Best Jonathon Aslay Podcasts (2025)

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Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success

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Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name. With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual…

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A Thanksgiving Meditation - You Have Always Had What You Need 4:32

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Happy Thanksgiving, friends. Today’s episode is a gentle reminder rooted in one simple truth: you have always had all you need. This guided Thanksgiving meditation is an invitation to slow down, breathe deeply, and reconnect with the parts of yourself that have carried you through every season - the resilience, wisdom, love, and inner light that we…

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Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life?

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Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck. However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about what you truly want in your life. Let’s hav…

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When the Scarlet Letter Becomes The Scarlet Edit ft. Nikki Corbett 36:31

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In this deeply honest and liberating conversation, I sit down with Nikki Corbett, founder of The Scarlet Edit, to explore what happens when women stop hiding the chapters of their lives they’ve been taught to feel ashamed of - and instead rewrite them with truth, compassion, and power. Nikki shares the story behind The Scarlet Edit: how a moment me…

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If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love

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If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives? There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in y…

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Connection, Consistency, and the Next Level You Ft Alan Lazaros 35:06

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What does it really take to live a “next level” life? In this episode, Shari sits down with Alan Lazaros - speaker, coach, and co-founder of Next Level University - to unpack the habits, mindset, and connections that turn vision into reality. Together, Shari and Alan explore what it means to keep showing up when no one’s watching, how to rewrite yo…

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Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy

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Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right? Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can agree that those are worthwhile goals. Let’s have a DEEPE…

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Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love

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Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret… There are good men to date all around you. There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is s…

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The Human Factor Meets Flip the Box: Redefining Connection in Business and Life Ft Lirone Glikman 29:58

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What happens when two global connection strategists sit down to talk about what truly drives success? Host Shari Leid, author of Table for 51 and creator of Flip the Box®, joins Lirone Glikman, author of The Super Connector’s Playbook and founder of The Human Factor Method. Together, they unpack the science and soul of human connection - how to mov…

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Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring

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Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond. Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship. Let’…

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Women Waking Up And Finding Passion, Purpose, and Play Ft Wendy Valentine 34:42

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It’s never too late to wake up to your own life! In this laugh-out-loud, soul-stirring episode, Shari Leid and midlife reinvention queen Wendy Valentine, author of Women Waking Up , dive into what happens when women stop settling and start living. From rediscovering passion to finding purpose - and yes, bringing play back into the mix - this conver…

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9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love

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9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship. Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire. It’s not abo…

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Break at the Bend: Trusting the Universe’s Other Plans Ft. Hadley Schafer 26:51

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Hadley Shafer’s Break at the Bend reminds us that sometimes life’s sharpturns are divine detours. In this heartfelt conversation, we talk aboutthe beauty in taking a break at the bend, being proud of the journey, the courage in beginning again, and the peace that comes when we trust the universe’s other plans.#AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #NewBeginning…

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5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns A Man On

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5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’. When you throw in socialization, cultural and reli…

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If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment

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If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential. So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person. Let’s have a DEEPER conv…

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A Difficult Reminder: This Episode Is Dedicated To The 1 In 8 Women Diagnosed With Breast Cancer 12:17

2M ago12:17

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In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, Shari opens up about the untold side of Breast Cancer Awareness Month — why October, with all its pink ribbons and celebrations, can also be one of the most difficult months for many survivors. Through personal reflection, Shari explores what happens after the battle - the quiet fear…

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What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You

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What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship. For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out. Let’s have a DEEP…

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When The Goodbye Party Ends 11:26

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What happens after the goodbye party? When the boxes are packed and the house is quiet again? In this episode, Shari reflects on leaving Seattle, the friends who shaped her there, and the brave work of building new belonging in Dallas. A story about goodbyes, new beginnings, and learning to create connection wherever you go. 🎥 Want to watch my jour…

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Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why

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Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself? Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life. My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and …

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Wait…That’s How Guys Think? My Coaching Session with Jonathon Aslay 34:24

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I thought I had dating all figured out—or at least I had my “approach.” Then I interviewed one of America's top mid-life dating coaches, Jonathon Aslay, who coaches midlife women on love and relationships, sat across from me and completely flipped the script. In this episode, you’ll actually hear him coaching me in real time. Spoiler: he pointed ou…

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How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips

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How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share. It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid …

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Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS

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Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention. Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means t…

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Surprising Dating Stats After 50 (and My First Dallas Date with Mr. Easy-On-The-Eyes 14:39

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Dating after 50? The statistics might surprise you. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, I share some eye-opening facts about love, relationships, and midlife dating. And yes… spoiler alert: I just went on my very first Dallas date — and I’ve even given him a nickname. From the numbers to the stories, I’m breaking down what dating in you…

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Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women

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Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert. There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we r…

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Back to Work, Not Back to the ’90s: Handling Inappropriate Behavior with Grown-Up Grace 16:22

