Best Jillian Turecki | QCODE Podcasts (2025)

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How to Heal Your Relationship With Money and Scarcity with Lewis Howes 1:00:43

6h ago1:00:43

1:00:43

Your relationship with money is one of the most emotionally intimate relationships you have—and it’s time to start treating it that way. In this episode, Jillian welcomes bestselling author and host of The School of Greatness, Lewis Howes, to dive deep into what our financial habits, fears, and beliefs really say about us. Inspired by his new book,…

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The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns 45:09

7d ago45:09

45:09

We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you're single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will help you …

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Micro-Cheating: Why It Destroys Relationships 45:53

14d ago45:53

45:53

Today, Jillian dives into a topic that’s quietly damaging relationships everywhere: micro cheating. What counts as cheating in the digital age? Is following an ex on Instagram a red flag—or just harmless history? If you've ever questioned whether your partner's behavior is crossing the line—or if you've caught yourself doing something you'd never d…

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Attracting Your Soul Mate and Manifesting Abundance with David Ghiyam 1:20:05

21d ago1:20:05

1:20:05

Today, Jillian sits down with David Ghiyam—co-founder of MaryRuth Organics and the leading expert of the wisdom of Kabbalah—for a powerful and candid conversation about manifestation, healthy love, and creating a life that feels aligned with your deepest self. They dive into the difference between attracting love and choosing it, how to move on fro…

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Jillian LIVE at 92NY: How She Rewrote Her Story & Reclaimed Her Power 1:06:07

27d ago1:06:07

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In this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard truths about love that can transform your life—starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one you have with yourself…

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Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People 49:32

1M ago49:32

49:32

If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable partners. This episode is all about increasing self-awareness, challenging the labels we put on others, and learning to recognize pa…

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How to Become a Master Communicator with Jefferson Fisher 1:13:48

1M ago1:13:48

1:13:48

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with renowned trial attorney and communication expert, Jefferson Fisher, to discuss the art of navigating difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and connection. Whether it’s a tough discussion with a romantic partner, responding to gaslighting, a workplace negotiation, or a friend dis…

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The Red Flag You Must Never Ignore 41:04

2M ago41:04

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In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian answers three listener questions. She unpacks the red flags when a partner still longs for their ex, challenges a listener’s fixation on finding their "ideal" partner, and offers a fresh perspective on dealing with an overbearing mother-in-law. If you’ve ever struggled with relationship uncertainty, this …

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Masculine and Feminine Energies Explained with Dené Logan 1:02:27

2M ago1:02:27

1:02:27

Today, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within, Dené shares powerful insights on taking 100% responsibility for our own energy, embracing shadow work…

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How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo 1:08:13

2M ago1:08:13

1:08:13

Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal journey from a tumultuous past to a thriving marriage, offering practi…

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The Dark Night of the Soul: How to Move Forward After Life’s Hardest Moments 50:12

2M ago50:12

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Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s ev…

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How to Love Yourself: 9 Lessons In Radical Self-Worth 48:29

3M ago48:29

48:29

In this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, make better choices, and create healthier relationships. Fr…

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The Signs You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Dr. Ramani 1:11:19

3M ago1:11:19

1:11:19

Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking fr…

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Stop Chasing Love: How To Love Yourself by Letting Them Go 51:46

3M ago51:46

51:46

Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through…

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How to Make a Marriage Thrive with Valeria Lipovetsky 50:54

3M ago50:54

50:54

What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and content creator—to explore her journey of love, growth, and resilience. Valeria opens up about navigating an age gap marriage, the wi…

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Find Healthy Love: How To Break Patterns and Heal Your Relationships 52:14

4M ago52:14

52:14

In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning ho…

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From Anxious To Secure: How To Stand Up For Your Needs 51:14

4M ago51:14

51:14

In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their ne…

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Relationship Goals For 2025: Embracing Growth, Self-Worth, and Connection 45:06

4M ago45:06

45:06

As we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares actionable advice on building healthier habits, strengthening relationships, and approaching conflict with empathy. Jillian also discusses …

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The Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory: Truth vs. BS 57:02

4M ago57:02

57:02

Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate …

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How Childhood Conditioning Shapes Your Love Life 55:42

4M ago55:42

55:42

Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relations…

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Should You Stay or Go? When You Should NOT Break-Up 54:42

5M ago54:42

54:42

While it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs, recognizing your role in relationship struggles, and overcoming ego-driven narratives. Through real-life examples and thought-provoking qu…

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The Unhealthy Relationship: How to Let Go of The Wrong Person and Choose Yourself 54:25

