The SELFHEALERS SOUNDBOARD is a global, community-based healing experience created by Dr. Nicole LePera and Jenna Weakland. Each week, we host raw, unscripted, open conversations about the things we are REALLY dealing with on the journey of facing our pasts and becoming our best Selves. Together, as community, we create resonance with “strangers” around the world as we collectively witness our own triggers, habits, traumas, and inherent wisdom. This is, and always will be, an ad free experie ...
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Are you done with small talk? Do you find yourself wanting more time alone? Does the world seem heavy? If so, you might be in the cocoon stage of healing. In this episode down why this stage is important, and how to get through it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: ht…
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The father wound runs deep. Today (father’s day) we’re having an open vulnerable conversation about what it is and how we can heal from it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Reco…
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Shame is the result of carrying our wounding, alone. Shame keeps us repeating the same cycles, patterns, and behaviors. And, it has us believe that we aren’t worthy of connection. We all carry shame. In this episode, we talk about why it holds us back and how to release it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/w…
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Being misunderstood is one of the most painful experiences and yet as we heal this is something we will face often. Not everyone is going to “get” us or when like us as we become more fully ourselves. In this episode, we talk about how to get through it and why being misunderstood is a sign you’re on the right path. Join the SelfHealers Circle Wait…
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Episode 40: Are You Having A Spiritual Awakening?
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30:01Today there is a massive awaking going on. We are becoming more self aware and this is having a huge impact on society. If you’ve been feeling a shift in energy and the way you see the world this episode is for you! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeety…
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So many of us have lived as a false version of ourselves. We had to hide parts of who we were or deny our own reality in order to fit in or be loved. As adults, we have an opportunity to tap into our true selves. By living our truth we become more empowered, confident, and able to create the life we have always wanted. In this episode, we talk abou…
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Self reflection is the ability to see yourself. ALL of yourself. In this episode, we talk about why it’s important, why it can sometimes suck, and how to use self reflection to become more self-aware. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BU…
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This week we have a special episode for Mother’s Day! We realize this is a sensitive time + our mainstream culture doesn’t always acknowledge this. In this episode, we get real. If you’re working through the mother wound, this episode is for you. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO ME…
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Episode 36: How To Become Radically Confident with Author and Entrepreneur Lisa Bilyeu
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52:27In this episode, Nicole chats with friend and fellow author, Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the founder of Women of Impact. Her new book “Radical Confidence” is a must read for anyone looking to be an empowered creator of their life. This episode was a blast to record and there are tons of gems for you all. Join the Self…
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Remember childhood when play came easy to us? It’s like we shift into adults who forget how to have fun, to be spontaneous, or to just let go without hustling to the next thing on our to-do list. In this episode, talk about why play is so important in healing, and how to start doing it more often. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theho…
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Episode 34: How To Deal With Family Members Who Trigger You
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51:45There’s a Ram Dass quote that says “if you think you’re enlightened go spend a week with your family.” Recently, we both had family visit and it brought up a lot. In this episode, we share what we learned and how to cope when you’re triggered around family. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDE…
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Episode 33: Did You Know You’re A Creative Genius
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26:03What do you think of when you think of a creative? Do you think artist, painter, performer? The truth is all of us have a creative being within us, waiting to come out. In this episode, we talk about how we get in touch with our inner creative and how you can too. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ P…
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We’ve been conditioned to always be on the go or to always be productive. Sometimes we feel guilty for resting, but rest is an important part of healing. We all need downtime to just “be” without any agenda. In this episode, we talk about rest as an act of self care. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist…
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Episode 31: Why You Need To Protect Your Energy
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31:41Do you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or just like you need a break from life? It's time to protect your energy. How do we do it? One word: boundaries. In this episode, we talk about how we protect our own energy and how you can too! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: ht…
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Episode 30: Why You Need To Start Celebrating Yourself
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28:47In this episode, we talk about what it means to celebrate yourself. And why the practice of celebrating all of the small things is so important as you heal. We give some examples of how we do this and we’ll show you how to do the same. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF…