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I honestly thought this was the kind of thing I’d left behind in my 20s. You know—that inappropriate, crossing-the-line moment at work that leaves you caught off guard. But here I am in my 50s, back at work, and it happened again. In this episode, I’m opening up about how I handled it (spoiler: not the way I wanted to at first), what I’ve learned s…

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7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love

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7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true. Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple a…

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Closing Day, Open Wounds: When New Beginnings Stir Old Goodbyes 20:42

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Buying a new home is supposed to feel like pure celebration — but when I signed the closing documents on my Dallas house, I was blindsided by emotions I didn’t expect. For the first time, I truly mourned the life I left behind. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, I peel back the curtain on the grief, anger, and loss th…

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High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth

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High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks? That sounds like wish…

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What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman

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What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days. In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal. But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commit…

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Ethical Sage with Isabeau Maxwell 47:53

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Imagine going from a complete skeptic to discovering you're a powerful psychic medium – in a single night. That's exactly what happened to Isabeau Maxwell when her deceased grandmother materialized in her living room just hours after passing. This shocking encounter in 2005 didn't just change her beliefs; it completely transformed her life's purpos…

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It's Never Too Late to Flip the Box on Your Career Dreams 22:29

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Send us a text Wondering if 50 is too late to start something new? Let me shatter that myth right now. After decades as a stay-at-home mom, I completely reinvented my career at 50—and the results have exceeded my wildest expectations. My journey began with a simple project: sitting down with 50 women before my 50th birthday to share what I'd learne…

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Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not

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Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for. Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex? Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggag…

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Dating at 55: Awkward, Imperfect, and Kind of Amazing 25:03

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Send us a text What happens when you start dating again after 27 years of marriage? Spoiler: it’s awkward, hilarious, a little cringey… and surprisingly fun. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid, I pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to date in midlife — from fish photo profiles 🐟 to first-date experiments and e…

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Re-Entering the Workforce after 50 with Executive and Career Coach Tammy Gooler Loeb 34:11

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Send us a text Returning to the workforce after years as a stay-at-home parent can feel like jumping into the deep end without knowing how to swim. Where do you even begin? How do you translate your life experience into marketable skills? And most importantly, who are you now compared to who you were when you last collected a paycheck? Executive co…

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Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships

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Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relatio…

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Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You

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Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about …

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What Prepares Us for Life's Biggest Transitions? 21:09

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Send us a text What truly prepares us for life's biggest transitions? In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing audio from my YouTube vlog that follows my journey from Seattle to Dallas – but it's about so much more than a change in location. After nearly 30 years of marriage, I find myself building a completely new life: establishing community …

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Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women

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Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure. Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Tho…

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Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common

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Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have t…

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When a Big Move Feels Impossible—Ask This First 11:03

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Send us a text Starting over is never easy, but it's often where our most profound growth happens. Welcome to Season 3 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life," where I'm taking you along on my journey of reinvention after divorce, transitioning from stay-at-home motherhood, and relocating to Dallas—a city where I currently have zero established connection…

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Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS

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Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic! In fact, I find great inspiration from real life friends who have found love and I want to spread some of that h…

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When Life Breaks Apart, Kindness Holds You Together with Michael G. Neece 27:52

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Send us a text Michael Neece shares his powerful perspective on kindness as a transformative force in both personal relationships and professional environments. He demonstrates how small acts of kindness create ripples of connection, trust, and opportunity in ways we can't always predict. • Defining kindness versus being a pushover – kindness benef…

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Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up

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Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to break through that superfici…

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I Went Back to My Childhood Home... And Didn’t Expect This 11:39

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Send us a text Reinvention doesn't come with a roadmap. At 55, I'm uprooting my entire life in Seattle – the only city I've ever truly called home – to start fresh in Dallas. This journey of saying goodbye to familiar streets isn't just about changing ZIP codes; it's about honoring who I was so I can fully become who I'm meant to be. Join me as I r…

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5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You

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5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You So often we’re meeting people from a place of loneliness and lack. We often want physical intimacy right away instead of determining if this person is right for us. When we don’t hold high standards for the guys we date, it’s no wonder the duds come crawling out of the woodwork. You deserve so much more! L…

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Is It Codependency or Just Being Nice? 35:16

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Send us a text Ever wondered if you're too giving in relationships? That nagging feeling that you're always putting others first might not just be generosity—it could be codependency. The revelation hit me hard. As someone who prided myself on independence—building businesses, attending law school, traveling solo—how could I possibly be codependent…

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Starting Over at 55: Your Questions, My Answers, No Filter 21:31

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Send us a text Season 3 kicks off with a bang! I’m answering YOUR burning questions about my midlife plot twist—moving from Seattle to Dallas after my divorce, starting over in a brand‑new city, and launching a YouTube series to show you exactly what reinvention really looks like. From the fears and ridiculous mistakes to the lessons I’ve learned (…

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Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust | Open His Heart To LOVE

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Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust and Open His Heart To LOVE Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising, believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list. Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship – incl…

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THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life

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THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person. Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the same purpose? Let’s…

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This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men

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This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship. But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful relationship? So much emphasis is placed on attraction, che…