert chang professor at the university of pennsylvania and faculty co-director of the penn-wharton behavior change for good initiative. a 2013 macarthur fellow, angela has advised the world bank, nba and nfl teams, and fortune 500 ceos. in this episode, we break down the psychology behi…
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