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Want to know a way to live a much less stressful life? It’s done through having realistic expectations. In this episode, we’re getting real about the expectations we have with ourselves and other people. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/…
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Episode 28: How To (Actually) Be There For Someone
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35:51We all want to be there for the people we care about. Sometimes we don’t know how to actually do this. Or we feel uncomfortable even trying. In this episode, we share ways to support the people you love in the way that feels best for them. Get ready to have deeper relationships that feel more connected, and be sure to share this with the people clo…
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We’ve got a lot of feedback from the community to talk more about this so this week we are diving deeper. Get ready for a vulnerable open chat on sex and why we all feel so weird about it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO …
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Episode 26: The Path From Trauma To Freedom And Inner Peace W/ Gabby Bernstein
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54:47This week we have a special guest, Gabby Bernstein. Gabby is a New York Times bestselling author and spiritual teacher who’s new book “Happy Days” is an incredible testament to the power of healing trauma. We talk about sobriety, vulnerability, and how we can heal the broken parts of ourselves to find peace. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: ht…
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When you think of intimacy, do you think of sex? Most people do. Here’s the thing, intimacy is actually about emotional connection. And that emotional connection takes safety, trust, and communication. In this episode, we have a vulnerable conversation about what intimacy actually looks like and how it creates relationships that are meaningful, hea…
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Episode 24: How Trauma Shows Up In Relationships
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29:53Trauma can show up in our relationship in many ways. We can be shut down, defensive, and unable to speak what we really feel. In this episode, we share how trauma shows up in our own relationships and how we work through it. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://h…
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Episode 23: How To Feel Authentically Connected To People You Love
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54:04We are all in desperate need of connection. Recent events have had us more lonely, isolated, and disillusioned than ever. In this episode, we talk about building emotional intimacy and trust. If you’re ready for relationship upgrades, this ones for you. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HO…
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Episode 22: How To Start Having Healthy Relationships Right Now
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23:58There is one thing that causes relationships to end more than anything else: assumptions. Our brains tell stories in order to make sense of our world. Those stories are usually full of assumptions about “why” people do things. The problem is, our assumptions hold us back from true emotional connections with our partners, friends, and family. In thi…
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Episode 21: How Trauma Can Make Us More Resilient
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55:21Trauma has many negative impacts, and it can also create the foundation for resilience + a connection to something greater than ourselves. In this episode, we talk about transforming tragedies + breakdowns into triumphs + breakthroughs. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSEL…
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In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole talks about being a cycle breaker. Cycle breakers become aware of dysfunctional family patterns and heal. In our society people don’t talk about how scary, isolating, + lonely this can be. If you’re a cycle breaker on a journey of healing, this episode is for you! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://thehol…
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In this episode, we talk about two things that seem very different: gratitude and jealousy. But what if jealousy could teach us how to be grateful? In this episode, you’ll learn how to be more self aware, how to understand why jealousy happens, + how to switch up the way you think about jealousy you become happier + fulfilled. Join the SelfHealers …
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Episode 18: Community Matters: How To Find Your People
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33:54If you’re looking to find your people this episode is a must listen. Dr. Nicole shares why she created a virtual healing community and gives you tips on how to connect with likeminded people. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO …
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Episode 17: How To Be Emotionally Intelligent
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21:56Most of us were taught as children that our emotions were wrong or bad. Some of us were punished for crying or told to not get angry. This makes us disconnected from our emotions as adults. In this episode, you’ll learn hope to have a new relationship with your emotions to create better relationships, feel more fulfilled, and have an overall better…
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Episode 16: How Our First Relationship With Parents Impacts Every Relationship We Have
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23:57Do you find yourself in relationships where you feel disappointed, unhappy, or like your expectations aren’t met? We repeat the dynamics and patterns we saw when we were little. Knowing this can help us heal our own patterns. If you’re craving more vulnerability and connecting with yourself and the people around you, give this episode a listen. Joi…
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Episode 15: Have You Been Feeling Sadness Or Heavy Lately?
