Best Lady Petra and SafferMaster Podcasts (2025)

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Sex at Dawn: Ch 5. Part 2: Lust in Paradise (Solitary) 11:11

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 5 of “Sex at Dawn”, Lust in Paradise (solitary) over a Perfect Martini. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarri…

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The War on the Trans Community Escalates 11:16

4d ago11:16

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Send us a text IN this episode, Saffermaster reads the SubStak article from reporter Ken Klippenstein titled "FBI Readies New War on Trans People" over a Poet's Dream Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Marr…

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Sex at Dawn Ch 4: The Ape in the Mirror 31:45

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “The Ape in the Mirror, Chapter 4 of “Sex at Dawn” over a Cherry Vesper. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can ord…

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"The Accused" - Movie Review 31:42

9d ago31:42

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster review the movie “The Accused” over a Dry Gin Martini. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where he…

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“Cruising” - Movie Review 44:53

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Cruising” the 1980 movie about the NY gay club scene staring Al Pacino and Cheryl Allen over a dram of Macullum 12 Single Malt Scotch Whisky. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny pu…

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Miss Sternmore - Disciplinarian 30:04

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with British Disciplinarian Miss Sternmore over a Scratch Margarita. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the …

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Puppetry of the Penis by Fraser 22:17

16d ago22:17

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Send us a text In this hilarious episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with video porn artist Fraser about his new project bringing his penis, Beau Delacroix, to the stage over a Gibson. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https…

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King Balthazar - The King of Cats 37:50

21d ago37:50

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Send us a text In this episode. Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with King Balthazar, the King of Cats about his journey and his preference for super intense Sado Masochism over a La Louisiane. You can find King Balthazar on Blue Sky @phoenixandkitten.bsky.social or on fetlife @KingBalthazar The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, …

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Sex At Dawn Ch 3 A Closer Look at the Standard Narrative 12:56

25d ago12:56

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petraxand Saffermaster discuss Chapter 3 of Sex at Dawn, A Closer Look at the Stabdard Narrative of Human Sexual Evolurion over a Negroni. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/…

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Extreme Bondage Concepts with Terri Sulliven 39:39

28d ago39:39

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss extreme Bondage Concepts with Terri Sulliven over a dram of Bruichladdich "The Classic Laddie Scottish Barley" Nonpeated Islay Single Malt Scotch Whiskey. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your M…

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The Mind of a Masochist 31:55

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster chat with Alicia, who is a long time masochist into intense scenes, about her experience being a masochist over a Cuban Old Fashioned. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the …

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Sex At Dawn Ch2 What Darwin Didn’t Know About Sex 9:28

1M ago9:28

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Send us a text I’m n this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Ch1. Part 2 of Sex at Dawn, What Darwin Didn’t Know about Sex, and The Flintonization of Prehistory over a Vodka Martini. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: htt…

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Forced Orgasms, Ruined Orgasms and Orgasms in Chastity 41:27

1M ago41:27

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with MelancholyGhost and her submissive, Chia, about Forced Orgasms, Ruined Orgasms and Orgasms in Chastity over the Roycroft. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the cod…

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Tom Cat O’Nine Lives 34:27

1M ago34:27

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with long time kinkster Tom Cat O’Nine Lives over a Vesper. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing,…

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Sex at Dawn: Part 1 Remember the Yukatan 28:49

1M ago28:49

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Send us a text In this episode, lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss part one of Sex at Dawn, Remember the Yukatan over a Boulevardier. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the…

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Caning the Dex Way 57:40

1M ago57:40

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about canes, rods and caning technique and strategy over a Kir Royale The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can …

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Female Sounding 46:59

2M ago46:59

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss female sounding with FistHer over Jell-O and Fireball shots. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechR…

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Sex at Dawn: Introduction 28:49

2M ago28:49

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the introduction to the book over a Boulevardier. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where…

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Part 2: Consent/Non-Consent 51:26

2M ago51:26

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster continue their conversation with Pro Dom David Hunter on the topic of CNC in relationship to power Exchange dynamics over a cocktail called Army and Navy. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunn…

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Consent/Non-Consent or CNC 50:55

2M ago50:55

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with our late friend, Pro Dom David Hunter, about consent/non-consent dynamics over a Ford Cocktail The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Mo…

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Jess Garcia: Dating Coach 30:43

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Peyra and Saffermaster chat with dating coach Jess Garcia about her journey and approach to coaching people searching for a relationship, over a Gin and Campari appetitivo. You can reach out to Jess at [email protected] The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on t…

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The Lifestyle Bed 39:50

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about the benefits of the construction of the lifestyle bed over a perfect martini. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunn…

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Breath Play, Knife Play and Power Dynamics 45:22

2M ago45:22

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss Breath Play, KnIfe Play and Power Dynamics with Dutch Kinkster Bas over Sex in a Cage (a.k.a. Tuxedo). The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND…

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Kinky Book Club: Sex At Dawn: Preface 11:53

2M ago11:53

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the preface of Sex at Dawn over a Vesper. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podu…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra: Part 7 Conclusion 41:21