5M ago54:25

54:25

Jillian dives deep into the emotionally charged topic of letting go, especially when it comes to relationships that are very unhealthy, misaligned, or emotionally unsafe. Sharing personal anecdotes, hard truths, and actionable steps, she explores why we cling to relationships that don't serve us and how to move forward with self-awareness and coura…

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Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Expectations: Where to Draw the Line in a Relationship 51:58

5M ago51:58

51:58

Jillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-aware…

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Safe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & Helen 41:22

5M ago41:22

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Today, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing their newest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice…

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How to Create a Healthy Relationship & Avoid a Toxic One 48:55

6M ago48:55

48:55

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares the two MOST essential things you need for a healthy relationship. She dives into the life-changing power of a good relationship, sharing why they’re essential for both our emotional and physical well-being. Reflecting on recent studies, she explores how fulfilling relationships built on trust, res…

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Overcome Relationship Anxiety and Find Secure Love with Sabrina Zohar 1:09:37

6M ago1:09:37

1:09:37

Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, a no-nonsense dating and anxiety coach and the voice behind The Sabrina Zohar Show. Together, they dive into the nitty-gritty of love while dealing with anxiety, self-doubt, and the need for validation. Sabrina opens up about her personal journey from anxious attachment to self-acceptance, sharing hard-earned l…

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How to Actually Love and Accept Yourself 42:58

6M ago42:58

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In this episode, Jillian explores the balance between self-love and healthy relationships. She opens up about the challenges of accepting ourselves, especially when past experiences make it hard. Jillian offers practical tips on breaking the cycle of self-neglect and replacing it with positive actions, authenticity, and open communication. She emph…

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The Sex Expert: Dr. Emily Morse on the Power of Communication in Intimacy 56:05

6M ago56:05

56:05

In today's episode, Dr. Emily Morse and Jillian have an open and honest conversation about the role of communication in both sexual and romantic relationships. They dig into how society often shapes women into people-pleasers, and why it’s so empowering to truly understand your own sexual pleasure and desires. They also touch on some deeply importa…

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Spotting Relationship Warning Signs: Red Flags vs. Green Flags 51:33

7M ago51:33

51:33

In this episode, Jillian dives even deeper into the world of red and green flags and highlights ones that people should never ignore. She uncovers some surprising red flags that might have more to do with you than your partner, and the most important green flags that are the greatest predictors of longevity and health in a relationship. Pre-order J…

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The Trauma Expert: Peter A. Levine on Somatic Therapy for Healing Trauma 1:02:32

7M ago1:02:32

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Jillian welcomes Peter A. Levine to the show. Peter is the world's leading expert on somatic therapy for healig trauma and reclaiming your life. He is the author of multiple best-selling books and the developer and founder of Somatic Experiencing, a naturalistic and neurobiological approach to healing trauma, which he has developed over the past 50…

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The Three Unconscious Beliefs That Cause Unhealthy Relationships 55:57

7M ago55:57

55:57

Everyone has beliefs about love and partnership. Some of them are beliefs that guide us towards healthy, functional relationships, and others can severely limit our capacity for healthy love. If we want to change our lives - specifically our love lives, we have to look at the core beliefs we have about love and how they are impacting out behavior a…

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Esther Perel: How to Bring The Spark Back in a Relationship. 1:08:01

7M ago1:08:01

1:08:01

Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desir…

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From Insecure to Self-Love: How To Conquer Your Anxiety In Relationships 50:06

7M ago50:06

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In this robust episode, Jillian shares 9 strategies and pearls of wisdom to boost your self-worth and confidence in relationships regardless of your relationship status or attachment style. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jil…

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What To Do When Your Life Is Not What You Hoped It Would Be 41:52

8M ago41:52

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The health of a relationship begins with our relationship with ourselves. One of the leading causes of suffering - depression and anxiety, is a life that has not gone according to plan. Whether it's because you're single or childless at a certain age, your work is not what you want it to be, or you've experienced certain losses that you were not pr…

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The Dating Guru: How To Find Love with Damona Hoffman 59:58

8M ago59:58

59:58

Jillian welcomes renowned dating coach, author and podcast host Damona Hoffman to the show to discuss how to date like a pro on and off the apps so that you can find true love. Get ready to take notes! Damona's book "F the Fairy Tale" is out now. Find her at The Dates & Mates Podcast or IG: @damonahoffman Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with Yo…

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On The Brink of Breaking Up: How To Save Your Relationship 51:41

8M ago51:41

51:41

There is no stress like the stress of one's relationship falling apart. The truth is that some relationships are worth fighting for, but they end anyway because we don't know HOW to save it. This is what this episode will teach you - how to save or improve your current or future relationship. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https:/…

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The Myth of the Right Partner 54:53