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40:08Grief is part of life. We lose people. Relationships end. Life changes. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna share how grief can be medicine that helps us grow. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazo…
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Episode 14: Your Nervous System Is The Key To Mental Wellness
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10:39In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole breaks down nervous system health and why it’s so important. She also shares the vitamins responsible for creating neurotransmitters + how the health of our body creates the health in our mind. This one is a must listen for all SelfHealers! Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/wa…
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Episode 13: How Unrealistic Relationship Expectations Hurt Your Relationship(s)
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26:35If you’ve ever felt resentment, frustration, or disappointment in your relationships, this episode is for you. We talk about why our beliefs about what relationships “should be” get in the way of us having the relationship we want. You’ll learn why society sets us up to believe another person completes us (they don’t!), why conflict isn’t always s …
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Episode 12: How I Reconnected With My Family After Taking Space
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24:06Both Dr. Nicole and Jenna took space from family members during their healing journey. In this episode, they share their personal stories of how they reconnected with boundaries (yes, it’s possible!) If you struggle with family relationships, or if you’re ever thinking about rekindling a relationship from your past—this episode is for you. Join the…
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Episode 11: How To Let Go Of Relationships That Don’t Serve You
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27:33In this episode, we talk about letting go of people that keep you in your past self.You’ll learn how to grow a better relationship with yourself, why letting go of relationships is part of evolving, and why it’s ok if you feel alone. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: …
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Episode 10: Why Feeling Alone Or Disconnected From Other People Means You’re Healing
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27:29In this episode, we talk about how trauma can impact our relationships causing us to feel alone and disconnected from the world and others. You’ll learn why spending time alone can help you grow and connect with your true self. And, why feeling disconnected from other people creates an opportunity for you to find healthier, more fulfilling relation…
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Episode 9: Why Personal Responsibility Is Key In Healing
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18:08In this episode, we talk about personal responsibility as an empowering choice and how it can help you co-create the life you desire. You’ll learn why personal responsibility shifts the way you think, behave, and how it allows you to tell a new story about who you are. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitli…
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In this episode, we talk about what is self-sabotage, why we do it, and how to practice out of it. We discuss how self-sabotage stems from unworthiness, why we fall back into old patterns that do serve us, and the opportunity to cultivate conscious choices to help you align with your future self. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://thehol…
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In this episode, we talk about how to cultivate and strengthen a foundation of true self love. We discuss why the way you feel about yourself influences everything you do + how all of us have had an opportunity to learn to love ourselves. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURS…
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In this episode, we talk about why forgiveness is for us, not the other person. We also talk about why forgiveness doesn’t excuse someone’s behavior and also doesn’t necessarily mean we allow them in our lives. Like all things, forgiveness is a journey. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HO…
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In this episode, we talk about one of the most common trauma responses: fawning. Fawning is another word for people pleasing. Or believing other people “know better” than we do. We recently made a post on Instagram about people pleasing went viral, so we decided to break down how we learn this pattern, why it creates resentment + low self worth, an…
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Episode 4: How To Start Your Healing Journey
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23:23In this episode, you’ll learn the foundation of healing, some practical tools to begin, and how Dr. Nicole began her own journey. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patt…
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Episode 3: How To Get Through Setbacks On The Healing Journey
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25:36In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about “setbacks” on the healing journey and how we can learn from them. They go into why change is so uncomfortable for the subconscious mind and why so much do the healing journey is about self-acceptance. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO…
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Episode 2: How To Deal With Feeling Alone On The Healing Journey
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27:23In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about feeling alone on the healing journey, losing certain relationships, and how this is all part of discovering who we truly are. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: http…
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This episode is a vulnerable, honest conversation about our new relationship. We recorded this to honor our commitment to authenticity and transparency with our community and the world at large. We are here to normalize new and difficult conversations. To speak consciously and bravely. We hope you’ll listen with an open heart + mind. Join the SelfH…
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about interdependence. In this episode, you’ll learn why we are wired for connection, why codependency is so common, and how we can create healthy relationships where we don’t abandon ourselves or our own needs. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER H…
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On this episode, Dr. Nicole + Jenna talk about emotional maturity. You’ll learn why many of us are emotionally immature, how to become more mature, + how to have an overall better understanding of your own emotional state. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://how…
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things reparenting. They discuss why we need to reparent ourselves as adults + how to be our own wise inner parent. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://ww…
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things boundaries. You’ll learn why boundaries are important, how to set them, and why they are the foundation of healthy relationships. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO…
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Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things trauma bonds. In this episode, you’ll learn what trauma bonds are, how to heal from them, + why we seek them in the first place. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE WORK: https:/…
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In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about all things trauma bonds. If you’re in a trauma bond (most of us are!) you’ll learn how you got there and how healing is always possible. Join the SelfHealers Circle Waitlist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ PRE-ORDER HOW TO MEET YOURSELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ BUY HOW TO DO THE…
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