2M ago41:21

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss part 7 of the Kama Sutra, Of the Ways of Exciting Desire and Miscellaneous Experiments and Recipes, and the concluding remarks over a Gin and Tonic. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbu…

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Edge Play 13: Kink on the Road 46:34

2M ago46:34

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Edge Play on the road over a Naughty Seven The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechR…

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The Crows Nest Escape Kink & Cocktails LIVE event! 39:02

3M ago39:02

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster do a live recording session at The Little Red Day Spa, for the Kink and Cocktails event in partnership with The Crow's Nest Escape, over a Scratch Margarita. Guests include Michael de Crow, of the Crows Nest Escape www.thecrowsnestescape.com/ Saint Jin - Pro Domme https://www.saintjin.com …

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Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 7: Attracting Others to You 29:52

3M ago29:52

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 7 of the Kama Sutra, About the Means of Attracting Others to Yourself over a Paloma. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunn…

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Edge Play Part 12: Managing Group Kink Scenes 41:40

3M ago41:40

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Part 12 of the Edge Play Series, Managing group kink scenes over a Gin Punte. Hard Married is now available, here is the link to the book: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on t…

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Notes From the Rabbit Hole: Sexploration 33:07

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat about the recent happenings and in their relationship over a Vesper Hard Married is now available, here is the link to the book: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on yo…

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Edge Play Part 11: Knife Play 38:10

3M ago38:10

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Knife Play in the 11th part of the Edge Play Series over a Blue Reviver. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbun…

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Ichigo Ichie 28:05

3M ago28:05

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster discuss the Japanese symbol Ichigo Ichie, a Japanese four-character idiom that describes a cultural concept of treasuring the unrepeatable nature of a moment over a Sneaky Grapefruit Spritzer (a.k.a. Deep Eddy Ruby Red Grapefruit Vodka Spritzer). The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you b…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra, Ch 6 on the Exhange 26:11

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of the Courtesan section discussing how a courtesan negotiates for her services over a Moscow Mule The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETR…

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Edge Play Part 10: Squirting 47:43

3M ago47:43

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez, an RN, about squirting over an Alabama Slammer. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechR…

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Domenica’s Toy 42:58

3M ago42:58

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Samantha, AKA Domenica’s Toy, about gender fluidity, kink and more over a Moscow Mule. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny…

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Edge Play Part 9: Sensory Deprivation 52:05

3M ago52:05

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Sensory Deprivation for Part 9 of the Edge Play serous over a Sherman The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra part 6 Different Kinds of Gain 19:44

3M ago19:44

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the different types of gain that courtesans earn over a Perfect Martini Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarr…

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A Conversation with Shannon Wong 32:25

4M ago32:25

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with intimacy educator, performer, and advocate for ethical non-monogamy, Shannon Wong, about her journey and her Off Broadway Show 'Soulmate' over a Sexual Awakening. TIckets for the show, which plays through June are available on Telecharge.com The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to …

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Edge Play: Part 8: Orgasm Denial and Ruined Orgasms 48:52

4M ago48:52

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez who presents Part 8 of the Edge Play series in a conversation about orgasm denial and ruined orgasms over a Commodore 64. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase wi…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra: part 6 On Courtesans Getting Back With Former Lovers 30:13

4M ago30:13

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the section on teaching courtesans how to assess and choose which former lovers to get together with over a Vodka Martini. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with…

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Edge Play Part 7: Fisting 43:02

4M ago43:02

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez who presents Part 7 of her Edge Play Series in a conversation about fisting over a Rittenhouse Rye. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAP…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 6: About the Courtesans conclusion 38:14

4M ago38:14

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster read and discuss the conclusion of the section on Courtesans over Sexual Awakening. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can …

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Edge Play Part 6 - Interrogation Play 45:09

4M ago45:09

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about interrogation play for Part 6 of the Edge Play series over a Sazerac. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.…

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Living the FemDom Life 43:49

4M ago43:49

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the reality of living the Fem Dom life as married couples over a Margarita. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can …

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Exploring The Kama Sutra: Ch 6 About Courtesans pt 2 22:46

4M ago22:46

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the conclusion of the chapter on Courtesans over a Green Fairy. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on…

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Edge Play Part 5 - Cigar Play 38:06

4M ago38:06

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez about Cigar Play over a Guinness Stout. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Whe…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra ch 6 About Courtesans 31:24

4M ago31:24

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Part 6 About Courtesans over a Negroni. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health me…

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“The Whole Rest of the Boy” 53:30

4M ago53:30

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Send us a text In this episode Lady Petra and Miss Pearl chat about FemDom and the “Whole Rest of the Boy” over an Old Toronto. Read her piece here https://www.omisspearl.com/nonfiction/femdom-the-whole-rest-of-the-boy/ The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Moto…

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Edge Play Part 4: Piss Play 42:26

5M ago42:26

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Domme Jez in our fourth episode in the Edge Play series, this time about Piss Play aka Watersports, over a Bijou 4. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADY…

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Exploring the Kama Sutra Part 2 About the Women of the Royal Harem 15:48

5M ago15:48

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Send us a text In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the second part of the chapter “About the Women of the King’s Harem” over a Mint Julip. Support the show Hard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit H…

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