8M ago54:53

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What makes someone "right"? What makes someone the wrong partner? What makes US "right"? Jillian shares three prevailing patterns that are responsible for unhealthy partnership, and teaches things in this episode that she has never taught before. Whether you're in a relationship or not, this episode is for you. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins w…

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From Anxious To Secure: How To Choose Yourself 52:11

9M ago52:11

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In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches how to overcome relationship insecurity and to finally choose yourself. Think of this episode as one branch of a tree as Jillian continues to expand on how to become more secure in love in future episodes. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the sho…

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How To Be The Best and Most Confident Version of Yourself with Lisa Bilyeu 1:03:44

9M ago1:03:44

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Get ready to take notes! Jillian welcomes entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host of the Women Of Impact podcast Lisa Bilyeu. In this incredible conversation, Lisa shares her journey from toxic relationships to finding radical confidence in life and in her relationship. Get ready to learn some incredible communication …

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How To Move On From A Situationship 45:28

9M ago45:28

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Some of the worst emotional pain can come from the ending of a situationship. It’s a complicated kind of grief, and one that can reveal deeper wounds within us. Intense, short-lived relationships can leave us utterly devastated — just as much or sometimes, even more so than the ending of a marriage or a long partnership. Pre-order Jillian's book "I…

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7 Reasons Why You're Ready For A Relationship 49:50

9M ago49:50

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One of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is "How do I know I'm ready for a relationship?" A lot of people think they have to be fully healed to be in a relationship, which isn't true. But it is also true that some people need to heal more before they can build something healthy with someone. In this informative episode, Jillian b…

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Regulate Your Emotions: How to Pause Before You React and Save Your Relationships 48:38

10M ago48:38

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The uncomfortable truth is that when we can't regulate ourselves, our relationships spiral. Practicing "the pause" when we're triggered is not only the most important relationship skill, it is the most important life skill. In this long waited episode, Jillian teaches how to practice the pause and regulate your emotions. Pre-order Jillian's book "I…

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Heal Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson 1:12:51

10M ago1:12:51

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Jillian welcomes guest Thais Gibson, a leading expert on attachment style and the founder of The Personal Development school. Get ready for an incredile education on the nuances of all the insecure attachment styles and how to heal them. Find out more about her book, "Learning Love" at https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?…

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Lust, Love, and Limerence: Why You Can't Stop Obsessing About Them 36:47

10M ago36:47

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In this long awaited and most frequently requested episode, Jillian explains in detail what limerence is and busts some myths about what it is, and isn't. She also teaches why it happens, and what to heal if it gets out of hand. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ o…

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How To Break the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships that Wreck Your Nervous System 50:38

10M ago50:38

50:38

There are some relationships that feel like a rollercoaster, spiking our cortisol and adrenaline levels. But, are they actually addictive? What if a safe, peaceful relationship feels boring, or makes you want to sabotage it? In this powerful episode, Jillian shares insight we are sure you haven't heard before, and she shares HOW people are able to …

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Heartbreak Recovery, Trauma, and Resilience with Todd Baratz 51:12

11M ago51:12

51:12

Jillian welcomes sex and couples psychotherapist Todd Baratz (@yourdiagnonsense) to the show. This is one of the most insightful conversations about healing the trauma that results from a breakup and how to heal. Plus get ready to hear Todd's expert advice on sexual intimacy and different sex drives! Find out more about his book, "How to Love Someo…

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How to Love Yourself When Someone Breaks Your Heart 47:44

11M ago47:44

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It is a tragedy to believe we are unlovable when someone has stopped loving us. And yet, it is crucial that we take the time to self-reflect on the relationship, and take responsibility where we need to. No one teaches us how to love ourselves when someone breaks our hearts. This is why this episode is an absolute must for anyone who is struggling.…

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The Highly Sensitive Empath and The Narcissist 48:16

11M ago48:16

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Jillian finally addresses the trauma associated with being "highly sensitive" and an "empath" and how one's sensitivity impacts their relationships and makes them more susceptible to attaching to toxic people. But, there is a way out. And Jillian explains in detail how. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillian…

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The Real Reason Why Relationships Fall Apart 45:49

11M ago45:49

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Relationships rarely end because of a lack of love. They more commonly end because of a lack of connection. And it is the absence of connection that makes us feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. In this important episode, Jillian shares the real reasons why strong, well-aligned couples can easily sabotage their relationship unconsciously. ~~ Fo…

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How To Become an Incredible Communicator with Chris Voss 1:11:52

11M ago1:11:52

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Get ready to learn communication skills you have never learned before. Jillian welcomes former FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author Chris Voss to the show. Together, they have a fascinating conversation about the art and science of masterful communication. Get ready to take notes and put his techniques to the test as soon as possible. ~~ F…

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